LarryBird Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I don't have a problem with them, unless their partaking in detestable activities like soliciting minors. The problem I do have though, is the fact they can't admit they are here just to get laid. Honestly, what is the shame in that? I look at a 60 year old guy, who probably still enjoys getting his doors blown off, and think 'good for him'. But, why do they have to go on about how they're here for the food and culture, or whatever BS it is? Can't they just look themselves in the mirror and say 'I'm not dead yet, I still enjoy having sex.'?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerry123 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 i commend you on your openness in this shuttered subject but really i, for one have no interest in your sex life but its healthy you have found time to come out as it were (closet) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orac Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 So do you have a problem or not? My real issue, as a retired sexpat, is all my fellow retirees who have now got married to a thai lady and claim they came to Thailand for the food and temples. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigBadGeordie Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I came to Thailand for altruistic reasons, as I had heard that there were many bar and ago-go owners suffering financially, also many local girls were having problems supporting their families additionally the cost of vet treatment is high here resulting in a large number of buffalo being sick. I do what I can to redistribute my meager wealth to help them out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 (edited) I'm here just to get laid! Thailand doesn't have much else going for it. Edited July 14, 2015 by MaeJoMTB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LarryBird Posted July 14, 2015 Author Share Posted July 14, 2015 I'm here just to get laid! Thailand doesn't have much else going for it. Do you ride your mountain bike to different entry points? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazy chef 1 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 You are right there should be a obligation for indication...something such as yellow star maybe??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ace of Pop Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I get annoyed with them having more fun than me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petermik Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Sex gives me a headache........don,t like having headaches.................lab norn duikan on the other hand is something I cannot get enough of Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stan42 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I love it when people concern themselves with things are are never going to affect them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hornyskunk Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Ok... I admit it... I came here to have sex. I would have never come to Thailand on my own for any reason except to have sex. Does it make me a sexpat though if I was having sex with the girl before coming here? In other words, I followed the pussy here, I didn't get here first and then start looking for it. There should be another word for that. I don't want to be lumped in the same category as my dad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faraday Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Perhaps, 'they' are here for a combination of all three of things you mentioned? Why does it bother you though? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I'm here just to get laid! Thailand doesn't have much else going for it. I'm sorry mate, I just cannot agree with you there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I love it when people concern themselves with things are are never going to affect them. There's nothing wrong with people coming on here and giving their opinions on things that don't affect them. It is these people who help make Thaivisa the forum it is. Opinions about everything from everybody, bring it on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i claudius Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I came here a long time ago on holiday after a relationship came to an end , i really did not have a clue ,but i soon found out and rogered anything female that wanted to , a couple of months later i came back and rented a flat ,did the usuall got a girlfriend ,then another ,then another i soon realized that Bargirls on the wholewere for play ,not for stay ,although i am sure many guys have found a lasting relationship with one . eventually had a buisness in BKK and just got bored with going to bars ,met my now wife through buisness and hey ho that was it , but as for sexpats ,fill your boots boys . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stan42 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I love it when people concern themselves with things are are never going to affect them. There's nothing wrong with people coming on here and giving their opinions on things that don't affect them. It is these people who help make Thaivisa the forum it is. Opinions about everything from everybody, bring it on. You do know what people say about opinions, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I love it when people concern themselves with things are are never going to affect them. There's nothing wrong with people coming on here and giving their opinions on things that don't affect them. It is these people who help make Thaivisa the forum it is. Opinions about everything from everybody, bring it on. You do know what people say about opinions, right? Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cypress Hill Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Takes a pretty desperate guy to fly X,000 miles just to get his end away. Aren't there prostitutes in the US & Europe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 What exactly constitutes a "sexpat"? Do expats who are not sexpats refrain from sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loptr Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 You are right there should be a obligation for indication...something such as yellow star maybe??? You can usually tell them from their big red nose... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brewsterbudgen Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Takes a pretty desperate guy to fly X,000 miles just to get his end away. Aren't there prostitutes in the US & Europe? Wouldn't that be a "sex tourist" rather than a "sexpat"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Takes a pretty desperate guy to fly X,000 miles just to get his end away. Aren't there prostitutes in the US & Europe? I never met any ......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cypress Hill Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Takes a pretty desperate guy to fly X,000 miles just to get his end away. Aren't there prostitutes in the US & Europe? Wouldn't that be a "sex tourist" rather than a "sexpat"? Depends how long you stay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 (edited) I'm here mainly for the sex & beer ... although beer is readily available at home !! Edited July 14, 2015 by steven100 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slipperylobster Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 yep...street meat... If I could only find another place in the world where I could drink a chilled Lambrusco, in a New York Deli with a Thai hooker. It was not the corned beef on rye...that led me astray. Sorry...seen one temple, seen them all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richard_smith237 Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I've no issues with guys who came here or live here to get their rocks off... However, I do take issue with those who because they immerse themselves solely to this environment lack the understanding of Thailand and anyone else beyond these circles, instead believing that all enjoy being subject to their opinions, charms and juvenile pidgin humour... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigBadGeordie Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I've no issues with guys who came here or live here to get their rocks off... However, I do take issue with those who because they immerse themselves solely to this environment lack the understanding of Thailand and anyone else beyond these circles, instead believing that all enjoy being subject to their opinions, charms and juvenile pidgin humour... The obverse is also true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deserted Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 An odd post indeed . I thought it was common knowledge that the majority of the red light industry in Thailand dealt with locals and not a few old age pensioners from abroad here and there. The ex-pat side is only a small part pf that industry, as anyone who has traveled across the country can tell you. Why can't they accept why they are here? Perhaps they live in denial and deep down feel they are doing something wrong. It takes a lot of guts to accept what you are, and in my experience those who point the finger at others usually can't do themselves. I did meet one that fits into the category 'sexpat' that you mention. He told me he comes to Thailand, Pattaya actually, every year and has done for 15 years or more, stays at the same hotel, goes to the same bar and meets the same girls but before that he told me he didn't come to Thailand for the girls. When I heard all that, I didn't want to talk to him anymore. It's his problem that he feels he has to justify himself, not mine. Sad state of affairs but his problem, not mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BKResort Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 I move here because the culture, and the Thai culture allow me to get late with a lot of nice younger women....... and get married with the nicest one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patsycat Posted July 14, 2015 Share Posted July 14, 2015 Even I, as a female, got my leg over in Thailand. I think its the fact that you are far away from home and the constraints and, shise, you are on holiday. I didn't pay for it, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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