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Wife of a friend and he is not very good with understanding complicated English.

 

Female, age 50, previously had breast cancer+ mastectomy 7 yrs ago. Recently had a lump grow in her clavicular area. It's a "well known" govt hospital which I personally would not let my dog have his nuts cut off in.

 

Below the biopsy result.

 

Obviously, I know this is bad.  Metastatic....malignant.....glandular......

 

Just trying to get an idea just how bad/lethal and how long(ish). Anyone have an educated (or semi educated) guess?

 

They are talking about chemo, but somehow this feels like a Hail Mary.

 

 

 

 

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Need to consult an oncologist (cancer specialist) as soon as possible on treatment options.   I am not a medical doctor only a biologist, so she needs to see the cancer specialist as soon as possible in order to know how bad the diagnosis is, what the prognosis for each of the options, if there are any.

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Well, the big question is what stage it is? Since it has metastasized already, it's advanced and at least stage III, most likely stage IV. 

 

Obviously the doctor should've told her how long she's approximately got when she got the results. 

 

Without treatment she's got probably less than a year. She really needs to talk to the doctor! 

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12 hours ago, Sandboxer said:

Just trying to get an idea just how bad/lethal and how long(ish). Anyone have an educated (or semi educated) guess?

 

They are talking about chemo, but somehow this feels like a Hail Mary.

Having this happen to several neighbours and family  members (mastectomy + recurrence in 5ish years), I'm sorry to say they all died in 6-12 months from discovery of the recurrence. Yes they had chemo, no it didn't help in any way I considered worthwhile.

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1 hour ago, KhunLA said:

I think if I was in that situation, I'd go ultra alternative therapy.   Watched a few on YT, no sugar/carbs, strict proteins/fat diet, massive vit A or whatever supplement kind of stuff, and supposedly successful.

 

As BritMan2 points out, and agree, recurring & spread already, don't think I'd bother with chemo, to see if it kills the cancer before killing me therapy.   Along with living in misery the 6-12 months of your life.   Try something different, thinking outside the box, that might actually work or not, but think I'd rather try that than the chemo route.

The most successful treatments with chemo are when the cancer is caught early..

 

I also suspect Thailand does not have the most advanced chemo available. In my case, I was informed the targeted inhibitor I was taking was not available in Thailand.

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On 9/3/2024 at 12:16 PM, Sandboxer said:

Wife of a friend and he is not very good with understanding complicated English.

 

Female, age 50, previously had breast cancer+ mastectomy 7 yrs ago. Recently had a lump grow in her clavicular area. It's a "well known" govt hospital which I personally would not let my dog have his nuts cut off in.

 

Below the biopsy result.

 

Obviously, I know this is bad.  Metastatic....malignant.....glandular......

 

Just trying to get an idea just how bad/lethal and how long(ish). Anyone have an educated (or semi educated) guess?

 

They are talking about chemo, but somehow this feels like a Hail Mary.

 

 

 

 

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Oncologist immediately, no ifs or buts.

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