After A Lifetime Of Adventure, Why Is It Now So Hard To Pop Off?

[JimTripper]

Has the Op tried going back to basics and giving himself a hand?

[RSD1]

17 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

Has the Op tried going back to basics and giving himself a hand?

Why not offer him yours?

[RSD1]

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

maybe just doing it when not really horny

I think that's what sex addicts do. Addicted to the sex act and/or addicted to the orgasm part, but not really in the mood. 
 

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

maybe having sex with somone that doesn't turn him on enough anymore

Sounds like his variety of partners avoids that.

[JoseThailand]

Have you tried ladyboys? For many older guys, that's a solution to their problems

 

bob can confirm

 

 

Edited 8 hours ago by JoseThailand

[JimTripper]

Op can still do everything normally, but without cumming?

 

That's a medical problem. He's not creaming for some reason (no manufacture of semen) or the penis is not pumping at climax (something wrong with the muscles or nerves).

Edited 8 hours ago by JimTripper

[pomchop]

20 hours ago, jippytum said:

Why do boring old men

use this forum  as an outlet to opine at length about their sexual prowess. Or the  lack of it

Maybe for the same reason that so many other expats seem determined to share their stories over and over ad naseum about the best bj ever, the best tits ever, the hottest babe ever, how long and way too many details of all their sexual prowess.

 

Hey congratulations...you got laid in pattaya...now how about realize that nobody cares.

[spidermike007]

2 hours ago, Terrance8812 said:

I suspect if someone feels that way then they aren't doing it right. 
 

So it's only the thought that counts? That's like putting together a 1,000-piece puzzle for 2 weeks and then finding out the last piece is missing at the end.

You obviously don't know very much on this topic. I suggest doing some reading on tantric yoga and some of the Hindu philosophy about sex and orgasm, you might learn something useful. 

 

This is a particularly important topic for men over the age of 60 as we pay a very heavy price for an orgasm, and the health benefits of cutting down on the frequency of orgasms are enormous. 

[Denim]

Prolonged alcohol use can desensitize the nether regions. Quit drinkinbg and things might improve.

 

https://rexmd.com/learn/how-to-increase-penis-sensitivity

 

Can take about 3 months of sobriety to put things right.

[Kinok Farang]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

From a lot of posts on AN I suspect a lot of guys don't know how to do it right, like Philip Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield.

If that's the same Phil Stanhope,he once bummed me at an office party.

[BigStar]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

If you read the OP his problem isn't impotence.

 

If you had read the definition of impotence I posted earlier for one of our elites, you'd know that the OP's problem falls within the definition.

[Hummin]

Brain exercises and a few different sensitive lubes can help, but mostly it is in your way of cultivating sexual thoughts and temptations. 

 

To much porn and jerking off can be harming your sex life. 

 

Cock ring is a great tool as well to feel more sensation, as well sex games with your partner. 

 

Everyone have their kink

Edited 6 hours ago by Hummin

[Gottfrid]

Try a boy instead. At least you´re in the right place:

 

[patman30]

another fake engagement post
another account on the ignore list

[Hummin]

7 minutes ago, patman30 said:

another fake engagement post
another account on the ignore list

Still there is a real topic for some who experience what he describes. 

 

Sensitivity dissappear the older you get

 

[BigStar]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

It might be a mental thing for a female, but for men it's purely mechanical, however it's wrapped.

 

No. A common saying is that your sexiest organ is your brain. Most obviously, that's why watching porno, and specific activities, works better than not watching it during the same "mechanical" activity. The thoughts and emotions become ever more important with age as physical abilities decline for all the usual reasons. Teenagers don't need many--a good thing, as they don't have many anyway. We all wish we could be teenagers again knowing what we know now.

 

[scubascuba3]

4 hours ago, RSD1 said:

I think that's what sex addicts do. Addicted to the sex act and/or addicted to the orgasm part, but not really in the mood. 
 

Sounds like his variety of partners avoids that.

I don't know, guys who have sex a lot can get jaded with it, just go through the motions 

[GammaGlobulin]

Why not just not worry about not being able to do what you once could, which probably wasn't all that healthy, and might have been no more than a bad habit which should have been replaced long ago, perhaps with a different pastime, such as reading serious literature and the discussion of same with your GF/Wife, or perfecting an even more solitary pursuit, such as water colors, like those two great artists, Monet and Manet?