New research helps explain why lesbians report more orgasms than straight women

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The findings of a recent study shed light on why lesbians historically report experiencing more orgasms than heterosexual women, offering insights into the role of sexual scripts and partner gender expectations in shaping sexual pleasure. Published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science, the study delves into the psychological and social factors influencing differences in orgasm rates among different groups.

 

Led by Grace Wetzel, a psychology doctoral candidate at Rutgers University, the research explores the concept of sexual scripts, which are societal norms and expectations regarding sexual behavior derived from media, culture, and pornography. The study suggests that these scripts influence individuals' expectations and experiences of orgasms during sexual encounters.

 

The study involved two online surveys, one comprising heterosexual women and lesbians, and the other bisexual women. The results revealed significant differences in orgasm rates and expectations between lesbians and heterosexual women. Lesbians reported higher levels of clitoral stimulation, greater orgasm expectations, and pursued orgasms more actively compared to heterosexual women. Interestingly, the importance of orgasms was equally emphasized by both groups.

 

In addition, the study found that partner gender plays a crucial role in shaping sexual scripts and orgasm expectations. Bisexual women reported consistent levels of orgasm pursuit and importance regardless of partner gender. However, those partnered with women expressed higher expectations for clitoral stimulation and orgasms compared to those partnered with men.

 

The study highlights the influence of heterosexual sexual scripts, which prioritize vaginal intercourse and male orgasm, on women's sexual experiences. Women who have sex with women tend to engage in nonpenetrative acts and deviate from traditional gender-based sexual scripts, resulting in increased clitoral stimulation and orgasm rates.

 

The findings underscore the importance of communication and mutual understanding in sexual relationships, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. Wetzel suggests that heterosexual couples can enhance their sexual encounters by incorporating acts that are more likely to result in orgasm for their partner.

 

However, the study acknowledges its limitations, including its correlational design and the possibility of other factors influencing orgasm frequency. Nevertheless, it provides valuable insights into the complex interplay between sexual scripts, partner gender expectations, and sexual pleasure, paving the way for further research and discussion in the field of human sexuality.

 

12.04.24

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[Tug]

Me thinks perhaps the lady’s know their way around the lady parts better than us guys enjoy yourselves lol

[KhunLA]

Sure the same can be said about gay men in relationships.   Who doesn't love a good BJ, and probably why I had so many female partners.   As stated elsewhere, different thread, I know within a week of a relationship if it might last.  

 

Bisexual bud of mine pretty much stopped dating women, asked why ... easy answer .. 'why bother', a gay guy will do most anything to please you, without the drama, and reciprocal to anything offered.

[impulse]

4 hours ago, Tug said:

Me thinks perhaps the lady’s know their way around the lady parts better than us guys enjoy yourselves lol

 

But can they change a flat tire, or move heavy furniture?

 

The whole article reads like a promotion for the lesbian lifestyle, starting with data from "online surveys" that pretty much guaranty self selection bias.

 

One good outcome, I guess.  If your wife wants to do a threesome, 2 chicks and a dude is better than 2 dudes and a chick.

 

Edited April 12 by impulse

[klauskunkel]

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lesbians report more orgasms than straight women

Quantity, sure why not, but what about quality. Let the reporting start...

[blazes]

What utter balderdash!  Who the eff cares who has this or that orgasmic satisfaction?

This gobbledegook comes from some $hite term paper of some woke Ph.D. candidate in a backwater US university.  Not worth a nanosecond of your time. (Soon you will be able to see her working as a barista in some godforsaken part of the Mid-West.)

(And also: why does EVERY article on a general subject (like this) on AN sound like it has been churned out from ChatGPT????)

 

Edited April 12 by blazes

[Dr Jon]

Females can have orgasms? You learn something new every day!

[Hummin]

Search womanizer sex toys, and stop worrying, it is the best toy ever you can give a woman? 

 

 

[newbee2022]

8 hours ago, Tug said:

Me thinks perhaps the lady’s know their way around the lady parts better than us guys enjoy yourselves lol

Then it's high time for you to learn🙏

[OneZero]

With a little observational orgasmic experience (what more often than not creates the quickest & greatest orgasmic intensity in a woman),some sincere pillow talk with female partners  & a desire to please, this cannot be considered to be hard to believe or even news worthy.  Masters & Johnson must have written about this ages ago.

