A Retiree's Choice of Partner

[howard ashoul]

Im just 28, but if I was looking for another GF I would definitely go to a hospital. 

 

Girls who worked hard to get their degree, without time to get a partner. Long working hours not giving them time to get a boyfriend. Hanging out around old or sick people. No chance to get boyfriend there either. Some level of english. Inteligent. Tendency to get care of other people even if it gets gross. Underpayed enough to quit their job. A lot of girl friends who will try to get them a boyfriend if you appear out of nowhere (that damn ring costed me 2 LINE ID's during last visit ).

 

And you can always find a excuse to hang out around hospital - older you get, easier it gets. 

Edited May 22, 2017 by howard ashoul

[Elkski]

...(that damn ring costed me 2 LINE ID's during last visit )....

I dont get this line..

Oh I forgot to say I dont have a nurse fetish at all or shool girls or uniform..

I do agree about nurses study hard and then work hard so they dont find many guys.  They can end up with houses and cars later in life being the responsible types.

[sharktooth]

10 hours ago, Elkski said:

First mistake if said future wife not nympho at step 2 move on.     Very good thread.   Maybe ugly is the way to go with everything else??

But if a gal in Thailand is 50 she can look 45 compare to USA. But what if 45 woman in Thailand looks 55 in USA years? Nympho no problem. 

Aye right !

 

 

[giddyup]

1 minute ago, sharktooth said:

Aye right !

 

 

What's even more frightening is that someone is probably knobbing her.

[JHolmesJr]

On 21 May, 2017 at 2:24 AM, giddyup said:

Specially with her teeth out.

who's the lucky fellatio?

[Elkski]

I should have been  more precise with my words.  I meant maybe it's best we pick an  ugly face with everything else hot including the nympho. 

My punishment...

How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread 

Edited May 23, 2017 by Elkski

[lanng khao]

Aye right !
 
 

You'd have to roll her in flour to find her wet patch..

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[sharktooth]

34 minutes ago, lanng khao said:

You'd have to roll her in flour to find her wet patch..

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[bazza73]

13 minutes ago, sharktooth said:

 

I know TV is not a family-oriented forum, but this and previous posts are getting gross.

[tubby johnson]

1 hour ago, lanng khao said:

You'd have to roll her in flour to find her wet patch..

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[JAFO]

14 hours ago, howard ashoul said:

Girls who worked hard to get their degree, without time to get a partner. Long working hours not giving them time to get a boyfriend. Hanging out around old or sick people. No chance to get boyfriend there either. Some level of english. Inteligent.

 

10 hours ago, Elkski said:

I do agree about nurses study hard and then work hard so they dont find many guys.  They can end up with houses and cars later in life being the responsible types.

I have to say, I feel very fortunate being my wife was a nurse manager/nutritionist for 9 years. Degree'd and studied hard. When we first started to date and talk she was reluctant to date a foreigner. She wouldn't even give me her phone number or where she lived. Just an e-mail address which we talked back and forth.  It was clear that she wasn't looking for some foreigner to cling on too.  She never had an interest and also as she said on our first date, doesn't have the time with her long work hours at the hospital (BTW, she didn't wear a Nurse uniform like you guys all envision, just business attire). Later I was to find out that through most of her 30's she took care of her mother who sadly died of cancer after a 10 year fight.  

 

It took us a lonnnnng time to connect but I was in no hurry and was patient. Besides I was doing my own thing and worked as well.  

Edited May 23, 2017 by JAFO

[swissie]

I have read all of the 131 posts. They are all correct and have a valid point. Depending from what anlge and life-philosophie one looks at it.
I prefer to approach mature threads with caution, not wanting to fire up tempers after 131 posts, everything having been already covered what possibly can be covered.

But there is light at the end of the tunnel. An alternative is slowly arising on the horizon. I am in the process of writing a book. Yes sir!

Title: Pathways to glory by turning yourself into the perfect w**re-monger. Focusing on issues like: "How to turn your hostess into a nurse, a fine housekeeper, your personal secretary, your personal bodyguard" etc.etc.

= For half of the monthly expense, as if you would marry her.

Naturally, once published, the sales of this book will go thru the roof.
Cheers.

[Rc2702]

1 hour ago, swissie said:

I have read all of the 131 posts. They are all correct and have a valid point. Depending from what anlge and life-philosophie one looks at it.
I prefer to approach mature threads with caution, not wanting to fire up tempers after 131 posts, everything having been already covered what possibly can be covered.

But there is light at the end of the tunnel. An alternative is slowly arising on the horizon. I am in the process of writing a book. Yes sir!

