Tolerance down to 0 versus some sort of sex aliens

[Mike Teavee]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Not that I know of, give us a hint?

Technically/traditionally it's been illegal for a non-married couple to spend the night together in Laos & Vietnam (hotel turned a blind eye when I went with my UK gf but same hotel refused to allow a Vietnamese girl up to my room when I went back a couple of years later) 

 

Technically it's illegal for a Cambodian girl to marry a foreigner over 50... 

 

 

To the OP, how much of an age difference is too much? I know it's depends on the age of the guy (e.g. in anybody's books it would be completely inappropriate for a 25 yr old guy to have a relationship with somebody 10 years younger than them, but not inappropriate at all for a 75 yr old to have a relationship with a 65 yr old)... but in your view, what's the maximum age that would be inappropriate for:-

• 25 yr old guy
• 35 yr old guy
• 45 yr old guy
• 55yr old guy
• 65yr old guy
• 75 yr old guy

 

Also, fwiw at 53 I find 20 yr old girls to be attractive but am not attracted to them, I much prefer > 30 & < 45 as do most of my mates of a similar age so maybe it's something that happens later on in life & one day you'll find yourself being attracted to girls > 20 years younger than you.

 

 

Edited June 6, 2019 by Mike Teavee

[BritManToo]

22 minutes ago, Mike Teavee said:

Technically/traditionally it's been illegal for a non-married couple to spend the night together in Laos & Vietnam

Technically it's illegal for a Cambodian girl to marry a foreigner over 50... 

1) Which isn't the same as not allowing relationships between locals and foreigners.

2) Cambodia changed the rules last year, they can marry who they like again.

 

As for this old Buffalo, as the Thais like to say

"Woowa gair gin yar on"

Edited June 6, 2019 by BritManToo

[Mike Teavee]

Just remembered the "Half age plus seven Rule" that suggests the age of the younger person in the relationship should be no more than 1/2 of the older persons age + 7.

 

at 53 this gives me 33-34 which is about spot for my preferences.

[tingtongtourist]

4 hours ago, Mike Teavee said:

Technically/traditionally it's been illegal for a non-married couple to spend the night together in Laos & Vietnam (hotel turned a blind eye when I went with my UK gf but same hotel refused to allow a Vietnamese girl up to my room when I went back a couple of years later) 

 

Technically it's illegal for a Cambodian girl to marry a foreigner over 50... 

 

 

To the OP, how much of an age difference is too much? I know it's depends on the age of the guy (e.g. in anybody's books it would be completely inappropriate for a 25 yr old guy to have a relationship with somebody 10 years younger than them, but not inappropriate at all for a 75 yr old to have a relationship with a 65 yr old)... but in your view, what's the maximum age that would be inappropriate for:-

• 25 yr old guy
• 35 yr old guy
• 45 yr old guy
• 55yr old guy
• 65yr old guy
• 75 yr old guy

 

Also, fwiw at 53 I find 20 yr old girls to be attractive but am not attracted to them, I much prefer > 30 & < 45 as do most of my mates of a similar age so maybe it's something that happens later on in life & one day you'll find yourself being attracted to girls > 20 years younger than you.

 

 

For the older guy been here a long time you will have heard this many times...

If the guy 70+

 they will paying the same amount for the girl who is 50y.o and who is 30y.o

and of course being the pervert they are, he gonna take the younger.

 

The one that actually is most disgusting IMO is a creepy 70+y.o who want the really young girl but is so arrogant to believe he should not have to pay

[simon43]

Ever thought about what those girls really feel when they have an old sack juggling over them?

 

Then the old guy is doing it all wrong!  At that age, he should be lying flat on his back, watching 2 juggling boobs as the woman does all the hard work ????

 

Jeez, rank amateur.......

[thaiguzzi]

14 hours ago, Phatbeets said:

Not going to happen, I'm in very good shape and I'm not going to get intimidated by a person that is 30 y older than me. Try a bit harder please.

Yeah right.

14 hours ago, Phatbeets said:

When I see them because they arrive where I a hang out

Ok Mr High Ground, you like to hang out in bars where ladies work and expats drink, righto.

