Only ever smoked a joint once in my life, in the UK, in my late teens. Pleasant, but nothing special. As far as my little spaced out world is concerned it is, indeed, little these days. I live quietly with my Thai wife. She is 70, I am 83. We were married in 1990 in Taiwan. We travelled the world together on both business and pleasure, so it was not so little in those days.
BTW, from an old timer, best you calm down, and watch your language.