samsensam Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 you can easily prevent this ever being a problem that needs to solving; - dont marry someone and live in a different country (why would anyone do this?!) - dont marry some one you dont/cant trust Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chou Anou Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 6 hours ago, Peterw42 said: To add to the OP, there are all sorts of apps you can put on phones that will record all the calls as mp3s and send them to you, keep all the sms's and send them, remotely turn on camera and mic etc. http://thetruthspy.com/ Men who do this are just as bad as the women they don't trust. Pathetic fools deserve each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melvinmelvin Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 5 hours ago, fordguy61mi said: I had a friend that had a Thai girlfriend. He built a house in her name, bought a Thai restaurant in her name, sent her money all the time from Afghanistan where he worked 5 months out of the year. He was going to marry the girl and give her a baby before he found out she was banging another farang. Now he's devastated and she's going to marry the other guy. He told me he had just gave her $24,000 US to take care of her gambling debts. The worst part is he had 2 filipinas that did the same thing to him before. your friend is probably not a clear thinker working in some STAN country shuffling satang into a Thai Lady settling gambling debts of 24 grand US jeez, people pick odd odd females as prospective wives Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suradit69 Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 (edited) On 5/13/2017 at 2:18 PM, SiamBeast said: No girl will spend her prime years patiently waiting for her husband to come see her when she can have better options. And of course the farang husbands are all certified monogamists and faithfully celibate when away from home. Edited May 15, 2017 by Suradit69 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whaleboneman Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 A neighbour of ours has installed cameras all around house and inside too. This way he can monitor girlfriend's activities at any time. It's quite sad really and none of her girlfriends want to go there anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 A neighbour of ours has installed cameras all around house and inside too. This way he can monitor girlfriend's activities at any time. It's quite sad really and none of her girlfriends want to go there anymore.She will just see her Thai boyfriend elsewhere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted May 15, 2017 Author Share Posted May 15, 2017 12 hours ago, Get Real said: Just don´t get why you marry someone you obiviously not want to live with?? If you marry someone you just see to that you can stay together and have the means for supporting her. Sounds like a very stupid discussion to open. You are wrong, she is right. Phone or no phone. GPS tracking or no GPS tracking. Never mind. Can not for my life grasp that any court might give you right based on your said evidence. In return she have clear evidence that you didn´t care about your wife enough to live with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted May 16, 2017 Author Share Posted May 16, 2017 12 hours ago, Get Real said: Just don´t get why you marry someone you obiviously not want to live with?? If you marry someone you just see to that you can stay together and have the means for supporting her. Sounds like a very stupid discussion to open. You are wrong, she is right. Phone or no phone. GPS tracking or no GPS tracking. Never mind. Can not for my life grasp that any court might give you right based on your said evidence. In return she have clear evidence that you didn´t care about your wife enough to live with her. i have divorced her, the fact that they think they have the right to live in a house they never paid or contributed to is the reason for the court action.I have noticed on this forum the the general feeling that any type of legal action by a non thai is a waste of time well idont and i wont lye down . If you listen to a lot of posters on this site nobody would do anything just complain that the law is against falangs and you cant win ,well if your never going to try then nothing is going to change . The evidence is part of the case and asked for by my lawyer along with other legal documents.As your not a judge or legal person in thailand your comment is about as usefull as all the other so called experts that haunt the site and have never chellenged the thai legal system maybe from lack of intestinal fortitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 On 5/11/2017 at 10:23 AM, Ahab said: Or perhaps not marry someone and then live in another country? Or better yet, do not marry a lady of negotiable virtue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 On 5/13/2017 at 2:18 PM, SiamBeast said: If you marry a girl, leave her in Thailand and live somewhere else, she WILL whore around. No girl will spend her prime years patiently waiting for her husband to come see her when she can have better options. Thai wives have sex at least once a week - whether you're there or not. You and all the posters who like your post seem to know only one type of Thai girl. I know several Thai girls whose husbands work outside Thailand and are gone for months at a time and they do not f around. It seems so many of you only know the Thai girls who whore around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 On 5/13/2017 at 3:10 PM, heybuz said: her and falang boyfriend. her reply you husband he business what she meant was he short-term customer, you long-term customer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 22 hours ago, heybuz said: judge has already said in not to many words i am in the right . She was not a prostitute when i first met her but i later inferred that she may be able to find more permanent work in pattaya So, what do you think it is about you that made her a prostitute after marrying you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 17 hours ago, heybuz said: yours included No sense making irrational statements; you have already said yours was, but that does not make his wife a prostitute. