Why do so many Thai prostitutes marry their customers?

[GammaGlobulin]

It's just a cost-cutting measure, more than anything else.

 

[ModdaPunk]

3 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Why is it that so many prostitutes in Thailand marry their customers?

 

They hate westerners but they hate the job even more.

At least the farang brings some stability.

The bar girl's life is about drinking and getting f4cked.

This might be fun for a while when you're in your 20's.

But then...

[scubascuba3]

30 minutes ago, saakura said:

Why do they not end up in marraige with customers from other race or countries (I am talking in general, there could be exceptions) like Africans, Arabs, Chinese, Indians, Etc.? Why the fatal attraction between elderly white men and Thai women from the lower economic strata?

I think they do, just not as widespread yet

[BangkokReady]

3 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I was thinking about half of them were not showing much or any respect to their husbands. It appeared the more drunk some of them got the less they liked their husbands and were not even pretending to like them.
Almost like they were trying to start trouble with their husbands/boyfriends which put me on edge a bit. Very touchy feely.

 

I think these are fundamentally broken people and would act like that whomever they were married to.

[BangkokReady]

3 hours ago, novacova said:

The question should be, why do so many customers marry a low hanging catch of a prostitute when there are so many good well educated hard working women woman here.

 

The prostitutes want them.  The well educated hard working women don't.  What the OP leaves out is the women are probably 40 while the men are 70.

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Wouldn’t they make more money just servicing many customers and then they don’t have to take their work home with them? 
40 hour week, not 24/7 like prostitutes do in other countries.

They might not get many customers after age 40, but they are still going to live another 25 years.

 

In other countries (you really mean western countries) they will get welfare.

[Pattaya57]

Some friend you are. You just accused all of your friends wive's of being low life prostitutes with no class when drunk

[Nick Carter icp]

Just now, Pattaya57 said:

Some friend you are. You just accused all of your friends wive's of being low life prostitutes with no class when drunk

 

   Would that be a dishonest slur or would it be a true statement though ?

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

Because they were there. It is that simple. Convenience. Perhaps they think the guy is a decent enough chap and he seems to have enough money to offer some financial stability, which is what most women are looking for anywhere in the world. The question is not why they marry the guys, the question is why do the guys marry them?

 

We have a lot of choices in this life and marrying a bar girl is probably not one of the smarter ones. 

 

I also think it's a question of how long have they been doing it if they are relatively new and you can somehow ascertain that to be a fact then they are probably of a somewhat healthier nature emotionally. How many men has she been with? If she is relatively new, and has only gotten with between 20-200 men, more than likely she is still sane, and could possess a good heart. If she has gotten with over 200, the chances decrease. If over 500, harder for her to relate to men as decent human beings. Once you get to the "around the world level", where she has been with over 1,000 men, all bets are off. If the girl is in her mid-30s and she's been doing it for 10 years and she's very good looking, chances are she's averaging at least four guys a week, so run the numbers, that's 2,000 right there. If she's hot and she's working massage it could be closer to 5,000. 

 

After 1,000 the heart likely hardens, and more than likely she is bitter for life. I am sure there are exceptions. But, the risk in getting involved with a highly experienced bar girl, or massage girl, is very high. 

 

With the exception of the men who are clever enough to hire a private detective to look into her background, and pay some real money to do it right, there is no way to know. They all have stories. And most of the stories are ones that they know we want to hear. So many times I have heard friends say, "Oh no, she is new. She has only been working at the bar two weeks. I was her first customer. She worked in a factory before that. I could tell how innocent she was'. Yeah right!

 

 

You do come out with some nonsense.

You think a high milage Thai hooker has a harder heart than an American divorced single mom?

 

And the heart of my Brit Christian teen virgin schoolteacher bride was harder than steel and more difficult to penetrate.

[Pattaya57]

Just now, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Would that be a dishonest slur or would it be a true statement though ?

