19 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Are you living in Thailand and in a relationship with a Thai woman?

 

If so I would class you as a sexpat.

 

If you do not live here but when on holiday here you have sex with one or more Thai women that would make you a sex tourist.

 

If you come on holidays with your non Thai wife or girlfriend and don’t touch the local women you are just a tourist.

 

This clearly shows your deflection of your own behavior and trying to justify your character.   If married to anyone and being monogamous then you are not a sexpat.

 

If you aren't married or are and out f'n every hole you can find your a sex pat

9 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

....  Classic Malcy provocation...  calling anyone in a normal relationship with a Thai here a 'sexpat'...  

 

If someone from outside Thailand and moves here full time and is with one of the Thai women (who are world famous for sleeping with foreigners) is a sexpat.

 

Claiming “my one is different” doesn’t make a difference.

Same for the Philippines.

 

The term "sexpat" is a portmanteau of "sex" and "expatriate" and refers to a person, usually a male expatriate, who seeks out or engages in sexual relationships with locals in their host country.

The term is associated with a negative connotation.

 

 

It is what it is.

 

 

11 minutes ago, Dan O said:

This clearly shows your deflection of your own behavior and trying to justify your character.   If married to anyone and being monogamous then you are not a sexpat.

 

If you aren't married or are and out f'n every hole you can find your a sex pat

The term "sexpat" is a portmanteau of "sex" and "expatriate" and refers to a person, usually a male expatriate, who seeks out or engages in sexual relationships with locals in their host country. The term is associated with a negative connotation.

 

The poll so far shows 75% of us want brothels legalised.

 

 

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

If someone from outside Thailand and moves here full time and is with one of the Thai women (who are world famous for sleeping with foreigners) is a sexpat.

 

Claiming “my one is different” doesn’t make a difference.

Same for the Philippines.

 

The term "sexpat" is a portmanteau of "sex" and "expatriate" and refers to a person, usually a male expatriate, who seeks out or engages in sexual relationships with locals in their host country.

The term is associated with a negative connotation.

 

 

It is what it is.

 

 

Classic Malcy again....  

 

I'll tell my Mates married to Thai lawyers, business owners, diplomats...   are whores because some cretinous incel-brained skidmark of a monger can’t grasp a relationship that isn’t bought and is too dim and diseased to imagine a Thai woman who doesn't charge by the hour... 

 

 

 

10 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

 

Classic Malcy again....  

 

I'll tell my Mates married to Thai lawyers, business owners, diplomats...   are whores because some cretinous incel-brained skidmark of a monger can’t grasp a relationship that isn’t bought and is too dim and diseased to imagine a Thai woman who doesn't charge by the hour... 

 

 

I see I have triggered your hair trigger again. 

 
Since my Thai has improved and knowledge of Thai culture I am increasingly scoring with non-prostitutes.

 

Problem is I am retired and I have a lot of spare time and they have to work often six days per week so I still also use hookers for fun like most people who live here Thai men included. And I assume you do also though you admit you don’t want to admit it. 
 

It is not hard at all to score non hookers in Thailand if you present yourself well, say the right things and live here full time. I am grooming a 31 year old pharmacist with no kids in Phatalung at the moment. And 3 others.
 

If I do settle down one day with one of these women am I suddenly not a sexpat.
My grandfather once told me “you can kid others, but don’t kid yourself”

It is what it is.

We didn’t come here for the temples and beaches.

A lot of thai single women openly admit they want a farang, not just hookers Richard.

 

Sorry if the truth is too brutal for your sensitive ears Cupcake.

 

9 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I see I have triggered your hair trigger again. 

 
Since my Thai has improved and knowledge of Thai culture I am increasingly scoring with non-prostitutes.

 

Problem is I am retired and I have a lot of spare time and they have to work often six days per week so I still also use hookers for fun like most people who live here Thai men included. And I assume you do also though you admit you don’t want to admit it. 
 

It is not hard at all to score non hookers in Thailand if you present yourself well, say the right things and live here full time. I am grooming a 31 year old pharmacist with no kids in Phatalung at the moment. And 3 others.
 

If I do settle down one day with one of these women am I suddenly not a sexpat.
My grandfather once told me “you can kid others, but don’t kid yourself”

It is what it is.

We didn’t come here for the temples and beaches.

A lot of thai single women openly admit they want a farang, not just hookers Richard.

 

Sorry if the truth is too brutal for your sensitive ears Cupcake.

 

Aww... Mongy Malc is just learning about Thai culture and how to score off Thai friendly !!! 

 

Grooming - cos a 31 year old educated Pharmacist is truly interested in a boomer and doesn't have a handful of others on the hook at all... 

 

Cute - you believe your own bull...    Give yourself another award !!! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Malc is just learning about Thai culture ! 

I have forgotten more than you will ever know. 
 

Not all of us fell for the first “cashier” they met in Thailand.

Of course she is different.

12 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

doesn't have a handful of others on the hook at all...

It is very common for Thai women to have a few on the hook. 
At least you are not kidding yourself about that. 