14 hours ago, Phatbeets said:

When I see them because they arrive where I a hang out I never shake hands and welcome them with a loud comment. I have seen some feeling awkward enough to disappear somewhere else on the spot. I don't do this when they are in company of such a girl tho, because that would make her even more uncomfortable.

When I cross path with em I keep a pungent eye contact and call them pedo when we are at the same level.

Not the full ticket.

 

14 hours ago, Phatbeets said:

When I cross path with em I keep a pungent eye contact and call them pedo when we are at the same level.

Definitely not the full ticket.

14 hours ago, Phatbeets said:

Or probably they do and a conversation with their daughter goes a bit like this:

"Hey daddy how was your day?"

"Brilliant hunny, was on the bar stool all day until I found a broke and insecure 17 yo issan girl, so I popped 3 viagra and pounded the hell out of her. Later she told me it was sanook ????"

You need to see a doctor.

Seriously, you are not a well man.

[Traubert]

Clearly the OP is deeply unhappy in his own relationship as he sees the high hanging fruit go past on another mans arm. He realises his ship has sailed and he's stuck in a rut whereas the bar guys who are footloose and fancy free can enact his every fantasy in the company of younger, quiescent, bubbly, fun girls. This is why he's driven to rage in the bars to such an extent that his anger bubbles to the surface and he starts hurling insults around.

 

Counselling is urgent at this point, as, if it were me and I was innocently going about my pleasures of an evening and some no mark called me a pedo in public I'd have no hesitation in shoving a Chang bottle through his neck, and no doubt there are people out there with a far less calm disposition than me.

 

However 'in shape' he professes to be.

[Phatbeets]

lol thread delivers.. Managed to get +10 proud pay for sex dudes really mad and probably 2-3 among those are perfectly checking all marks on the actual topic description. 

 

22 hours ago, BritManToo said:

you seem to have slipped the age down a bit.

Nah re-read my two previous posts and then maybe reevaluate. 

 

21 hours ago, mania said:

Have you been peeping long term?

Yearly or twice year trips since 05, all over the country including the province, I guess I have a very solid understanding of how this country is ticking and what are its deplorable downsides. What I portrait itt is just one of them.

 

21 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Headline is misspelled, "White males are taking on a more subservient-submissive role" is what they meant to type.

Really got to luv how pay for BoomBoom guys are defining masculinity on this forum ????, whatever floats your boat and let you sleep at night amigo ????‍♂️

 

20 hours ago, KiChakayan said:

First, I'll give you a piece of advice for which you'll be grateful in 10 or 15 years: no need to pop 3 Viagra, take one 100mg tab and then refill with a 50mg every 2 to 3 hours. No need to buy expensive Viagra the local Sidegra is just as good and comes  4x100mg and 4x50mg packages.

This gets me going whenever I am on a boombooming spree at Nana and go though 2 or 3 nymphets in the same evening. And mind you, I proudly walk them to my soi 2 hotel and chuckle while observing the inevitable heinous looks.

Thanks for validating this post Romeo, enjoy it while it last but please dont crack a vein during your next sad episode or you will be the one to make the headlines here and you surely think differently but I tell you, that would be a pitiful ending.

 

20 hours ago, luckyluke said:

I am afraid you will have problems, one day, calling someone a pedo. 

 

Many farangs go walk/shopping with their daughter. 

lol again what kind of twisted logic is that? You want to be seen as person A so that you're not loosing the face in front of your cherished one but act like a raptor Person B in other situations. Nah if you're faking the funk then get called for it and deal with that any moment. You guys have bigger face losing issues than Thais.

 

18 hours ago, Dumbastheycome said:

Phatbeets....putting aside your judgemental sanctimonious appraisal and opinion....you do not  indicate the age of your wife of 9 years.

I can confirm that  many women in  fact do prefer older men. Perhaps not the hookers per se' but those looking for what they might  consider a better chance of security and stability. A long historical fact.

That is often the basis of relationships where the attraction is also naturally primarily sexually motivated initially.

