Help finding a normal girlfriend in Bangkok

[BritManToo]

18 hours ago, CNXexpat said:

What do you do in your country to find a girlfriend? Same same in Thailand. 

Always met my UK gfs/wife in bars.

Same in Thailand is good enough for me.

Edited November 12, 2019 by BritManToo

[SheungWan]

Guys who make a point of saying they are looking for 'normal' girls are rarely a good catch for any girl in that supposed category.

[fhickson]

???

 

girls pretty much everywhere in bkk chatting on line app with phones open. ask for line contact and meet later after chatting several days, sending pics etc.

 

if your too shy to approach at all try thai friendly, plenty of normal girls there looking, may want to ask if they are freelance at some point to save time.

 

most normal girls wont take offense at the question as they would in the usa for example, if its asked online and will respond yes or no.

 

if you cant do either of those the thread is either a wind up, your gay, or you need to utilize the services of prostitutes to take the edge off or just as a lifestyle choice.

 

if all else fails nature in her mercy has a built in failsafe to relieve the pressure...for more info on this read "boys and sex". it explains these feelings and urges in more detail.

 

Edited November 12, 2019 by fhickson

[ivor bigun]

On 11/11/2019 at 3:54 PM, ThaidDown said:

Why would a 'normal' girl want anything to do with a man who has probably been bedding everything in sight ?

 Hardly 'relationship' material.

 

 

 

I lived in London in the 60s and 70s went around with a lot of ,people in the music and acting scene ,believe me i bedded everything (female) that i could lay my hands on ,and have at other times ,but and its a big but i have never cheated on wives or girlfriends (well maybe one or two in my younger years . Does my wife know? why would i tell her about things like that ,that were done before we met ,?

[fhickson]

31 minutes ago, ivor bigun said:

I lived in London in the 60s and 70s went around with a lot of ,people in the music and acting scene ,believe me i bedded everything (female) that i could lay my hands on ,and have at other times ,but and its a big but i have never cheated on wives or girlfriends (well maybe one or two in my younger years . Does my wife know? why would i tell her about things like that ,that were done before we met ,?

i dont know or really care, but thanks for sharing.

[olfu]

...normal?---there is no such thing as normal only reasonable.

Your normal will always depends on situation, age, mentality, money, luck etc.

Best idea is to make prenuptual agreement, of course after you try her and ready for marriage.

Remember you maybe banded by your religion like Muslim where 4, yes four, wifes considered normal.  

[BestB]

3 minutes ago, olfu said:

...normal?---there is no such thing as normal only reasonable.

Your normal will always depends on situation, age, mentality, money, luck etc.

Best idea is to make prenuptual agreement, of course after you try her and ready for marriage.

Remember you maybe banded by your religion like Muslim where 4, yes four, wifes considered normal.  

Only if you financially able to support 4 ????

[RedPill]

1 hour ago, fhickson said:

why would i tell her about things like that ,that were done before we met ,?

... and why would you tell strangers on a forum? 5555

 

[geronimo]

Learn the language and away you go!!!!!

[geronimo]

16 hours ago, ivor bigun said:

I lived in London in the 60s and 70s went around with a lot of ,people in the music and acting scene ,believe me i bedded everything (female) that i could lay my hands on ,and have at other times ,but and its a big but i have never cheated on wives or girlfriends (well maybe one or two in my younger years . Does my wife know? why would i tell her about things like that ,that were done before we met ,?

That's what happens when you have a bigun!

[Pravda]

On 11/11/2019 at 4:20 AM, kingofthemountain said:

Some of the''normal'' chicks have more partners than a prostitute.

Anyway a girl is like a sink, if it's well cleaned, it's like if it has never been used

 

I dated a girl from tinder. She was a very smart gal working for one of the biggest international companies. She was very clean and safe but she wasn't too shy admitting that she bangs one guy a week when not in a commuted relationship. 

 

I don't know if it was a cuck talk as she admitted this while I was banging her while on a conference call, but I can honestly say tinder world opened my eyes. 

