Matej Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 (edited) Hello Few weeks ago sister of my girlfriend ran away from her husband and show up in my apartment with her little son. She stayed couple days and now she is hidding in Krungthep. She don't want to be with him anymore. The problem is that her former husband is more and more aggressive. Five days after the incident, when he realised that she will not come back this time, he showed up drunken, looking for her asking where is she and shouting that he will kill her ... she was already gone. Now he is calling and sending SMS day and night that if we don't tell him where she is he will kill us all ... I mean, I've been in all kind of scum in this <deleted> country, but no one threaten to me like this before. What do you think I should do? My grilfriend wants to move, which I don't want. Thais can be extremly aggressive, on the other hand the guy has 50 kg, I would tear him in half ... so I'm just waiting if he shows up. Would appreciate any advice Edited November 8, 2015 by CharlieH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketboybkk Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 Well, you won't beat a bullet. That's the problem, Thai people won't fight you fairly, never one on one. Plus weapons will be used. On the other hand why he's threatening you? It's not your fault. It's crazy but no one knows your situation If you think he's serious about killing you then you need to act somehow, that is down to you. Good luck. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slipperylobster Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 (edited) He sounds like a heavy drinker, and because of that...it will only be a matter of time until he causes trouble. His size won't matter much, as he will probably arm himself with some weaponry. Best thing for his wife would be to go a "safer" place, with a friend or relative. Once he knows that she is out of the area (and not with you, or your wife), then he would have no reason to threaten you. I would have your wife contact some kind of social services (if they exist), to visit the man...and explain that his wife is no longer in the area. By all means....do not be the bearer of bad news, and keep your wife from doing that as well. You should help the lady, only very discretely....as the man is obviously out of his mind. Edited November 7, 2015 by slipperylobster Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oncearugge Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 A big brave man would involve the Police. Presumably the SMS "death threat" evidence has been preserved and the sister , girl friend and you are all willing to lay a complaint and provide statements? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matej Posted November 7, 2015 Author Share Posted November 7, 2015 He sounds like a heavy drinker, and because of that...it will only be a matter of time until he causes trouble. His size won't matter much, as he will probably arm himself with some weaponry. Best thing for his wife would be to go a "safer" place, with a friend or relative. Once he knows that she is out of the area (and not with you, or your wife), then he would have no reason to threaten you. I would have your wife contact some kind of social services (if they exist), to visit the man...and explain that his wife is no longer in the area. By all means....do not be the bearer of bad news, and keep your wife from doing that as well. You should help the lady, only very discretely....as the man is obviously out of his mind. They used to live in Nong Khaem, I stay in Sriracha, he knows she is not here, but he also knows that I know where she is hidding. That's why he is doing this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucifer Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 He sounds like a heavy drinker, and because of that...it will only be a matter of time until he causes trouble. His size won't matter much, as he will probably arm himself with some weaponry. Best thing for his wife would be to go a "safer" place, with a friend or relative. Once he knows that she is out of the area (and not with you, or your wife), then he would have no reason to threaten you. I would have your wife contact some kind of social services (if they exist), to visit the man...and explain that his wife is no longer in the area. By all means....do not be the bearer of bad news, and keep your wife from doing that as well. You should help the lady, only very discretely....as the man is obviously out of his mind. They used to live in Nong Khaem, I stay in Sriracha, he knows she is not here, but he also knows that I know where she is hidding. That's why he is doing this. Wow. You are out-smarted by a piss head Thai. Time to pack up your bags and go home. Your mum is waiting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canthai55 Posted November 7, 2015 Share Posted November 7, 2015 My advise - do not post garbage like this in your opening post - ""I mean, I've been in all kind of scum in this trash country,"" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Violence will only escalate the problem, remember this guy is an idiot.go on a holiday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
burgerking Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Well, if you can tear him apart, What seems to be the problem? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcfish Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Well, if you can tear him apart, What seems to be the problem?Bullets Sent from my SC-01D using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bapoboy Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 you should get some veapons so you can protect yourself... this is how real men do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomyai Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Have the mother and father chat with the son.......................lol. Im being politically korrect. Serious-are the family vilage folk.? Let your gf handle it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wow64 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 If he turns up just tear him apart. Like you said he is only 50kgs. If he pulls a knife.. Shoot him.. If he pulls a gun.. Fire your RPG.. If he pulls an RPG.. Dress up like batman film it and put it on this visa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saakura Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 My advise - do not post garbage like this in your opening post - ""I mean, I've been in all kind of scum in this trash country,"" He is only reflecting the kind of company he keeps? