Thai women never tell me I'm hunsum

[theguyfromanotherforum]

My resume of Thai women is only 2, but both have been hard work (as Thai say).

Frankly I have never had a Thai woman tell me I'm a hunsum man nor did they ever make a move on me. It's rather disappointing. So, I'm wondering if women outside the establishment actually ever make a first move?

[kannot]

eeeeeeeeeeek u must be real ugly

[theguyfromanotherforum]

That's an indisputable fact. Still doesn't answer the question.

[BritManToo]

Try a couple of thousand baht notes sticking out your top pocket when you walk around.

Wearing a lot of gold chains, rings, driving a new car also works.

They all make you much more hansum.

Edited April 20, 2016 by BritManToo

[lostinisaan]

OP, put some socks in your trousers and all will change.....

If you're almost the same age and good looking, yes.

Edited April 20, 2016 by lostinisaan

[1happykamper]

After living here for one year I have rarely been complemented on my looks or anything else for that matter. Mexican girls when first encountered normally comment on my blue eyes or accent. Thai girls couldn't care less. For me, Thai girls are really tough to figure out. Its a sad and rarely disputed fact that my money and status is the their main concern. Fat, ugly old men with money seem to be in high demand in Thailand.

[kannot]

That's an indisputable fact. Still doesn't answer the question.

stay away from the mortuary..............might help?

[BritManToo]

Fat, ugly old men with money seem to be in high demand in Thailand.

Thank god!

[nickmanchester2]

maybe you have got to papa age already, you could try and hope for a narak

[fey]

if you dont make the first move here your celibate

[laolover88]

I don't think you are frequenting the right places. Shoe shops are good. Better is to wander around Lotus, Emporium or Paragon looking a bit helpless. You have to be able to read the come-ons though.They are not King's Road Waitrose or Cromwell Road Sainsbury's. Never had a problem!

Written by fat old limping git with a usually strategically parked Benz.

[Stradavarius37]

Question was stupid. So are the answers.

[colinneil]

Thai women never tell you that you are hansum.

Maybe they know you not rich man.

[Don Mega]

Am guessing the op is actually ugly and a cheap charlie as well..... that combo will never get a response of "hansum man" from even the hardest of ladies working the bars in Thailand.

[DDbkh]

I've never been so offended as when I asked for a 'senior' fare on the MRT and the ticket lady gave it without question!

[kannot]

I've never been so offended as when I asked for a 'senior' fare on the MRT and the ticket lady gave it without question!

dont worry I had the opposite at immigration 2 months ago when asked if I was really 52 and she had to check my passport.

[CharlieH]

Stop hitting on your wifes(GF?) friends then.

[rogeroc]

I think it is slowly dying out.

[fasteddie]

I don't think you are frequenting the right places. Shoe shops are good. Better is to wander around Lotus, Emporium or Paragon looking a bit helpless. You have to be able to read the come-ons though.They are not King's Road Waitrose or Cromwell Road Sainsbury's. Never had a problem!

Written by fat old limping git with a usually strategically parked Benz.

yep, shoe shops, post offices, hotel receptionists, even one very gorgeous and uppity pharmacist once, all chatted me up and never asked for a baht, but then I'm hansum man, or rather I was, just an old git now. Never needed no merc neither, best I ever had was a CBX1000.

[Berkshire]

I have found that Thai women who "make the first move" are NEVER...how shall we say...top quality women. A truly attractive or desirable Thai girl will always have a number of men chasing them and won't need to be aggressive towards men they don't know. Of course, I'm not talking about the farang-hunters who have an ulterior motive.

As for the "hansum" comment, an easy one to answer. If you weren't handsome back home, you're not going to be handsome in Thailand. And if a Thai girl tells you you're handsome, they're clearly lying for deceptive reasons.

[NoshowJones]

That's because you do not have deep pockets, I am hunsum, or handsome, have only average sized pockets, and no Thai

woman I do not know has ever told me I'm handsome.

Maybe it's time I put on some weight, grew facial hair, got tattooed. No, wait, forget it, I do not have deep pockets.

[Fookhaht]

Thai silence is the most damning of all responses.

[NoshowJones]

if you dont make the first move here your celibate

Not necessary, there are people who bat for the other side.

[JHolmesJr]

Thanks to social media and hookup apps, no need to say hansum any more….they just ask where you stay and quote the ST rate.

[Squeegee]

What should be more worrying for you is your lack of interests in life that result in your having nothing better to do than posting a topic like this.

Perhaps the Thai ladies can smell you have nothing going on in your life. If you want to be attractive to women you need to be someone who appears happy, busy and interesting, which is not how you come across when starting topics like this.

[theguyfromanotherforum]

What should be more worrying for you is your lack of interests in life that result in your having nothing better to do than posting a topic like this.

Perhaps the Thai ladies can smell you have nothing going on in your life. If you want to be attractive to women you need to be someone who appears happy, busy and interesting, which is not how you come across when starting topics like this.

Ohh... I'm sorry.

Can you tell me more about your life?

[1BADDAT]

I have found that Thai women who "make the first move" are NEVER...how shall we say...top quality women. A truly attractive or desirable Thai girl will always have a number of men chasing them and won't need to be aggressive towards men they don't know. Of course, I'm not talking about the farang-hunters who have an ulterior motive.

As for the "hansum" comment, an easy one to answer. If you weren't handsome back home, you're not going to be handsome in Thailand. And if a Thai girl tells you you're handsome, they're clearly lying for deceptive reasons.

I agree with most of what you said but I think that saying if you aren't handsome in your home country that you aren't handsome here. I think every culture and person has their own interpretation of handsome. Thais and other Asian countries really like blue eyes and big noses. I have blue eyes and a big nose so I am considered more handsome here by most Thai women than at home.

I have to also admit that most Thai women outside the bar scene or similar motivation would never outright tell me I am handsome. Thai women or most women around the world are not that direct. It is not lady like to be that way. The only time that I hear something in a normal situation is when an older lady is talking to my girlfriend, they have told her that I am handsome.

[Fookhaht]

It's OK, OP. Truthfully, I have the same problem. It's the cross we must bear.

[HLover]

What does 'hunsum' mean anyway? Sounds like a made up word; I tried Google and Webster's dictionary to no avail.