There  also exists the predator factor but it is a mistake to believe that is exclusive to men.

Additionally consider  cultural/social distinctions of "morals".

Whilst it is obvious your personal views are important to yourself, and therefore you can apply them to yourself, can you  justify questioning or condemning others that do not suit the assumptions of your "observations" if  you are so determined to shun contact and therefore any insight of that which may have a  very legitimate reality?

One year less than me.

Of course historically lots and lots of 18 old women liked to have sexual experiments with mens that were i would say max 45. Nowadays certainly predominantly for the physical/maturity/experience/kick aspect rather than any other reason.

50 I dont think so, 60 yeah also not, +65 gtfo.

In the OP I already said I'm very well aware of how the social mechanism works here. But they are built on what? Money and power, its archaic.
And I also said that IMO western peeps should have a more human/moral behavior instead of misusing the system for their own moral dubious motivation. If you dont agree thats fine. I just hope youre not like that.

 

18 hours ago, Mike Teavee said:

To the OP, how much of an age difference is too much?

I'm not a moral tyrant nor am I mother Theresa and I'm not doing the moral process of the oldest business in the world. prostitution is every where and will always be. Thats fine. But > 30 y difference of age especially with girls that are really young is more than weird. Its creepy. Yes i get that one would still fancy banging a 20 yo girl while being a grandpa but its not appropriate, period. Is that so hard to grasp and debatable?

 

12 hours ago, thaiguzzi said:

Ok Mr High Ground, you like to hang out in bars where ladies work and expats drink, righto.

i really got you on your soft spot uh? 

 

I decided to settle down in a quiet city - Pratchuap - it doesn't have any a nightlife because its an army controlled city.

All the guys I'm referring too either get their girls from tinder or from some nearby karaoke. So they take their trophies in regular bars, where I can be found. Got it?

 

11 hours ago, Traubert said:

Clearly the OP is deeply unhappy in his own relationship as he sees the high hanging fruit go past on another mans arm. He realises his ship has sailed and he's stuck in a rut whereas the bar guys who are footloose and fancy free can enact his every fantasy in the company of younger, quiescent, bubbly, fun girls. This is why he's driven to rage in the bars to such an extent that his anger bubbles to the surface and he starts hurling insults around.

 

Counselling is urgent at this point, as, if it were me and I was innocently going about my pleasures of an evening and some no mark called me a pedo in public I'd have no hesitation in shoving a Chang bottle through his neck, and no doubt there are people out there with a far less calm disposition than me.

 

However 'in shape' he professes to be.

I have read a lot of brain amputated stuff on TV but this... man.. this earns a damn front seat..

Because my marriage didn't went to shit and because I dont pay for hookers my life sucks and I'm a frustrated & depressed dude who fancies exactly your life style?  hey hey pipe down buddy, you're paying to get laid but you puff up like Casanova. Nobody envies that amigo, cause even Quasimodo can have that. You seems to be a bit confused about your life situation.

I said where I stay and when I come to Thailand next time, if you want I can PM so that you can verify if what you pretend to do online, you do it irl.

 

Edited June 6, 2019 by Phatbeets

[luckyluke]

^

Confused, because you are acting like a troll, not sure you are one. 

 

Vainglorious & disdainful for sure. 

 

In my opinion of course, based on your writings. 

 

 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, Phatbeets said:

Really got to luv how pay for BoomBoom guys are defining masculinity on this forum

Banging a lot of fertile women and producing many kids fits my definition of masculinity.

Maybe not as violent as the Roman legionaries or the Vikings, but along those lines.

 

How do you define masculinity?

Edited June 7, 2019 by BritManToo

[KiChakayan]

2 hours ago, Phatbeets said:

lol thread delivers.. Managed to get +10 proud pay for sex dudes really mad and probably 2-3 among those are perfectly checking all marks on the actual topic description. 

BTW, what was the topic description? "I (my wife) do(es)n't like sexpats"

 

Anyhow I like it, as it gives me an opportunity to rub it in. We baby boomers are so lucky; we pop a blue pill, pay 2000 Bahts and get 45 years younger. And our fat pensions, which your generation pays for, gives us an almost unlimitless enjoyment.

