What was your wife/girlfriend's employment when you first met her? And what is she doing now?

[Bangkok Barry]

5 hours ago, Ralf001 said:

We ran a train on her.

I have no idea what that means.

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, Bangkok Barry said:

I have no idea what that means.

They gangbanged her! 

[transam]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Fresh meat mate.

I hear you are from Ubon. 

I would have to say that i have yeilded more from that southern Issan stretch Buriram, Surin, Si Saket and Ubon than from anywhere else.

Very friendly women as I am sure you know.

I have been up that way many times. It has developed quite quickly.

As you told us you have been in LOS for over 40 years, I am surprised you still have the stamina to still go touring for young ladies at your age, unless it is the 'nanny' variety..............................????

[Hummin]

11 minutes ago, transam said:

As you told us you have been in LOS for over 40 years, I am surprised you still have the stamina to still go touring for young ladies at your age, unless it is the 'nanny' variety..............................????

 Nursing is an underestimated profession

[Pink Mist]

A racial slur was edited from a post as well as a post using the slur as a quote.

[PingRoundTheWorld]

9 hours ago, Goat said:

What was your wife/girlfriend's employment when you first met her?

Professional nightlife enthusiast ????

9 hours ago, Goat said:

And what is she doing now?

Me...????????‍♀️????

[Ralf001]

36 minutes ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

Professional nightlife enthusiast ????

Me...????????‍♀️????

and me !!

[bignok]

I could never marry an ex bargirl. Some guys do, some know, some don't know or pretend not to know. Pretty easy to tell though.

[Liverpool Lou]

3 hours ago, Goat said:

5 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

She was bl0wjob artisan in the filthy Riffifi bar in Patpong in the late 90s

Fair enough.

Indeed she was.

[Andrew65]

18 minutes ago, bignok said:

I could never marry an ex bargirl. Some guys do, some know, some don't know or pretend not to know. Pretty easy to tell though.

First visited Thailand 85 and 86. Lived there 1998-2018.

Only my thoughts on the bar girl thing is that it's 'too easy' a thing to do, there's no 'value' in doing it. In later years I never bothered.

[whereyougo]

Thread is a veiled attempt to shame dudes that took a bar girl as a partner. Of course it's easy to tell. Just look over and if you see very dark skin, home made tatts and near perfect English without schooling then..... 

[bignok]

4 minutes ago, whereyougo said:

Thread is a veiled attempt to shame dudes that took a bar girl as a partner. Of course it's easy to tell. Just look over and if you see very dark skin, home made tatts and near perfect English without schooling then..... 

My friend married one, no tatts, poor English. He said she did it on the street. 

[Hummin]

11 minutes ago, whereyougo said:

Thread is a veiled attempt to shame dudes that took a bar girl as a partner. Of course it's easy to tell. Just look over and if you see very dark skin, home made tatts and near perfect English without schooling then..... 

Now you shaming those with prima english and a nice dark skin without higher education ????

Edited July 17, 2023 by Hummin

[whereyougo]

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Now you shaming those with prima english and a nice dark skin without higher education ????

Just facts. No shame in marrying a bar girl as long as one doesn't pretend she is cashier. 

[Bday Prang]

5 hours ago, Goat said:

yep, thousands of them.

More to choose from than bars, and so much better quality.

And even better, they are free.

  Like lunch , no woman is free

[Hummin]

20 minutes ago, whereyougo said:

Just facts. No shame in marrying a bar girl as long as one doesn't pretend she is cashier. 

you add factors that should make people suspecious if a lady have been a bar lady or not! Why is it in anyones intereset to figure such out, if not her bf or husband? 

 

 

[Bday Prang]

2 hours ago, Andrew65 said:

First visited Thailand 85 and 86. Lived there 1998-2018.

Only my thoughts on the bar girl thing is that it's 'too easy' a thing to do, there's no 'value' in doing it. In later years I never bothered.

its just age catching up with you, coupled with sour grapes

[Bday Prang]

33 minutes ago, whereyougo said:

Just facts. No shame in marrying a bar girl as long as one doesn't pretend she is cashier. 

Oh I don't know, nothing wrong with a bit of role play, but personally I prefer to be a bit more imaginative.

[Andrew65]

1 minute ago, Bday Prang said:

its just age catching up with you, coupled with sour grapes

No sour grapes at all when the libido has been disappearing anyway. For the last 5 years that I lived in Thailand I never bothered with that stuff.

[Bday Prang]

2 hours ago, whereyougo said:

Thread is a veiled attempt to shame dudes that took a bar girl as a partner. Of course it's easy to tell. Just look over and if you see very dark skin, home made tatts and near perfect English without schooling then..... 

They don't get dark skin from working in a bar, and I never met a woman yet with homemade tatts that could speak perfect english, including in the UK

[Bday Prang]

5 minutes ago, Andrew65 said:

No sour grapes at all when the libido has been disappearing anyway. For the last 5 years that I lived in Thailand I never bothered with that stuff.

"that stuff" ?  more than a whiff of sour grapes to be sure

[Andrew65]

3 minutes ago, Bday Prang said:

"that stuff" ?  more than a whiff of sour grapes to be sure

None whatsoever...

Been there, seen it, done it, bought loads of T-shirts.

Edited July 17, 2023 by Andrew65

[Bday Prang]

3 hours ago, bignok said:

I could never marry an ex bargirl. Some guys do, some know, some don't know or pretend not to know. Pretty easy to tell though.

Even if you didn't know? 

[ArnieP]

Colour prejudice and racism evident in this thread.

[save the frogs]

8 minutes ago, ArnieP said:

Colour prejudice and racism evident in this thread.

you forgot to mention occupation prejudice

 

[pomchop]

So if you flip the coin and the question becomes for the men, "how many prostitutes have you paid in your life to have sex with you"?  or you ask a gal "What did your boyfriend/husband do for sex before he met you?"

 

Is that really all that different than asking a bar girl how many guys paid you to have sex with them?  Yet one is a big no no and the other is just boys being boys?  If you believe a lot of the guys you read or hear bragging about all their conquests some of them seem to claim more fooling around than some of the girls. 

 

People do what they do for a variety of reasons so might be a good idea to take a look in mirror before judging bar girls too severely.

 

 

[Hummin]

13 minutes ago, pomchop said:

So if you flip the coin and the question becomes for the men, "how many prostitutes have you paid in your life to have sex with you"?  or you ask a gal "What did your boyfriend/husband do for sex before he met you?"

 

Is that really all that different than asking a bar girl how many guys paid you to have sex with them?  Yet one is a big no no and the other is just boys being boys?  If you believe a lot of the guys you read or hear bragging about all their conquests some of them seem to claim more fooling around than some of the girls. 

 

People do what they do for a variety of reasons so might be a good idea to take a look in mirror before judging bar girls too severely.

 

 

There is smart and realistic people with hearth and brain, and there is stupid mongers who seems to hate the women they exploit!

Edited July 17, 2023 by Hummin

[Joe Farang]

10 hours ago, Goat said:

I heard she was now selling Som Tam

Only part time

[Joe Farang]

7 hours ago, bignok said:

I could never marry an ex bargirl. Some guys do, some know, some don't know or pretend not to know. Pretty easy to tell though.

Would you marry the type of girl who would be willing to marry a monger ?

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, Joe Farang said:

Would you marry the type of girl who would be willing to marry a monger ?

its universial, the good guys marry the bad girls, and the good girls marry the bad boys. Me and my wife, I believe we are equal, and we accept each others past, and look forward up and to the stars. No reason to loock back