1 hour ago, Celsius said:

 

Yes. I knew this comment would be coming.

 

But for many people living in Canada is no issue at all. 

 

Thailand is for young people, not old. Came at 39 and I am 49 now. I don't want to spend another 20 years on this forum complaining, so I don't think I will be spending my old age here. I don't wanna go to immigration every year and beg for a visa especially when my body gets weaker. 

 

Not my country. Young guys in, old guys out.  Only a matter of time before Thailand pulls Malaysia regarding retirement visas. The cost of everything is going up. Pity the folk who sold everything to live the dream.

 

In my mid 50's the plan is to have enough money for me and wife for a business class to Thailand and stay 6 months a year or whatever and maintain Canadian residency. That is quality life, not slumming it here in heat and no Western kitchen.

 

 

 

A friend of mine, JDG, lived happily with his wife (who could be his youngest daughter) until he began to feel a permanent headache.
At the time, he was already over the 70'ties.
He went to several hospitals in Korat, but everywhere he got the same answer:
"Nothing serious. Nothing you need to worry about. Here, take a Paracetamol every 4 hours and you will forget your headache."
Luckely for him, he still had his house in Begium and he went to a Belgian hospital.
The answer: "Stage 1 Cancer in the brain."
As the cancer was in stage 1, he started with Chemo and Radiation.
That was 5 years ago.
He still returns every year during Christmas and New Year because of his wife and her family, but if it was to him he would give this place the middle finger.

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Nobody is forcing him to have medical treatment.

So, if you would be in his situation (3th stage Cancer and Metastases everywhere), what would be your option?

Cling to life at high costs like my friend or face the truth and go home to die peacefull?

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1 hour ago, Confuscious said:

So, if you would be in his situation (3th stage Cancer and Metastases everywhere), what would be your option?

 

Stop life-prolonging treatments and enter Hospice care.

 

But the patient has to decide on/agree to it. Possible your friend is not yet ready to do so. Be aware that how things look to an outsider and how they feel to the person  in question can be quite different.  It is far easier to say "not worth it, I'd rather die" when you are not actually in that situation.  When the time comes, it usually takes some time to fully accept a terminal diagnosis.

 

And hospice care is available only in some parts of Thailand (but becoming more common).

 

 

I am sorry to hear about your friends.  I have had four pass away this year in my circle of contacts.  Two 70 year olds, a 56 year old and a 30 year old.

 

Watching the successes and failures in other people's life helps me make adjustments and correct things in my life before getting too far off the tracks.

 

Health seems to be a big factor.  When you don't feel well it saps your will to live.  The contacts in my circle seem to go downhill quicker when they are overweight, eat a poor diet, abuse drugs and alcohol, don't exercise, and can't control their mental states being full of stresses and worry.  And consulting doctors and popping pills causes a quicker downhill slide.

 

So I knew what not to do. I then researched and fully implemented a more natural fruit diet along with alternative health therapies that returned the spring to my step and eliminated all ailments and pain.  Which did wonders for my mental state and quality of life.

 

It is such a pleasure waking up everyday to enjoy life now with a fully functioning body and mind.  An open mind and positive outlook are very helpful. Its your choice.

 

17 minutes ago, Sheryl said:

Stop life-prolonging treatments and enter Hospice care.

 

But the patient has to decide on/agree to it. Possible your friend is not yet ready to do so. Be aware that how things like to an outsider and how they feel to the person  in question can be quite different.  It is far easier to say "not worth it, I'd rather die" when you are not actually in that situation.  When the time comes, it usually takes some time to fully accept a terminal diagnosis.

 

And hospice care is available only in some parts of Thailand (but becoming more common).

 

 

Korat has an elder home with Palliative care at a very affordable price.

http://camilliancarekorat.org/th/?fbclid=IwAR1U2XSxC694N29-xHcdQNocARcA0JtPLU2SOHzkYlH8K3iDQzbW1WOtQn8

 

1 hour ago, Confuscious said:

He went to several hospitals in Korat, but everywhere he got the same answer:
"Nothing serious. Nothing you need to worry about. Here, take a Paracetamol every 4 hours and you will forget your headache."

 

That's another thing. My wife has been paying into life+health+social insurance since she started working at 18, so 25 years of non stop high premiums (not including insurance she gets from work). She proudly told me that in case she gets cancer, the insurance is going to pay me 500k baht compensation and pay for her treatment. However, if she gets cancer again then no luck. If you want to have any kind of preventive care here, you pay out of pocket. Forget about 6 month mammograms for women over 40 or once a year checkup.

 

 

 

11 hours ago, worgeordie said:

Too much doom and gloom on Aseannow , now , you die when your time is up,

same as getting a serious illness ,mostly lifestyle , so I suppose you just have to

live your life to the fullest while you are healthy.

 

I am now 77 years old , never thought i would make it this far ,but I made sure

I had the best life I could ,really enjoyed my work ,always self employed , retired

here at 42, seen a lot of the World , many out of the way places you may have never

heard of , i could have come here sat on a bar stool ,in Pattaya , when in fact I have

never ever been there ,maybe saved my life, ????  so come on cheer up , it might never happen.

