https://www.immigration.go.th/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/9.FOR-RETIREMENT-PURPOSES-50-YEARS-OLD-NON-O.pdf
Tell them to read immigration laws.
Specifically point 1.2
No wonder some folk complain about immigration offices.
You will not have issue with visa exempt via land border.
You could skip the KL to obtain a visa.
You are allowed 2 visa exempt entries via land/sea per calendar year.
With extensions that's 4 months.
BTW: Vientiane requires appointment.
By exit and reenter just prior to expiry of your visa you will be stamped in for 90 days.
You can apply for 60 day extension to visit wife.
Yes you can obtain a 12 month extension by meeting the financial requirements.
This guy @Pattaya57 recently obtained a non O based on retirement at Sydney Thai embassy.
(I believe)
He could post up to date process time.
Off topic: Might be useful to AU folk. Recently renewed my Oz pp. Embassy recommended allow 6 weeks.
Did it via mail and was 20 day turn around including postage time.
The OP in this thread gave good review for run from Pattaya
https://aseannow.com/topic/1312731-border-run-pattaya-to-cambodia/
Here is thread from run from Bangkok and has couple of links.
https://aseannow.com/topic/1319224-vip-border-run-vans-in-bkk/
If you are referring to rent a ticket you don't cancel it. It's cancelled automatically.
As mentioned in the advice in the OP obtain the flight day prior.
Check out the site.
"onwardticket.com"
The address that you use must be in province of where you do your extension, TM47 reports etc.
The wife needs to be with you for first extension based on retirement having previously been based on marriage.
Subsequent extensions, wife not required.
Assume he would apply for eVisa (tourist)
That might be granted however on arrival in Thailand io should notice his reentry permit.
OP did not indicate his friend had a reentry permit.
No offense...however from your OP to this reply clearly you have very limited knowledge of options.
After all these years in Thailand that's surprising.
Obtaining a 60 day extension to visit wife is legit and well known.
If your agent has not suggested that then change agents
Yes.
The extension is simply a permission of stay with an expiry date.
If you exit Thailand without a reentry permit then the POS is gone.
The friend won't have an issue..
The other alternative is simply to return and enter visa exempt.
Depends on plans ongoing.
If he only left due to divorce he could consider obtaining METV that would provide almost 9 months and provide time to consider future options.
How old is the friend
Assume he exited Thailand without a reentry permit.
In that case his permit ends.
He can return with tourist visa and yes can obtain a 30 day extension.
1900b
Indeed.
We all have our own MO.
I make appointment for first slot after lunch CW.
Do banking and any photocopying prior to that on lower level.
Personally I do it all on day of application however have done it days prior in my initial years at CW.
Let's not go through the 75 immigration offices.
Many threads on this.
Most offices will accept "bank letter" prior to day of application.
The OP mentions CW and that office will certainly accept letter obtained earlier.
https://aseannow.com/topic/1290982-same-day-passbook-update-and-bank-letter-required-for-extension-of-stay-at-bangkok-immigration/
The "bank letter" can be up to 7 days early.
Don't follow why you need to apply for it day prior.
At CW the banks know what you require.
You can make a deposit of say 100b to show activity and the bank prepares letter after the deposit is made.
You would also need to provide photocopies of bank book pages to show monthly deposits for previous 12 months (income method) and previous 2 months showing balance of 800k
Bank letter 100b