Figuring out a Thai Girl Early

[landy77]

I am new to the Thai scene and not sure what are the ear marks that tell me where she is from or her education. I had a girl tell me she lived in Phuket but her family lives in another town. She has one child and can hardly speak English. Any tips would be appreciated.

[Bunnychow]

Dont plan a wedding just yet

[TimTang]

She's hooking in Phuket while her parents live in Esan (probably). I wouldn't expect a long term relationship unless you have a lot of disposable income and can afford to pay the medical bills for a water buffalo which will frequently have health issues.

[giddyup]

Keep a tight grip on your wallet.

[Jdiddy]

Disregard any Thai women you meet in the next 2 years but by all means have short term relationships with them, its part of the learning process. Also learn some Thai and get to know the place and culture to the point where you are past the honeymoon stage and can see the cracks, not trying to be negative, its just in your interest to be more balanced, concious and aware of how things really are

Edited July 5, 2016 by Jdiddy

[sipi]

She probably lived in Phuket but her family lives in another town. She has one child and can hardly speak English, as she told you.

Why complicate it?

[pgrahmm]

Disregard any Thai women you meet in the next 2 years but by all means have short term relationships with them, its part of the learning process. Also learn some Thai and get to know the place and culture to the point where you are past the honeymoon stage and can see the cracks, not trying to be negative, its just in your interest to be more balanced, concious and aware of how things really are

Good advice....

Also apply the same qualifications to any perspective mate as you would in your own country - given the cultural differences.....

Meet many - get to know them & vet along the way.....The more you get to know & learn about the easier it becomes....

You're out there to find them - not save them.....A good gal here will have the same attributes as a good one at home - only better - when you get it right.....

[bamukloy]

A little trick i used to use in my younger days..

The first time you get to do the howdy doody..

Discard your clothes on her side of the bed, on the floor & leave a 100 baht note near your pants..

if the 100 baht is still there when she goes in the morning..shes a keeper ;0)

[eldragon]

If a girl can't be specific about basic info (where she's from, where she works, etc.) or the story is a little different every time, then I wouldn't trust her much. In fact, just ask her where she works. If she's not really clear about that, then she's probably a hustler. And if you want to amuse yourself, ask her how many boyfriends she has. But, as Jdiddy said, no reason you can't have a little fun with girls like this.

[ripstanley]

Is this the same girl you met on a cruise ship out of Mexico?

http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/929238-met-a-thai-girl-need-advice/

[Aussie69]

Funny us men, always seeking advice from other men on these creatures from Venus; yet even the man celebrating his 50th wedding anniversary still has no idea how they work

Edited July 5, 2016 by Aussie69

[smokie36]

Is your white charger well fed?

[VBF]

A little trick i used to use in my younger days..

The first time you get to do the howdy doody..

Discard your clothes on her side of the bed, on the floor & leave a 100 baht note near your pants..

if the 100 baht is still there when she goes in the morning..shes a keeper ;0)

Or she's playing a long game.......

Sorry to sound cynical but.......

[Pinot]

Disregard any Thai women you meet in the next 2 years but by all means have short term relationships with them, its part of the learning process. Also learn some Thai and get to know the place and culture to the point where you are past the honeymoon stage and can see the cracks, not trying to be negative, its just in your interest to be more balanced, concious and aware of how things really are

Yes, good advice. Have fun but always let them know you are single and never live with a woman. Remember, you're paying them to leave. The first relationship rarely works. Sometimes...maybe, probably not. Keep it on a dating basis and play the field.

You won't get it right for years. Some guys never get it right. The fewer family connections the better. An orphan who has never had a boyfriend would be ideal.

Some guys don't want to hear this but if she has a kid, keep walking. Who needs it?

So many beautiful, fantastic Thai women running around, no reason to have a girlfriend who doesn't speak English and has a kid.

[catman20]

A little trick i used to use in my younger days..

The first time you get to do the howdy doody..

Discard your clothes on her side of the bed, on the floor & leave a 100 baht note near your pants..

if the 100 baht is still there when she goes in the morning..shes a keeper ;0)

she would only be a keeper if she cleaned up after me also

[mihalis]

Take your time, see what she does for a living... If her hand is out asking for money, run......... If her stories keep changing, move on, or just dont take it seriously, as a few have suggested, take your time, if it feels wrong, it is.. Liars, cant keep stories straight, as its hard to remember whats been made up, easier to remember the truth..

