False pride and old fashioned nonsense, my friend. If your friends and neighbours are upstanding, it's not a problem at all. They either pay back promptly or make amends in some other way. Assistance with home repairs, babysitting etc Isolating yourself, going hungry and hiding in shame because of money, is pitiful. Sharing is normal and healthy. If a friend/neighbour wanted to go away for work and asked you to help support his family in the meantime whilst he accumulated some funds, would you turn him away? Some people are just obsessed with money. Money is just a medium. No different than sharing food or your time. Get over it.
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