I spent two hours helping a girl to get a new job

[ChumpChange]

27 minutes ago, steven100 said:

 

If correct   :

 

The strangest people I have ever met.

Cannot arrange anything or confirm anything.

 

 

I agree. That's why I normally refrain from trying to help or advise them. Normally it's hard to tell what they are really thinking or even if what they are telling you is the truth. Maybe what they are saying is also just for conservation purposes, especially when you don't know them closely. So I avoid it all completely unless it seems like a real emergency. 

[steven100]

3 minutes ago, ChumpChange said:

they are telling you is the truth

not in 100 years 

[Ralf001]

Had to move the GF on (she had family issues) so the wife and I agreed the replacement would be labour hire.

 

Many girls interviewed over line (took 3 hrs) we found a lady that is perfect for the position.

 

Lady starts her first shift at 9pm !

 

[ChumpChange]

5 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Lady starts her first shift at 9pm !

 

Ah, let the adventures begin. The surprises should be nothing short of surprising. 

[Ralf001]

Just now, ChumpChange said:

Ah, let the adventures begin. The surprises should be nothing short of surprising. 

Should be sweet as.... assuming she dont got a penis...good for the wife....no so much for me.

[ChumpChange]

1 hour ago, steven100 said:

The strangest people I have ever met.

Cannot arrange anything or confirm anything.

 

Welcome to the land of smirks smiles. 

[ChumpChange]

3 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Should be sweet as.... assuming she dont got a penis...good for the wife....no so much for me.

So she's a pipe cleaner?

[steven100]

Just now, ChumpChange said:

Welcome to the land of smirks smiles. 

to be honest ... I should have known better ....     never have ANY dealings with a thai....   

 

[ChumpChange]

Just now, steven100 said:

to be honest ... I should have known better ....     never have ANY dealings with a thai....   

 

When you are paying them for a service, usually you get about 80% of what you were expecting. Not so bad. Otherwise, forghettaboutit. 

[Ralf001]

4 minutes ago, ChumpChange said:

So she's a pipe cleaner?

does pipes and trenches..... gotta keep the Miso happy.

[madone]

2 hours ago, Mavideol said:

best way to learn English it's by ""injection"" 555

cringe

[ChumpChange]

17 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

does pipes and trenches..... gotta keep the Miso happy.

Fish farms as well?

[Ralf001]

4 minutes ago, ChumpChange said:

Fish farms as well?

bkk lass, doubt she from fish farm family.

[rattlesnake]

2 hours ago, ChumpChange said:

She doesn't want the job being offered. So she is delaying instead of rejecting your kindness and causing you to lose face.
 

2 months from now she would have another excuse why she's not ready or she will say she found another job already. Forget it, cut your loses and move on. 

 

Yep, it's the first thing that came to my mind: something bothered her during the process and she doesn't want the job anymore. OP, this is normal Thai behaviour, it's more about massive culture differences than IQ.

[rattlesnake]

1 hour ago, steven100 said:

to be honest ... I should have known better ....     never have ANY dealings with a thai....   

 

 

If you're not willing/able to navigate the cultural differences, then yes, probably the best option.

[PomPolo]

I've spent 15 years temporarily employing ladies you should have sent her in my direction I am sure we could have come to a contract agreement

[Gobbler]

6 hours ago, steven100 said:

I just spent 2 hours texting,  messaging,  getting LINE id .... 

she wants a new job,   my friend wants to interview her .....

 

then she says'    I cannot start for 2 months ...  

 

WTF  !!    these people are brain dead absolutely ,,,    why didn't she tell me that before I did anything   ???????????????????? 

 

Admit you were trying to get laid. 

 

I know.  Been there, done that. 

[GammaGlobulin]

When i first read the headline of this Topic, I thought it read:

 

"I spent two hours being a girl to get a new job."

 

My headline is better, I think.

Any opinions?