Why on earth would you even consider paying for sex in Thailand?

[Ralf001]

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

And also get you a jail term or a broken face.

 

Many things in life are not risk free.

[fredwiggy]

1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

 

Many things in life are not risk free.

And many are done by psychopathic people who have no business on earth.

[Ralf001]

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

And many are done by psychopathic people who have no business on earth.

 

Yeah, there's a few whack jobs out there.

[Celsius]

Never paid more than Tinder gold subscription and a meal

 

 

 

[sidjameson]

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

Never paid more than Tinder gold subscription and a meal

 

 

 

How much was the meal?

[sidjameson]

On 2/25/2025 at 1:23 AM, SAFETY FIRST said:

I don't pay for sex, my payment is made to get rid of her, I pay her on her way out the door. 

 

Crikey, I've got things to do, can't have her hanging around all day, they get annoying after a while. 

 

When you walk out of a restaurant what did you pay for?

[NoshowJones]

On 2/24/2025 at 5:05 PM, JoseThailand said:

why on earth would you do it?

 

regards,

joe

Members of the fat, ugly, big titties brigade will have to pay for sex, otherwise they would never get it.

[MeHere]

I like to pay for sex occasionally because I like variety at the drop of a hat without the need for commitment, implied or actual, except for the payment to leave.

 

Plus I'm older now, not super wealthy, and can't be bothered with both the rejection or the time it takes picking up women for one night stands.

 

Don't call us, we'll call you 😉 

[brewsterbudgen]

When in Thailand...😗

[happydreamer]

A wise man once told me...you're paying for her to go away afterwards.

 

Other than that, if it were me I'd say it saves time and energy.  When I was a younger man I used to like the idea of seducing women.  I had a lot more free time back then.  Life now is busy.  Needs to be like a grocery store item that I check off my list.  I couldn't care less about the emotional connection.  I get more out of talking to myself or my stray cats.

[jerrymahoney]

10 hours ago, happydreamer said:

A wise man once told me...you're paying for her to go away afterwards.

Although the modern reference to the above is mostly credited to Charlie Sheen in telling a judge in court, the real first public occurrence of the above is credited to Clark Gable:

 

“Why would you do a thing like that,” (Adela St. Johns) said, “when all you have to do is whistle? Or grin?”

 

“That’s why,” (Gable) said. “I can pay her to go away. The others stay around, want a big romance, movie lovemaking. I do not want to be the world’s great lover and I don’t like being put on that spot.”

 

https://quoteinvestigator.com/2020/01/15/pay/

 

 

[save the frogs]

10 hours ago, happydreamer said:

I couldn't care less about the emotional connection.  I get more out of talking to myself or my stray cats.

yeah ,,,, if you find a girl who is also your best friend it's something special and way better than just sex.

 

[Harrisfan]

25 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

yeah ,,,, if you find a girl who is also your best friend it's something special and way better than just sex.

 

Have you found one?

[hotsun]

30 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

yeah ,,,, if you find a girl who is also your best friend it's something special and way better than just sex.

 

They always change after marriage

[Harrisfan]

4 minutes ago, hotsun said:

They always change after marriage

Dont marry 

[save the frogs]

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[fredwiggy]

On 2/25/2025 at 11:35 AM, spidermike007 said:

Kind of a silly question. Since the beginning of modern history men have been paying for sex. You always pay. One way or another. It is always either a front end deal, or a back end deal. Always. 

 

And many pay for discretion. The last thing in the world we need is all the problems that come with a mistress or an occasional lover. Even when a relationship is long term and one is deeply in love, the sex still gets old and boring. And many women just do not have an interest past a certain point in their lives. So, discretion is needed, and by paying you get thay.

 

There are at least a dozen more valid reasons. 

Not taking into account that many hookers are forced into it in human trafficking, getting them hooked on drugs, forced into it by "parents" that want money for their daughters sexcapades, depression in many, babies born without fathers, STD's which are very high here, beatings and killings hookers get by johns and pimps, 

 

There is no excuse for paying for sex besides personal pleasure at the expense of many girls, women and boys who get nothing but a little bit of money, much of which goes towards drug use and alcohol to numb the pain of doing something you don't like, or worse yet, get used to. There are no valid reasons.

 

Prostitution is a bane on society and the only reason it continues is that thinking plus the money gained by those who promote it. Women get bored with sex because their partners look at them s an object, not to be listened to, expected to do their biddings, and being slaves in their own house. Men get bored with their partners for the same reasons. Their wife pulls away and doesn't want sex because they feel used. No excuses although they'll have plenty that aren't valid. Most normal women enjoy sex if they're treated as a partner and not an object.

 

I fully understand a teenager wanting to have sex with a prostitute because many are hot, and the teenage boy cannot get sex as easily as an older man who either knows how to treat women well, or knows how to bull<deleted> women to get laid. As a boy turns into a man, they should know how to treat a woman well enough for her to give him her body, and that becomes from good treatment they should have learned watching their fathers with their moms. problem is, what they saw might have been abuse, neglect or indifference, which are sex killers.

