Why do thai men let the girlfriends work in bar

[xylophone]

8 hours ago, 473geo said:

I recall seeing on the forum from a survey 70% of Thai women admitted to cheating

Maybe the guys figure might as well make it pay ????

About the same % of farangs here who cheat on their Thai GFs and wives!

[Orton Rd]

Yet another fake first post, but members always seem to fall for it

[fredwiggy]

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I'm not sure why they should be different, but they definitely are.

Used to work near Kings Cross station, walking past was often approached, was never tempted ..... they looked 'diseased'.

Beer bars/gogos in Pattaya, completely different class of girl.

With the same 27 STD'S going around. One in every 4 adult's carries herpes by the way. There isn't "class" involved in prostitution, only disease, abuse, unwanted children, murder, and human trafficking, in which Thailand ranks at the top of the list. There are thousands of jobs available, (before Covid, and they will come back), and no one has to go into prostitution. Greed is the calling card, easy money from men who don't have the necessary skills to get a regular girlfriend or choose to just use for sex those they buy. Family back home with also no class, okay with their daughters making money by selling their bodies while the kids back home are being raised by mostly old, tired and sometimes illiterate grandparents. Prostitution is only done by a very small percentage of the female population here, and if it weren't for the men ,noted before, paying, they would have to get legitimate jobs.

Edited June 10, 2020 by fredwiggy

[brewsterbudgen]

5 hours ago, ThailandRyan said:

Thats the age old question that can only be answered succinctly with another question.

 

How many men in the west get married to there Western Prostitute vs. How many western men marry their Thai working bar girl?

 

But this thread is about why Thai men let their girlfriend/wife work as a prostitute.  Prostitutes in the UK usually have a boyfriend/pimp; just like prostitutes in Thailand usually have a Thai boyfriend/tom.

 

Thailand is certainly unique in having prostitutes marrying their customers; this doesn't oftn happen in the west, but that wasn't the question the OP asked.

[brewsterbudgen]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I'm not sure why they should be different, but they definitely are.

Used to work near Kings Cross station, walking past was often approached, was never tempted ..... they looked 'diseased'.

Beer bars/gogos in Pattaya, completely different class of girl.

You need to try a different class of UK prostitute - there are thousands of "models" and escorts available online, and girls in massage places, plus the tarts that hang out in the "high-class" hotels and bars.  The diseased streetwalkers are only for the desperate or cheap.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

With the same 27 STD'S going around. One in every 4 adult's carries herpes by the way. There isn't "class" involved in prostitution, only disease, abuse, unwanted children, murder, and human trafficking, in which Thailand ranks at the top of the list. There are thousands of jobs available, (before Covid, and they will come back), and no one has to go into prostitution. Greed is the calling card, easy money from men who don't have the necessary skills to get a regular girlfriend or choose to just use for sex those they buy. Family back home with also no class, okay with their daughters making money by selling their bodies while the kids back home are being raised by mostly old, tired and sometimes illiterate grandparents. Prostitution is only done by a very small percentage of the female population here, and if it weren't for the men ,noted before, paying, they would have to get legitimate jobs.

Someone that moved to a 3rd world country to find a much younger wife because nobody in their home country would look at them ...... talking about 'abuse' and 'trafficking' ..... gotta laugh.

[scubascuba3]

I can understand it, i was seeing a gogo girl for a couple of months, I didn't want to pay her, she never asked for it so of course she had to continue to work the gogo for money as I wasn't her job. I accepted she would be with other guys, no problem to me in fact i had to keep reminding her to go to work. Different thinking to farangland

[SteadyEddie]

26 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

But this thread is about why Thai men let their girlfriend/wife work as a prostitute.  Prostitutes in the UK usually have a boyfriend/pimp; just like prostitutes in Thailand usually have a Thai boyfriend/tom.

 

Thailand is certainly unique in having prostitutes marrying their customers; this doesn't oftn happen in the west, but that wasn't the question the OP asked.

What if the girl has a thai bf and a white knight comes along, would she leave the thai guy for him???

[Davo369]

4 minutes ago, SteadyEddie said:

What if the girl has a thai bf and a white knight comes along, would she leave the thai guy for him???

Yep.....

[fredwiggy]

14 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Someone that moved to a 3rd world country to find a much younger wife because nobody in their home country would look at them ...... talking about 'abuse' and 'trafficking' ..... gotta laugh.

I've been married twice before, and had many many girlfriends, and all were very pretty. I body builded from age 17 to now, and have never had any problem attracting women, and unlike yourself, haven't bought any. My wife here is beautiful. I talk about abuse and trafficking because its a despicable thing, and should be severely punished. Alas, a lot of officials are paid to look the other way here. You can laugh while you're paying for services rendered.

