German Viking Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 She doesn't ask ... I don't tell. We are smart enough for that. She gets what she needs ... as distinct from what she wants ... another smart move. She asked for a Payrise recently, explained why ... action ... granted. I could not be happier ... What an awful way to treat one's partner. I wonder what you would say if you were treated this way! I wouldn't put up with it. Marriage to me involves trust and sharing of everything. I would be very hurt if my wife was keeping her income hidden from me and she would obviously feel the same. As the Dalai Lama said, the meaning of life is to help others and if you can't do that, don't hurt them. Gus that hide things and treat their wives as servants generally don't stay married for more than 5/10 years unless the guy is handing it out willy nilly. My wife gives me her Atm cards if I am broke and I give her mine if she is. Lenin said: "Confidence is good, but control is better" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
German Viking Posted July 14, 2014 Share Posted July 14, 2014 As one other poster stated - Why bother her pretty mind with all that. Anyone who has gone through a divorce knows it's best to error on the side of caution. I went through a divorce (in Canada) and it was fair. When we met we were poor ass students, when we divorced, we had quite a lot of things to split, and everything was split in half. Each of us could have tried to rip each other off, but we just split everything in half without much lawyers' involvement. My new wife knows everything about my assets and the money I make, and why not? We trust each other and take care of each other. In reply to one of the comments, then his wife asked for a raise... what sort of relationship is that? Rent-a-wife type of relationship? Confidence is good but overconfidence can sinks the ship. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snottgoblin Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Says a lot what you think about your darling/lady, whatever that may mean. No its just common sense 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soutpeel Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Depends if she is your wife or girlfriend? My Thai wife of 40 years knows everything and has full access. I think we see a difference of relationship in these responses. If I were in a shorter-term physical relationship with my woman, I would not disclose my finances. If I were in a longer-term emotional relationship, I would disclose my finances. It seems a matter of trust--and yes, trust can be misplaced. My former wife in the US knew a lot, it was very handy for her in the divorce after 25 years..It was a big mistake on my part, which I won't be making again, and wouldn't advise anyone else to make either. Agreed, the fact is people change, and one could suggest some one who throws their lot in without a " plan B "is being a tad naive, it has nothing to do with the nationality of their spouse either, or the length of the relationship, its just common sense 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BoonToong Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Hell no! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 (edited) hard to carry on a discussion from a closed thread, when told to carry on here, without the ability to quote. Edited October 16, 2014 by AnotherOneAmerican 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A1Str8 Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Which one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neverdie Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Which one? Here sir. http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/768906-does-your-thai-wife-know-how-much-money-you-have/page-2#entry8542983 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neverdie Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 My Darling has more income than me......and she was generous in increasing my allowance Last year was the first year she did that and this year is set to be a bumper one as she just sold on he first investment property with a very healthy return indeed.....thanks to an overinflated Sydney property market. I will be coming back home in one of those emirates suites........so I won't have to rub shoulders with those grubs in business class again 55555555 My wife knows all my stuff, she's had platinum CC linked to my account for years, never used it...she's never misplaced a red cent......although I noticed she's been into my Maesri Star Gooseberries again confirming my previous thought that she knows where I hide them ! No trust issues here 5555555 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neverdie Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 Says a lot what you think about your darling/lady, whatever that may mean.No its just common sense It's good to see you again snotty, I was starting to think you were on a special TVF Holiday adventure! 5555 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i claudius Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Yes ,she knows my pin numbers and all my bank details , she has a British bank account and in the case of my death can transfer everything to her account. why not ,? Whether she'll wait till you die remain to be seen....that is the question... well we have a 21 year old son ,so she doesnt seem to be in a hurry to rob me ,neither does he. that is the answer. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naam Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Says a lot what you think about your darling/lady, whatever that may mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarryP Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 As one other poster stated - Why bother her pretty mind with all that. Anyone who has gone through a divorce knows it's best to error on the side of caution. I went through a divorce (in Canada) and it was fair. When we met we were poor ass students, when we divorced, we had quite a lot of things to split, and everything was split in half. Each of us could have tried to rip each other off, but we just split everything in half without much lawyers' involvement. My new wife knows everything about my assets and the money I make, and why not? We trust each other and take care of each other. In reply to one of the comments, then his wife asked for a raise... what sort of relationship is that? Rent-a-wife type of relationship? Confidence is good but overconfidence can sinks the ship. So said the captain of the Titanic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snottgoblin Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Says a lot what you think about your darling/lady, whatever that may mean.No its just common senseIt's good to see you again snotty, I was starting to think you were on a special TVF Holiday adventure! 5555 Thankyou sir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neverdie Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 As one other poster stated - Why bother her pretty mind with all that. Anyone who has gone through a divorce knows it's best to error on the side of caution. I went through a divorce (in Canada) and it was fair. When we met we were poor ass students, when we divorced, we had quite a lot of things to split, and everything was split in half. Each of us could have tried to rip each other off, but we just split everything in half without much lawyers' involvement.My new wife knows everything about my assets and the money I make, and why not? We trust each other and take care of each other. In reply to one of the comments, then his wife asked for a raise... what sort of relationship is that? Rent-a-wife type of relationship? Confidence is good but overconfidence can sinks the ship. So said the captain of the Titanic. it was an overconfident iceberg ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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