Thai girl trying to charge me a baby (I think)

[AdolfoSa]

One year ago in a transit layover in BKK I had sex with a girl I met in Tinder, now I'm afraid she's waiting to scam me with a baby. After some drinks we went to my hotel, condom broke, I paid her for the "anti baby pill" and flew home; in the next days we talked and she said everything was OK about the pill etc.

We talked sometimes in this year. Today I told her I'm going to visit BKK again and she started to ask suspicious questions: "when did we stay together? Did we went to your room?"

She blocked me and I don't have the messages we sent together after that night.

Now I'm very worried about the possibility of she's trying to scam me, or worse, that she lied and didn't take the day-after pill but pocketed the money and pray instead and get pregnant and now want to push me in legal troubles, pay a pension, etc.

All I know about she is that she is from the south, near Malaysia, she stayed in BKK last year for some months and returned to her poor family and village some months ago.

Should I be worried for a real, actual possibility of being ripped off? Or to be in troubles with police and court when I arrive in BKK next week? I mean, could her claim me a pension based in the night we stayed together, even if I paid for her pill and she assured me that she ate it?

Edited October 28, 2019 by AdolfoSa

[CharlieH]

where are you from ?

[White Christmas13]

I love reading newbies first posts they are so educational

[BestB]

How do you know she returned home to her POOR family?

[BritManToo]

8 minutes ago, AdolfoSa said:

that she lied and didn't take the day-after pill but pocketed the money

What, all 40bht of it?

[steven100]

you played up …. she got pregnant ….. your the father ….. and now you don't wanna own up.

[BestB]

11 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

What, all 40bht of it?

He can use that as an excuse when cops take him. But i gave her 100 baht for the pill after banging all night.

[AdolfoSa]

She told me that. I give her the money and then she told me she took the pill and all ok.
I'm from Spain

[richard_smith237]

How do you know she's a she? you seem gullible enough to believe even the stuff you haven't been told !!!

 

 

[marqus12]

One sentence solves many problems related to Thailand .
Just fly to Vietnam 555

[kingofthemountain]

50 minutes ago, AdolfoSa said:

She blocked me and I don't have the messages we sent together after that night.

Now I'm very worried about the possibility of she's trying to scam me, or worse,

Just block her, stop to talk to her by any chanel (Facebook, Line, thaifriendly or whatever)

and forget her, Enjoy your holidays and next time be sure you have a box with at least

2 condom. so if one broke you have one other to avoid the problems

(Sexual diseases, girl pregnant and so on), Also avoid to drink drunk too much

it's important to know what you do in Thailand, where every mistake can degenerate

so fast in a big problem for a foreigner.

Good luck

[Just Weird]

1 hour ago, AdolfoSa said:

I paid her for the "anti baby pill" and flew home; in the next days we talked and she said everything was OK about the pill etc.

We talked sometimes in this year. Today I told her I'm going to visit BKK again and she started to ask suspicious questions: "when did we stay together? Did we went to your room?"

She blocked me and I don't have the messages we sent together after that night.

You're saying that in the conversations that this girl and you had over the past year she never mentioned "the baby" except to tell you all was ok and it was never mentioned again.  Now when you tell her that you're thinking of coming back she blocks you.  How is any of that suggestive of baby blackmail?  Much more likely, as she's blocked you, is that she just doesn't want contact with you.  If she was blackmailing you she'd want to remain in contact, obviously.

[AdolfoSa]

10 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

Just block her, stop to talk to her by any chanel (Facebook, Line, thaifriendly or whatever)

and forget her, Enjoy your holidays and next time be sure you have a box with at least

2 condom. so if one broke you have one other to avoid the problems

(Sexual diseases, girl pregnant and so on), Also avoid to drink drunk too much

it's important to know what you do in Thailand, where every mistake can degenerate

so fast in a big problem for a foreigner.

Good luck

I had many condons but It broked when I cum... She told me that she went to take the pill.

[richard_smith237]

A modern equivalent of 'Schrodingers Cat'.... 

 

'AdolfoSa's Child' 

 

AdolfaSa is both a father and not a father, his Child both exists and doesn't exist at the same time... a state of quantum superposition...   or for AldolfaSa a state of baseless paranoia !!!

[shy coconut]

From what I could gather from your OP, she couldn't remember whether you

pent the night together, or whether the 2 of you got it on.

 

Has she even mentioned having a child? Or is this all your imagination?

[AdolfoSa]

4 minutes ago, shy coconut said:

From what I could gather from your OP, she couldn't remember whether you

pent the night together, or whether the 2 of you got it on.

 

Has she even mentioned having a child? Or is this all your imagination?

She asked me that and I delete some messages from the conversation un the past and she blocked me without day anything

[DrKSS]

You never trust women man. They don't produce value in mens lives.

They only create drama and unwanted children. You should see the Mgtow youtube channels.

[emptypockets]

4 minutes ago, AdolfoSa said:

She asked me that and I delete some messages from the conversation un the past and she blocked me without day anything

So why are you concerned? Forget it and move on.

 

If the condom broke when you cum you need to seriously consider a military version of the normal condom. That weapon shouldn't be in the hands of an amateur. 

[DrKSS]

Hahaha Military Grade Condoms.

Edited October 28, 2019 by DrKSS

[tabarin]

A pill is not a guarantee for her not to got pregnant, as well she might have taken it too late.

Your situation is pretty easy, just ask her straight forward or block her / forget about it.
Don't worry about police etc / nobody gonna get your pension too + grow some balls.

Edited October 28, 2019 by tabarin

[DrKSS]

Next time just make her the proud mother of a 9 pound tonsile and you don't have to pay child support.

[RubbaJohnny]

41 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

A modern equivalent of 'Schrodingers Cat'.... 

 

'AdolfoSa's Child' 

 

AdolfaSa is both a father and not a father, his Child both exists and doesn't exist at the same time... a state of quantum superposition...   or for AldolfaSa a state of baseless paranoia !!!

Schrodingersbrat Sindrome, coming and going the uncertainty of international intercourse when the flux off

[DrKSS]

Interesting concept. Sounds like the way the American government works.

[Justgrazing]

2 hours ago, AdolfoSa said:

After some drinks we went to my hotel, condom broke,

Could've been worse Dude .. At least you haven't had to attend a Subscriber Trunk Dialling clinic .. 

[Puchaiyank]

Thanks for the bit of unintentional humor this morning...

 

You must be quite the man...breaking your condom during sex...????

[faraday]

5 hours ago, AdolfoSa said:

I had many condons but It broked when I cum... She told me that she went to take the pill.

You had more than one condom on???

 

[sirineou]

You know there are ways to find out if it is your child ,Right?

If it is not yours ,and you want, walk away.

If it is, do the right thing, otherwise how can you live with yourself for the rest of your life knowing that you abandoned YOUR  child? I capitalised 'YOUR" or does 'your" mean nothing to you? 

if you abandon your own child  IMO you are nothing but Ki Not.

[PatOngo]

Have you given any thought as to what you might name the baby?

[ChipButty]

44 minutes ago, faraday said:

You had more than one condom on???

 

Them were the days when you had to double up with the condoms and get the KY out 555

[Crossy]

8 minutes ago, ChipButty said:

Them were the days when you had to double up with the condoms and get the KY out 555

 

Double paper bags too, one for her and one for you in case hers came off.

 

I really think our OP is overthinking the whole thing, particularly as the lady in question has blocked him. Block her back, phone number on ignore, get on with life.