Love or no love - it's deportation for you Mr Van Der Linden

[Destiny1990]

Oh wait its an Maroco guy with a Dutch name..

[apetryxx]

7 hours ago, Lucius verus said:

For once I agree with immigration.

No excuses for the clog guy.

Many Europeans think Thailand is an open brothel where any female  or boy is for sale. Its not.

Most Thai  women with a good life & career aren't interested in farangs.

Dutchy should of stuck with the isaan bargirls.

Hey Lucias, many Thai women with “good lives and careers” are interested in nice farangs, my wife of many years is one of them. You make the mistake of lumping everyone in the same basket as this nut job. Grow up.

[from the home of CC]

It would interest me on what he was actually doing that upset other guests? Serenading her naked? lol

[mike787]

7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Should have offered cash!

(or gold, or a house, or a car)

a BIG sinsot would have helped, then keep his arrogant mouth shut....Vanity betrays us all in the end...the ignorance of youth is blinding/misleading.

[BritManToo]

20 minutes ago, apetryxx said:

many Thai women with “good lives and careers” are interested in nice farangs, my wife of many years is one of them.

I'd object to any wife of mine chasing 'nice farangs'.

But hey, live and let live.

[NRGF]

7 hours ago, kotsak said:

He lost his brain or to be more precise, got it sucked out. ????

It's when the little head takes over the big head.

[wvavin]

No money, no honey.

[hkt83100]

The story is rubbish. If he had a tourist visa, it should be good for at least 60 days, not just January 31st to March 1st. That would be an visa exemption stamp. A masterpiece of precise reporting! ????

[welovesundaysatspace]

8 hours ago, Lucius verus said:

Most Thai  women with a good life & career aren't interested in farangs.

That’s nonsense, I think, but how many have you surveyed?

[Winky Wilson]

Oh my, we have one of these characters at our hotel in CM.  Dang narcissists. They are fresh to Thailand and assume pretty Thai ladies are easy with their good looks and charm. Only to find out that nice Thai ladies are not easy and confused of this behavior.

[welovesundaysatspace]

5 minutes ago, Winky Wilson said:

They are fresh to Thailand and assume pretty Thai ladies are easy with their good looks and charm.

Come on, many are. That’s one of the reasons why we love it here; people are much more easy-going and sociable than in boring Farangland. 

[PerkinsCuthbert]

Come come, gentlemen, which of us dogs has not bayed disconsolately at the moon over unrequited love, when of a tender and inexperienced age? Why, some of us have done so in our maturity, nay even our dotage!

[mikecha]

a song Holland  STIJF KOPPEN      MEAN STIFF HEAD STUBORN

 

he sis to but got the bad end of the stick 

like all others here on overstay move please go abide by the rules u are ok  

 

[Nanaplaza666]

He should be thrown out only for hitting up the girl(woman) while she doesn't want to and then starts to get anoying . What i don't understand is that he came on a tourist visa the 31st of januari and is on overstay i thought a tourist visa was 60 days. Anywho good work to send people like that back home and letting them know not everything is allowed in thailand . I am from holland myself and a lot of people dont know half of how it works her or think everything is possible and being an ass.... gets you everywhere . Well it doesn't send him and everybody like him back and blacklist them for a while .

[Ebumbu]

9 hours ago, Vacuum said:

A bit harsh, getting thrown in jail for a few days overstay.

 

Advice from a nail: If you don't stand out, you won't get hammered. 

[KneeDeep]

4 hours ago, bkkcanuck8 said:

No, not at all... he is being detained while awaiting deportation... pretty standard procedure for someone who did not turn themselves in of their own accord.  It is widely publicized, and he broke the rules and then brought attention on him. 

 

It sounds as though he is a little off, a stalker of sorts... not someone to get involved with... It is good for all those involved that he be deported and blacklisted.

 

It's not widely publicised for people outside Thailand. What are you thinking?

 

I think if it were my first trip to Thailand on a visa exempt entry, I would likely have no idea that I could be put in jail for a few days overstay.

Especially if I was told I would simply have to pay 500 baht per day for a few days overstay.

 

Problem here is that many old men forget how it was to be young.

[newatthis]

9 hours ago, SammyT said:

Came here expecting comments insinuating that all Thai women would fall for any western man for the right amount of money. Like clockwork, they were there. 

 

Perhaps she just didn't like the arrogant <deleted> and no amount of money would convince her to give up her dignity, like most thai women I know?

Yes, yes. Should have gone for the durian girl and collected 10 million baht.

[Aussieroaming]

Silly bugger, time for time out 

[Maestro]

Removed a troll post.