 

regards worgeordie

Unfortantely, how full you think your life may have been vs another who spent a lot of time killing time on a bar stool, there are no prizes. Death is the great equalizer. In death, what you did, or achieved in life is irrelevant. The end result is the same.

8 hours ago, Mark Nothing said:

So I knew what not to do. I then researched and fully implemented a more natural fruit diet along with alternative health therapies that returned the spring to my step and eliminated all ailments and pain.  Which did wonders for my mental state and quality of life.

You left out drinking your own urine:

 

" I also drink urine which is a magic bullet breaking down the sediment buildup and returning the body to full health."

 

https://aseannow.com/topic/1292117-best-solution-for-enlarged-prostate-that-blocks-urinating/?do=findComment&comment=18019846

 

17 hours ago, VinnieK said:

Suicide, assisted or not, us out if the question for me 

As is kanoodling with young prostitutes

In case of incapacity, I do have a problem as I have no support mechanism here.

I'm working on it though..

Death is a non- issue for me.

One of the benefits of religion/Spirituality

 

 

you mean that religion that sells the idea that  you can be the biggest a hole, rapist, child molester, murderer on the planet and as long as u fess up and accept the religion on your deathbed that all is forgiven and you're good to go?  

Edited July 12, 20233 yr by pomchop

10 hours ago, billd766 said:

Life is worth living every day when you open your eyes and you know you are not dead.

 

Per the above:

 

103-year-old Maine 'Lobster Lady' signs up for 95th year hauling traps

Maine's 103-year-old "Lobster Lady" has signed up for a 95th year at the job, NEWS CENTER Maine reported.  

 

Virginia “Ginny” Oliver, known as Maine's oldest lobster harvester, began hauling traps before the Great Depression, at 8 years old, with her father and older brother.

 

Oliver, who celebrated her 103rd birthday this week with friends and family, will still lobster for the 2023 season, according to the outlet. 

 

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2023/06/09/virginia-oliver-senior-lobster-lady-maine/70307294007/

 

25 minutes ago, jerrymahoney said:

Per the above:

 

103-year-old Maine 'Lobster Lady' signs up for 95th year hauling traps

Maine's 103-year-old "Lobster Lady" has signed up for a 95th year at the job, NEWS CENTER Maine reported.  

 

Virginia “Ginny” Oliver, known as Maine's oldest lobster harvester, began hauling traps before the Great Depression, at 8 years old, with her father and older brother.

 

Oliver, who celebrated her 103rd birthday this week with friends and family, will still lobster for the 2023 season, according to the outlet. 

 

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2023/06/09/virginia-oliver-senior-lobster-lady-maine/70307294007/

 

She is going to lobster hell. ???? ????. 

 

13 hours ago, Celsius said:

Thailand is for young people, not old. Came at 39 and I am 49 now. I don't want to spend another 20 years on this forum complaining, so I don't think I will be spending my old age here. I don't wanna go to immigration every year and beg for a visa especially when my body gets weaker. 

Would say the complete opposite.

Your home country is where you build up your savings and pension as a young person.

Thailand is the place to come and spend it, hopefully in a nice house with a younger wife.

If you aren't fully funded for the rest of your life, you shouldn't be here IMHO.

2 hours ago, pomchop said:

you mean that religion that sells the idea that  you can be the biggest a hole, rapist, child molester, murderer on the planet and as long as u fess up and accept the religion on your deathbed that all is forgiven and you're good to go?  

 

Those dastardly last-minute cheaters..

Otherwise, you would go all-in ..

Probably not.

Nice excuse though..

 

 

 

 

14 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I didn't enjoy living in the UK in my 40s ....... why would I enjoy it in my 70s?

I'm betting the old guys in Canada are living a pretty miserable existence. 

 

I could return to the UK, to live a single, cold sexless existence in a bedsit/shared house or a care home, but I'd rather be dead.

Good one bmt.My sentiments exactly.I left the frozen north asap upon turning 55.My stepfather died in a retirement home.It was posh but same as a prison.(heavens waiting room) I'll take my chances here with my Thai wife/family.I have more family here than there.

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Would say the complete opposite.

Your home country is where you build up your savings and pension as a young person.

Thailand is the place to come and spend it, hopefully in a nice house with a younger wife.

If you aren't fully funded for the rest of your life, you shouldn't be here IMHO.

You're inviting alot of people to start packing...

 

Ironically, everyone is fully funded for the rest of their life, however the lifespan may vary. There's a pervasive logic these days that everyone must fund themselves into oblivion - a period of walking dead. The only benefactors are doctors and big pharma.

 

People didn't always think like this. One particular example that screams at me is the average lifespan of Roman woman was 29 years, with 9 pregnancies and 2 living children. These days expectations are rather high in wealthy nations.

 

 

 

 

1 hour ago, VinnieK said:

 

Those dastardly last-minute cheaters..

Otherwise, you would go all-in ..

Probably not.

Nice excuse though..

 

 

 

 

I don't need an excuse to reject being brainwashed as a child but ultimately learning to think for myself as an adult ....but thanks for your concern.

