After A Lifetime Of Adventure, Why Is It Now So Hard To Pop Off?

[georgegeorgia]

On 11/16/2024 at 2:13 AM, watthong said:

 

Well, I had a case that is the opposite:

This is back in the day of my being the unofficial neighborhood sex therapist in my neck of the woods in Southern Calif, catering to the local bunch of horny down low married or with gf guys who were "curious" but had no outlets beside the beach public restrooms.

 

One time an older guy answered my ad. We met at Starbucks for my "consultation" session. A sweet, gentle white-haired  grandpa type, he hadn't had sex for years with grandma. Couldn't get the little guy up, but he could ejaculate (watching porn though no physical jacking off.) So he wondered if he could pop his nut in a more, erh, holistic way, with some understanding and experienced hand such as yours truly.

 

In full curiosity from both parties, we proceeded. Missionary style with him at the bottom as newbie and for me I wanted to see what's going on. Before long, he orgasmed. We both watched in amazement as a healthy dollop of jizz just oozed - or should I say popped-  out from his totally limp dick. So my guess is that despite the mechanism of getting hard no longer functioning, his synapses were still in full control of the "pumping" of the sluice gate, though not with the full force (needed to squirt)? My one-of-a-kind experience.

Oh there maybe people here who could get traumatised 

 

And please don't take it the wrong way ,it's a very beautiful post and I enjoyed reading it 

 

Thankyou for your service and happy new year to you Sir 

Edited Sunday at 07:11 AM by georgegeorgia

[Terrance8812]

On 11/15/2024 at 9:19 AM, spidermike007 said:

This is a particularly important topic for men over the age of 60 as we pay a very heavy price for an orgasm, and the health benefits of cutting down on the frequency of orgasms are enormous. 

What a load of solid rubbish. 
 

Edited Sunday at 08:53 PM by Terrance8812

[thaibeachlovers]

18 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Any sort of self discipline does require some work, but it can often pay major dividends. 

As I said, sounds like too much work to bother. In any event I'm far too cynical for that stuff to work. I tried it all decades ago, but IMO it was all BS and obviously never happened for me.

[Hummin]

Just now, thaibeachlovers said:

As I said, sounds like too much work to bother. In any event I'm far too cynical for that stuff to work. I tried it all decades ago, but IMO it was all BS and obviously never happened for me.

Thought you where in your 60'ies, but when I get 75 or above, I'm not sure it will be important anymore. All depending on my wife if I will try to maintain any interest at all. 

 

What do I know, Still 20 years to go before I'm there

[thaibeachlovers]

3 hours ago, Terrance8812 said:

What a load of solid rubbish. 
 

On that I agree.

 

In fact, as a high exertion now and then is better for keeping the heart functioning than a sedentary walk, an orgasm is one of the best ways to keep the ticker ticking. When I was only visiting Thailand on holiday, I always left lighter and fitter than when I arrived.

 

In a related subject, I never knew what a knee trembler was till I passed 65. Up till then it was quite easy to cross the bridge, and I only once had what the French call La petite mort.

I think I tried everything except wearing latex, asphyxiation, and fisting.

[thaibeachlovers]

8 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Thought you where in your 60'ies, but when I get 75 or above, I'm not sure it will be important anymore. All depending on my wife if I will try to maintain any interest at all. 

 

What do I know, Still 20 years to go before I'm there

There is no reason for a reasonably fit man to not have an active sex life after 75.

[RSD1]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

There is no reason for a reasonably fit man to not have an active sex life after 75.

Agree. I can't speak from experience yet, but if one maintains good health and everything is still working, then I can't see why one needs to ever stop. I think a lot of that also requires ignoring any dumb advice given to you along the way that suggests that you should slow down. All that is absolute garbage as long as you have a strong heart. You always need to simply dance like nobody is watching. 

[JimTripper]

23 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Agree. I can't speak from experience yet, but if one maintains good health and everything is still working, then I can't see why one needs to ever stop. I think a lot of that also requires ignoring any dumb advice given to you along the way that suggests that you should slow down. All that is absolute garbage as long as you have a strong heart. You always need to simply dance like nobody is watching. 

Things don't keep working. You get older, man.

Edited Tuesday at 04:06 AM by JimTripper

[RSD1]

13 hours ago, JimTripper said:

Things don't keep working. You get older, man.

Speaking for yourself obviously.