Same for me, wired or wireless buds both. The slot in my ear is wider than most people's I found years ago.
I just buy wired headsets with ear clips at 7 and replace them every two years. I only use them for infrequent telephone calls, so no real problem.
Anything with batteries, i.e. almost everything these days, is eventually an expensive headache.
Don't even get me started on electric vehicles. At my age I hope to never buy one.