Lady drinks cost more. And now we have "man drinks". Do you buy them?

[chickenslegs]

4 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

Thing is , you start to imagine what they mean and sometime your imagination is wrong ?

   I thought that "finger in the date" was  slang for vaginal/anal penetration with the finger 

   Was I correct about that or did I completely miss the point ?

And you get that service for paying an extra 50 baht for the ladys drink 

It's been a hundred years since I was in a Thai gogo or beer bar (well, it seems like that) but even I know that It's not just an extra 50 baht for a "lady drink". The "lady drink" is almost certainly just soda or similar, so the whole 200-250 baht is profit for the bar - and contributes to the lady's earnings. 

 

Edit to add: I always thought it was reasonable compensation for playing connect 4, or dominoes with me when they could have been earning big bucks for short times.

Edited September 5, 2023 by chickenslegs

[JeffersLos]

5 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

even put your fingers inside her

He pays 50 baht to ice cream scoop her.

 

Given that Goat bought men there drinks, he may have sucked on his fingers afterwards. 

[chickenslegs]

4 minutes ago, JeffersLos said:

He pays 50 baht to ice cream scoop her.

 

Given that Goat bought men there drinks, he may have sucked on his fingers afterwards. 

Yuk!

[Nick Carter icp]

3 hours ago, connda said:

In Thai they are called mia chow, rental wives.  Trust me, Thai men engage in this way more than farangs.  Hence the Karaoke bars and shower massages, as well as private clubs.
Personally I've never 'groped' a woman before.  It's not my style.  However, I have 'rented a wife' in the past.  And "old men?"  The first time I hooked up with a bar girl I was 35.  This scene isn't just for 'old men.'  These places cater to Thai guys from 20 to elderly in most case.  The farang bar scene is an after-though.  Japan sounds like a good place for you, however, the bar scene there can be pretty exotic if you get invited in.  None of these places are for alter boys.

I prefer to spend my money on other things, rather than paying people to be with me , yes there are people from all Countries that need to pay for company , I just personally prefer to do other things .

   I do know quite a few prostitutes in real life and I can just go and visit them , if I want to talk to them , but I just get tired of the false façade and lies and attempts at "laugh-a-minute" where everything's a joke and funny 

[thaibeachlovers]

12 hours ago, Goat said:

1. I had always assumed that the extra charge for the lady drink was to compensate them to either give you a bit of a squirrel grip, or for you give them a bit of a fondle. 

You assume wrong then. Bars cost to run, and the standard price ain't gonna pay the bills, so the lady drinks are to make more money for the bar.

If the lady allows a bit of the extra, that's her way of incentivizing the guy to pay the bar fine. Just because a guy pays for a lady drink it doesn't mean she HAS to allow the guy to molest her. Sometimes, in a gogo soon as the lady had secured a lady drink she had to "go dance", and the guy had the "pleasure" of seeing her up there and not "down there". Happened to me so much that I just stopped buying any lady drinks. I'd give them 20 baht to sit with me instead, after they actually sat with me.

Edited September 5, 2023 by thaibeachlovers

[thaibeachlovers]

6 hours ago, connda said:

Japan sounds like a good place for you, however, the bar scene there can be pretty exotic if you get invited in.  None of these places are for alter boys.

Next time I win a few million on the lottery I'll be off to Japan for some of that "exotic" for sure. However, never having won more than 10 quid on a lottery I had to be content with Thailand.

If it wasn't for the bizarre habit of pixilating the relevant bits, Japanese porn would be "interesting", and one wonders if that would be available to the average western visitor. Sadly, I doubt I'll ever find out for myself.

[thaibeachlovers]

6 hours ago, chickenslegs said:

It's been a hundred years since I was in a Thai gogo or beer bar (well, it seems like that) but even I know that It's not just an extra 50 baht for a "lady drink". The "lady drink" is almost certainly just soda or similar, so the whole 200-250 baht is profit for the bar - and contributes to the lady's earnings. 