[BritManToo]

11 minutes ago, SteadyEddie said:

What if the girl has a thai bf and a white knight comes along, would she leave the thai guy for him???

She'll marry the white knight and continue to bang the Thai guy on the sly.

(is the correct answer)

[Kadilo]

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

 I body builded from age 17 to now, 

Why do you feel the need to put that in 

 

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I've been married twice before, and had many many girlfriends, and all were very pretty. I body builded from age 17 to now, and have never had any problem attracting women, and unlike yourself, haven't bought any. My wife here is beautiful. I talk about abuse and trafficking because its a despicable thing, and should be severely punished. Alas, a lot of officials are paid to look the other way here. You can laugh while you're paying for services rendered.

You’ve been married twice. I am sure you have paid in other ways. 
 

.......and what’s with the constant body building reference. Do you want us to ask to see your pics or something?

[kingofthemountain]

8 hours ago, Tagged said:

I assume you havent seen many homes and their sink? 

 

Edit note: Thai home in a village

I lived 5 years in a small Thai village so i know what you mean

fortunately they usually clean their bodies better than their sinks

[ThailandRyan]

6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

She'll marry the white knight and continue to bang the Thai guy on the sly.

(is the correct answer)

and when she has dried out the money stream the Long Con will have come to fruition when she has it all and he has been left with nothing.....private dancer anyone

[Kadilo]

1 minute ago, ThailandRyan said:

...private dancer anyone

You do know it’s a novel, over 15 years old and yet seems to be worshipped by many as the bible. 

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Kadilo said:

Why do you feel the need to put that in 

 

You’ve been married twice. I am sure you have paid in other ways. 
 

.......and what’s with the constant body building reference. Do you want us to ask to see your pics or something?

Taking care of oneself leads to attraction to the opposite sex. Yes, I've paid in ways for two unsuccessful marriages, as did my children.

[Pilotman]

money 

[ThailandRyan]

2 minutes ago, Kadilo said:

You do know it’s a novel, over 15 years old and yet seems to be worshipped by many as the bible. 

Kadlo, its was why the reference was added to my post.  Knowing full well that it has been thrown about as fiction, truth, and the bible for some, but all in all a good read.  Know a few Thai ladies who have read it as well and actually use some of the tricks played....

[Kadilo]

1 minute ago, ThailandRyan said:

Kadlo, its was why the reference was added to my post.  Knowing full well that it has been thrown about as fiction, truth, and the bible for some, but all in all a good read.  Know a few Thai ladies who have read it as well and actually use some of the tricks played....

Each to their own. I read it on recommendation from others and thought it was total sh.ite. Could of wrote it myself tbh. 

[kingofthemountain]

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

With the same 27 STD'S going around. One in every 4 adult's carries herpes by the way. There isn't "class" involved in prostitution, only disease, abuse, unwanted children, murder, and human trafficking, in which Thailand ranks at the top of the list. There are thousands of jobs available, (before Covid, and they will come back), and no one has to go into prostitution. Greed is the calling card, easy money from men who don't have the necessary skills to get a regular girlfriend or choose to just use for sex those they buy. Family back home with also no class, okay with their daughters making money by selling their bodies while the kids back home are being raised by mostly old, tired and sometimes illiterate grandparents. Prostitution is only done by a very small percentage of the female population here, and if it weren't for the men ,noted before, paying, they would have to get legitimate jobs.

#facepalm

[fredwiggy]

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

She'll marry the white knight and continue to bang the Thai guy on the sly.

(is the correct answer)

That's what you think when you hang around bar girls. The majority of women everywhere aren't cheaters. What does a Thai women have to gain by cheating on her provider and having sex with a lousy lover that won't do anything for her? Losing her provider, having a confrontation where she could get hurt or killed, and worse here, losing face with everyone else. Bar girls don't care what others think but most women do.

[kingofthemountain]

58 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

But this thread is about why Thai men let their girlfriend/wife work as a prostitute.  Prostitutes in the UK usually have a boyfriend/pimp; just like prostitutes in Thailand usually have a Thai boyfriend/tom.

 

Thailand is certainly unique in having prostitutes marrying their customers; this doesn't oftn happen in the west, but that wasn't the question the OP asked.

The funny thing is most of the Thai prostitute don't consider themselves as a prostitute at all

they ''take care'' customers, they ''go'' with friends, they ''do'' freelance and so on

but i have never heard one of the hundreds of thai prostitutes i have been with say

to me she was a prostitute.

And if you call them by this name they see it as an insult

and it could degenerate in a fight or a big argument

[fredwiggy]

Just now, kingofthemountain said:

The funny thing is most of the Thai prostitute don't consider themselves as a prostitute at all

they ''take care'' customers, they ''go'' with friends, they ''do'' freelance and so on

but i have never heard one of the hundreds of thai prostitutes i have been with say

to me she was a prostitute.

