Is it possible to rehabilitate a bargirl back into polite society?

[scorecard]

On 6/11/2025 at 9:06 AM, MalcolmB said:

I have noticed many of them do seem to be ungrateful and entitled.

I think it goes to their head.

 

Ever thought that some hate their work, have few choices, and would much prefer to go home but without some cash not very workable. 

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Nicco said:

These women with these explosive tempers they're always from the bar. Every freaking time

met a woman who runs a cafe.

but she used to run a bar.

she got tired of the neurosis of the girls working in there.

i guess when farangs are not around, their unpleasant sides must come out. 

 

[Cameroni]

36 minutes ago, Nicco said:

I couldn't imagine what he wakes up next to at home

 

I'll be waking up next to a 26 year old virigin I deflowered personally. Body count: 1. Me.

 

Enjoy your 47 year old.

[Cameroni]

33 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I have enough to cover everyone in my household, and a bit to spare for my wife's pals/kids every now and again

 

Of course. You do your own baked beans and buy 20 Baht peppers. You're loaded.

[hotandsticky]

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'll be waking up next to a 26 year old virigin I deflowered personally. Body count: 1. Me.

 

Enjoy your 47 year old.

 

 

What the heck do you want a virgin for? ,,,,,,,the worst experiences of my life.

[faraday]

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'll be waking up next to a 26 year old virigin I deflowered personally. Body count: 1. Me.

 

Enjoy your 47 year old.

 

Some of your posts are quite interesting.

 

This however, is not & seems a bit pervy.

[fredwiggy]

48 minutes ago, Nicco said:

 

My wife has a totally even temperament. She's never blown up at me or for any reason. If this happens it's totally un Thai and you should dump her. That's a lack of respect.

 

These women with these explosive tempers they're always from the bar. Every freaking time

Sometimes they come out of Isaan too.

[BritManToo]

16 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

What the heck do you want a virgin for? ,,,,,,,the worst experiences of my life.

Think it's an INCEL fantasy.

[SMIAI]

I absolutely didn't have a lot of money growing up. Though I didn't have nothing. The good thing about that, is that because I didn't have lots of money, I developed ways of living that didn't require lots of money. For example, if I needed to borrow from friends. I always paid them back when I said that I would pay them back. Even if I knew I might need to borrow again soon. Fiscal responsibility and the understanding that it's good to have friends.

Women, I couldn't afford to just throw money around, so had to find women who actually liked me and that I liked. Money didn't come into it. So, of course, that became my norm. Getting to know someone beyond their looks.

Useful skills learned along the way. So it's interesting to read about these 'men' who absolutely trash women because of their own stupid behaviour.

Just reading the 💩 they espouse puts one completely in the picture of WHY they have to pay. 

These are not likeable people. Their views are often repugnant. Ugly from the inside. The inside is what really matters, but they cannot bring themselves to do anything about that. So they pay and 'assume' that their experience is what everyone else perceives.

That's the way of the world. The good thing about these people is that they repulse us to the extent of knowing that we would not ever want to walk in that direction.

So for that, thank you.

 

 

[BritManToo]

22 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Of course. You do your own baked beans and buy 20 Baht peppers. You're loaded.

I prefer to call myself frugal, no point in throwing away good money.

[BritManToo]

13 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

Just reading the 💩 they espouse puts one completely in the picture of WHY they have to pay. 

These are not likeable people. Their views are often repugnant. Ugly from the inside. The inside is what really matters, but they cannot bring themselves to do anything about that. So they pay and 'assume' that their experience is what everyone else perceives.

Do you consider yourself 'likable people'?

I can't say I dislike @Harrisfan or @Cameroni, even if I do argue with them.

They'd probably be great company for an evening out.

[SMIAI]

Bird of a feather?

 

I'm obviously likeable if I can find real friends and keep them without having to pay for the privilege. 

 

I'm writing about those who espouse their repugnant and frankly pathetic views on women here.

If someone was talking that way in real life, my feelings would be the same. I of course would try to put them right, but dependent on their reaction, would view them as a lost cause or a possible friend/acquaintance.

But on the evidence here, I'd leave it. Better to know such people exist but to keep them at arm's length 😊

[Cameroni]

23 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

What the heck do you want a virgin for? ,,,,,,,the worst experiences of my life.

 

No baggage. Actually, that's not true. Even the virgin had a long distance rel with a guy, though they never met. But still, infinitely preferable to a 30 year old who's banged 10 to 20 dudes, had 5 or 8 serious boyfriends.

 

So this girl is not imprinted by another guy. She has no other attraction archetype. She was never taken to a 5 star resort or a rooftop bar by another guy, whatever you do with her she will appreciate as a first experience.

 

I was the first she ever had, so for her, I am her attraction archetype.  Plus, she's very warm, affectionate, loving and very into sex.

 

Yes, I know they don't have sexual experience, but this is where teacher comes in. Strict but fair. And in no time, she'll be a porn star. Dont' worry.

[Cameroni]

23 minutes ago, faraday said:

 

Some of your posts are quite interesting.

 

This however, is not & seems a bit pervy.

 

If that seems "pervy" you definitely don't want to see my home movies.

[save the frogs]

,,,,,

[Cameroni]

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

So how much will it cost you to turn her into a porn star?

 

Well, fortunately, she's paying her own flight from Bahrain to Bangkok, she has a high powered career as a domestic helper there so she has money. I may help her out with a flight from Bangkok to CM, so 2000 baht.