[Mrfox]

Why do you assume "normal" girls don't sleep around? Look up March break part Miami, teenage girls all engage in orgies, etc. By the time you meet them, they would have slept with some many guys. Don't know what's worst, them sleeping around for fun or Thai girls sleep (some) sleep around to support a family.

[thaibeachlovers]

On 11/11/2019 at 9:25 PM, jak2002003 said:

What the heck is 'normal'?  Everyone is different.... even you may be 'normal' so other people.

 

Suggest you simply get out and about, socialise with people who have similar interests / hobbies / lifestyles to yours, and meet someone like that.  

 

My experience with dating apps is that the people on them get addicted to them, and are always looking for an upgrade or new partner, even if the one they have is perfect.  Meeting people in real life is better, unless you only want a short term thing.

You didn't include speaking conversational Thai. Why would a "normal" Thai girl speak conversational English?

One of the ways of picking a hooker is that they speak perfect English.

BTW, even "normal" women expect a man to be paying, and paying, and paying.

[Tagged]

Just basic information about finding a partner. Not really rocket schience

 

"

For example, human biology dictates that women need help and protection during pregnancy, and that their fertility is time-limited. Therefore, it makes sense that men who can provide protection will be deemed attractive to women, and that young—and hence fertile—women will be attractive to men. Indeed, studies show that when it comes to long-term relationships, women overall emphasize the importance of status parameters while men find female youth highly attractive.

 

On the other hand, "social role theory," developed by the American psychologist Alice Eagly, argues that social—rather than biological—processes dictate our social choices. According to this argument, the mate selection rules are dictated by the roles that women and men occupy in society. Thus, people's preferences in the search for a mate are expected to shift as social roles and norms shift. For example, women are attracted to men with power and money because society limits their own ability to gain power and money. If, tomorrow, most positions of power and money go to women, then a man’s status and wealth will matter much less to women, while male beauty, youth, and stamina may come to matter more."

 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-therapy/201412/laws-attraction-how-do-we-select-life-partner

[tifino]

 

 

My mate set me up on a blind date.

He said " she's a lovely girl, but there's something you should know... 

 - She's expecting a baby."

 

 

 

I felt a right eejit waiting in the pub wearing nothing but a nappy.

 

 

 

[ivor bigun]

On 11/13/2019 at 8:57 AM, geronimo said:

That's what happens when you have a bigun!

actually its not that big , but never had any complaints ,well not in those days anyway????

[ivor bigun]

On 11/14/2019 at 1:49 PM, thaibeachlovers said:

You didn't include speaking conversational Thai. Why would a "normal" Thai girl speak conversational English?

One of the ways of picking a hooker is that they speak perfect English.

BTW, even "normal" women expect a man to be paying, and paying, and paying.

my niece speaks English ,so does my nephew ,also two sisters in law , one brother in law ,my wife ,at least 3 of her female friends , none of them are hookers ,one is in university in America  one is an airline steward oh he speaks Chinese as well (i was surprised as well) ,one of her female friends is a lawyer ,the other a nurse .

you cant make generalisations ,many people here are well educated ,oh my son speaks perfect English ,he isnt a hooker either????

[thaibeachlovers]

3 hours ago, ivor bigun said:

my niece speaks English ,so does my nephew ,also two sisters in law , one brother in law ,my wife ,at least 3 of her female friends , none of them are hookers ,one is in university in America  one is an airline steward oh he speaks Chinese as well (i was surprised as well) ,one of her female friends is a lawyer ,the other a nurse .

you cant make generalisations ,many people here are well educated ,oh my son speaks perfect English ,he isnt a hooker either????

If I gave the impression that only hookers speak conversational English, apologies.

Of course many non hooker Thais speak English.

I'm only pointing out that one way of determining if a Thai woman is a hooker is that she speaks good English, but it should be coupled with other observations.

Every ladyboy I've ever met in a bar speaks perfect English, but that does not mean that every woman that speaks English is a ladyboy.