[seahorse]

10 hours ago, KiChakayan said:

No money, no honey...

Newsflash - Women want money *and* looks

[PEE TEE]

Stupid man ..plenty of thai ladys in amsterdam 

[overherebc]

10 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Should have offered cash!

(or gold, or a house, or a car)

Or tried for Durian girl. Just bad timing I suppose.

[overherebc]

1 hour ago, KneeDeep said:

 

It's not widely publicised for people outside Thailand. What are you thinking?

 

I think if it were my first trip to Thailand on a visa exempt entry, I would likely have no idea that I could be put in jail for a few days overstay.

Especially if I was told I would simply have to pay 500 baht per day for a few days overstay.

 

Problem here is that many old men forget how it was to be young.

Wrong way around son. Many old men remember what it was like to be young but now have the experience and knowledge to understand that things change and brash self confidence usually gets you into deep doodoo.

[KneeDeep]

1 hour ago, overherebc said:

Wrong way around son. Many old men remember what it was like to be young but now have the experience and knowledge to understand that things change and brash self confidence usually gets you into deep doodoo.

 

Then that isn't the wrong way around. Hindsight is a wonderful thing but it isn't the reality. 

Easy to sit in your ivoty tower, but when you were young you were doing the same and certainly wouldn't want or expect to be put in a Thai prison for some high jinks. 

[Jim7777]

There are some people in the world who just shouldn’t travel abroad and just stay home.  

[overherebc]

9 minutes ago, KneeDeep said:

 

Then that isn't the wrong way around. Hindsight is a wonderful thing but it isn't the reality. 

Easy to sit in your ivoty tower, but when you were young you were doing the same and certainly wouldn't want or expect to be put in a Thai prison for some high jinks. 

How about I didn't disregard the advice from the older guys who knew what they were talking about.

I grew up when the local cop could find you involved in what you call 'high jinks' and would drag you to your front door and you got a slap on the ear from your dad for getting involved in 'high jinks'

It means you grow up without the belief in self entitlement because you never learned respect for others or their counties rules. eg what's the big problem with overstaying your visa when you're on holiday? Easy answer, it's against the law in the country you're in.

Are you above that because you're young or you think it shouldn't apply to you because it's just 'high jinks'

I can't remember whose quote it was, but, it was on the lines of  when I was 18 I couldn't believe how stupid my father was, a few years later I couldn't believe how sensible he had become. 

Might have been Oscar Wilde, not sure.

Think about it.

 

[KneeDeep]

7 minutes ago, overherebc said:

How about I didn't disregard the advice from the older guys who knew what they were talking about.

I grew up when the local cop could find you involved in what you call 'high jinks' and would drag you to your front door and you got a slap on the ear from your dad for getting involved in 'high jinks'

It means you grow up without the belief in self entitlement because you never learned respect for others or their counties rules. eg what's the big problem with overstaying your visa when you're on holiday? Easy answer, it's against the law in the country you're in.

Are you above that because you're young or you think it shouldn't apply to you because it's just 'high jinks'

I can't remember whose quote it was, but, it was on the lines of  when I was 18 I couldn't believe how stupid my father was, a few years later I couldn't believe how sensible he had become. 

Might have been Oscar Wilde, not sure.

Think about it.

 

 

To be fair, I've never behaved badly abroad.

 

We don't know how he was advised about the overstay. The rest just sounds like high jinks. Being persistent with a girl is not a crime.

[yogavnture]

i bet in cambodia he would have found love

[Jaggg88]

13 hours ago, Power of life yoga said:

Haha,  His first trip to Thailand I'm guessing,  we all remember our first night in Thailand ????

I don't remember much about the first week ????

[bkkcanuck8]

8 hours ago, apetryxx said:

Hey Lucias, many Thai women with “good lives and careers” are interested in nice farangs, my wife of many years is one of them. You make the mistake of lumping everyone in the same basket as this nut job. Grow up.

I understand what you are saying, but then what you said had basically the same conclusion - just generalized to say "are not interested in farangs".   The summary of the two comments is treat Thai women with respect.  They may be interested in a farang (generally speaking), they may not, they might just be interested in one farang, they may not.   With the volume of farangs coming to Thailand with the mind of Thailand being one big brothel for their fun, and all women would love them just because they are a farang... in many circles we won't have the best reputation.   Many probably would not necessarily chose to be the girlfriend of a farang (even an ok one) just because they know there is the stigma of being a bar girl if they are associated with a farang.  There are many a farang that ended up in hospital because they did not show the respect due -- some did not even make it to the hospital.  He is just lucky that she did not have a boyfriend who took things into his own hands.