On ‎9‎/‎27‎/‎2018 at 5:33 PM, ronaldo0 said:

Take everything you can sell and sell it. If you are leaving her a house or whatever then check there are no loans etc she has taken out on it in joint name without you knowing.

Offer a sum of money to separate on good terms and get her to sign a document in a lawyer of your choice saying she will let you look after the kids, see them and that she is not entitled to any more from you financially . If that works then all good and start again , but if not then I suggest giving the kids new phones or ipads and switch the gps location on them to on and download a tracing app like find my ipad etc. That way if she takes the kids and tries to keep them from you then you should be able to find them as the kids will always have the phone or ipad around them .

A lot of posters suggesting to kidnap the kids and prevent the mother having contact. Wake up! The family court may have other ideas, and hubby may end up in jail for kidnapping, really ruining his life.

On 9/27/2018 at 10:49 AM, TPI said:

Go, go quickly with the kids to the furthest place in the kingdom you can afford, get a friend to rent a place using his name and disappear, sell the car (if you can) and buy another one in your name or the name of a friend! Get out of there! Now!

What about when the kids start crying and ask for their mummy ?

They quite probably got cousins and friends at home .

Its OK to suggest running off and going into hiding , but what if the kids want to contact their mum ?

    Easy to do these days with social media .

All they have to do is to make a facebook profile and contact mum that way