And if you call them by this name they see it as an insult

and it could degenerate in a fight or a big argument

If the shoe fits......

[Kadilo]

9 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Taking care of oneself leads to attraction to the opposite sex. Yes, I've paid in ways for two unsuccessful marriages, as did my children.

On your third marriage yet state that these men you look down your nose at “don’t have the necessary skills to find a regular girlfriend” 

 

I am sure they are quite happy doing what they do without affecting the lives of others. 

 

 

[kingofthemountain]

38 minutes ago, SteadyEddie said:

What if the girl has a thai bf and a white knight comes along, would she leave the thai guy for him???

yes but it depends of a lot of things

the girls are pragmatic and need first to be secured about the future

(And the future of their child and families. still in the village waiting the monthly money)

 

A lot of ''white knights'' do promises for a free ride but in fact most of them disappear quick

so probably the girl would choice to stay ''in touch'' with the two guys and see on the long term

who is the best provider to go with

[kingofthemountain]

17 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

What does a Thai women have to gain by cheating on her provider and having sex with a lousy lover that won't do anything for her?

She can have fun and a good ride, and feel herselve as attractive 

it's very important for a women to know she still have a seduction power.

 

If she feels ''hot'' at a moment and she just want it

logic is not the first thing coming to her mind.

 

It's even worse, sometimes they are excited by the risk taken

it's like a gamble, and most of the Thais are gamblers

[BigStar]

12 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

Perhaps the idea is a completely alien concept to us (westerners) who've grown up with the luxury of education and a welfare service befitting of western morals

Only to our utterly naive, sheltered snowflakes who just never even conceived of the idea that the same thing exists in Western countries. Western morals! Oxymoron.

 

I haven't read the whole thread but that seems to fit all of our supposed "men of the world" posting here. Yep, we gon' pretend that ONLY Thais would do such a thing.

 

Never even knew Linda Lovelace was married. OK, let's get a little education and move on. Nothing really to see here. Just the most famous:

 

10 Famous Pornstars Who Are Married & Leading Normal Lives

 

Tip of the iceberg. Then consider brothels in Western countries. None of all those ladies in Amsterdam are married? None of the call girls in London? LOL. 

 

How we miss the prominent cases that get into the news, I dunno.

 

An Iowa mom, wife and lawyer works as a prostitute in Nevada as a side gig

 

So, go read that and understand her reasons and what her husband thinks about it. One funny thing about this thread, too (that the lawyer brings out) is that few of our male posters here can conceive of the idea that just enjoying sex can be a woman's main motive. It harks back to quaint Victorian notions about women we seem unconsciously to have inherited and echo.

Edited June 10, 2020 by BigStar

[Zikomat]

Because those Thai men don't consider foreigners to be the human beings. Just some weird creatures paying a lot of money for something they themselves get absolutely free. And no reason to be jealous when your GF is spending some time with these walking ATMs. This is the real reason for their tolerance. Surely not because of some buddhist Bs (like they see sex differently than we do). Just read the Thai news : Thai men kill because of jealousy almost every day. But it is only when another Thai (real human being in their eyes) is involved. 

 The question left is: do the Thai girls see the foreigners the same way as the Thai males? 

 

 

Edited June 10, 2020 by Zikomat

[fredwiggy]

46 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

She can have fun and a good ride, and feel herselve as attractive 

it's very important for a women to know she still have a seduction power.

 

If she feels ''hot'' at a moment and she just want it

logic is not the first thing coming to her mind.

 

It's even worse, sometimes they are excited by the risk taken

it's like a gamble, and most of the Thais are gamblers

Like I said, nothing to gain. A woman doesn't need to cheat to feel attractive. If her husband isn't showing her love, you move on. No one wins when people cheat except the men who are having sex. They just go on to another after they're done with the wife.

[fredwiggy]

1 hour ago, Kadilo said:

On your third marriage yet state that these men you look down your nose at “don’t have the necessary skills to find a regular girlfriend” 

 

I am sure they are quite happy doing what they do without affecting the lives of others. 

 

 

I don't look down on anyone except users, cheaters, those who rape the earth for profit, child molesters, animal abusers and crooked people in power. Do you know why women get into prostitution? Yes, it's for money, and a lot of it they don't receive. Some have been raped by fathers or boyfriends. A lot are forced into it by traffickers. Contributing to this is affecting the lives of others. It's illegal for one thing, and I won't repeat the immorality of it. Yes, some women just like sex, and something in their pasts led them to this lifestyle. Boredom from a mental illness maybe. But a lot are forced. There are other jobs.