 

[KiChakayan]

20 hours ago, Mike Teavee said:

Just remembered the "Half age plus seven Rule" that suggests the age of the younger person in the relationship should be no more than 1/2 of the older persons age + 7.

 

at 53 this gives me 33-34 which is about spot for my preferences.

In this context I don't like the word "Rule", or even "appropriate". Our days sex between people of the same gender has become appropriate while we would like to set age gap rules for sex between people of opposite genders? Funny isn't it. But, I know, ageism is the only socially acceptable discrimination left....

Anyhow, as far as I am concerned I am happily married with a lovely lady who is 30 years younger than me. When I go off on a naughty trip I like my providers to be in their early twenties...

[Mike Teavee]

22 minutes ago, KiChakayan said:

In this context I don't like the word "Rule", or even "appropriate". Our days sex between people of the same gender has become appropriate while we would like to set age gap rules for sex between people of opposite genders? Funny isn't it. But, I know, ageism is the only socially acceptable discrimination left....

Anyhow, as far as I am concerned I am happily married with a lovely lady who is 30 years younger than me. When I go off on a naughty trip I like my providers to be in their early twenties...

Yeah, I couldn't think of a better word than "Rule" which is why i tried to highlight it with italics (The virtual equivalent of air quotes), maybe guidelines would have been better.

 

To each his own, when I'm off on a naughty trip (very rare nowadays as I spend my spare weekends with my (31 yo) FWB in Bangkok which usually ends up costing more than hiring a service provider)  - I go for the mid 30-mid 40s 

 

Good example is I had a cinema/food/back to mine date with my (36 yo) Filipina FWB in Singapore on Weds, the day/date cost me ~$350 (approx 8,000 THB) - I could have gone to OT & got myself a 20 something Vietnamese spinner for less than that but I know what I like ????  

 

Edit: For the avoidance of doubt, I don't give any of my FWBs money (all 3 work, 3rd being a 42 yo Singaporean) but I do like to take them out for a good time which costs money (e.g. the Cinema seats alone cost s$84 which is approx 2,000 THB  which could get you a nice service provider at least for a short time) 

 

 

Edited June 7, 2019 by Mike Teavee

[thaibeachlovers]

On ‎6‎/‎5‎/‎2019 at 11:15 AM, LennyW said:

I can see the headlines soon......"Uppity gobshite gets the shit kicked out of him for not minding his own business"!

Good post.

 

Sounds like the idiot that complained to me that Pattaya was full of old men having sex with very young children, when he wasn't aware that he was referring to expats that had had children with Thai wives, and it was their children that he was seeing them with.

[Mike Teavee]

On 6/7/2019 at 9:54 AM, Mike Teavee said:

Edit: For the avoidance of doubt, I don't give any of my FWBs money (all 3 work, 3rd being a 42 yo Singaporean) but I do like to take them out for a good time which costs money (e.g. the Cinema seats alone cost s$84 which is approx 2,000 THB  which could get you a nice service provider at least for a short time) 

 

Funny enough posting this has made me think a lot deeper about what I'm doing in life & have decided (have already) binned off Thai (31) & Filipina (36) chicks to focus on a relationship with my 42 yo Singaporean (FWIW I would never date a Singaporean again, but she's Chinese, moved to Singapore when she was 18 & took citizenship so figure I get the best of both worlds :))

 

[giddyup]

3 hours ago, Mike Teavee said:

 

Funny enough posting this has made me think a lot deeper about what I'm doing in life & have decided (have already) binned off Thai (31) & Filipina (36) chicks to focus on a relationship with my 42 yo Singaporean (FWIW I would never date a Singaporean again, but she's Chinese, moved to Singapore when she was 18 & took citizenship so figure I get the best of both worlds :))

 

Aren't the majority of Singaporeans of Chinese extraction?

[thaibeachlovers]

15 hours ago, giddyup said:

Aren't the majority of Singaporeans of Chinese extraction?

Probably, but Malays and Indians also make up a large proportion of Singaporeans.