Title: Pathways to glory by turning yourself into the perfect w**re-monger. Focusing on issues like: "How to turn your hostess into a nurse, a fine housekeeper, your personal secretary, your personal bodyguard" etc.etc.

= For half of the monthly expense, as if you would marry her.

Naturally, once published, the sales of this book will go thru the roof.
Cheers.

I reckon you'd still be bitter for half the apparent expense. Anything you write is so negative I'd have a hard time getting up in the morning after scanning s few pages of this book. I don't know how you got the idea of writing a book but if I were you I'd read your posts and ask yourself one question. Is it all worth it? The writing I mean...

[Elkski]

Hey now!!!  let's get this thread back in the sweet spot!!

I think there is an increase in demand from nice Thai women seeking farang today as compared to 15-20 years ago.  

I think it's because enough good chaos have moved North Isaan way and taken good care of their Asian beauty.   Now there is the FB, line and families can post their lives for all of FB to see.  I think the word has spread.  It seems like most Thai gals I chat with( via dating sites) know a sister, cousin,  or aunt who is happy in Thailand or his home country.   

Edited May 23, 2017 by Elkski
Sweet spot

[swissie]

19 hours ago, Rc2702 said:

I reckon you'd still be bitter for half the apparent expense. Anything you write is so negative I'd have a hard time getting up in the morning after scanning s few pages of this book. I don't know how you got the idea of writing a book but if I were you I'd read your posts and ask yourself one question. Is it all worth it? The writing I mean...

Too bad, you generally don't like my posts. You find them "negative". Others find them "close to home". Sometimes "uncomfortably" close to home. Never mind.

My posts have one thing in common: They are "tongue in cheek" and have to be taken with a grain of salt. Black humor, reading between the lines etc.....So, when you think, I am actually writing a book covering this subject, you must be the only one (!?)

I don't know if you were born without any sense of humor, or if it's the result of you staying in Thailand for too long.
Attention: Last sentence = humor-alert!
Cheers.

[Rc2702]

15 minutes ago, swissie said:

Too bad, you generally don't like my posts. You find them "negative". Others find them "close to home". Sometimes "uncomfortably" close to home. Never mind.

My posts have one thing in common: They are "tongue in cheek" and have to be taken with a grain of salt. Black humor, reading between the lines etc.....So, when you think, I am actually writing a book covering this subject, you must be the only one (!?)

I don't know if you were born without any sense of humor, or if it's the result of you staying in Thailand for too long.
Attention: Last sentence = humor-alert!
Cheers.

To be honest I suspect your the author of inspire Pattaya.  Another one that fails to deliver even the slightest bit of humour. So much so that it's hard to believe it is humour.

[swissie]

2 hours ago, Rc2702 said:

To be honest I suspect your the author of inspire Pattaya.  Another one that fails to deliver even the slightest bit of humour. So much so that it's hard to believe it is humour.

Yes, I am the author of "Inspire Pattaya". I am also selling phony health insurance policies to unsuspecting Farangs.
When in Pattaya, I sell illegally brewed spirits out of a rumble-seat of a 1956 Chevy-Convertible.
All confidential information, so don't spread it around!
Cheers.

[Rc2702]

9 minutes ago, swissie said:

Yes, I am the author of "Inspire Pattaya". I am also selling phony health insurance policies to unsuspecting Farangs.
When in Pattaya, I sell illegally brewed spirits out of a rumble-seat of a 1956 Chevy-Convertible.
All confidential information, so don't spread it around!
Cheers.

Prime example.

[swissie]

15 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

Prime example.

My condolences.

 

Have 2  stepdaughters . Both pretty and well educated. If I can help it, none of them would ever marry you.

 

PS: We better stop this Ping-Pong game. The Mods never sleep.

 

Well, actually they do, but not necessarily at home, all the time. = 3 smilies mean : Humor, Humor. Now you know!

Cheers.

[Elkski]

Calling all mods.  

 

Delete the crap from these two bickering old farts and spank them please. 

[Nowisee]

On 5/22/2017 at 5:58 PM, thehelmsman said:

If you want to be happy for the rest of your like, never make a pretty woman your wife. Or, so the song goes.

On 5/23/2017 at 1:05 PM, Elkski said:

I should have been  more precise with my words.  I meant maybe it's best we pick an  ugly face with everything else hot including the nympho. 

My punishment...

How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread How do I ruin a good thread 

What's more important?

Excellent body and all around great girl with not so pretty face or really cute face and just so so on the body/personality?