9 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I see I have triggered your hair trigger again. 

 
Since my Thai has improved and knowledge of Thai culture I am increasingly scoring with non-prostitutes.

 

Problem is I am retired and I have a lot of spare time and they have to work often six days per week so I still also use hookers for fun like most people who live here Thai men included. And I assume you do also though you admit you don’t want to admit it. 
 

It is not hard at all to score non hookers in Thailand if you present yourself well, say the right things and live here full time. I am grooming a 31 year old pharmacist with no kids in Phatalung at the moment. And 3 others.
 

If I do settle down one day with one of these women am I suddenly not a sexpat.
My grandfather once told me “you can kid others, but don’t kid yourself”

It is what it is.

We didn’t come here for the temples and beaches.

A lot of thai single women openly admit they want a farang, not just hookers Richard.

 

Sorry if the truth is too brutal for your sensitive ears Cupcake.

 

If you 'settle down' with one woman, but continue using hookers and 'dating' other women, you remain a 'sexpat'.  But someone who gives up the hookers and dates to marry a Thai/foreign woman and remains faithful, is an 'ex-sexpat'.  Hope this helps.

 

 

11 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

....  Classic Malcy provocation...  calling anyone in a normal relationship with a Thai here a 'sexpat'...  

 

Thats because he has no valid response and is using self projection of his own character onto others to get validation of his own actions.

10 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I see I have triggered your hair trigger again. 

 
Since my Thai has improved and knowledge of Thai culture I am increasingly scoring with non-prostitutes.

 

Problem is I am retired and I have a lot of spare time and they have to work often six days per week so I still also use hookers for fun like most people who live here Thai men included. And I assume you do also though you admit you don’t want to admit it. 
 

It is not hard at all to score non hookers in Thailand if you present yourself well, say the right things and live here full time. I am grooming a 31 year old pharmacist with no kids in Phatalung at the moment. And 3 others.
 

If I do settle down one day with one of these women am I suddenly not a sexpat.
My grandfather once told me “you can kid others, but don’t kid yourself”

It is what it is.

We didn’t come here for the temples and beaches.

A lot of thai single women openly admit they want a farang, not just hookers Richard.

 

Sorry if the truth is too brutal for your sensitive ears Cupcake.

all this is possible in your dreams but carry on with fantasy, it'' give your brain something to do  

13 minutes ago, Dan O said:

Thats because he has no valid response and is using self projection of his own character onto others to get validation of his own actions.

I didn’t make up the definition of a sexpat. 
 

10 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

I'll tell my Mates married to Thai lawyers, business owners, diplomats...

5555555

Diplomats, yeah right! 
My mate is married to Paetongtarn Shinawatra 

10 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

The term "sexpat" is a portmanteau of "sex" and "expatriate" and refers to a person, usually a male expatriate, who seeks out or engages in sexual relationships with locals in their host country. The term is associated with a negative connotation.

 

The poll so far shows 75% of us want brothels legalised.

 

 

You are posting moronic bs as usual to find justification for being a sexpat monger.  Sexpat is a euphemism but not in the context that you claim. To be a sexpat and monger you have to actively pursuit sex with "locals" just for the shear intent of sex without regard to the other persons feelings or intents and with no intention of continuing any type of relationship. Thats just what you claim the thai women are all doing to foriegners, which isnt accurate either. 

 

This is all just your way to self validate worth and a lack of character and ego. Your sole purpose to come here is just to try and have as much sex as possible while you deceive most of those you claim you are conditioning. That actually can be considered human trafficking so I wouldnt be bragging about your claimed exploits.

 

Living here permanently and having a normal relationship with a local or any other person in no way implies or comes close to being a sexpat. 

 

Your ignorance of the sexual culture engrained in Thailand for bargirls, hookers, or ladyboys, massage parlors, etc,  clearly shows. Considering all those choices are readily available and not discouraged unless the practicing partner is a foreigner offering services what is the need for "legal brothels" ?  For a sexpat you certainly seem ignorant to what's really going on here

7 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I didn’t make up the definition of a sexpat. 
 

no you just bastardized it to try to feel better about yourself

On 6/21/2025 at 7:49 AM, thesetat said:

I agree... quite ridiculous the prices now are. And yes you can find the same or cheaper in the US as well as better quality figures on the women.But there are some who want that Asian experience haha.. They drink and their peckers get hard and they stop using their bigger heads. haha.. 

Not all the women asking so much. But average is 100 US or more now if wanting an hour alone with one of these Thai women. 

If you're paying $100 or more for an hour with a Thai woman in Pattaya, you're a goose without a clue. I can spend 3 whole nights with a Thai woman for that, and their figures are just fine. Stay away from Gogo clubs and do some homework. The average in the US is $100? How did you calculate that in a country with 50 states?

9 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

If you're paying $100 or more for an hour with a Thai woman in Pattaya, you're a goose without a clue. I can spend 3 whole nights with a Thai woman for that, and their figures are just fine. Stay away from Gogo clubs and do some homework. The average in the US is $100? How did you calculate that in a country with 50 states?

