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Age is just a number

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13 minutes ago, kingstonkid said:

Yeah my mind says I can go all night but my body says sorry only an hour

My body still allows me several hours.

But my mind says: You saw it all already, what do you expect will happen tonight new and exciting?

Then my mind and body agree that it's time to go home.

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    I am 72 and have no idea that I am old. When I say I am getting old, people laugh and say I am old! I might be, but according to my health and strength, I am really not compared to others I see at the

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    No   In a way I still feel young. But there are many signs that I am not so young anymore. That's life.

Age is just a number. Your bank balance is also a number. In Thailand the latter is much more important to the young females.

2 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Age is not related to anything.
I'm middle aged, great genes, take care of myself, eat vegetables and lots of fruit, sleep well, exercise daily.
I'm often with people similar age, obese, using walking frames, negative, pathetic people, disrespecting themselves and others around them. 

It's the cards you're dealt.

 

You just got to suck it up.

 

Enjoy the life you have, however short or long it is. 

 

If you have chosen the wrong parents and your genes are not as they should try your best to improve your longevity by eating correctly and exercising regularly 

 

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

 

Like posting on AseanNow!

    Sure, but other things, as well.  Like, in the last 4 years, renovating and selling 2 houses, after living in each, for a time.  Then building 2 more houses from scratch, selling the first one after living in it for a time, and now living in the latest one.  We had never built a house before but I think it's a good idea to challenge yourself a bit from time to time.  Could we do this?  Build a house?

     I still vividly remember, in 2010 as new arrivals to Pattaya, opening the door for the first time to a View Talay 3 condo shell.  I was shocked.  No kitchen.  No air con.  No window treatments.  Minimal lighting.  Bare bones bathroom.  Not even a finished floor--just rough, dirty concrete that I first thought was dirt!   In America we had just done minor fix-ups with our condos, nothing difficult.   Could we do this?  Renovate a condo from a bare shell?

    Turns out we could.  And, we proceeded to successfully do 7 or 8 of them, scattered around VT3, 5C, 5D, and 7.  Plus, a number of other ones at other condo projects.   Always interesting and challenging.  Always learning something.

    We found we liked building the first house, it increased in value, so we decided to do another one.   Not for everyone, I'm well-aware, but it's something I enjoy doing, even with the sometimes headaches involved.  That's the thing--do what you enjoy doing, if you still can, whatever the age you are.   I like to keep busy, at any age, including my current age--just turned 73.  We always say our last project is our last project but, so far, another one keeps coming along.  

     

1 hour ago, newnative said:

    Sure, but other things, as well.  Like, in the last 4 years, renovating and selling 2 houses, after living in each, for a time.  Then building 2 more houses from scratch, selling the first one after living in it for a time, and now living in the latest one.  We had never built a house before but I think it's a good idea to challenge yourself a bit from time to time.  Could we do this?  Build a house?

     I still vividly remember, in 2010 as new arrivals to Pattaya, opening the door for the first time to a View Talay 3 condo shell.  I was shocked.  No kitchen.  No air con.  No window treatments.  Minimal lighting.  Bare bones bathroom.  Not even a finished floor--just rough, dirty concrete that I first thought was dirt!   In America we had just done minor fix-ups with our condos, nothing difficult.   Could we do this?  Renovate a condo from a bare shell?

    Turns out we could.  And, we proceeded to successfully do 7 or 8 of them, scattered around VT3, 5C, 5D, and 7.  Plus, a number of other ones at other condo projects.   Always interesting and challenging.  Always learning something.

    We found we liked building the first house, it increased in value, so we decided to do another one.   Not for everyone, I'm well-aware, but it's something I enjoy doing, even with the sometimes headaches involved.  That's the thing--do what you enjoy doing, if you still can, whatever the age you are.   I like to keep busy, at any age, including my current age--just turned 73.  We always say our last project is our last project but, so far, another one keeps coming along.  

     

Good on you I say , 10 years left ,get as many done as you can ! 

7 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

Good on you I say , 10 years left ,get as many done as you can ! 

     Nobody knows how many years, months, weeks or days they have left.  My Dad lived to 95, Mom to 101.  Dad also used to say, "We're all just penciled in."   Unfortunately, so true.  None of us is here in permanent ink.   As I said in my previous post, I'm doing the things I enjoy, for as long as I can do them.  That includes working on projects but certainly other things as well, such as travel, trying to keep fit with swimming and exercise, visits with family, reading mystery and other writers I like, socializing with friends, watching movies and favorite tv series, trying new restaurants, and, yes, fitting in Asean Now to see what latest outrage has us Pattaya residents 'shocked',  'enraged', 'terrified', etc., and the city once again in 'chaos'.

53 minutes ago, newnative said:

     Nobody knows how many years, months, weeks or days they have left.  My Dad lived to 95, Mom to 101.  Dad also used to say, "We're all just penciled in."   Unfortunately, so true.  None of us is here in permanent ink.   As I said in my previous post, I'm doing the things I enjoy, for as long as I can do them.  That includes working on projects but certainly other things as well, such as travel, trying to keep fit with swimming and exercise, visits with family, reading mystery and other writers I like, socializing with friends, watching movies and favorite tv series, trying new restaurants, and, yes, fitting in Asean Now to see what latest outrage has us Pattaya residents 'shocked',  'enraged', 'terrified', etc., and the city once again in 'chaos'.