 

Edit to add: I always thought it was reasonable compensation for playing connect 4, or dominoes with me when they could have been earning big bucks for short times.

I doubt they ever passed up a short time to play connect 4 with anyone.

[thaibeachlovers]

12 hours ago, Goat said:

It varies with the lady. Sometimes a breast grope or a gash flash, sometimes its the old squirrel grip or even the finger in the date.

An associate last week was going the full passionate tounge down the throat.

Seems to be no standard.

 

Or standards.

It's up to them, isn't it?

 

"Gash flash". Is that "exciting" to you? LOL.

Back in the glory days, they were starkers on and off the stage, and did "real" lesbian acts as part of the shows. Sadly taksin's lacky purachai ended all that.

[scubascuba3]

14 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You assume wrong then. Bars cost to run, and the standard price ain't gonna pay the bills, so the lady drinks are to make more money for the bar.

If the lady allows a bit of the extra, that's her way of incentivizing the guy to pay the bar fine. Just because a guy pays for a lady drink it doesn't mean she HAS to allow the guy to molest her. Sometimes, in a gogo soon as the lady had secured a lady drink she had to "go dance", and the guy had the "pleasure" of seeing her up there and not "down there". Happened to me so much that I just stopped buying any lady drinks. I'd give them 20 baht to sit with me instead, after they actually sat with me.

Different agogos vary at what the lady will do when buying a drink, Dollhouse quite a lot, Pinup zero. By the way if buying a drink buy one just when they finish their rotation, not when they are near to starting one

[thaibeachlovers]

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Different agogos vary at what the lady will do when buying a drink, Dollhouse quite a lot, Pinup zero. By the way if buying a drink buy one just when they finish their rotation, not when they are near to starting one

Best Gogo ever was the Hollywood Royale in Nana. Decent sexy shows, partied till after dawn ( closing time for all but one other place was about 2 or 3am- I forget which ), anything ( almost ) went, and some of what I saw would result in this post being deleted if I wrote it here.

Two stages, one for naked ladies, other for bikinis.

However, what they did was ALWAYS up to them.

[thaibeachlovers]

6 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

By the way if buying a drink buy one just when they finish their rotation, not when they are near to starting one

Didn't make any difference. They could just come off rotation, but once lady drink in the chek bin box they'd be off dancing again.

I once made the mistake of buying a lady a drink while she was in the shower ( that was in the best Gogo in Pattaya- Super Baby on Walking Street- sadly closed suddenly and never reopened ). She lasted so long in the shower her skin must have become wrinkled, and she certainly outlasted my patience. Didn't leave a tip that night, for sure.

[LaosLover]

10 hours ago, chickenslegs said:

Edit to add: I always thought it was reasonable compensation for playing connect 4, or dominoes with me when they could have been earning big bucks for short times.

Jenga! Quite the game of skill for drunky old hands. Prob not seen in 30 years.

[CanadaSam]

15 hours ago, n00dle said:

It is simply impossible these days to go out for a few beers without blowing triple or more the cost of your own drinks on beverages for everyone else in the bar. 

Totally agree, until one night last week at the TQ, a girl was trying to fondle my private parts, trying to sit on my lap, until I asked her "will you leave me alone if I buy you a drink?" and she agreed, happily, none of the other girls disturbed me after that!

 

You see, I go to these places mainly for the ambience and the MUSIC, and some R&R to enjoy my drinks and smoke in peace!

[Goat]

17 hours ago, stoner said:

i will gladly buy you as many *man* drinks ...and i use that term sparingly.....as necessary to get you up on stage.

 

i will then shower you in 20b notes while watching you gyrate to the newest sam smith jingle. 

Deal. 

 

And i will throw in a squirrell grip.

[Goat]

17 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

First i heard of it was on soi 6, Nightwish group, Brian Flowers, but they got a lot of ridicule when it was discussed over at Pattaya Addicts and stopped it following that, for a while anyway

i knew you would know. 

thanks.

Farangs with work permits must be paid a minimum salary of about 50,000 baht per month.