However, I doubt that being of Chinese descent makes Singaporean women culturally similar to actual Chinese in China.

[NCC1701A]

I am sex alien.

[CharlieH]

Derogatory remark removed.

[Mike Teavee]

3 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Probably, but Malays and Indians also make up a large proportion of Singaporeans.

However, I doubt that being of Chinese descent makes Singaporean women culturally similar to actual Chinese in China.

So true... Singaporean (Nightmare, spoilt brats) women are nothing like (respectful, but you wouldn't want to cross them) Chinese women.

 

Mine is Chinese by virtue of the fact that she was born there & lived there until she moved to Singapore when she was 18 - Married a local guy & took the passport (In Singapore you cannot have dual citizenship)

 

Good example of how "Chinese" she is, she still has her ex in-laws living with her (Filial duty), gets a little bit uncomfortable when I stay over but her ex father in law has learnt to make himself scarce when I come over (Not being funny but his style of speaking to women, including his wife, doesn't sit right with me - When he talks to A like that, I tend to speak my mind).

 

Edited June 9, 2019 by Mike Teavee

[Dexlowe]

On June 7, 2019 at 12:36 PM, thaibeachlovers said:

and it was their children that he was seeing them with.

If I walk into the heroic OP's bar in Prachuap with my adult half-Thai daughter, and OP feels inclined to treat me like a dirty old man, I won't slap him around his smart-ass chops - my daughter will. The OP is one god-awful human being. Prachuap sounds the right place for him.

[bkk6060]

In my 60's nothing better then sex with a 19 year old with braces!

[Phatbeets]

On 6/7/2019 at 3:18 AM, KiChakayan said:

BTW, what was the topic description? "I (my wife) do(es)n't like sexpats"

No, Thais don't care about this. IF you observe the basic mores and manage to fly under the radar. you can do absolutely what you want in this country and nobody will ask you a question - even if you're a complete dirt bag.

 

On 6/7/2019 at 7:36 AM, thaibeachlovers said:

Sounds like the idiot that complained to me that Pattaya was full of old men having sex with very young children, when he wasn't aware that he was referring to expats that had had children with Thai wives, and it was their children that he was seeing them with.

Which applies to probably less than 1% of the Pattaya sexpat community? Sorry but you're grasping at straws.

 

Really, what I wonder is why is a guy like you offended by this post if you're not like this and IF you are at least stop being hypocrite and be super proud about it like KiChakayan or bkk6060 are. Makes things easier.

 

5 hours ago, Dexlowe said:

If I walk into the heroic OP's bar in Prachuap with my adult half-Thai daughter, and OP feels inclined to treat me like a dirty old man, I won't slap him around his smart-ass chops - my daughter will. The OP is one god-awful human being. Prachuap sounds the right place for him.

You go in bar hopping with your daughter? ????

[Dexlowe]

16 hours ago, Phatbeets said:

You go in bar hopping with your daughter? ????

You're getting desperate. Sad fella.

[Salerno]

5 hours ago, Dexlowe said:

You're getting desperate. Sad fella.

Trolls aint what they used to be.

[RJRS1301]

I am wondering how the OP became the morality police?

Is he on a bent of recruitment to an evangelical church of the happy clappers????

You may not approve of prostitution, but many of the women have no other skills to earn an income and support families back in the villages, let alone the poor sick buffalo .

Is the OP going to upskill these women and support them until they can support themselves??

Methinks not

 

 

[luckyluke]

33 minutes ago, Salerno said:

Trolls aint what they used to be.

Still not convinced he is a troll. 

Maybe a member of one or another puritanical cult. 

 

[marko kok prong]

When i read the topic headline i thought the op had some Grudge about Tom Paris and B'elanna Torres in Star Trek voyager.

[Phatbeets]

 

You dare to say anything regarding prostitution on this forum and the thirsty TV mob will be reacting like this

 

 

Pure comedy ????

[luckyluke]

1 hour ago, Phatbeets said:

You dare to say anything regarding prostitution on this forum and the thirsty TV mob will be reacting like this

Always interesting to read an opinion.