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I take care family. Are bargirls really good mothers?

I take care family. Are bargirls really good mothers? 34 members have voted

  1. 1. I take care family. Are bargirls really good mothers?

    • Yes, the sacrifices they make to care for their children is commendable
      31%
      9
    • No,lazy, having fun, traveling with customers sending a minimum back home or a farang to pay hardly giving the kids a second thought.
      68%
      20

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4 minutes ago, madone said:

Anyone who performs sexual services for money earns every penny. 

Subtracting of course the pimps, bars and human traffickers wages.

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  • ColeBOzbourne
    ColeBOzbourne

    Why paint all bargirls with the same brush? Some are good mothers, some are not. 

  • You really do live for the wind up. Even putting the title in bar girl speak. I guess if you have little to no life, this might keep you busy for a day.

  • Yawn

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1 hour ago, scorecard said:

 

Some uneducated, very naive parents are convinced by procurers that it's all OK, goof job as a waitress, clothes provided, good food, cash salary and more.

 

Many of these parents have never been more than a few kilometers away from the village where they were born and have zero knowledge of the world. 

Honestly, everyone knows whats going around, they are not that uneducated anymore. 

 

The girls even speak openly about where they met the falang, often same family members, and same village girls teming up, share appartments, and brings their younger sisters as well. 

8 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Subtracting of course the pimps, bars and human traffickers wages.

you understood the intent.

Just now, madone said:

you understood the intent.

Yes, it's a very sad business and I feel sorry for those forced into it in any way. Not a good way to earn money, and also a very dangerous one.

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35 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Do you believe every girls reach 1000? 

Probably not the ugly or fat ones.

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I take care family. Are bargirls really good mothers?

 

Well, they're excellent negotiators. 

 

I got talking to a beautiful 23 year old, the usual come to CM. She agreed. But she wanted money to compensate her for not working. Said she was a masseuse and sent money home. So I asked how much do you send home?

 

She said "4000 Baht per day". So I asked, you send 124000 Baht home per month? What massage job pays that kind of money? She replied "Oh I clean in the morning and am also a freelancer. That's how I make 4000 per day".

 

Talk about mad negotiation skills. Respect.

9 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Probably not the ugly or fat ones.

Thought you stated yesterday to be polite and a good man, who wouldnt be rude. Nah, so wrong can you be, auch 😲☹️

 

Somebody hurt you so badly, and now you need to point your anger at someone? Nah, 

Just now, Hummin said:

Thought you stated yesterday to be polite and a good man, who wouldnt be rude. Nah, so wrong can you be, auch 😲☹️

 

Somebody hurt you so badly, and now you need to point your anger at someone? Nah, 

Daily..........🥴

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26 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Thought you stated yesterday to be polite and a good man, who wouldnt be rude. Nah, so wrong can you be, auch 😲☹️

 

Somebody hurt you so badly, and now you need to point your anger at someone? Nah, 

I wouldn’t say it to their face like Nick was saying I should.

 

Nah, I am fine. I don’t understand men who claim they were “hurt” by women???

Never been divorced so never been fleeced.

I’m good.

Good mom, bad mom...what choice do they really have? Staying at the village, spending time with the kids but maybe not having enough money to buy them school uniforms? Or better to leave the kids with the grandparents and go to a big city to earn money and support the whole family? Who wants to be the judge of that? What sense does it make to look at it from a Western point of view?

 

The biological fathers—Thai ex-boyfriend or ex-husbands—normally don’t give a flying f*** and don’t provide.

 

I’ve observed now for many years a case in my wife’s family. A lovely, now middle-aged lady, just not very lucky with her relationships. Two kids from different Thai-ex-husbands. She got solid education compared to many other girls in this area; finished college and got proper job training in IT and accounting. Always tried to provide by working hard and earning honest money.
As she’s getting older, it’s becoming more difficult to find work in a small town. She was basically forced to move to Bangkok to make enough money for her kids and her old mom. She is able to send home around 10k per month. Everyone speaks highly of her; for the family and neighbors, she’s a shining role model of a good daughter … and mom.
Don't think it would change anything if indeed she would work in a bar. Well , maybe she could send more money then...

 

27 minutes ago, transam said:

Daily..........🥴

Not funny, but I wonder if they understand themselves how bad it is. 
 

There is people memorizing their first pink glasses once back in the day, and can’t find a replacement, or they got so burnt by the one, first and only, and do not heal

Is the question about working bargirls who are mothers, or ex-bargirls who have left the business to raise a family?

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48 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Is the question about working bargirls who are mothers, or ex-bargirls who have left the business to raise a family?

Active ones in the bars addicted to yaba, drinking, sex and gambling.

 

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Active ones in the bars addicted to yaba, drinking, sex and gambling.

 

Is that in your local hangout...........?  🤢

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11 minutes ago, transam said:

Is that in your local hangout...........?  🤢

Only 5 nights a week. 
Not all of us go to bed at 8.30pm every night due to boredom.

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5 hours ago, madone said:

Anyone who performs sexual services for money earns every penny. 

I always make sure I get my two minutes worth

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8 hours ago, StandardIssue said:

Is this serious?

 

Do you hope to actually learn something of value with this two choice poll? 