Edited April 12 by OneZero

[riclag]

My falang ex wife of 35 years , refused to answer what her partner taste like ,before I started  divorce proceedings!

Her partner ruined my marriage !

 

 

 

Edited April 12 by riclag

[Thingamabob]

9 hours ago, Tug said:

Me thinks perhaps the lady’s know their way around the lady parts better than us guys enjoy yourselves lol

 

Methinks you are right. No need for a tediously long report.

 

[Freddy42OZ]

I was a paid male companion for ladies for a while, more commonly called a male escort. 

I would escort wealthy, older (than me, not always old) ladies to dinners, operas, plays, concerts, museums etc  and of course provide sexual services if asked.  
They didn't always want sex, in fact as most of them were married I was often just providing them with male company. 

However, when they did want sex, my job was to pleasure them and not to think about my own pleasure at all.  This means no penetration at all, unless they were absolutely begging for it.  Which of course did happen. 

A lot of the time I didn't even take off my suit trousers, or even my shoes!  I used fingers, tongue and toys to give them as many orgasms as they needed.   

The problem I hear from female friends is that most men seem to think sex is just for the man to orgasm and they don't really put in enough effort for the woman.

Try keeping your dick in your pants, until she has an orgasm, then ask her if you can enter and have your turn.

Your job when having sex is to ensure the other person's pleasure, not your own.  Your pleasure is her job and if you do your job well then she'll hopefully do hers well.

Think like a chef, the enjoyment is seeing the person love the meal you cooked, not eating it yourself.



 

[300sd]

Some people actually produce things while others do "make work" projects! This study is the latter.  

[Tug]

5 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

Then it's high time for you to learn🙏

Oh but I have heck I’m a lesbian trapped in a mans body lol 😝 I spent the better part of my youth absolutely obsessed with the joy of enjoying (the lady parts)and I’m still enjoying the person attached to those parts!!

[Maybole]

About 20 years ago I had a lecture fro a group of american feminists who informed me that men were already redundant because a woman could give another woman much better and longer lasting orgasms than any man ever could.

[digger70]

16 hours ago, Maybole said:

About 20 years ago I had a lecture fro a group of american feminists who informed me that men were already redundant because a woman could give another woman much better and longer lasting orgasms than any man ever could.

Redundant only for Sex Not for Breeding .

[impulse]

17 hours ago, Maybole said:

About 20 years ago I had a lecture fro a group of american feminists who informed me that men were already redundant because a woman could give another woman much better and longer lasting orgasms than any man ever could.

 

While I don't favor vandalism, one of the guys in the audience should have gone out to the parking lot and let the air out of their tires, just to see how redundant men really are.

 

[JonnyF]

Makes sense. Women know what women like. 

 

I heard LB's are good at certain oral tasks as well. Men know what men like. Unfortunately the 'tache and the nuts put me off 

[Maybole]

On 4/13/2024 at 3:00 PM, digger70 said:

Redundant only for Sex Not for Breeding .

They also pointed out that that was what sperm banks were for.

[digger70]

17 hours ago, Maybole said:

They also pointed out that that was what sperm banks were for.

Well now they have to get the Sperm from the men right .

They can't get sperm without Men .

[impulse]

21 minutes ago, digger70 said:

Well now they have to get the Sperm from the men right .

They can't get sperm without Men .

 

I wouldn't go down that rabbit hole. 

 

All they need is one dude to service the reproductive needs of 10,000 wimmuns.  20 or 30 dudes could service an entire city and prevent in-breeding...  And with anyone able to identify as whatever gender they want, they could do it with 20-30 "women" like Lia Thomas.

 

Edit:  But God save the city if any of them get a flat tire...

 

Edited April 16 by impulse

[digger70]

43 minutes ago, impulse said:

 

I wouldn't go down that rabbit hole. 

 

All they need is one dude to service the reproductive needs of 10,000 wimmuns.  20 or 30 dudes could service an entire city and prevent in-breeding...  And with anyone able to identify as whatever gender they want, they could do it with 20-30 "women" like Lia Thomas.

 

Edit:  But God save the city if any of them get a flat tire...

 

That's the whole point they Can't do without a Men And his sperm.

Without Men there's No Reproduction .No reproduction the Race will die.