"Conversations" on Tinder

[richard_smith237]

2 hours ago, 1FinickyOne said:

I would far far far prefer a typical farm girl to any hiso brand wearing stuck up lady... 

 

Would want either !!!... These comments are moronic if these are the only two options available. 

 

 

 

 

[Excel]

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Would want either !!!... These comments are moronic if these are the only two options available. 

 

 

 

 

Well doesn't Tinder have males looking to hook up too if ladies aren't your scene, perhaps some other poster could confirm ?????

[richard_smith237]

26 minutes ago, Excel said:

Well doesn't Tinder have males looking to hook up too if ladies aren't your scene, perhaps some other poster could confirm ?????

 

Don’t get all coy now and pretend you don’t have a grindr profile !!!! ????

[hellohello123]

On 4/18/2021 at 6:19 PM, Airalee said:

Totally understand.  It’s the same on all online dating sites (and with many women that you meet IRL and subsequently add to line).  Your description of it being like an interview are spot on.

 

First, there are the questions that they ask you...

 

1.  “What you do?”   The basic financial qualifier.  Every single one will ask this.

 

2. “How long you live Thailand?”  This one can be tricky and can sometimes be prefaced with “You live Thailand?”.  I find that in general, the longer you have lived here, the more negative their impression will be.  It can either be that you have already had previous Thai girlfriends that will reappear in the future, only to cause problems and bring drama and the potential for you to leave them and go back to the “ex”....or it can also be a case of “Farang roo mak, mai dee”....you know too much and they won’t be able to play their games.

 

3.  “You have Thai gf/wife?”   Here, they want to know if you are either A.  Cheating on someone and they are only a side fling (like a cheater will actually come out and say “yes!  I have a Thai wife/gf).  B.  Might already have children with another Thai woman.  C. Refer to #2 and “Farang roo mak, mai dee”

 

4. “Where you come from?”  Thai women know all about the visa/divorce laws of your country.  It is discussed at length on their forum.  (Ladyinter).  You have to be able to read Thai.

 

4. “Why you live Thailand”.  Being that they have no idea of the concept of affordable healthcare/rents/etc. as they really don’t know what the cost of living is in your country (and aren’t really interested unless it is how much their favorite Thai food costs), they really just want to know....are you here for the women.   This question may or may not be followed up with “You like Thai lady?”

 

Usually, these first 4 questions will be answered with “I see” and little more.  There will not be much in the way of follow up questions.  
 

Even if you have already addressed these topics in your profile, they will still ask them.  You didn’t actually expect them to read your profile did you?  Most likely they didn’t.

 

They will never ask you about your hobbies, interests, hopes and dreams.  They aren’t interested in your plans for the future either....they have their own.

 

Your questions, no matter how benign will be either A.  Completely ignored...like you didn’t even ask it.  or B.  Viewed with some amount of suspicion with a reply such as “Why you want to know?”.  
 

Any answers that they do give will be vague at best, and if you attempt any sort of follow up question in order to have them elaborate on their original answer, it will be ignored or just answered with a smiley or laughing emoji.

 

There is no small talk.  No back and forth where a conversation actually progresses.  Of course, that makes you wonder what they gab about for 5 minutes with whatever Thai person (even complete strangers) whom they may interact with on a daily basis.

 

If you have passed the original interview, on subsequent days, you can expect in depth questions such as “how are you today?” or “have you eaten yet?”.   They might sometimes ask “what did you do/eat today?”  And on occasion, even follow up with “sanook mai?” (Was it fun) or “aroi mai?” (Was it delicious?).

 

If you progress from the online dating platform to Line, you will then get lots of cute “stickers” but usually not much else other than the obligatory “good morning” or, if it’s nighttime... “I home now, take shower and sleep ka”.

 

Enjoy! ???? 

Damn 

 

This is my new bible!

[Excel]

34 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Don’t get all coy now and pretend you don’t have a grindr profile !!!! ????

what on earth is grindr ?

[Ventenio]

1 minute ago, Excel said:

what on earth is grindr ?

i think it's a place for coffee machines....only heard about.

 

try it in the app store.......sign-up, and keep us posted.

 

it might be a place where friction is above something...

 

or a dance place where people are close

 

probably dressed as rainbow unicorns (relax, a joke)

[Excel]

Just now, Ventenio said:

i think it's a place for coffee machines....only heard about.

 

try it in the app store.......sign-up, and keep us posted.

 

it might be a place where friction is above something...

 

or a dance place where people are close

 

probably dressed as rainbow unicorns (relax, a joke)

Well we live and learn although with a name like that it seemed like a store for workshop items.

[OneMoreFarang]

51 minutes ago, Excel said:

Well we live and learn although with a name like that it seemed like a store for workshop items.

Something like this? They call it angle grinder.

