on this forum it seems to be accepted that the majority of thai men are unfaithful and have women on the side and visit dens of prostitution.

I would like to do the same but I am not sure what the customs are in thai culture?

do i just do it, and not tell her, inwhich case she doesnt mind. in other words, is it something that goes on beneath the surface?

do i have a responsibility to let her know that i am ready to start setting up mia nois and do i have to run the financial figures by her since thai women control the expenses?

how many mia nois is one allowed to have and what are the rules? how many times a month can i see them?

thanks and please dont delete this as i know its a sensitive subject. give it 24 hours atleast to see what responses come as i am confused on how to act.

Assuming this is not a troll then can I suggest if you mention it to your current wife you wear head protection and full kevlar body armour !

FOR EVER !!

on this forum it seems to be accepted that the majority of thai men are unfaithful and have women on the side and visit dens of prostitution.

I would like to do the same but I am not sure what the customs are in thai culture?

do i just do it, and not tell her, inwhich case she doesnt mind. in other words, is it something that goes on beneath the surface?

do i have a responsibility to let her know that i am ready to start setting up mia nois and do i have to run the financial figures by her since thai women control the expenses?

how many mia nois is one allowed to have and what are the rules? how many times a month can i see them?

thanks and please dont delete this as i know its a sensitive subject. give it 24 hours atleast to see what responses come as i am confused on how to act.

I don't think you should discus it with your wife.

You may wake up with something missing from your tackle box!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OUCH

Having had a quick look at your previous postings Sunshine, you're not a welder by any chance?

It's got to be a troll.

Sunshine

Have you even got a wife? never mind mia noi

MM

maybe a few "love you long time's"

Feed the ducks mean anything to you?

I think you should discuss your reasons for wanting a mia noi with your wife first.

If you got a valid point she might agree with you after which you can work out a budget for the mia noi.

I think you should discuss your reasons for wanting a mia noi with your wife first.

If you got a valid point she might agree with you after which you can work out a budget for the mia noi.

Over the telephone !!!!

I think you should discuss your reasons for wanting a mia noi with your wife first.

If you got a valid point she might agree with you after which you can work out a budget for the mia noi.

Over the telephone !!!!

Face to face will do I suppose. I discussed the same thing with Mrs Meom and we were able to reach a compromise

Just say, "scuse me luv, you don't mind if a go n bang a pro do ya? Na, cool, Thursdays 7 o'clock okay?" I'm sure she be impressed

on this forum it seems to be accepted that the majority of thai men are unfaithful and have women on the side and visit dens of prostitution.

I would like to do the same but I am not sure what the customs are in thai culture?

do i just do it, and not tell her, inwhich case she doesnt mind. in other words, is it something that goes on beneath the surface?

do i have a responsibility to let her know that i am ready to start setting up mia nois and do i have to run the financial figures by her since thai women control the expenses?

how many mia nois is one allowed to have and what are the rules? how many times a month can i see them?

thanks and please dont delete this as i know its a sensitive subject. give it 24 hours atleast to see what responses come as i am confused on how to act.

The answer is never never bring it up unless she finds out....for most of them will close one eye to your occasional fling with pros as u will still need to come home to her...but mia noy is a bigger issue as you are setting up 2 families and she has to share wat ever u have wif the other lady....think of how would u feel if your wife spend half of her time in your house and the other of her time in another guys home . Just writing how i feel...no offence.....cheers

on this forum it seems to be accepted that the majority of thai men are unfaithful and have women on the side and visit dens of prostitution.

I would like to do the same

I'd suggest learning the culture of the country that your future wife comes from before getting married.

Put you feet on her shoes..You may understand how she feels

Anyway,If i were your wife and I would like to do what you are thinking right now ..

I would think like this

"Oh ..lovely .. this fat farang husband is so boring. I think i 'd go out with younger guy.Who cares my old farang hubby.I know many people in this world cheat on thier partner hence i want to do the same.If i add myself in the list ,who will know that.I just keep my affair as a secret .Let my old fat farang hubby make more $$ ,so i can go out with hot a hot boy."

Should I bring her a gift before talking to her or any customery foods? Is this subject discussed in the recent lonely planet?

long time reader, rare poster, but that is a troll alert there

I have a suspicion that sunshine13's days are numbered, as happens to dedicated trolls.

Sunshine

Have you even got a wife? never mind mia noi

MM

Forget the wife, forget the mia noi. Does he have a LIFE???

I'm truly impressed, Sunshine. I see your threads, &, with a kind of sick fascination, I am compelled to enter; each time thinking that the subject & views expressed couldn't be more offensive, tactless or prone to flights of fancy than the last, and each time you do manage to make them worse. As a troll, you're doing a very effective job. Congratulations!

I'm truly impressed, Sunshine.

Likewise NR, you don't think it can get any worse...... and then it does

I'm truly impressed, Sunshine. I see your threads, &, with a kind of sick fascination, I am compelled to enter; each time thinking that the subject & views expressed couldn't be more offensive, tactless or prone to flights of fancy than the last, and each time you do manage to make them worse. As a troll, you're doing a very effective job. Congratulations!

Well said NR. But given the imaginative subject matter they are good for laugh or too. Just can't take this rubbish to heart though.

Soundman.

PS. the OP (if you actually read follow-ups to your posted matter), what would you do if your wife came to you & asked if she could be a mia noi or gik to another man?? Not impressed - I believe.

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I think he has a troll handbook.

oh come on...... to many sensitive people.

I thought the OP was quite amusing!

on this forum it seems to be accepted that the majority of thai men are unfaithful and have women on the side and visit dens of prostitution.

I would like to do the same but I am not sure what the customs are in thai culture?

do i just do it, and not tell her, inwhich case she doesnt mind. in other words, is it something that goes on beneath the surface?

do i have a responsibility to let her know that i am ready to start setting up mia nois and do i have to run the financial figures by her since thai women control the expenses?

how many mia nois is one allowed to have and what are the rules? how many times a month can i see them?

thanks and please dont delete this as i know its a sensitive subject. give it 24 hours atleast to see what responses come as i am confused on how to act.

You keep your mouth shut and go about your time away from home discreately - and at all costs, make sure none of her buddies find out - they will not keep their mouths shut!

MF

one of the boys at work here said to me a while back 'gin naam prik tuay gao mai arroy', or, 'if you eat naam prik from the same bowl its not delicious any more - boring'.

i suggested he change the recipe every now and then. the naam prik is only as delicious as the ingredients going in to it. worth thinking about fellas.

i also thought that the mia noi 'thing' was a thai concept? maybe some people take only the things that suit them from thai culture and leave the rest behind.

how i would approach the wifey is this: tell her you want to hook up with a hooker every now and then. that you want to give her a certain amount of money and that you will 'keep' her as she wants. then pack your bags and get out. i do not believe many women would put up with this. i, for one, would not want to see your sorry ass again.

You should tell her straight..

"look honey, you are just not floating my boat anymore, therefore I have a couple of other fillies on the go, as such I am having to cut your pocket money..."

Say this by the door..with the car running..

I happen to know sunshine13 and his wife, Rosey Palm. His wife has a bit of a hairy back, no wonder he wants a mia noi.

TROLL.

I think it is a great idea Sunshine. I recommend you proceed as planned immediately!