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First Thai relationship, any advice?


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I think you have a diamond in the rough. You just need to make a few cuts, shape her into a beautiful personality, and apply a little spit and polish  

 

To help you understand women here is a list of some differences:

GENDER DIFFERENCES MEN

 WOMEN

 

 

 Receive worth largely from work, success and career (significance)

 Receive worth from relationships (security and love)

 

 

 Want honour and respect

 Want love verbalized

 

 

 Goal oriented

 People oriented

 

 

 Love competitive sports

 Interested in relationships

 

 

 Want to feel competent

 Not afraid to admit need help

 

 

Won’t take advice – want to be in control

 Want to help, to support, to rescue

 

 

 Want to deal with problems in a solution focused, logical rational manner

 Want to talk about problems on an emotional level

 

 

 Tend to withdraw into their ‘caves’ when stressed, to be alone and gain strength and inner calm

 Tend to talk and share and want to feel supported when have problems

 

 

 Men are literal (right brain dominant) and need to be told things (can’t guess)

 Woman are intuitive, (left and right brain balanced) emotional, know what people feel and need

 

 

 Compartmentalise

Can concentrate on only one thing at a time

Summarise

 No clear divisions

Everything affects everything else

Can do six things at once

See whole picture

 

 

 Observe things generally

 See detail

 

 

 Speak +/- 12 500 words a day

 Speak +/- 26 000 words per day

 

 

 Sex drive motivated chiefly by physical needs.

Aroused by sight

 Sex drive motivated chiefly by emotional

 

 

Sex drive motivated chiefly by physical needs.

Aroused by sight

 Sex drive motivated chiefly by emotional needs

Aroused by mood, ‘atmosphere’ or relationship

 

 Not noticeably affected by hormone changes

 Can be dramatically affected by hormone changes

 

 Handle depression by externalizing – blaming, become aggressive, angry

 Internalize depression – take blame, guilt, shut down

 

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you hit your jackpot I am happy for you.

they are all the same around the world,, only the package is different about the rest all is the same.


just be aware of local customs and laws because local laws have funny unexpected surprises.

like every were else do make sure she is not married, the Thai law has some funny things in mind when she is.


with the girl you comes for free included the family, some work out well other not. Beside this it is also some families do see you as the free family TM.


Anyway keep in mind that the grass looks always greener and more tasty at the other side of the fence.  still is the same

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The OP doesn't give much info about himself which makes me suspicious.

30s and living in LOS? Is he a teacher with little money and no prospects of a long term relationship or..........................?

How long has he lived in LOS?

Had any long term relationships with a female before?

I need more info before I take this seriously.

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9 hours ago, Banana7 said:

I think you have a diamond in the rough. You just need to make a few cuts, shape her into a beautiful personality, and apply a little spit and polish  

 

To help you understand women here is a list of some differences:

GENDER DIFFERENCES MEN

 WOMEN

 

 

 Receive worth largely from work, success and career (significance)

 Receive worth from relationships (security and love)

 

 

 Want honour and respect

 Want love verbalized

 

 

 Goal oriented

 People oriented

 

 

 Love competitive sports

 Interested in relationships

 

 

 Want to feel competent

 Not afraid to admit need help

 

 

Won’t take advice – want to be in control

 Want to help, to support, to rescue

 

 

 Want to deal with problems in a solution focused, logical rational manner

 Want to talk about problems on an emotional level

 

 

 Tend to withdraw into their ‘caves’ when stressed, to be alone and gain strength and inner calm

 Tend to talk and share and want to feel supported when have problems

 

 

 Men are literal (right brain dominant) and need to be told things (can’t guess)

 Woman are intuitive, (left and right brain balanced) emotional, know what people feel and need

 

 

 Compartmentalise

Can concentrate on only one thing at a time

Summarise

 No clear divisions

Everything affects everything else

Can do six things at once

See whole picture

 

 

 Observe things generally

 See detail

 

 

 Speak +/- 12 500 words a day

 Speak +/- 26 000 words per day

 

 

 Sex drive motivated chiefly by physical needs.

Aroused by sight

 Sex drive motivated chiefly by emotional

 

 

Sex drive motivated chiefly by physical needs.

Aroused by sight

 Sex drive motivated chiefly by emotional needs

Aroused by mood, ‘atmosphere’ or relationship

 

 Not noticeably affected by hormone changes

 Can be dramatically affected by hormone changes

 

 Handle depression by externalizing – blaming, become aggressive, angry

 Internalize depression – take blame, guilt, shut down

 

 Mostly utter nonsense. 

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1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

The OP doesn't give much info about himself which makes me suspicious.

30s and living in LOS? Is he a teacher with little money and no prospects of a long term relationship or..........................?

How long has he lived in LOS?

Had any long term relationships with a female before?

I need more info before I take this seriously.

It seems you are already taking it too seriously. Do you have relationship advice to offer? ????

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On 8/25/2023 at 10:24 AM, fredwiggy said:

I would have said that about him, and now you, Peas in a pod. In your case, a flying monkey.

Oh dear, haven't had your enema today?

 

11 hours ago, GypsyT said:

Stick to her, don't give up!

Once I had a girl who had 5 others. My friends said "RUN" but I didn't see it like that.

What else is better proof she's good, even great, than having so many?

 

Yuck, batting on a sticky wicket ?

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