blackshadow Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 what is this supposed to be about ????????????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted June 13, 2022 Author Share Posted June 13, 2022 1 minute ago, blackshadow said: what is this supposed to be about ????????????? Obvious from the title Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post spidermike007 Posted June 13, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 13, 2022 2 hours ago, Genmai said: Guys, can I get some advice? Maybe I'm not bubbly or smiley enough but when I approach somebody they look either startled or annoyed or both (this is in Chiang Mai)... What do you y'all say to them? Serious answers only please The best thing you can do is to get them to laugh or smile, ASAP. Once they start laughing, they realize you are lighthearted, which is important to most Thai women, that you are not a "serious foreigner", and that you are fun to be around. Laughing and smiling is very disarming for a Thai. Never approach a Thai woman with a serious or stern attitude. It just will not work. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RafPinto Posted June 13, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 13, 2022 4 minutes ago, spidermike007 said: The best thing you can do is to get them to laugh or smile, ASAP. Once they start laughing, they realize you are lighthearted, which is important to most Thai women, that you are not a "serious foreigner", and that you are fun to be around. Laughing and smiling is very disarming for a Thai. Never approach a Thai woman with a serious or stern attitude. It just will not work. True I invited a girl to go to the ATM. When she saw my bank balance, she didn't stop laughing. I was close to tears, so low was the balance. Is she now a catch? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony125 Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 3 hours ago, JohnOFphon said: Best if the girl has a room nearby, or there is a hotel somewhere you are willing to pay for. Never take a pick up girl to your condo..I know from experience that they might show up uninvited. Had that happen years ago when I first came here. Picked up a young girl freelancer on Beach Road. Dark skinned Issan girl but beutiful, face body. Didn't even know what to charge , when I asked she said $5. Figuered she was new so I said no and paid her $20. Went with her a few days then waited for a Thai girl from BKK to show up ( my now Thai wife). Was sleeping with her when then around 2 AM my hotel room door opens up. It was the girl. The hotel staff let her in as they had seen me with her before and she asked for me by name. I waved her away as my GF was in bed sleeping with me, she waved goodbye and in all my years visiting I have never seen her again. Guess she was just visiting Pattaya as well. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sparktrader Posted June 13, 2022 Author Popular Post Share Posted June 13, 2022 3 minutes ago, Tony125 said: Had that happen years ago when I first came here. Picked up a young girl freelancer on Beach Road. Dark skinned Issan girl but beutiful, face body. Didn't even know what to charge , when I asked she said $5. Figuered she was new so I said no and paid her $20. Went with her a few days then waited for a Thai girl from BKK to show up ( my now Thai wife). Was sleeping with her when then around 2 AM my hotel room door opens up. It was the girl. The hotel staff let her in as they had seen me with her before and she asked for me by name. I waved her away as my GF was in bed sleeping with me, she waved goodbye and in all my years visiting I have never seen her again. Guess she was just visiting Pattaya as well. Should have had a threesome 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted June 13, 2022 Author Share Posted June 13, 2022 5 minutes ago, Tony125 said: Didn't even know what to charge , when I asked she said $5. Figuered she was new so I said no and paid her $20. She didnt know exchange rate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony125 Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 22 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: She didnt know exchange rate She knew as I told her what the US $5 was in baht , think she maybe had never been with farang before and didn't know what to charge. Don't think she was a regular hooker and definately not a bar girl. Just young girl hanging on the beach with friends. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 1 hour ago, spidermike007 said: I often see some fine Burmese women workers here. Construction, restaurants, etc. Often wondered if they are game. Always assumed not. Anyone have any information to the contrary? Can't talk for their away game but it was full on in Yangon and a lot better in Bago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmd8800 Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 1 hour ago, Genmai said: Thanks, I hadn't actually considered this since it's pretty normal in my home country. Will be more careful about that. Anything else that comes to mind? There was a long thread on Reddit about meeting people in Thailand. The gist of it was that most Thais make their friends in high school, university and or first job and these friendships generally last a lifetime. And they generally don't move to different areas change or jobs so there is little need to make new friends . All throughout that thread were posts from Thai people saying they find it difficult to just strike up conversations with strangers. I have found Chiang Mai cold in this regard. I think the north doesn't care much for outsiders. That includes Thais from other regions not just foreigners. I do think this aspect of Thai culture is changing but not very fast. At the end of the day it all depends on whether what you are looking for matches what they are looking for. Unfortunately, it seems there isn't much of a chance to communicate each others needs and wants unless it involves upfront money. Money is often times the elixir that buys you another few hours or days to explore. Or, you have a hobby of some sort of interest that brings you into contact with Thais. I've lived in Chiang Mai for 7 years and I think about moving to another region every once in a while, mostly for this reason. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveAustin Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 1 hour ago, spidermike007 said: The best thing you can do is to get them to laugh or smile, ASAP. Once they start laughing, they realize you are lighthearted, which is important to most Thai women, that you are not a "serious foreigner", and that you are fun to be around. Laughing and smiling is very disarming for a Thai. Never approach a Thai woman with a serious or stern attitude. It just will not work. Yes, this is a given and meant to include in previous post. Smile a lot, don’t be serious, wear nice shoes, speak Thai. ???