Sorry you can not understand English... But when i said 100 US... It meant US dollars.. to pay a thai woman... Do you understand now?

14 minutes ago, thesetat said:

Sorry you can not understand English... But when i said 100 US... It meant US dollars.. to pay a thai woman... Do you understand now?

 

Must have been a long time since you bought tail in the states, it hasn't been 100.00 since the scamdemic.

5 hours ago, thesetat said:

Sorry you can not understand English... But when i said 100 US... It meant US dollars.. to pay a thai woman... Do you understand now?

I think you're the one who doesn't understand basic English.

 

I asked you a rhetorical question as follows: "The average in the US is $100?" (per hour) Discussing $100 US (100 USD) and approximately 3,200 THB, based on the current exchange rate. I didn't need you to answer the question. It's complete and utter nonsense.

7 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I didn’t make up the definition of a sexpat. 
 

Stop with the bs. "sexpat" is not an official word in the dictionary, so you or anyone else can give it any meaning they want.

36 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

I think you're the one who doesn't understand basic English.

 

I asked you a rhetorical question as follows: "The average in the US is $100?" (per hour) Discussing $100 US (100 USD) and approximately 3,200 THB, based on the current exchange rate. I didn't need you to answer the question. It's complete and utter nonsense.

Why did you quote US prices regarding Thai services on a Thai forum?

19 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

....  Classic Malcy provocation...  calling anyone in a normal relationship with a Thai here a 'sexpat'...  

 

It's another baiting thread.............

3 minutes ago, transam said:

19 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

....  Classic Malcy provocation...  calling anyone in a normal relationship with a Thai here a 'sexpat'...  

 

It's another baiting thread.............

 

 

Its so transparent - I really don't know how he gets away with it and has not been banned... 

32 minutes ago, DezLez said:

Why did you quote US prices regarding Thai services on a Thai forum?

Go back and read the post I quoted. Thesetat was comparing US prices with Thailand prices, not me. 

 

On 6/21/2025 at 7:49 AM, thesetat said:

I agree... quite ridiculous the prices now are. And yes you can find the same or cheaper in the US as well as better quality figures on the women.But there are some who want that Asian experience haha.. They drink and their peckers get hard and they stop using their bigger heads. haha.. 

Not all the women asking so much. But average is 100 US or more now if wanting an hour alone with one of these Thai women. 

1 hour ago, JensenZ said:

I think you're the one who doesn't understand basic English.

 

I asked you a rhetorical question as follows: "The average in the US is $100?" (per hour) Discussing $100 US (100 USD) and approximately 3,200 THB, based on the current exchange rate. I didn't need you to answer the question. It's complete and utter nonsense.

Wrong again and trying to make excuses..... it is really ok you missed the part when i said 100 US and thought i said 100 in the US.. Simple mistake .... 

9 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

Go back and read the post I quoted. Thesetat was comparing US prices with Thailand prices, not me. 

 

On 6/21/2025 at 7:49 AM, thesetat said:

I agree... quite ridiculous the prices now are. And yes you can find the same or cheaper in the US as well as better quality figures on the women.But there are some who want that Asian experience haha.. They drink and their peckers get hard and they stop using their bigger heads. haha.. 

Not all the women asking so much. But average is 100 US or more now if wanting an hour alone with one of these Thai women. 

Then quote both prices. You only quoted the prices in the US !!

Why should people have to use calculators to understand a meaningless post?

13 hours ago, thesetat said:

Wrong again and trying to make excuses..... it is really ok you missed the part when i said 100 US and thought i said 100 in the US.. Simple mistake .... 

You made a stupid comment, so own up to it.

13 hours ago, DezLez said:

Then quote both prices. You only quoted the prices in the US !!

Why should people have to use calculators to understand a meaningless post?

What's your problem? The converted rate was clearly stated in the earlier post... now go away and annoy someone else with inane, irrelevant comments on nothing.

Just now, JensenZ said:

What's your problem? The converted rate was clearly stated in the earlier post... now go away and annoy someone else with inane, irrelevant comments on nothing.

I am glad that you agree that your post was a "nothing" post.

On 6/25/2025 at 9:27 PM, MalcolmB said:

Are you living in Thailand and in a relationship with a Thai woman?

 

If so I would class you as a sexpat.

 

If you do not live here but when on holiday here you have sex with one or more Thai women that would make you a sex tourist.

 

If you come on holidays with your non Thai wife or girlfriend and don’t touch the local women you are just a tourist.

 

If you're living in Thailand and in a relationship with a Thai woman that makes you in a relationship with a Thai woman. The same as a relationship with a woman in any other country. A sexpat is those like you that come here and pay for sex. The definition.......

Noun

sexpat (plural sexpats)

1. (slang) An expatriate who engages in sex tourism........
   sex tour·ism

   /seks ˈto͝oˌrizəm/

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   noun

   noun: sex tourism

   1. the organization of vacations with the purpose of taking advantage of the lack of restrictions imposed on prostitution and other sexual activities by some foreign countries............... What you class others as means nothing, as that's only your opinion.