opalred Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 in past years i have noticed many middle aged women turning to have a tom as a partner been married and have children husbands leave then live with a tom i worry as many around my house and visit my house and wife regular Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostinisaan Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 (edited) You should be very worried because your wife seems to be in love with at least one. But that unrealistic, once in the scene, she's known for certain techniques she enjoys. Sexuality isn't anymore as it was when your grandfather married his wife. Why else would they visit your wife? Please take your tinted sunglasses off and face reality. Too old, can't do what she'd like to have, too small, gone after 3 seconds, etc.. Your questions should have been vice versa. Why do tons of toms turn to married wives like yours? Edited November 29, 2016 by lostinisaan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lamkyong Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 You should be very worried ?? why just ask if you can watch many a mans fantasy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anthony5 Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 I have such a couple as direct door neighbours. Very nice people, and not the Tom isn't horrible. Not so long ago I helped them with an issue they had with their pool pump. After I finished they asked how much they owed me. I answered them that I didn't charge anything for neighbours, but when they insisted I said OK I wanna watch The week after my doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, there was the Tom and his GF standing with a nice Tag Heuer for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denim Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Given the choice ....Thai man or Thai woman .....which of the two is likely to be a more mature partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehelmsman Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 There's one in our village , they call her "opposite" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuiseppeD Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Happy for my wife to take up a tom and give me some peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuiseppeD Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 7 minutes ago, Anthony5 said: Not so long ago I helped them with an issue they had with their pool pump. That's what I want, some pumping. How can I achieve this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denim Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 1 minute ago, GuiseppeD said: Happy for my wife to take up a tom and give me some peace. Give me a piece you mean ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shot Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 If they are young and hot, can we get some pics please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuiseppeD Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Just now, Denim said: Give me a piece you mean ? Both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lamkyong Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 15 minutes ago, Anthony5 said: I have such a couple as direct door neighbours. Very nice people, and not the Tom isn't horrible. Not so long ago I helped them with an issue they had with their pool pump. After I finished they asked how much they owed me. I answered them that I didn't charge anything for neighbours, but when they insisted I said OK I wanna watch The week after my doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, there was the Tom and his GF standing with a nice Tag Heuer for me. Tom and his GF are you sure you understand the meaning of tom ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuiseppeD Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 1 minute ago, Lamkyong said: Tom and his GF are you sure you understand the meaning of tom ?? Who cares. Just get them round to my place. Just make sure they don't bring their gay male friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Global Guy Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Well, Thai guys are notorious for treating Thai women poorly (yes, not all, but there is a trend) and looking at the posts on here, do you blame them for going with a tom instead of an expat? So many expats come here as sex tourists and never grow out of that mold. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lamkyong Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 11 minutes ago, GuiseppeD said: Who cares. Just get them round to my place. Just make sure they don't bring their gay male friends. oh so you dont either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn0000 Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 20 minutes ago, Lamkyong said: Tom and his GF are you sure you understand the meaning of tom ?? Sounds like you're confused... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Toms do 'good take care' - - I have known many through my years here and they have good personalities too, mostly... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lvr181 Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 47 minutes ago, Anthony5 said: I have such a couple as direct door neighbours. Very nice people, and not the Tom isn't horrible. Not so long ago I helped them with an issue they had with their pool pump. After I finished they asked how much they owed me. I answered them that I didn't charge anything for neighbours, but when they insisted I said OK I wanna watch The week after my doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, there was the Tom and his GF standing with a nice Tag Heuer for me. Love your lateral thinking. More than one way to skin a cat, as the saying goes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 I have such a couple as direct door neighbours. Very nice people, and not the Tom isn't horrible. Not so long ago I helped them with an issue they had with their pool pump. After I finished they asked how much they owed me. I answered them that I didn't charge anything for neighbours, but when they insisted I said OK I wanna watch The week after my doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, there was the Tom and his GF standing with a nice Tag Heuer for me.What a disappointment. I thought you asked for a show.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaiwrath Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 22 minutes ago, kenk24 said: Toms do 'good take care' - - I have known many through my years here and they have good personalities too, mostly... They are control freaks. Ask any 'dee' who tried to end a relationship, and you will hear the truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fruitman Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 1 hour ago, Anthony5 said: I have such a couple as direct door neighbours. Very nice people, and not the Tom isn't horrible. Not so long ago I helped them with an issue they had with their pool pump. After I finished they asked how much they owed me. I answered them that I didn't charge anything for neighbours, but when they insisted I said OK I wanna watch The week after my doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, there was the Tom and his GF standing with a nice Tag Heuer for me. I also have a Tom couple as neighbours. There waterpump made terrible noise for months in row untill it drove me really crazy and went to them. I told them it drives me crazy to hear that loud noise all day and since then never heard it again. Why did they wait so long to fix it since it was an easy fix? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn0000 Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 8 minutes ago, fruitman said: I also have a Tom couple as neighbours. There waterpump made terrible noise for months in row untill it drove me really crazy and went to them. I told them it drives me crazy to hear that loud noise all day and since then never heard it again. Why did they wait so long to fix it since it was an easy fix? A Toms with broken water pumps thread? Really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fruitman Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 I see Tom couple's everywhere and also some friends of my wife are. Well most Tom's can't get a bf i'm sure, just look at them. And the dee's have been disappointed by men i guess. BKK has many of them, i rarely see couple's of gay men on the street/malls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn0000 Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 7 minutes ago, fruitman said: I see Tom couple's everywhere and also some friends of my wife are. Well most Tom's can't get a bf i'm sure, just look at them. And the dee's have been disappointed by men i guess. BKK has many of them, i rarely see couple's of gay men on the street/malls. Wow, a homosexuality denier, that's modern! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VillageIdiot Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 1 hour ago, fruitman said: I see Tom couple's everywhere and also some friends of my wife are. Well most Tom's can't get a bf i'm sure, just look at them. And the dee's have been disappointed by men i guess. BKK has many of them, i rarely see couple's of gay men on the street/malls. That may be due to the Fred Flintstone haircuts rather than genetics. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 2 hours ago, Denim said: Given the choice ....Thai man or Thai woman .....which of the two is likely to be a more mature partner. You don't think that some women may actually prefer to be with a woman? Or are you just some kind of stupid? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bule gila Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 OK, so someone clarify Tom please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 2 minutes ago, Bule gila said: OK, so someone clarify Tom please? A Tom is simply the "male" in a two-female relationship. In the west, we might say "bull dyke"...although I'm not sure if that's an offensive term or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bule gila Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Just now, Berkshire said: A Tom is simply the "male" in a two-female relationship. In the west, we might say "bull dyke"...although I'm not sure if that's an offensive term or not. Cheers. In Blighty a tom is a prostitute, thought it was better to ask first hehe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Just now, Bule gila said: Cheers. In Blighty a tom is a prostitute, thought it was better to ask first hehe. Ah, I see. I'm not sure if the term "Tom" originated from the American term "Tomboy." A Tomboy is not necessarily a lesbian, but rather a female who likes to participate in "man stuff," i.e., sports, wear man clothes, not into make-up, that sort of thing. Tomboys can grow up to be incredibly hot later in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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