Maybe Brian pays the farang mangers a small base salary and they have to get so many drinks to make up their wage? 

Same they do for the hookers.

[Goat]

16 hours ago, bbko said:

Sounds like if the man manager DID provide those extras you'd buy him a drink, got it. ???? 

I would consider a finger in the date if i could wear a glove.

[Goat]

16 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

Aww, does it hurt your little fweelings? No wonder you frequent prostitutes, can't imagine any woman dealing with your immaturity and miserable company.

What is with the baby talk mate?

 

I dont like gay men. Luckily we are not in the woke west and I dont have to pretend that I do.

It isnt homophobia as I really do like homosexual women.

I just dont like how gay men carry on.

[Goat]

13 hours ago, bignok said:

What is serious licking?

jimmy and the date.

[Goat]

13 hours ago, connda said:

The first time I hooked up with a bar girl I was 35. 

Very sad.

At 35 you should have been fighting off the free ones with a stick.

There are tens of thousands of them to be had at that age.

[Goat]

15 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

A bar fine is not a charge for sex, it's a payment to the bar to allow the girl to stop working,

It is the "pimps cut"

But often the pimp shares it with the hooker.

[Goat]

12 hours ago, chickenslegs said:

The "lady drink" is almost certainly just soda or similar,

No, if you buy them shots it must be tequila or Sambuca etc.

If the girl claims she doesnt drink alcohol and wants an OJ or something, and the punter agrees then fair enough.

The idea of buying shots for them is to loosen them up for the ST, so they are more compliant for the harder stuff such as up the date etc.

[Goat]

6 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Happened to me so much that I just stopped buying any lady drinks. I'd give them 20 baht to sit with me instead.

You big spender.

I usually try to get two to sit with me for my 20 baht.

[Goat]

6 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

They could just come off rotation, but once lady drink in the chek bin box they'd be off dancing again.

That is not how it works. It is a set rotation.

If that does happen to you normally then you must be offending them in some way, have hygiene issues or something.

 

[Goat]

6 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Back in the glory days, they were starkers on and off the stage,

You dont even live in Thailand do you?

They are still starkers in many gogos, and unlike your "glory days" they are mostly shaven now.

[scubascuba3]

34 minutes ago, Goat said:

i knew you would know. 

thanks.

Farangs with work permits must be paid a minimum salary of about 50,000 baht per month.

Maybe Brian pays the farang mangers a small base salary and they have to get so many drinks to make up their wage? 

Same they do for the hookers.

Yeah it will be minimum wage, they get mostly carrots of how much money they can make, i heard of one who recently went back to UK now homeless

[stoner]

2 hours ago, Goat said:

Deal. 

 

And i will throw in a squirrell grip.

st or lt ? 

[HandsomeTallFarang]

2 hours ago, Goat said:

What is with the baby talk mate?

 

I dont like gay men. Luckily we are not in the woke west and I dont have to pretend that I do.

It isnt homophobia as I really do like homosexual women.

I just dont like how gay men carry on.

"I don't like Black people. Not racist, I just don't like them."

Ok boomer ????

[Harveyboy]

21 hours ago, bob smith said:

if they want. im not fussed.

Hello Bob...

[Dazinoz]

I buy lady drinks for the company. Sometimes a little more is involved.

 

I have had the buy manager a drink lately. I say no. They are making a profit from all drinks so why should I give more money to them?

[thailand49]

22 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Dollhouse was the best for that, I'd only buy an LD if serious licking was on the cards. Now closed, and Windmill is dog rough, plus the old guard have moved on so oral is not the norm

Hell Scuba you must be the guy that I saw regularly top tier section. Once I turn saw not too far away a guy on the floor,  he had this girl on her back legs were up on counter. LOL,  

When it comes to Dollhouse pre-covid has a few good one there was an older but good body that was top notch service. 

Now Dollhouse closed but door and lights on with guard at door.  He mentioned everything has moved to the old Misty location. I didn't go in guy wave me in seeing the Chipindale Ad outside window I shook my head asked  Gay club? ,  he just smiled?