14 hours ago, Felton Jarvis said:

I am 73 and my opinion is that life is not worth living much past 75. I’m too cowardly to kill myself but I wish I could rely on going in my sleep. At least I’m living with a nice Thai woman as I face death.  ????

Food for thought.I'm almost 73 also.I feel ok and have survived my share on medical issues.The only complaint I have is mobility.My old legs are arthritic and I can't walk/stand for long.No much I can do about that. I'll gladly take a sleeping pill when the grim reaper comes knocking.

1 hour ago, JensenZ said:

People didn't always think like this. One particular example that screams at me is the average lifespan of Roman woman was 29 years, with 9 pregnancies and 2 living children. These days expectations are rather high in wealthy nations.

The lifespan of humans has always been around 70 years for the past 5,000 years.

Socrates was 71 when he was ordered to kill himself (399BC).

Edited July 13, 20233 yr by BritManToo

13 hours ago, Confuscious said:

My ex-wife, 65 years old was hospitalized last year with urgency for the 99th time.
Could not breath.
Happened every time the weather was sunny and the temperature raised above the 25 degrees.

Her lungs were gone to the dogs by her heavy smoking habit.
When she was transported to the hospital she was still conscious and she signed a paper that if her situation would get worse she would refuse to be kept alive with machines ($$$$$$).
She died peaceful after 2 weeks in the hospital without machines.
 

What you state is an example that I go by.The DNR paper is very important and I've explained it to my family (Buddhist) so they understand fully.I've left them a fair inheritance and don't want to see it go to an ICU Unit. Mind you if I get a broken leg please disregard. 555

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

The lifespan of humans has always been around 70 years for the past 5,000 years.

Socrates was 71 when he was ordered to kill himself (399BC).

Yup   3 score and 10..Psalms 90

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

The lifespan of humans has always been around 70 years for the past 5,000 years.

Socrates was 71 when he was ordered to kill himself (399BC).

Nonsense. Average lifespan was 45 years in middle ages. 71 isnt old. People live to 110 now.

 

https://www.sarahwoodbury.com/life-expectancy-in-the-middle-ages/#:~:text=Archaeological evidence indicates that Anglo,none who lived past 45.

21 minutes ago, jaideedave said:

Food for thought.I'm almost 73 also.I feel ok and have survived my share on medical issues.The only complaint I have is mobility.My old legs are arthritic and I can't walk/stand for long.No much I can do about that. I'll gladly take a sleeping pill when the grim reaper comes knocking.

Take magnesium 2 times a day.

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Nonsense. Average lifespan was 45 years in middle ages. 71 isnt old. People live to 110 now.

 

https://www.sarahwoodbury.com/life-expectancy-in-the-middle-ages/#:~:text=Archaeological evidence indicates that Anglo,none who lived past 45.

Have you confused lifespan with life expectancy?

They aren't the same thing!

Just now, BritManToo said:

Have you confused lifespan with life expectancy?

They aren't the same thing!

You are confused. Lifespan is based on averages. The averages have gone up.

Just now, bignok said:

You are confused. Lifespan is based on averages. The averages have gone up.

I think you need to o a google search on some definitions.

the last few decades, life expectancy has increased dramatically around the globe. The average person born in 1960, the earliest year the United Nations began keeping global data, could expect to live to 52.5 years of age. Today, the average is 72. In the UK, where records have been kept longer, this trend is even greater. In 1841, a baby girl was expected to live to just 42 years of age, a boy to 40. In 2016, a baby girl could expect to reach 83; a boy, 79.

 

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20181002-how-long-did-ancient-people-live-life-span-versus-longevity

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

I think you need to o a google search on some definitions.

You need to do some reading. What you posted is nonsense. Expectancy is just average lifespan.

 

Lifespans up

Expectancy up

 

 

5 minutes ago, bignok said:

the last few decades, life expectancy has increased dramatically around the globe. The average person born in 1960, the earliest year the United Nations began keeping global data, could expect to live to 52.5 years of age. Today, the average is 72. In the UK, where records have been kept longer, this trend is even greater. In 1841, a baby girl was expected to live to just 42 years of age, a boy to 40. In 2016, a baby girl could expect to reach 83; a boy, 79.

 

https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20181002-how-long-did-ancient-people-live-life-span-versus-longevity

From your BBC link ...........

"The life span of humans – opposed to life expectancy, which is a statistical construct – hasn’t really changed much at all – Walter Scheidel"

 

it's not enough to find a link, you nee to read and understand it.

Anyway, you've identified yourself now!

9 minutes ago, bignok said:

Take magnesium 2 times a day.

I take these plus Tumeric 2250 mg daily.I have the wrong magnesium tabs but will change up when these run out.I should have done a bit more research into which magnesium tabs to take.There are several varieties on the market. Any suggestions? Thanks...

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

From your BBC link ...........

"The life span of humans – opposed to life expectancy, which is a statistical construct – hasn’t really changed much at all – Walter Scheidel"

 

it's not enough to find a link, you nee to read and understand it.

Anyway, you've identified yourself now!

You are posting nonsense. Average age has increased a lot, by decades.

 

Can't add up.