Personal maid or Equal Partner? What is she to you?

[JJGreen]

For most guys their GF/Wife is an equal in the relationship. Each one brings something to the table and things work.

Important decisions talked about and the future worked out together, best as can be done.

And then we have the opposite side..

Guys desiring a Thai woman for their domestic abilities and traditional subservient role; Translated as sex on demand, fetching their next beer from the fridge,feeding them and washing their clothes

Whilst these guys are in the minority of Thai/western relationships, there is still many who think like this.

Expecting your GF/wife to be at your beck and call; expecting subservience just because you give your GF/Wife a few dollars

What is the motivation for guys like this to bother with a relationship? Why not hire a maid and visit a hooker once a week.

A relationship built solely upon monetary terms and Boss/servant roles is destined to end badly for the guy

[JLCrab]

Well if the hired maid is also a hooker maybe you can work out an all-in-one package.

[Kwasaki]

49 minutes ago, JJGreen said:

A relationship built solely upon monetary terms and Boss/servant roles is destined to end badly for the guy

 

Well above happens and some last,  l would say it depends on how long the Thai wife is prepared to put up with it also the relationship probably started that way anyhow.

 

It may well be for some Thai women a much better than a relationship with a Thai man.

 

Everyone has a choice .

[chrisinth]

I don't think you are putting all the variables into the post.

 

I tend to do what i want, when she wants. This seems to work quite well.

 

As long as she's in a good mood...........................

 

[nausea]

Bodyguard, driver, companion ... pretty useless as a maid,  but she does try. My main contribution is keeping her under control ... like I'll jump in when she's trying to kill someone. Of course,  I'm mostly safe, as the main financial contributor to this asymetrical relationship. You don't kill the goose that lays the golden eggs.

[Macthehat]

Choice is a beautiful thing .... she can be what u want her to be ...as long as she's happy with your choice ...there lies the perfect relationship 

[Testacall]

Don't alienate ur major fanbase. You only reference gf/wife ..

[JJGreen]

Don't alienate ur major fanbase. You only reference gf/wife ..

U want i mention u by name next time?

[Strange]

2 minutes ago, JJGreen said:

U want i mention u by name next time?

 

Go on... 

[Testacall]

Huh ? Can if you want silly reply 

[colinneil]

JJ my wife is my personal maid, and also my equal partner, so how do i fit into your profiling?

[rogeroc]

20 hours ago, JJGreen said:

What is the motivation for guys like this to bother with a relationship? Why not hire a maid and visit a hooker once a week.

 

 

1) Status, ownership, contol. In a nutshell 'power'

 

2) Domestic incompetence / need someone around all the time.

[giddyup]

23 minutes ago, rogeroc said:

 

1) Status, ownership, contol. In a nutshell 'power'

 

2) Domestic incompetence / need someone around all the time.

Don't judge everyone on your own shallow experiences.

[pigeonjake]

my equal partner,

my wife,

my lover,

my best friend

the mother of my children,

farm hand,

gardener,

cook,

cleaner,

takes care of my dogs, my bugies, my finches, my pigeons

 

when im at home,

i help with the farm,

i love to cook,

i help with the kids,

i do most of the gardening, apart from planting the orchids, they are all hers,

i do the driving, ( she cant drive and is to scared to learn}

 

as you can see we are both very busy, im home on the 1st nov, she has sent my pics of our hedge that wants cutting, she does keep our lawn nice, but she isnt to keen on the hedge trimmer,

ive got the hedges to cut, general tidy then it will be off to the beach for a week with the kids, then into some serious gardening, together,

you can have a very normal life here with you wife,g/friend/lover/best friend call her what you like,

 

 

 

[pigeonjake]

ps,

did i mention that she does cut my nails,

there is 2 funny stories to this,

1st one, its the kids fault when im home as if they notice they want cutting, i here them sgouting mama, papas nails want cutting, they love it as im very ticklish on my feet,,lol

2nd one, 2 years ago when again i was here in scotland working, i had been to asda, beautiful strawberries big juicy ones, i took a picture of me holding one to my mouth, emailed it to my wife, when i was speaking to her on skype later, she didnt mention the strawberry, no, it was your nails need cutting darling,,lol