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 15 hours ago, tomwct said: If you leave a GF or wife in Thailand while you return to your country she will have sex, so you need to leave her traveling funds. Her BF or Thai husband lives in Bangkok and her lover maybe lives in Korat. What a poor impression you must have of Thai women. I know Thai women who do not f around on their husbands; so sorry you apparently do not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted May 16, 2017 Author Share Posted May 16, 2017 39 minutes ago, smotherb said: So, what do you think it is about you that made her a prostitute after marrying you? greed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted May 16, 2017 Author Share Posted May 16, 2017 37 minutes ago, smotherb said: No sense making irrational statements; you have already said yours was, but that does not make his wife a prostitute. irtational statements are part and parcel of this forum, along with advise from some who have no idea on the subject they comment on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 3 minutes ago, heybuz said: greed Greed is about you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 1 minute ago, heybuz said: irtational statements are part and parcel of this forum, along with advise from some who have no idea on the subject they comment on. It seems it was your comment which had no idea. How do you know his wife is a prostitute too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lucifer666 Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 If i tried this, my Cloud would be overwhelmed by pictures of food Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kadilo Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 If i tried this, my Cloud would be overwhelmed by pictures of food There are only so many photos of Somtam one can take!Sent from my iPad using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaiguzzi Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 On 13/05/2017 at 4:01 PM, cyberfarang said: How can you know for sure they are not fooling around? I was cheated on by my first English wife. Had 2 kids together, made no difference to her. Wasn`t working away but was working long hours, leaving home early and arriving home late, 6 days a week. Later discovered she was sleeping with a guy I knew from my church social club, in our bed while I was working slogging my guts out. It`s usually those closest to them that are the last to discover they are cheating and fooling around. IMHO I wouldn`t trust any of them. Easy to spy on their facebooks and online activities to find clues if they are up to no good. # 'cos i know for sure. # Sorry to hear that. # Sounds like you lead a very sad life. Trust is a most important aspect in life. # Seems there are a lot of ex CIA, KGB, Stasi, MI5 members on this thread that are pretty clued up on spying. Me, i know nothing, nada... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
micmichd Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 (edited) On 15/05/2017 at 1:06 AM, swissie said: OP is fortunate. The statement "you husband, he business" is a clear indication that OP married a prostitute, wanting to continue her trade. If OP can verify this statement (court proof), he may not need questionable "pictures". Cheers. Doubtful. Sex work is not the only kind of business a Thai lady can do, and no Thai lady needs a permission from her husband to work. Edited May 16, 2017 by micmichd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 I hear that many girls have secret thai boyfriends. I guess that depends on the age gap and how genuine the relationship is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khon Kaen Dave Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 Well, i've read all the posts, all the insults, and i think that what you do is up to you. No business of anybody else.It makes me laugh when guys come here looking for a respectable woman, unyet they come to pattaya. Do you think that you will find one here. And if you do, you need to be absolutely minted, because if the girl has a degree or has been a good girl, has no kids, and unless the family are in need of money, they wouldn't want you in there family any way. Racism is a double edged sword. the best advice i had was " remember son, unlike other vampires, Thai girls keep their fangs in their vagina's" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patrick1968 Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 welcame home join the club Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Get Real Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 19 hours ago, heybuz said: i have divorced her, the fact that they think they have the right to live in a house they never paid or contributed to is the reason for the court action.I have noticed on this forum the the general feeling that any type of legal action by a non thai is a waste of time well idont and i wont lye down . If you listen to a lot of posters on this site nobody would do anything just complain that the law is against falangs and you cant win ,well if your never going to try then nothing is going to change . The evidence is part of the case and asked for by my lawyer along with other legal documents.As your not a judge or legal person in thailand your comment is about as usefull as all the other so called experts that haunt the site and have never chellenged the thai legal system maybe from lack of intestinal fortitude. Wow! You must just be one of a kind. Ain´t that right? You come to Thailand. You build a house. You know from start that the house can not stand in your name and legally be yours. After that you turn around and question why somebody think they have the right to live in a house that evidently stand in thier name??? Doesn´t look like much of man in that statement. However you won your battle instead of owing up to your mistake. You must be one happy and proud dude! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted May 16, 2017 Author Share Posted May 16, 2017 (edited) 3 hours ago, Get Real said: Wow! You must just be one of a kind. Ain´t that right? You come to Thailand. You build a house. You know from start that the house can not stand in your name and legally be yours. After that you turn around and question why somebody think they have the right to live in a house that evidently stand in thier name??? Doesn´t look like much of man in that statement. However you won your battle instead of owing up to your mistake. You must be one happy and proud dude! it is legally mine know it all the deed has been checked by lawyers i have the right of house and land for life. it is in my name .i bought before marry another expert know nothing offering advise on this forum . Edited May 16, 2017 by heybuz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted May 16, 2017 Author Share Posted May 16, 2017 9 hours ago, ThaiWai said: Excuse me? My what included? Your wife is the one who sells the parts she promised to you, is that not right? Did she not say it was her "business"? You should stick to the facts. Fact 1. You're wife is a bonafide whore. Fact 2. You CHOSE to marry her. Fact 3. You don't know anything about me so are not fit to comment. my my really stirred up a hornets nest here thankyou for your input Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heybuz Posted May 16, 2017 Author Share Posted May 16, 2017 this has been my most successfull post on thai visa 4 pages it really strikes a nerve and i wish all the people who replied the best. 555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peterw42 Posted May 17, 2017 Share Posted May 17, 2017 40 minutes ago, heybuz said: it is legally mine know it all the deed has been checked by lawyers i have the right of house and land for life. it is in my name .i bought before marry another expert know nothing offering advise on this forum . How did you get around the laws ? Foreigners cannot own land. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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