I can forgive anyone a crazy wife, everyone makes mistakes.
But three 'crazy wives' starts to sound like a problem with the guy that chose them.
Better to try and fix yourself than to blame everyone else for your ongoing problems.
Open a Revolut bank account.
They have virtual and real debit cards.
Pal of mine just opened one using a UK address he lived at more than 30 years past.
In the UK many insurance companies are stopping offering insurance for Electric cars.
The few still offering want 400gbp/month to insure a Tesla 3.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/money/bills/insurance/john-lewis-stops-insuring-electric-cars/
In response second hand prices have dropped by 30% in the last 6 months.
That's pretty much the end of electric cars for private sales in the UK.
https://cardealermagazine.co.uk/publish/used-electric-car-prices-still-falling-fast-as-buyers-continue-to-shun-evs/284735
I suspect your former wives (all 3) also despise you.
going a bit off topic now,
Was out with a pal having an Indian meal Friday night.
Brit guy with his Thai wife (plenty of tats) sitting next to us.
She was looking at him as if he was dog poo she had just stepped in.
My pal and I concluded most wives seem to look at their husbands as if they were dog poo. And the strange thing is the husbands never seem to notice these looks.
It's not just a feature of Thai wives either.
I've been to England, Scotland, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Switzerland, Israel, Malta, Tunisia, Egypt, Jordan, Thailand, Cambodia, Laos, China, Philippines, Vietnam, Malaysia, Canada, USA ..... How about you?
I'm sure you know more about American prostitutes than myself, but I'm not surprised that western hookers will do anything with anyone for money.
Me, i'm sticking with ASEAN women.
As an old person (67),
Just cycled 25Km with a pal this morning, I've not much energy left for the rest of the day except sitting on the sofa, posting, listening, watching TV/music/books.
Yesterday, was out to dinner at 7pm (Indian) and drinks in bars, rest of the day sofa.
Remember my dad in his 60s with heart problems, mostly sitting all day, every day, he couldn't even mow the lawn.
Passing the day is what elderly retired people do IMHO, not much energy for anything else.
In Thailand 10kbht ($300) gets me a new detached 3 bed house with walled security.
In the UK, 1kgbp ($1200) might get me something similar without the security.
No other savings required.
BKB cards are processed through TPN (Thai Payment Network), not Mastercard/VISA, and TPN is always a bit iffy for payments outside Asia.
https://www.finextra.com/pressarticle/63290/thai-payment-network-goes-live
"In 2012, the central bank of Thailand stipulated that all local interbank transactions made with local debit cards must be processed locally. Thereafter, the joint venture called TPN was founded in September 2014. Thailand has also planned to create an independent debit card brand TPN and issue UnionPay TPN cards, which will be conveniently used at the global UnionPay network."
Same for my new TTB card last week, took ages to find the 'allow international purchases' on my phone app.
But the good news is Skype reduced my 3 month fee from $22.50 to $18.50 thinking I no longer wanted the service to tempt me back.