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted June 13, 2022 Author Share Posted June 13, 2022 1 hour ago, Tony125 said: She knew as I told her what the US $5 was in baht , think she maybe had never been with farang before and didn't know what to charge. Don't think she was a regular hooker and definately not a bar girl. Just young girl hanging on the beach with friends. What beach? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony125 Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 5 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: What beach? Pattaya, Beach Road Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted June 13, 2022 Author Share Posted June 13, 2022 19 minutes ago, Tony125 said: Pattaya, Beach Road maybe i go back see if she there 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 In those trees and bushes across from Unixx condo Pattaya. Had some good times in there, but most have left now. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony125 Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 56 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: maybe i go back see if she there As I said I have been visiting Thailand and Pattaya Beach for over 20 years and never saw her again. Guess just local girl visiting Pattaya with friends hooking up with the farang for fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted June 13, 2022 Author Share Posted June 13, 2022 2 hours ago, Tony125 said: As I said I have been visiting Thailand and Pattaya Beach for over 20 years and never saw her again. Guess just local girl visiting Pattaya with friends hooking up with the farang for fun. Was joking 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BTB1977 Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 Your house or apartment when you not there. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Sticky Rice Balls Posted June 13, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 13, 2022 11 hours ago, RafPinto said: True I invited a girl to go to the ATM. When she saw my bank balance, she didn't stop laughing. I was close to tears, so low was the balance. Is she now a catch? I stayed at a hotel here..super cute girl at front desk.....i asked her for her #..she said ZERO 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 8 hours ago, bkk6060 said: In those trees and bushes across from Unixx condo Pattaya. Had some good times in there, but most have left now. every rose has its thorn.....also pricker bushes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted June 13, 2022 Share Posted June 13, 2022 13 hours ago, RafPinto said: Handsome???? im thai style hansum 2 mutt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted June 14, 2022 Share Posted June 14, 2022 19 hours ago, spidermike007 said: I often see some fine Burmese women workers here. Construction, restaurants, etc. Often wondered if they are game. Always assumed not. Anyone have any information to the contrary? Had one pick me up in a 'club' one night, she simply said '' you want me come room you ?'' next morning realised she lived near me, never saw her again though. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted June 14, 2022 Share Posted June 14, 2022 19 hours ago, spidermike007 said: Laughing and smiling is very disarming for a Thai. Never approach a Thai woman with a serious or stern attitude. It just will not work. That works even at immigration. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted June 14, 2022 Share Posted June 14, 2022 Don't do it. Don't advise it. You'll regret it. Why? Having a short-time pickup is the same as having a banana split. The pleasure is only transitory. And then, you will be looking for another, and another, almost endlessly, until you meet up with negative consequences. I once had a pickup on the roof of the Hilton Hotel in Taipei, opposite the train station. We went from the second-floor bar/lounge up to the roof. The lounge was beautiful, as you might recall. The roof was not. I have always regretted it. There was no lighting. There were too many exhaust fans. Also too many pipes to step over, in the dark, as you might know if you have done the same. But the pipes and the darkness is not why I regret this pickup at the Taipei Hilton (no longer extant). The reason I regret it, even to this day, is because it was sort of degrading, in a way. When you are young, almost anything goes. Except, do not have a pickup on the roof of a building if the roof is no more romantic than the typical construction site. This is no way to treat a woman. So solly (really!). Men and Women are not the same. Men think a roof, or similar, is a perfect place for romance. Women, on the other hand, if they are normal, do not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted June 14, 2022 Author Share Posted June 14, 2022 15 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said: Don't do it. Don't advise it. You'll regret it. Why? Having a short-time pickup is the same as having a banana split. The pleasure is only transitory. And then, you will be looking for another, and another, almost endlessly, until you meet up with negative consequences. I once had a pickup on the roof of the Hilton Hotel in Taipei, opposite the train station. We went from the second-floor bar/lounge up to the roof. The lounge was beautiful, as you might recall. The roof was not. I have always regretted it. There was no lighting. There were too many exhaust fans. Also too many pipes to step over, in the dark, as you might know if you have done the same. But the pipes and the darkness is not why I regret this pickup at the Taipei Hilton (no longer extant). The reason I regret it, even to this day, is because it was sort of degrading, in a way. When you are young, almost anything goes. Except, do not have a pickup on the roof of a building if the roof is no more romantic than the typical construction site. This is no way to treat a woman. So solly (really!). Men and Women are not the same. Men think a roof, or similar, is a perfect place for romance. Women, on the other hand, if they are normal, do not. Eat an apple Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted June 14, 2022 Share Posted June 14, 2022 11 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: Eat an apple So said Eve. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted June 14, 2022 Author Share Posted June 14, 2022 Eve was hot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted June 14, 2022 Share Posted June 14, 2022 2 hours ago, Sparktrader said: Eve was hot Yes. And she knew many, many men. Until she finally ran out of apples. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spidermike007 Posted June 14, 2022 Share Posted June 14, 2022 3 hours ago, brianthainess said: That works even at immigration. While I am sure that is true, it is far easier to smile at a pretty woman, than it is to muster up a smile for a toxic immigration agent. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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