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Thankyou for your service Sir 

Unless they are taking the Michael, usually when folk say this, they are old. Just embrace it, dude. We all do it and then we disappear. It’s all good. 😋

On 1/24/2025 at 11:55 AM, harryviking said:

I am 72 and have no idea that I am old. When I say I am getting old, people laugh and say I am old! I might be, but according to my health and strength, I am really not compared to others I see at the same age nearly ready to go under at any time! 😁 I am still touring Thailand on my bikes, 3 times a week at the gym and is walking in the mountains back home when I am there for the summer! Cannot remember the last time I was sick! Never had the flue and never use any medicine. That is what I call "not very old"!!😂

Old is when attractive western women will reject one out of hand. Only famous, powerful or very rich over 50s can get an attractive woman to bed them ( not talking about hookers ).

I doubt some sweet 20 year old will consider walking in the mountains as worth it for a 70 year old man.

20 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

try your best to improve your longevity by eating correctly and exercising regularly 

It might keep one on planet earth a while longer than 70, but why would one want to? I don't envy any person older than that. I certainly don't wish to see 80.

45 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Old is when attractive western women will reject one out of hand. Only famous, powerful or very rich over 50s can get an attractive woman to bed them ( not talking about hookers ).

I doubt some sweet 20 year old will consider walking in the mountains as worth it for a 70 year old man.

🤣😂 Women? LOL! They have messed up my life enough! It just took me too long to find out! I am saved now!! They will NOT follow me into the mountains!!🤣🤣

7 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

It might keep one on planet earth a while longer than 70, but why would one want to? I don't envy any person older than that. I certainly don't wish to see 80.

As a nurse your past career , I guess you seen many things many of us don't , people terminal ill etc and your not afraid of death 

Many people are in denial 

 

 

8 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

It might keep one on planet earth a while longer than 70, but why would one want to? I don't envy any person older than that. I certainly don't wish to see 80.

    '...why would one want to?'  Huh?  Maybe because they still tremendously enjoy living.  My joy in living certainly didn't end when one day I was 69 and then the next day I turned 70.   BZZZZ!  Time's up!  You're 70, it's over for you!   I don't think so.   I'm still having loads of fun, still savoring every single day.  Life's still an adventure and I'm still full of curiosity, with many more countries I still want to visit and things I still want to do.  I feel sorry for your defeatist attitude.

49 minutes ago, newnative said:

    '...why would one want to?'  Huh?  Maybe because they still tremendously enjoy living.  My joy in living certainly didn't end when one day I was 69 and then the next day I turned 70.   BZZZZ!  Time's up!  You're 70, it's over for you!   I don't think so.   I'm still having loads of fun, still savoring every single day.  Life's still an adventure and I'm still full of curiosity, with many more countries I still want to visit and things I still want to do.  I feel sorry for your defeatist attitude.

Don't leave it too late however ,the older you get.....but you need to be a realist too 

You are only as old as the woman you feel 🤣

34 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Don't leave it too late however ,the older you get.....but you need to be a realist too 

    'Don't leave it too late however...'   Leave what 'too late'?  Seeing all the countries I want to see?  Reading all the books I want to read?  Viewing every new tv show and new movie I want to see?  Discovering my next favorite restaurant ?  Watching how the youngest family members turn out when they grow into adults in 10 or 15 years?  Or any of the other myriad things that interest me?

    Being a realist, I know there's not enough time to do everything I want to do.  No matter what, some things will be left 'too late'.  Do I read one of the literary classics I never got around to or the new Jonathan Kellerman?  If I die tomorrow, they both will have been 'left too late'.   That's the way of the world.  My time is finite, not the things I want to do and see.

    But, I'm here now to read the new book by one of my favorite writers, happy that I am still here to enjoy it, and hopefully, the next five or ten or twenty he writes.  I'm here now to plan with my spouse our next trip abroad, happy that I am still here to travel to faraway places, and hopefully there will be many more faraway places to visit while I still can.  I'm here now to socialize with family and friends and enjoy their company, happy that we are all still here.   Knowing I'm just penciled in, as we all are, I'm treasuring each day.  

14 hours ago, newnative said:

    'Don't leave it too late however...'   Leave what 'too late'?  Seeing all the countries I want to see?  Reading all the books I want to read?  Viewing every new tv show and new movie I want to see?  Discovering my next favorite restaurant ?  Watching how the youngest family members turn out when they grow into adults in 10 or 15 years?  Or any of the other myriad things that interest me?

    Being a realist, I know there's not enough time to do everything I want to do.  No matter what, some things will be left 'too late'.  Do I read one of the literary classics I never got around to or the new Jonathan Kellerman?  If I die tomorrow, they both will have been 'left too late'.   That's the way of the world.  My time is finite, not the things I want to do and see.

    But, I'm here now to read the new book by one of my favorite writers, happy that I am still here to enjoy it, and hopefully, the next five or ten or twenty he writes.  I'm here now to plan with my spouse our next trip abroad, happy that I am still here to travel to faraway places, and hopefully there will be many more faraway places to visit while I still can.  I'm here now to socialize with family and friends and enjoy their company, happy that we are all still here.   Knowing I'm just penciled in, as we all are, I'm treasuring each day.  

Oh get off your high horse mate 

10 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Oh get off your high horse mate 

 

That high-horse is back....   Poor thing has been so overused it must be due for the knackers yard by now !!!... :whistling:

20 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Oh get off your high horse mate 

Nothing 'high horse' about being realistic and telling it like it is.  

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2 minutes ago, newnative said:

Nothing 'high horse' about being realistic and telling it like it is.  

 

don't worry about it.

 

when I gloat about my super duper wife people have the same reaction.

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