 

I would expect maybe 2000 baht per week to be the expense I need to budget for. Sex toys we have already.

 

PornHub is so 2007, if I wanted to do an Andrew Tate I'd have to put her on OnlyFans clearly. But then she'd really have to do unspeakable things. I had this Thai girl who did Only Fans, I can't even telll you here what disgusting things she did on OF, suffice to say they belonged in the toilet.

[SMIAI]

What happened to your girlfriend of two years? You know, the one you told us about. Paying her rent and subsidising her family. Not really your girlfriend then?

[Cameroni]

Just now, SMIAI said:

What happened to your girlfriend of two years? You know, the one you told us about. Paying her rent and subsidising her family. Not really your girlfriend then?

 

She says she still has to work two weeks in her aunt's textile shop before she comes down to Chiang Mai for good. I waited long enough. The virgin needs help to establish herself in Thailand with a job and she is definitely coming, so I need to focus on her for a bit. If and when the seamstress comes down, she'll get a chance. 

[Hummin]

4 hours ago, save the frogs said:

met a woman who runs a cafe.

but she used to run a bar.

she got tired of the neurosis of the girls working in there.

i guess when farangs are not around, their unpleasant sides must come out. 

 

 

When speaking to people, it is more about what they do and not do. What they say means nothing. 

 

When a girl tells you a story, she tell you what she wants you to believe, and by knowing her by time, you will learn whats true or not. 

 

 

[jimmybcool]

10 hours ago, transam said:

Dunno, mine was left-hand drive.......

 

The sound alone should have been a head turner in England.

[scorecard]

7 hours ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

What the heck do you want a virgin for? ,,,,,,,the worst experiences of my life.

 

Just your opinion.

[hotandsticky]

4 hours ago, scorecard said:

 

Just your opinion.

 

Yes...imagine that - on a forum.

 

Actually dumbass, it was a fact...but do feel free to enlighten us with your own experiences

[it is what it is]

 

more to the point...

 

Is it possible to rehabilitate a sex tourist back into polite society?

[GinBoy2]

So just a random question.

 

So you hooked up with a bar girl, you didn't meet at a dinner party, or work.

 

You were actually at the bar.

 

Do you need rehabilitating back into polite society?

[transam]

13 hours ago, jimmybcool said:

The sound alone should have been a head turner in England.

Indeed, I don't know how I got away with it for years. Twin 3.5" over axle pipes through stainless race mufflers...

This is why I changed the hood scoop, Warrior intake, 2" nitrous spacer, 800cfm Holley double pumper topped off with a K&N filter..😊

[Hummin]

12 hours ago, scorecard said:

 

Just your opinion.

Grown men still looking for virgins? Go figure, sounds sound and healthy 

[Hummin]

19 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

No baggage. Actually, that's not true. Even the virgin had a long distance rel with a guy, though they never met. But still, infinitely preferable to a 30 year old who's banged 10 to 20 dudes, had 5 or 8 serious boyfriends.

 

So this girl is not imprinted by another guy. She has no other attraction archetype. She was never taken to a 5 star resort or a rooftop bar by another guy, whatever you do with her she will appreciate as a first experience.

 

I was the first she ever had, so for her, I am her attraction archetype.  Plus, she's very warm, affectionate, loving and very into sex.

 

Yes, I know they don't have sexual experience, but this is where teacher comes in. Strict but fair. And in no time, she'll be a porn star. Dont' worry.

You have a weird way of looking at things. 

 

I would say so be the opposite, and having unrealistic expectations because she have no experience yet. There is novels, movies, love stories, friends bragging, 

 

You come out as a guy with very low self esteem how you describe your desires for a woman. 

[Cameroni]

13 minutes ago, Hummin said:

You have a weird way of looking at things. 

 

 

Well, you're Norwegian. Anything normal with women is weird for you. If Scandis are not on their knees praying to feminist politicians they're not happy. You can't see that's a lot weirder cause you were brought up that way. 

 

It's actually normal to prefer girls that are younger and haven't been pumped by10, 20 or 30 guys previously. It's weird having to explain this. It's like explaining water is wet. 

[Hummin]

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

Well, you're Norwegian. Anything normal with women is weird for you. If Scandis are not on their knees praying to feminist politicians they're not happy. You can't see that's a lot weirder cause you were brought up that way. 

 

So it's my nationality now? 😁

 

A woman hater is a woman hater no matter where he is from, so I really do not need to label anyone with their nationality when I reply to you. Post after post, in multiple threads the last week's you have been going almost 24/7 lashing out against women, and now you described your preference for virgin women 👏 No wonder you are in Thailand

[Cameroni]

10 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

So it's my nationality now? 😁

A woman hater is a woman hater no matter where he is from, so I really do not need to label anyone with their nationality when I reply to you. Post after post, in multiple threads the last week's you have been going almost 24/7 lashing out against women, and now you described your preference for virgin women 👏 No wonder you are in Thailand

 

I don't know why you have to lie so much, Hummin. I love women. don't hate them at all. Absolutely love them. That doesn't mean you can't write the truth about them. That's not "lashing out". It's just telling the truth. 

 

And yes, I like a woman that hasn't been railed by 30 dicks before. Again, just telling the truth. This preference has existed in all cultures for centuries. By saying it's weird, you don't actually realise that you're the weird one. But ok. Your life, bang 47 year olds with body counts in the hundreds. Your life. I really don't care.