Well I respect all my friends wives, because you know, they're my friends

[save the frogs]

2 hours ago, Hummin said:

Then you got the hardcore party girls

many of these girls do not have the DNA for marriage with anyone, period.

and they are better off staying in the bar scene.

 

[scubascuba3]

1 hour ago, norsurin said:

Dont think that every former prostitute is bad girls.

Definitely not, i see it as just another job

[Nick Carter icp]

9 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Definitely not, i see it as just another job

 

   Couldn't you find any other job to do ?

[KhunLA]

18 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

   Couldn't you find any other job to do ?

Why would you want to.   Wish someone would have paid me when a youngin to have sex.   All I did was party and have sex anyway ... except I had to got to work the next day, and get paid a pittance.

 

Obviously in the wrong line of work 

[save the frogs]

8 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Why would you want to.   Wish someone would have paid me when a youngin to have sex.   All I did was party and have sex anyway ... except I had to got to work the next day, and get paid a pittance.

 

Obviously in the wrong line of work 

 

People who bash the sex trade have maybe never been exploited in a "real" job?

 

OP, the answer to your question is Bruce Springsteen.

In this here town, you git whatch u can git. 

 

 

 

[CHdiver]

5 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

It was fairly obvious that nearly every one of them was a former bar girl, most were tattooed, they got sleazier and louder as the night wore on both verbally and physically.

 

It was a fun night. 

So do tell us, did you get laid?

[RSD1]

I think it's clear why the women do it. They're lazy, they want an easy life, they don't want to be forced to continue to sleep with a variety of men that they don't wanna be with, and they're looking for a larger sum of money than they get from working on a daily basis. So it seems like a small sacrifice for them to be around an older man all the time that they don't care for in exchange for forgetting everything else out of life that they ever wanted. 

 

To me the bigger question is why do the men go for it when clearly they are in a position where they have more and better options? Why do the men choose these girls from poor villages and dysfunctional family background where the women are often drunk, angry, loud, combative types who have lots of tattoos, no education, that believe in ghosts and superstition, and who will usually give you the worst advice on how to handle any situation in Thailand because they are from a lower socioeconomic class and simply don't have any experience or know any better. 
 

[atpeace]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

You do come out with some nonsense.

You think a high milage Thai hooker has a harder heart than an American divorced single mom?

 

And the heart of my Brit Christian teen virgin schoolteacher bride was harder than steel and more difficult to penetrate.

My issue with American divorced Moms, is that very few are attractive.  I don't find them hard at all.

 

I like your authentic posts but you are always applying your relationship disasters to relationships in general.  That first wife really messed you up for decades.  Long term bar girls are not the best relationship choice and how you don't see this is predictable I guess.  You seem to have left a trail of hellish relationships back home and have little respect for women in general.

 

I have had some great times with bar girls and even thought about getting serious a few times.  They all ended in predictable ways.

[proton]

5 hours ago, GypsyT said:

They make good wives.

- They speak better English than any out of Thai University

- They are not like dead fish in bed

- They can handle money well, some time the flow is one way - to her

- They have great self confidence

- They are not specially intelligent but very street smart. No need to look after in any place or country.

- If needed, they can get money in any place quickly

- They are FUN!

I took one to EU and she was the best travel partner man can wish. Marry her? Hell NO!

 

 

They only appear to marry foreign mugs, very few Thai customers would marry a prostitute who have had hundreds, possibly thousands of blokes through them. Many have a drink/drug/gambling problem, most are uneducated, lazy, untrustworthy and dishonest. Drunken ex bar girls are anything but fun, loud, crude and obnoxious. Having said that most of the husbands are as bad.

 

 

 

[BritManToo]

1 minute ago, atpeace said:

I like your authentic posts but you are always applying your relationship disasters to relationships in general.  That first wife really messed you up for decades.  Long term bar girls are not the best relationship choice and how you don't see this is predictable I guess.  You seem to have left a trail of hellish relationships back home and have little respect for women in general.