It seems there are also straight grinders:

Maybe that the kind of tools they use on that site.

[Excel]

3 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Something like this? They call it angle grinder.

It seems there are also straight grinders:

Maybe that the kind of tools they use on that site.

That's them although I  never thought there were any straight ones ????  But it reminds me of the very first time I went to rent one as a teenager. Didn't know what an angle grinder was called then. So I went to the place that specialised in tool rentals and saw what I was looking for,  and said I want one of those bent ones.  Next thing the assistant shouted out " Lawrence, some one for you" ????????

Edited April 20, 2021 by Excel

[richard_smith237]

14 minutes ago, Excel said:

That's them although I  never thought there were any straight ones ????  But it reminds me of the very first time I went to rent one as a teenager. Didn't know what an angle grinder was called then. So I went to the place that specialised in tool rentals and saw what I was looking for,  and said I want one of those bent ones.  Next thing the assistant shouted out " Lawrence, some one for you" ????????

 

Bingo - we got there in the end !!!!....  (thanks for keeping it funny !)... 

[Elkski]

18 hours ago, Nick in Thailand said:

I'm not sure what you mean. Are you saying that giving or receiving disgusts you? Which one do you prefer then? :s

I'm saying people can do what they want in private but I think talk about gay sex or ladyboys should not be in a public forum.    Never tried it and don't plan to!!.  I accept peoples choice but don't put it in my face or I may revert to a vocal homophobe. 

[Excel]

1 minute ago, Elkski said:

I'm saying people can do what they want in private but I think talk about gay sex or ladyboys should not be in a public forum.    Never tried it and don't plan to!!.  I accept peoples choice but don't put it in my face or I may revert to a vocal homophobe. 

So gay sex and ladyboys are of your list, so can we chat about lesbians and "Toms" then please ? ????????

[bwpage3]

2 minutes ago, Elkski said:

I'm saying people can do what they want in private but I think talk about gay sex or ladyboys should not be in a public forum.    Never tried it and don't plan to!!.  I accept peoples choice but don't put it in my face or I may revert to a vocal homophobe. 

This forum isn't just for you. If you don't like the subject content, skip on by.

 

 

[KC 71]

‘Swiss Toni’ 

 

 

 

[KC 71]

Just now, KC 71 said:

‘Swiss Toni’ 

 

 

 

 

[Elkski]

Sharing caring lezzys are on my bucket list.   Toms, not so much.  But I have seen a tom or two who's woman was so fine.   

I thought this thread was about conversation between a Western man and Thai woman. 

[Excel]

3 minutes ago, Elkski said:

Sharing caring lezzys are on my bucket list.   Toms, not so much.  But I have seen a tom or two who's woman was so fine.   

I thought this thread was about conversation between a Western man and Thai woman. 

Well it still can be and could sound something like this.  "Hello again darling, we have chatted so long now it seems we are already close. Talking of which do you have a lesbian friend with a Tom that we possibly could have a foursome together tonight?"   There , sound ok and within the original intent ? ????

[hellohello123]

On 4/18/2021 at 6:43 PM, BritManToo said:

Quite a lot of females have "No teachers" in their profile.

Seems you're on a bit of a loser.

I have never seen that but interesting to note

[OneMoreFarang]

14 hours ago, Excel said:

So gay sex and ladyboys are of your list, so can we chat about lesbians and "Toms" then please ? ????????

Lesbians are perfectly ok, we can skip the Toms.

 

[Excel]

38 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Lesbians are perfectly ok, we can skip the Toms.

 

A pair of beauties

[hellohello123]

21 hours ago, Excel said:

what on earth is grindr ?

Don't pretend......

[canthai55]

On 4/19/2021 at 4:50 PM, Stevemercer said:

they are a show-off, take joy in the misfortune of others or are deluded.

Been looking thru the Member list again ? 555

[canthai55]

6 hours ago, Excel said:

A pair of beauties

When I first came here I had a Bi GF

Some of the best nites of my life, when she and I would go out cruising after midnight for something that caught her fancy

[canthai55]

On 4/20/2021 at 7:34 PM, Elkski said:

I'm saying people can do what they want in private but I think talk about gay sex or ladyboys should not be in a public forum.    Never tried it and don't plan to!!.  I accept peoples choice but don't put it in my face or I may revert to a vocal homophobe. 

I was once a Man trapped in a Woman's body ...

But then I was Born

[canthai55]

There is a school of thought re: fear and loathing of homosexuals.

The more this causes you upset, the more attractive it is to you.

Your puritanical upbringing, or religious indoctrination, is what causes you to shy away, yet the struggle manifests itself by raging against the 'Machine' so to speak.

I think what consenting adults do in private is no ones business but theirs.

Food for Thought

Edited April 22, 2021 by canthai55