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomyai Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 My advise - do not post garbage like this in your opening post - ""I mean, I've been in all kind of scum in this trash country,"" He is only reflecting the kind of company he keeps? You know ditching the gf might be a good idea. Who needs this kind of non-sense . Just go get a hi-so gf........................hahhaahaha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarrcbb Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 In my experience breaking up with girls and having them do similar things. The best thing you can do is completely ignore the guy. Don't open the door for him if he comes, don't answers his calls or texts. I'm not sure about your safety but if someone was coming to my place threatening me like that I would at least go hide out somewhere for a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stephenterry Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I would also go on a holiday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnnyJazz Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 My advise - do not post garbage like this in your opening post - ""I mean, I've been in all kind of scum in this trash country,"" He is only reflecting the kind of company he keeps? Birds of feather ... Unfortunately that can happen to "good" people too. The first thing I would do is inform the police and lodge a complain against the violent relative. Like this if the guy show up and unfortunately slips on the carpet ... you can expect a much more sympathetic ear from the police if they want to interview you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 (edited) He sounds like a heavy drinker, and because of that...it will only be a matter of time until he causes trouble. His size won't matter much, as he will probably arm himself with some weaponry. Best thing for his wife would be to go a "safer" place, with a friend or relative. Once he knows that she is out of the area (and not with you, or your wife), then he would have no reason to threaten you. I would have your wife contact some kind of social services (if they exist), to visit the man...and explain that his wife is no longer in the area. By all means....do not be the bearer of bad news, and keep your wife from doing that as well. You should help the lady, only very discretely....as the man is obviously out of his mind. They used to live in Nong Khaem, I stay in Sriracha, he knows she is not here, but he also knows that I know where she is hidding. That's why he is doing this. Wow. You are out-smarted by a piss head Thai. Time to pack up your bags and go home. Your mum is waiting. You don't have to be smart to stab or shoot someone, so don't be a smart arse. Easy to be a keyboard hero. Edited November 8, 2015 by giddyup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JingerBen Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 My advise - do not post garbage like this in your opening post - ""I mean, I've been in all kind of scum in this trash country,"" He is only reflecting the kind of company he keeps? Birds of feather ... Unfortunately that can happen to "good" people too. The first thing I would do is inform the police and lodge a complain against the violent relative. Like this if the guy show up and unfortunately slips on the carpet ... you can expect a much more sympathetic ear from the police if they want to interview you. Disagree. Nobody can expect a sympathetic ear from the police in family disputes - especially when there is a farang involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Next time he shows up, have a weapon, ie a baseball bat as near to you as possible but out of his sight. Make sure he hasn't a gun or knife, if he hasn't, forget about the base ball bat if he is on his own, and insist you know nothing about anything. Being in Thailand, what ever you do, do not use any violence unless in self defence. If this was in the UK, my advice would be very different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 He sounds like a heavy drinker, and because of that...it will only be a matter of time until he causes trouble. His size won't matter much, as he will probably arm himself with some weaponry. Best thing for his wife would be to go a "safer" place, with a friend or relative. Once he knows that she is out of the area (and not with you, or your wife), then he would have no reason to threaten you. I would have your wife contact some kind of social services (if they exist), to visit the man...and explain that his wife is no longer in the area. By all means....do not be the bearer of bad news, and keep your wife from doing that as well. You should help the lady, only very discretely....as the man is obviously out of his mind. They used to live in Nong Khaem, I stay in Sriracha, he knows she is not here, but he also knows that I know where she is hidding. That's why he is doing this. Wow. You are out-smarted by a piss head Thai. Time to pack up your bags and go home. Your mum is waiting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 'Time to pack up your bags and go home. Your mum is waiting'. What kind of advice is that to give the OP? Why has he been outsmarted? In normal circumstances, he should just give him a good hiding, but TiT Thais won't fight without a group of other Thais behind him, or unless he has a weapon of some kind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
h90 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 have the SMS, go to the police and don't forget the dontations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeahSiam Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I think a lot of people are just regurgitating what they've seen on youtube or read in the various farang news outlets. Not all lovelorn Thais go out looking for an arms dealer at the merest whiff of a break up. Best bet is inform the police as a formality and keep a blade or a bat by the door. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hayduke Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 (edited) Tell him she owes you money...say 50,000...but any number of substance will do.. And, since she's disappeared the police (after examining the loan agreement she signed) have advised you that her husband is legally responsible. Furthermore, the police have offered to perform collection services for 50% off the top. But, to simplify things, you'll settle if he pays you 60%. You'll never hear from him again. Edited November 8, 2015 by Hayduke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangon04 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Agree that drunk Thai moron can be very dangerous. You have to solve this the Thai way - your girlfriend has to make the family solve the problem. Insist on it. Quietly and calmly insist on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucifer Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 'Time to pack up your bags and go home. Your mum is waiting'. What kind of advice is that to give the OP? Why has he been outsmarted? In normal circumstances, he should just give him a good hiding, but TiT Thais won't fight without a group of other Thais behind him, or unless he has a weapon of some kind. A sound one. One that perhaps few others on here should take. To the OP, if you decide to stay, leave this problem to your wife to resolve. She is Thai, and will know exactly how dangerous the situation is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Get one of these from your local breeder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flyDelight Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I would contact a local biker gang, drink some beers with them and hire them to give the guy a 'warning' to make him shut down.. Intimidation works well with stupid people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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