[fredwiggy]

4 hours ago, hotsun said:

They always change after marriage

People don't change much at all after age 30. By that time their real character has been developed. Some hide who they really are until they are found out later, just to get something from others. If you treat your partner as well as you treated them during dating, a normal partner will give themselves to you all the time. If you BS them until you get their sex, and expect them to like it later after you've returned to the real you, you're fooling yourself. I'm not taking about women who are only in marriage to get cash or things and don't really care who they're with as long as they get those things.

[fredwiggy]

17 hours ago, NoshowJones said:

Members of the fat, ugly, big titties brigade will have to pay for sex, otherwise they would never get it.

They would if they knew how to treat a woman right. There are plenty of women with overweight men who aren't rich but treat them better than the alpha losers they were with before. As a woman ages they learn what matters most,and know cash isn't a substitute for love and care. Some never learn and only want the gold, and they die lonely in their own homes.

[NoshowJones]

18 hours ago, NoshowJones said:

Members of the fat, ugly, big titties brigade will have to pay for sex, otherwise they would never get it.

What are you confused about? Are you one of them?

[MeHere]

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Not taking into account that many hookers are forced into it in human trafficking, getting them hooked on drugs, forced into it by "parents" that want money for their daughters sexcapades, depression in many, babies born without fathers, STD's which are very high here, beatings and killings hookers get by johns and pimps, 

 

There is no excuse for paying for sex besides personal pleasure at the expense of many girls, women and boys who get nothing but a little bit of money, much of which goes towards drug use and alcohol to numb the pain of doing something you don't like, or worse yet, get used to. There are no valid reasons.

 

Prostitution is a bane on society and the only reason it continues is that thinking plus the money gained by those who promote it. Women get bored with sex because their partners look at them s an object, not to be listened to, expected to do their biddings, and being slaves in their own house. Men get bored with their partners for the same reasons. Their wife pulls away and doesn't want sex because they feel used. No excuses although they'll have plenty that aren't valid. Most normal women enjoy sex if they're treated as a partner and not an object.

 

I fully understand a teenager wanting to have sex with a prostitute because many are hot, and the teenage boy cannot get sex as easily as an older man who either knows how to treat women well, or knows how to bull<deleted> women to get laid. As a boy turns into a man, they should know how to treat a woman well enough for her to give him her body, and that becomes from good treatment they should have learned watching their fathers with their moms. problem is, what they saw might have been abuse, neglect or indifference, which are sex killers.

 

Nice op-ed / lecture... Generalized much?

In the end, paying for sex is the same as paying for a manicure, or a massage, or a carnival ride even

[fredwiggy]

Just now, MeHere said:

 

Nice op-ed / lecture... Generalized much?

In the end, paying for sex is the same as paying for a manicure, or a massage, or a carnival ride even

Except one can get you a disease, the girl beaten or worse, and contribute to human trafficking, while the others take care of your nails, relax you and give you a thrill.

[NoshowJones]

On 2/24/2025 at 8:49 PM, Nomoneynohoney said:

Why not

There is a certain class of guys who would need to pay for sex and pay well, otherwise they would never get it. Step forward the members of the "ugly, fat bellied, big tittied brigade".

[Suitcase]

On 2/24/2025 at 5:05 PM, JoseThailand said:

why on earth would you do it?

 

regards,

joe

 

[Suitcase]

Because paying for sex is cheaper than having a boring life by getting married

[Suitcase]

On 2/24/2025 at 8:18 PM, JackGats said:

Many men want to look down on men who pay for sex. When I see what they have for free as a woman, I think SHE would have to be the one paying me.

 

[Suitcase]

The dogs a lot of these guys are married to and sleeping with is unbelievable

Give me a beautiful sex worker any day

Never boring, never complaining, never unsatisfied

 

[Suitcase]

On 2/25/2025 at 8:23 AM, SAFETY FIRST said:

I don't pay for sex, my payment is made to get rid of her, I pay her on her way out the door. 

 

Crikey, I've got things to do, can't have her hanging around all day, they get annoying after a while. 

 

Thai girls get annoying after 1 hour

For most of them what do you talk about after you've had sex

[KireB]

A lot of guys want to punch above their weight, will get turned down, hence pay for the service. Very sleezy. 

 

Ivagree with the OP, there is no need to pay for love, plenty of fish in the ocean. These girls hate being with smelly, sweating, thrice their age farang sex tourists.

[KhunLA]

16 minutes ago, Suitcase said:

Because paying for sex is cheaper than having a boring life by getting married

That would obviously depend on the 'choices' you make ... who you decide to live with or marry.  Being in a relationship, for me, is definitely cheaper.  Though definitely not a reason to be in one.

 

#6 was a winner for me, 3 marriages + 2 living in sin relationships prior to.  If not meeting her 19+ years ago, I'd probably still be single.  Definitely not as happy as I am now.

 

Do agree with the premise, there is no reason 'ever' to get married.  I didn't even bother for 8 years with the present wife.  That piece of paper isn't binding at all in my world, as before, if wanting, could simply walk away from this or any relationship.