 

WHY LOL!!

 

It's a troll account, so of course this is a troll.  That's why the questions are so loaded.  It's garbage.

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30 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

 

It's a troll account, so of course this is a troll.  That's why the questions are so loaded.  It's garbage.

No need to post 

Touchy subject for some I know.

7 hours ago, Hummin said:

Do you believe every girls reach 1000? 

Anyone who thinks most of these girls have rented to thousands has not been to Thailand and doesn't have a clue. If you visit Pattaya, where a large number of girls are for hire, it's obvious that most of these girls have a very hard time reaching one rental a month if they are lucky. The customer-to-girl ratio is very low, especially now in the low season, and the competition is steep. It's not a good way for most to make money. Most of them are just trying to get some drink commission, and most end up leaving and going back to their provinces due to a lack of business and "no money".

 

The only reason the place is loaded with girls is that so many come to try, and most fail. They hear about the success stories and want to try for themselves to win the jackpot. It's quite sad to see how they struggle to make money. If expats and tourists stopped thinking with their penises and used their brains, they would know what really goes on.

Not all girls who 'dump' thei children on grandma are bargirls.  Many work in factories in central thailand or work overseas.  The bigger concern, imo, is how grandma cares for those children.  Many grandmas in Isaan are lesser educated and not tech savvy which isn't a good environment for today's children.

16 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Only 5 nights a week. 
Not all of us go to bed at 8.30pm every night due to boredom.

Guessing again, got nothing else, cornered then........   😂

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9 hours ago, kokesaat said:

Not all girls who 'dump' thei children on grandma are bargirls.  Many work in factories in central thailand or work overseas.  The bigger concern, imo, is how grandma cares for those children.  Many grandmas in Isaan are lesser educated and not tech savvy which isn't a good environment for today's children.

Sure, but those kids don’t grow up with the knowledge that their mother is a prostitute.

Big difference.

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11 hours ago, JensenZ said:

Anyone who thinks most of these girls have rented to thousands has not been to Thailand and doesn't have a clue. If you visit Pattaya, where a large number of girls are for hire, it's obvious that most of these girls have a very hard time reaching one rental a month if they are lucky. The customer-to-girl ratio is very low, especially now in the low season, and the competition is steep. It's not a good way for most to make money. Most of them are just trying to get some drink commission, and most end up leaving and going back to their provinces due to a lack of business and "no money".

 

The only reason the place is loaded with girls is that so many come to try, and most fail. They hear about the success stories and want to try for themselves to win the jackpot. It's quite sad to see how they struggle to make money. If expats and tourists stopped thinking with their penises and used their brains, they would know what really goes on.

You have obviously never spent a full day in one of these places.

The prettiest girl will get 4-6 per day.

Gentlemans clubs in Pattaya, most of them aim for at least 3 per day. Or 90 per month.

They reach 1,000 in less than a year and a half on the job.

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

You have obviously never spent a full day in one of these places.

The prettiest girl will get 4-6 per day.

Gentlemans clubs in Pattaya, most of them aim for at least 3 per day. Or 90 per month.

They reach 1,000 in less than a year and a half on the job.

Our resident girl/boy orifice and sex employment venues expert has spoken..........:clap2:

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10 minutes ago, transam said:

Our resident girl/boy orifice and sex employment venues expert has spoken..........:clap2:

When was the last time you got any action?

How many years are we talking?

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

When was the last time you got any action?

How many years are we talking?

Many years ago, the car ran 11.5 @ 121MPH...........😘

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22 minutes ago, transam said:

Many years ago, the car ran 11.5 @ 121MPH...........😘

So about as fast as a second hand Honda Jazz.

Those TranSams were the poster boy of “All show, no go”

 

Overview
 
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The phrase "Trans Am all show no go" refers to the 1980s Pontiac Trans Am, a car known for its sporty appearance but criticized for lacking the performance to match its looks.

The engine, while producing a decent amount of torque, was known to be underpowered for its size, especially compared to other performance cars of the era. 

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

So about as fast as a second hand Honda Jazz.

Those TranSams were the poster boy of “All show, no go”

 

 

Overview
 
image.jpeg.0c0aaed38a97cc320b630fe346bc2723.jpeg

The phrase "Trans Am all show no go" refers to the 1980s Pontiac Trans Am, a car known for its sporty appearance but criticized for lacking the performance to match its looks.

The engine, while producing a decent amount of torque, was known to be underpowered for its size, especially compared to other performance cars of the era. 

You know nothing about cars, your picture is not a Trans Am..........🤣

 

The first Trans Am came out in 1969............🤣

 

The 1980 TA was a slug, do your homework............🤣 

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2 minutes ago, transam said:

You know nothing about cars, your picture is not a Trans Am..........🤣

 

The first Trans Am came out in 1969............🤣

 

The 1980 TA was a slug, do your homework............🤣 

I have forgotten more about cars than you will ever know.

I am sure you have heard Transams described as such but you will never admit it.

11 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

So about as fast as a second hand Honda Jazz.

Those TranSams were the poster boy of “All show, no go”

 

 

I Never realised those Pontiac Transmans were that slow.

 

Highly amusing an aging Jazz would beat it in a drag race !

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