Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 1 hour ago, DeepBlue90 said: and everyone seems to warn against dating bar girls IMHO there is in principle nothing wrong with bar girls. It is their job to make you happy. And some of them are very good in that job. It's up to you if you want that girlfriend feeling or the porn star experience. Or maybe the girlfriend feeling for dinner and the porn star performance at home. Enjoy! And if you meet a "normal" girl don't think she is not interested in someone who is willing to spend a lot of money to make her happy. It doesn't have to be cash, a nice apartment and car will be fine. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: IMHO there is in principle nothing wrong with bar girls. It is their job to make you happy. And some of them are very good in that job. It's up to you if you want that girlfriend feeling or the porn star experience. Or maybe the girlfriend feeling for dinner and the porn star performance at home. Enjoy! And if you meet a "normal" girl don't think she is not interested in someone who is willing to spend a lot of money to make her happy. It doesn't have to be cash, a nice apartment and car will be fine. Girl friend experience is the easy part as long you are there, the problems starts with long distance relationships, and transform holidays to normal days, and normal budget to a decent wife! Many have tried it, many have failed, many fake it, and some few succeeded! Up for a mental challenge and roller coaster, a thai girl is the answer no matter bar girl or not, because you will never be sure! Well if you marry a bar girl, then you should lower your expectations, right? So anything good will be a positive when proving others wrong! A win win 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post gomangosteen Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 17 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Does she sit in bars on her own? No-alcohol, ever; same with her boyfriend and his family. And to simplify things in case someone's hoping, there's no bar in our town of 9,000; no pub, no licensed premises. Never had an explanation, it just 'is'. Suits us just fine. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riclag Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, proton said: These days it seems covered with nasty tattoos and teeth braces they think are cute ???? Sometimes look at the pics of them on the stickman site and wonder why anyone would be desperate enough to pay for any of them. Sometimes not all but sometimes males dont always make the right decisions ,they not all the time are in conflict with their two heads .Add to that mind altering drugs or drink ! Edited January 28, 2023 by riclag Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 1 minute ago, gomangosteen said: No-alcohol, ever; same with her boyfriend and his family. And to simplify things in case someone's hoping, there's no bar in our town of 9,000; no pub, no licensed premises. Never had an explanation, it just 'is'. Suits us just fine. So 'daughter speaks English' completely irrelevant to the thread. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post richard_smith237 Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 52 minutes ago, BritManToo said: 1 hour ago, connda said: Virtually all woman world-wide are 'for sale.' You just need to understand the nature of the type of remuneration they desire. You're gonna be in trouble with the 'respect and worship all women' brigade for that one. Like dogs to a dog whistle, like cats to catnip, like a Thai auntie to an eat all you want seafood buffet.... As predictable as time itself.... 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 Just now, richard_smith237 said: Like dogs to a dog whistle, like cats to catnip, like a Thai auntie to an eat all you want seafood buffet.... As predictable as time itself.... Right back at ya! 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Crossy Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 49 minutes ago, worgeordie said: Sorry I missed NOT from what I wrote , an honest mistake. regards Worgeordie Mods are able to correct that "error", for a price 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post richard_smith237 Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 3 minutes ago, Crossy said: Mods are able to correct that "error", for a price Now there’s a happy ending.... 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 (edited) Back to the OP, My current woman used to work a little Thai on Thai 'bar scam' when she was younger. If she needed any money she'd walk into a nicer bar/hotel, and get the barman to put a 500bht bottle of whiskey on her table with the intention of getting a refund from the bar man (50/50 split). She's wait until one of the bar staff came over and said 'that guy wants to sit with you', and she'd reply 'can he pay for my drinks?'. The guy would come over to her, the bottle would go back behind the bar, and she'd enjoy dinner, drinks and a refund on the bottle from the bar staff when she left (with or without the guy). 250bht in those days was 2 days work (early 2000s), with a free dinner and drinks thrown in. Never had to wait long as she was really pretty when she was younger. Edited January 28, 2023 by BritManToo 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post KhunLA Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 28 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: It seems you think prostitutes only work in farang oriented bars and not in bar and restaurants and karaoke places which Thai people visit. Who gave you that idea? I know about karaoke & such place, which I don't, didn't frequent when single, as not a P4P person. I have no need for hookers. Fairly fit, (well, not fat) and can make any gal smile in any setting. Yep, I'm all that, and a plate of som tom ???? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
proton Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 12 minutes ago, riclag said: Sometimes not all but sometimes males dont always make the right decisions ,they not all the time are in conflict with their two heads .Add to that mind altering drugs or drink ! True, I barfined a girl from Patpong in 96. When I got her out in more light I was so put off I dodged away into the market and did a runner, rather lose the 400 baht than have taken her back, seemed far more attractive in the low lit bar! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunLA Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 @DeepBlue90 "everyone seems to warn against dating bar girls" Depends if you are 'dating' or employing a bar girl. Either is fine, as long as you know which it is. Some can't tell the difference ???? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liddelljohn Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 lots of Thai women in other real jobs, 7-11, factories, receptionists etc freelance at night and weekends they are not bargirls but they are available for a price and a lottery win 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rumak Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 Remember, pick the girls depending on their age (and yours ) . If you are an older guy might be wise to go with the girls over 30 ...... as they walk slower when taking you to the ATM . 