I think it has to be a little dehumanizing to have sex without attraction,

 

But the same could be said of the men who frequent the nightlife

 

I've not had too many sexual encounters in my life, but they all were to a greater or lesser extent based on a romantic relationship.

 

Back in the day I don't think we did the hook up thing that much, and to be honest I could give myself a hand job and feel just as good.

 

I read on AN so many stories of the guys that pay for the ladies night after night, I think they are as damaged as the girls!

On 7/27/2025 at 12:22 AM, globalhouse said:

Perfectly said! 

It is not the women who to blame, it is the men who used and abused them, exactly the same has men moaning on here how good it was 40 years, the buck stops at these people