Been with my Thai wife for 15+ years, and my life with her has been amazing beyond my wildest dreams.

Not to mention she was stunningly beautiful when I met her (and still looks pretty good to me now).

 

So 1 disaster with the Brit woman supposedly desired by all red pill guys (their fabled Christian educated teen virgins from respectable families).

 

And 1 surprise success with a Thai lady that everyone claims could never work, that I found in a bar.

 

Is that really a trail of hellish relationships?

[atpeace]

27 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

To me the bigger question is why do the men go for it when clearly they are in a position where they have more and better options? Why do the men choose these girls from poor villages and dysfunctional family background where the women are often drunk, angry, loud, combative types who have lots of tattoos, no education, that believe in ghosts and superstition, and who will usually give you the worst advice on how to handle any situation in Thailand because they are from a lower socioeconomic class and simply don't have any experience or know any better. 
 

Because it is easy.  The dire consequences come later.

 

With that said, I know a few friends that are good judges of character and have had good relationships with the bar girl they chose.  These guys are quality guys and I think that improves the odds of success substantially.  Most men here with bar girls  are flawed in many ways and their relationships are disasters.

[BritManToo]

28 minutes ago, CHdiver said:

So do tell us, did you get laid?

Nah, he was too busy trying to chase his drunken tatted Thai misses away from groping the other male foreigners.

[atpeace]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Been with my Thai wife for 15+ years, and my life with her has been amazing beyond my wildest dreams.

Not to mention she was stunningly beautiful when I met her (and still looks pretty good to me now).

 

So 1 disaster with the Brit woman supposedly desired by all red pill guys (their fabled Christian educated teen virgins from respectable families).

 

And 1 surprise success with a Thai lady that everyone claims could never work, that I found in a bar.

 

Is that really a trail of hellish relationships?

No and sorry - my bad.  For some reason I thought you posted about other bad relationships. 

[Hummin]

47 minutes ago, proton said:

 

They only appear to marry foreign mugs, very few Thai customers would marry a prostitute who have had hundreds, possibly thousands of blokes through them. Many have a drink/drug/gambling problem, most are uneducated, lazy, untrustworthy and dishonest. Drunken ex bar girls are anything but fun, loud, crude and obnoxious. Having said that most of the husbands are as bad.

 

 

 

Thai men with low status are married/bf to prostetutes, pimping them out to foreigners, 

[MalcolmB]

4 hours ago, Nemises said:

Wedding pics or it didn’t happen. 

There might be someone on here that was also in attendance with his lovely wife.

 

[MalcolmB]

1 hour ago, proton said:

marry a prostitute who have had hundreds, possibly thousands of blokes through them.

Possibly even tens of thousands

[MalcolmB]

1 hour ago, CHdiver said:

So do tell us, did you get laid?

No. 
it was a very long day on the booze.

i had planned to leave about 11pm and get myself something as the prices are cheaper than Phuket. Contemplating getting two.

 

But I was spent. I should have stayed up there a few days.

 

I’ll be back.

 

[MalcolmB]

4 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

The question is not why they marry the guys, the question is why do the guys marry them?

No, this thread is about why the Thai prostitutes marry their customers.

[MalcolmB]

4 hours ago, saakura said:

Why do they not end up in marraige with customers from other race or countries (I am talking in general, there could be exceptions) like Africans, Arabs, Chinese, Indians, Etc.?

I doubt if Africans, Arabs, Chinese or Indians would want to marry tatted up prostitutes.

 

It isn’t the done thing in those cultures.

[Hummin]

8 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Possibly even tens of thousands

Which would take about 30 years with one customer a day in average to reach the first 10k  😄

 

Realistic many girls or the nice girls with manners and language, who wants a foreigner, leaves after relatively short period. Thay might come back, but nice wife material doesnt stay long in the business.