 

 

 

[music065]

^imo that's a no brainer, go for the personality and bod especially if you're looking for long term. That cute face will fade all too soon then what are you left with. To each his own though

Edited May 27, 2017 by music065

[LannaGuy]

5 hours ago, Nowisee said:

What's more important?

Excellent body and all around great girl with not so pretty face or really cute face and just so so on the body/personality?

 

 

 

great face, great body and cute personality, have fun, then pay them

Edited May 27, 2017 by LannaGuy

[Nowisee]

4 hours ago, LannaGuy said:

great face, great body and cute personality, have fun, then pay them

 

must be just racking up posts to get to 4,000. 

 

555

[Elkski]

2 hours ago, Nowisee said:

 

must be just racking up posts to get to 4,000. 

 

555

Who is trying to rack up?  

There are many divisions of men.   Let's say 6 age groups. 

20-30, 30-40, 40-50, 50-60, 60-70, 70+

 

Then you have those with or without endless cash. 

Those who lived a modest or extravagant lifestyle in home country.

Kids or not.  Etc

Those that want to rent it.

Those that want a permanent thing. 

Try out that  into an algorithm .

 

 

Then add in what tidbits of fun each man prizes most. 

Need IBM Watson to compute this. 

[Thai Ron]

On 5/22/2017 at 8:57 AM, giddyup said:

In the meantime he's had a nubile plaything for his personal pleasure. Does she enjoy his less than youthful coupling? Who cares, least of all him.

If he's a real man, he'll want her to enjoy it. If he doesn't care, fine but if he ever wonders why women don't tend to want sex that often or, worse, dump him quite quickly, he doesn't have to look to far for reasons.

[Thai Ron]

On 5/22/2017 at 7:22 AM, Fulwell53 said:

Gee these thai women must be rubbing their hands together at the glittering male expat prizes that may be heading their way.

Balding, halitosis, overweight, viagra gluttons, who pin more medals on themselves than a tin pot dictator in a banana republic. That he may be impecunious will have them salivating like rabid dogs

Put a few quid in their pocket and lo and behold "brad pitt".

Cute young thing then righly and inevitably gets fed up with her past it  mr blobby and decides to bin him ( deservedly so) and the pushed away penshioner goes bleating how about how unfair and calculating thai women are.

And rinse and repeat.

The last of of the summer whine.

Very well said. 

These men believe they're such fantastic catches, one can only shake one's head with incredulity.

 

What Thai woman is going to tether herself to an indigent, balding old fart with a beer belly and low hangers for anything but cash? The OP's got no chance. 

 

 

[steven100]

OP ... did you get down soi cowboy like i suggested and hit a bar girl, remember you can spend all day with her.

[Thai Ron]

On 5/22/2017 at 11:53 AM, Gecko123 said:

It sometimes seems that Thailand's expat community's dirty little secret is everyone things they're better than everyone else. Trouble is, we can't all be right, now can we? 

 

Just a word of caution: walking around with your nose up in the air greatly increases your risk of falling into an open man hole cover, which Thailand has plenty of, both literally and figuratively. More often than not, Thailand has a way of cutting down to size those who think they are masters of the universe or have it all figured out.

 

Anybody who has managed to successfully navigate the hidden reefs and sandbars which come with dating and starting a family in Thailand probably owes more to luck than they otherwise might care to admit. Plenty of guys who did their homework, became proficient in the language, thought they were chosing wisely and shrewdly, and brought a lot more to the relationship than a dowager's pension and a pot belly have ended up disappointed. I'd further submit that anybody who thinks there aren't huge cultural differences here which present particular challenges has their head in the clouds.

 

I would like to commend the OP again for bringing up for discussion and increasing awareness of but one of the many dating challenges foreign men encounter over here.

You're right but with so many of these guys actively pursuing generation gap relationships with Thai women, the instances of bitter disappointment are bound to be higher.

 

Silly old men in denial of their true value on the dating marker tend to make foolish decisions with younger women who are very good at disguising their disgust between the sheets. 

 

Opting for women closer to their own age makes much more sense but they can't seem to get over the objections of their penises to older women.

[giddyup]

  You're right but with so many of these guys actively pursuing generation gap relationships with Thai women, the instances of bitter disappointment are bound to be higher.

 

How many exactly, and where do you get your information? Or are you just repeating parrot fashion what someone else has said? I notice young(er) guys love to repeat over and over the mantra of silly old men, when in fact most of us have had a lifetime to learn not to repeat our mistakes. Try not to generalise about old guys, we're not all feeble minded fools as you'd like to portray, and if we want to relive our glory days for the price of a few bucks, don't imagine that we are all naive enough to think that we are buying love.