[chicowoodduck]

Step one....sober up.

Step two...go back to the airport and get your brain.

Step three...if her lips are moving it is a lie, if they aren't, she is thinking of the next lie

Step four....make sure you have a return ticket and make plans to escape sooner than later....?

[Kabula]

A little trick i used to use in my younger days..

The first time you get to do the howdy doody..

Discard your clothes on her side of the bed, on the floor & leave a 100 baht note near your pants..

if the 100 baht is still there when she goes in the morning..shes a keeper ;0)

If your razor/s, and toothpaste is still there that is also a plus!

[neverdie]

She probably lived in Phuket but her family lives in another town. She has one child and can hardly speak English, as she told you.

Why complicate it?

Don't complicate it, it's already dangerous.

Also remember, if it floats,#ucks or fly's , it will cost you a fortune

Rest assured.

[klauskunkel]

I am new to the Thai scene and not sure what are the ear marks that tell me where she is from or her education. I had a girl tell me she lived in Phuket but her family lives in another town. She has one child and can hardly speak English. Any tips would be appreciated.

You already know everything there is to know.

[overherebc]

Just start thinking in a different way.

Sharron Stone once said that a woman can fake an orgasm, but a man can fake a whole relationship.

Live on those lines in Thailand and you'll do alright.

[Katipo]

Three rules I try to stick to:

1. Must be career orientated: Doesn't matter what she does, but she must have her own goals, not just waiting for someone to 'take care' of her.

2. Doesn't live at home with parents: I am not 16 anymore. 9 times out of 10 this is just a complete pain in the butt.

3. Doesn't spend all her free time in the 'farang scene': Girls like this have probably been tossed aside (and probably lied to) buy foreigners coming and going promising the world but end the end delivering very little.

In addition, try to look for a girl who has real hobbies (Watching TV and reading comic books are not included). I find girls who can try to get the most out of their own lives also have the most to offer.

[oxo1947]

Well you got what you want Land77---everyone is feeding the troll, 13 posts = 3 mad troll topics, about meeting Thai girls on cruise boats to not understanding them--need help.

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Someone should do an analysis on Trolls-----is it that they get no attention at home ........................

[Aussieroaming]

Depends what you want from a partner

I've spent the last decade working in Asia ( 4 countries) and I had a mental list of social and personal attributes that i thought would make a relationship work.

For me personally I preferred a relationship with a girl that

1. Didn't ask for money or gifts - I already worked with plenty of asian girls that always wanted presents

2. Had a degree - I didn't want a partner that saw me as a way out of a rural life. I probably would have skipped the degree if i found someone who was self confident

3. Spoke good English - Nothing worse for me than not being able to communicate effectively

4. Had a good career -

5. Understood western humor -

6. Felt comfortable travelling O/S

[Aussieroaming]

Depends what you want from a partner

I've spent the last decade working in Asia ( 4 countries) and I had a mental list of social and personal attributes that i thought would make a relationship work.

For me personally I preferred a relationship with a girl that

1. Didn't ask for money or gifts - I already worked with plenty of asian girls that always wanted presents

2. Had a degree - I didn't want a partner that saw me as a way out of a rural life. I probably would have skipped the degree if i found someone who was self confident

3. Spoke good English - Nothing worse for me than not being able to communicate effectively

4. Had a good career -

5. Understood western humor -

6. Felt comfortable travelling O/S

[Oldgumshoe]

Go see the movie Lord of the Rings and study the character Gollum. That should give you an insight into most Thai women.

[slipperylobster]

Poke and see if she moves.

If she moves, then she is lying.

[williamgeorgeallen]

Well you got what you want Land77---everyone is feeding the troll, 13 posts = 3 mad troll topics, about meeting Thai girls on cruise boats to not understanding them--need help.

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Someone should do an analysis on Trolls-----is it that they get no attention at home ........................

dont get this whole trolling thing. are people really that bored? thats just wasting the time of the decent people here who take the time to offer advice.

i also dont get the whole nastiness thing here towards people who are genuinely asking for advice. people ask for advice and then people slag them off.

[Suradit69]

Keep a tight grip on your wallet.

not sure what are the ear marks

And if she's leaving you with ear marks, carry some garlic and a crucifix.

Edited July 6, 2016 by Suradit69

[Blackheart1916]

Marry her, quick, before someone else does!