Murdered beauty shot dead in Nakorn Pathom was playing the field in Pattaya

[Bluespunk]

7 minutes ago, AGareth2 said:

where you choose to live

is your business

the pscho is Thai

male

and a gangster

he believes

he owns what he has paid for

you can't change his mind set

I'm not trying to change mind sets

 

I'm stating victim blaming is wrong.

[Bluespunk]

2 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

 

Would you not agree that certain "professions" carry certain risks? Surely if you join the police or military you are expected to put yourself in less than ideal situations?

 

 

No idea why that would change my view that victim blaming is wrong.

[hellohello123]

Just now, Bluespunk said:

I'm not trying to change mind sets

 

I'm stating victim blaming is wrong.

I just transferred 10k to some Nigerian prince who has promised me $100m 

 

If I get scammed by this low life scum, I'm the victim. 

 

Are you not going to blame me for the outcome? 

[Bluespunk]

3 minutes ago, hellohello123 said:

 

OK. I can repeat it now since eyou know 8 am. Quoting you

 

Saying the same thing over and over again is not an argument. 

 

Do explain why you think it's wrong 

No.

 

Work it out for yourself.

[Bluespunk]

Just now, hellohello123 said:

I just transferred 10k to some Nigerian prince who has promised me $100m 

 

If I get scammed by this low life scum, I'm the victim. 

 

Are you not going to blame me for the outcome? 

No.

[AGareth2]

2 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

I'm stating victim blaming is wrong.

but you are blaming the victim

[Bluespunk]

5 minutes ago, AGareth2 said:

but you are blaming the victim

No I'm not.

 

The only victim in this murder was a woman who made her own decisions on how to live her life.

 

He couldn't cope with not owning her.

 

He is not a victim because he didn't like her life choices.

 

He should and could have walked away.

 

He is nothing but scum.

[AGareth2]

2 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

The only victim in this murder was a woman who made her own decisions on how to live her life.

in life choices have consequences

[BritManToo]

18 minutes ago, hellohello123 said:

Saying the same thing over and over again is not an argument. 

Yes it is!

[AGareth2]

Just now, BritManToo said:

Yes it is!

no it's not

love panto

[sanemax]

48 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

I'm not trying to change mind sets

 

I'm stating victim blaming is wrong.

I do agree that blaming the victim is wrong , but if she didnt cheat on him, he would not have killed her

[hellohello123]

53 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

No.

 

Work it out for yourself.

Oh ok. So you can't justify it. Or have no valid reason. 

 

Got it

 

Easy to weed out the people with big opinions but no evidence or justification 

[Bluespunk]

39 minutes ago, AGareth2 said:

in life choices have consequences

Being murdered by a fragile ego male isn’t anyone’s fault but the scum who carried out the attack. 

 

The victim is not to blame. 

[hellohello123]

Just now, Bluespunk said:

Being murdered by a fragile ego male isn’t anyone’s fault but the scum who carried out the attack. 

 

The victim is not to blame. 

Oh so if I was a woman and put a photo of the guys tiny penis on the internet an d his workplace and I got stabbed by him. 

 

It's not my fault. 

 

 

Cmon,  my friend 

 

Do you know how ridiculous you sound 

 

 

[Bluespunk]

8 minutes ago, sanemax said:

I do agree that blaming the victim is wrong , but if she didnt cheat on him, he would not have killed her

She didn’t cheat on him. 

 

She didn't belong to him. 

[Bluespunk]

2 minutes ago, hellohello123 said:

Oh ok. So you can't justify it. Or have no valid reason. 

 

Got it

 

Easy to weed out the people with big opinions but no evidence or justification 

Work it out for yourself. 

[Bluespunk]

2 minutes ago, hellohello123 said:

Oh so if I was a woman and put a photo of the guys tiny penis on the internet an d his workplace and I got stabbed by him. 

 

It's not my fault. 

 

 

Cmon,  my friend 

 

Do you know how ridiculous you sound 

 

 

The victim is not to blame. 

[sanemax]

2 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

She didn’t cheat on him. 

She didn't belong to him. 

No one has suggested that she belonged to him , although she did cheat on him , that is why he killed her

[AboutThaim]

6 hours ago, Bluespunk said:

It is always wrong to blame the victim.

I'm blaming the victim!  That's the one who was the victim of fraud, lies, deceit, probably a victim of poor parenting and the education system as well.  No doubt he is to blame for murdering the young lady and with any justice he will pay dearly.

As for the young lady she is only to blame for the choices she made which contributed to her early demise.

[sanemax]

6 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

The victim is not to blame. 

I am not blaming the victim, but if she hadnt cheated on him, he wouldnt have killed her

[Bluespunk]

3 minutes ago, sanemax said:

No one has suggested that she belonged to him , although she did cheat on him , that is why he killed her

Nothing she did was his to decide. 

 

He didn’t like her choices?

 

Then he should have walked away. 

[Bluespunk]

3 minutes ago, AboutThaim said:

I'm blaming the victim!  That's the one who was the victim of fraud, lies, deceit, probably a victim of poor parenting and the education system as well.  No doubt he is to blame for murdering the young lady and with any justice he will pay dearly.

As for the young lady she is only to blame for the choices she made which contributed to her early demise.

He should have walked if he didn’t like her choices. 

 

That was all he had the right to do. 

[Bluespunk]

1 minute ago, sanemax said:

I am not blaming the victim, but if she hadnt cheated on him, he wouldnt have killed her

That is victim blaming. 

[sanemax]

1 minute ago, Bluespunk said:

Nothing she did was his to decide. 

 

He didn’t like her choices?

 

Then he should have walked away. 

Yes he should have walked away, but he didnt .

She must understand that people do not always do what they should do .

Like cars should stop at red blights, but they dont always do so

[Bluespunk]

4 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Yes he should have walked away, but he didnt .

She must understand that people do not always do what they should do .

Like cars should stop at red blights, but they dont always do so

And when he didn’t he assumed all the blame for what followed 

[sanemax]

4 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

And when he didn’t he assumed all the blame for what followed 

Yes, but if she hadnt cheated on him, he wouldnt have killed her 

[Bluespunk]

1 minute ago, sanemax said:

Yes, but if she hadnt cheated on him, he wouldnt have killed her 

He didn’t have to kill her. He should have walked away. 

 

She didn't cheat on him, he had no rights over her. 

 

The victim is blameless

Edited September 9, 2018 by Bluespunk

[sanemax]

7 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

He didn’t have to kill her. He should have walked away. 

She didn't cheat on him, he had no rights over her. 

The victim is blameless

Yes, he didnt have ti kill her and he should have walked away , but he didnt .

She did cheat on him and that is why he killed her .

 

[mauGR1]

7 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

He didn’t have to kill her. He should have walked away. 

 

She didn't cheat on him, he had no rights over her. 

 

The victim is blameless

Well, apparently she underestimated the danger, in that case she was not blameless 100%

[Bluespunk]

3 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Yes, he didnt have ti kill her and he should have walked away , but he didnt .

She did cheat on him and that is why he killed her .

 

Nothing she did justifies his actions. 

 

She is 100% not to blame.