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 "the other day I went to grab a beer with a coworker at a staple western looking Bar on Ekkamai, and I saw one or two attractive (but nothing over the top) girls alone sitting and sipping a beer. Would they also be considered as "bar-girl"? Or just having a beer after work of sorts." How can we know, you should have talked to them to find out. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post worgeordie Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 42 minutes ago, Crossy said: Mods are able to correct that "error", for a price I would gladly pay for someone to bring the old Emojis back , but not much .. ???? ......see what I mean regards Worgeordie 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 1 hour ago, Hummin said: Girl friend experience is the easy part as long you are there, the problems starts with long distance relationships, and transform holidays to normal days, and normal budget to a decent wife! Many have tried it, many have failed, many fake it, and some few succeeded! Up for a mental challenge and roller coaster, a thai girl is the answer no matter bar girl or not, because you will never be sure! Well if you marry a bar girl, then you should lower your expectations, right? So anything good will be a positive when proving others wrong! A win win What do women want? A nice life. What do men want? A nice life. I think relationships can work or not work independent of where the couple met. What counts, IMHO, is that they are both happy enough in that relationship. If they both have different interests and different lifestyles then it will never work, even if they both met at work, are the same age, etc. It seems lots of Thai girls and women are happy to take care of their husband (sex, cooking, cleaning) while he is taking care of her and her family (some respect, money, etc.). I find it funny when people complain about their relationship with a Thai bargirl after their (expensive) divorce from a "normal" farang woman in farang country. There is no rule or statistic that "normal" people are happier than farang/bg relations. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post South Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 2 hours ago, gomangosteen said: Good grief, what level of society do you occupy? Plenty of English-speaking people in professional occupations. My partner, senior accountant, worked with multinationals through internship and post-graduation, now deals on a daily basis with companies in Japan, Germany, Malaysia all in the common business language, English. As do her colleagues and friends. I don't expect any were working as bar girls prior to accountancy, law, pharmacy and dentist careers. Daughter #1 graduated last year, double major in Employment Law and HR Management, and you may be surprised to be told she speaks English too. Unfortunately, there is still a very high percentage of people here who have not yet realized that there is a lot more to this country than bars and their associated activities. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 You wrote: "Grab a Beer" a. Grab girls are NOT B-girls b. Girls who drink Beer and Girls who are B-girls are subsets c. Thai bar girls who drink with farang are a small subset Psychologically speaking, the term GENERALIZATION is applicable here. There is a small, though quite objectionable, subset of newly-arrived tourists who suffer from generalization. They step off the plane and immediately begin to salivate upon seeing a person they deem to be female. Yet, they are completely ill-equipped to distinguish B-girls from Ladyboys, or, most likely, prefer not to. This is the principal reason I choose to not live in an area frequented by other farang, as well as tourists of any ilk. This psychological construct of GENERALIZATION, which seems to overly infest most male tourists, makes life too difficult for us normal locals. My advice is to get educated. Otherwise, you will soon embarrass not only yourself, but also most of the good people around you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunLA Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 39 minutes ago, South said: Unfortunately, there is still a very high percentage of people here who have not yet realized that there is a lot more to this country than bars and their associated activities. That's what they came to TH for, that's what they want ... ... thankfully, they don't venture far from their barstool ???? There's nothing wrong with that of course, and Thais have designated tourist ghettos for them. As long as they don't stray too far off the reservation, everyone is happy. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 23 minutes ago, KhunLA said: That's what they came to TH for, that's what they want ... ... thankfully, they don't venture far from their barstool ???? There's nothing wrong with that of course, and Thais have designated tourist ghettos for them. As long as they don't stray too far off the reservation, everyone is happy. Tourist Ghettos? Nice one! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Tom Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 4 hours ago, brewsterbudgen said: If she works in a bar and she's a girl, she's a bar girl. or not a girl at all ! Beware 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connda Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 4 hours ago, BritManToo said: I was in a crowded bar in Seam Reap with a couple of pals. 3 local ladies walked in and sat down, I called the waitress over and said 'give those girls each a beer' (big spender as beer was 50c/glass). 30 seconds later the girls were sitting on our laps. Yep! The game works both ways! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 Define a Virgin Bar Girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post connda Posted January 28, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted January 28, 2023 3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: And do those middle-class, middle-aged woman who have professional careers also want money? Or do they just want that you marry them and take care of them for the rest of their life? Per my previous post:Virtually all woman world-wide are 'for sale.' You just need to understand the nature of the type of remuneration they desire. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GammaGlobulin Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 Define a Bar Girl Virgin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connda Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: I love cute girls with cute braces. Have you every made-out with a chick with braces? It cuts your lips. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connda Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: One of my favorite bar girls is an accountant. She said the salary was just not enough to afford a decent school for her son. She found a rich sponsor who pays the school. When reality strikes well-laid career plans. Exactly. Even in the West! "Sugar-Daddy" is not a new term. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 28, 2023 Share Posted January 28, 2023 6 minutes ago, connda said: Have you every made-out with a chick with braces? It cuts your lips. You worrying about your lips? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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