What No Amphur

[hocuspocus]

Following on from my previous post I have new proposals for my girlfriend. We get a wedding at the Temple or at home with the Monks (no Amphur-no taking on partner's present or future debts, after all at the time the papers were signed for the family car payments of about 300000 bahts my girlfriend was the only one in the family with a job).So as I know she does pay the payments it is only right to assume the car is in her name. Then next year if she can accept my proposals I will take her to the UK and we will get married there. In the UK I have a good lawyer who will draft me a prenuptual to cover my assets in the UK before we marry. She will be left in my will everything in Thailand in the event of my Natural death.

Since I made these proposals this morning she has been a bit moody and she repeated this afternoon What No Amphur ! . Now maybe I am been a bit cautious but if she is genuine she will agree to the proposals. She said her friend got married here and in Norway but my reply was that we all do things differently. I am sure if I was a devout Buddist like she is then the Buddist wedding would be the way to go for me.

If all goes well we will marry and live happily after, but in the event things go wrong we can just walk away and take with us what we brought into the relationship and not have to worry about who gets what. I have promised her that her parents can have my old fridge when my new fridge arrives next week.

I am not looking for blanket approval and would welcome positive or negative views on my plans.

[AlexRRR]

Why get married? Unless your wanting her to move to the UK, my experiance is better to leave them in there own country and i move there.

Ive said it before, ive had 3 TGS the last was someone quite about her past relationship/s but the 2 before both lived with there Thai bfs for 7 and 5 years, never married no sin sod, the first payed for most things while he saved "for there future" second bought and paid off a condo with said bf freeloading, now if these guys know how to get them at there youngest and best without marrying them what does it tell you?

By the way these were no village girls, all 3 uni educated with what we would regard with very good jobs in the west.

I sugest you do it your way protect yourself well, if she wants to do a little war dance remind her theres plenty more where she came from and she can be replaced very easily as well as quickly.

[hocuspocus]

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Why get married? Unless your wanting her to move to the UK, my experiance is better to leave them in there own country and i move there.

Ive said it before, ive had 3 TGS the last was someone quite about her past relationship/s but the 2 before both lived with there Thai bfs for 7 and 5 years, never married no sin sod, the first payed for most things while he saved "for there future" second bought and paid off a condo with said bf freeloading, now if these guys know how to get them at there youngest and best without marrying them what does it tell you?

By the way these were no village girls, all 3 uni educated with what we would regard with very good jobs in the west.

I sugest you do it your way protect yourself well, if she wants to do a little war dance remind her theres plenty more where she came from and she can be replaced very easily as well as quickly.

I don't intend to live in the UK, I am just thinking of covering myself and giving her some security, not sure if she had something else in mind but only time will tell. And I believe she knows she could be replaced easily.My girlfriend's ex freeloaded off her for two years while she worked hard and borrowed money to support him. Now maybe I am not God's gift to women but I treat my girlfriend with respect and now hopefully she has got someone to take good care of her she will appreciate that and hopefully my suspicions are unfounded.

If she does not agree with my proposals and decides to leave I will post again when I have got a replacement very soon after she leaves.

[The Fat Controller]

I think you will find prenuptial agreements are just as easily done in Thailand and you can make record of property acquired before marriage at the amphur on your wedding day.

You only need to make a legal will to ensure your wishes are met after you have gone.

It would be much cheaper to marry in Thailand, no hassle of getting a visa and spending money on flights.

Your fiancée will also be MUCH HAPPIER with a Thai wedding, believe me I know that.

[naboo]

You don't even know if the car is in her name? And you want to marry her? What do you know about her? not much given you clearly don't trust her.

Get out of the relationship now.

[Bpuumike]

Nothing legally binding with a Buddhist wedding which is perhaps what she and her family really want.

No doubt family 'face' would be saved or increased.

[PoorSucker]

The Amphur registration will help you with future visa concerns.

All assets before Amphur marriage is private assets in case of divorce, and joint assets that you bought during marriage is split 50/50.

If you are not married in the books you will not be the legal father to any kids you might have.

[Gonsalviz]

The Amphur registration will help you with future visa concerns.

All assets before Amphur marriage is private assets in case of divorce, and joint assets that you bought during marriage is split 50/50.

If you are not married in the books you will not be the legal father to any kids you might have.

Who would be the legal father?

[petermik]

The Amphur registration will help you with future visa concerns.

All assets before Amphur marriage is private assets in case of divorce, and joint assets that you bought during marriage is split 50/50.

If you are not married in the books you will not be the legal father to any kids you might have.

Who would be the legal father?

Maybe her brother..................................

[PoorSucker]

The Amphur registration will help you with future visa concerns.

All assets before Amphur marriage is private assets in case of divorce, and joint assets that you bought during marriage is split 50/50.

If you are not married in the books you will not be the legal father to any kids you might have.

Who would be the legal father?

If not married, no legal father.