Toothpaste on my toothbrush, never, that would be a suspiciously pointless gesture, but she's still doing things that I appreciate after 15 years together.

 

Coked breakfast every morning ...

- Alternating English style and Thai style (photo of today's below)

Fresh fruit smoothies every day, even when we're traveling for work

Fridge that seems to fill itself with fruit,  fresh veg, could beers etc.

Helps me clean my motorcycle 

Books the car services

Works in our business 

Pays all the bills on-line

Orders stuff on Lazada for me

Keeps herself looking gorgeous 

 

 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

So what would you do if she has views that are totally out of whack with our own? 

I married a Republican. Not like one from this forum, obviously. 
 

 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, that's the sad truth, ultimately the man is more likely by far to be the one that pays more.

 

 

 

It’s not like a gun is held to our head.

 

5 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I married a Republican. Not like one from this forum, obviously. 
 

 

 

And you divorced because she voted Reagan?

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

It’s not like a gun is held to our head.

 

 

It's even worse, it's biology. We're victims of anatomy.

She voted for George Bush, the Senior, over Clinton. But was heavily swayed by crazy old Ross Perot.

 

Had she lived, the Trump sex stuff would’ve been a red line for her.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's even worse, it's biology. We're victims of anatomy.

We are affluent white men. We own the world. It will just have to do.

11 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

She voted for George Bush, the Senior, over Clinton. But was heavily swayed by crazy old Ross Perot.

 

Had she lived, the Trump sex stuff would’ve been a red line for her.

 

I'm sorry to hear that.

 

Though I do remember Ross Perot and how engaging he was. Had he been born with Trump's looks, and not the look of a shrivelled gnome witch he may have achieved something.

 

Yes, nobody likes men having sex. Even I don't like it, hahahahaha....when others have it I mean.

So how is your dating funnel?
 

I have the restaurant woman, but she has no time to see me. It’s mostly texting. It looks like a long slog to get her into my bed, which is very irritatingly only about 200 steps from her business.

 

I went out with a rich Japanese woman for an expensive coffee pour over. She rejected me for being 72. She is 60, she thought I was much younger. I still see her at the investment group and we are cool.
 

i’m going out with an American woman in an hour who is studying Chinese medicine over here. Probably my best luke warm prospect.

 

And I have three Tinder time wasters on the boil.

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

We are affluent white men. We own the world. It will just have to do.

 

Such a positive attitude. Acceptance is the pathway to happiness for sure.

Imagine trying to date over here as an Indian guy. I don’t have to imagine, Indian guys tell me about their misery.
 

There’s a terrible social group called internation’s in Bangkok

 

It should be renamed Desi sausage fest.

 

I respect their game, but they are doomed.
 

And just incidentally, they also poisoned the well for me at Internations due to their sheer numbers.

 

I think I am done with the social mixer concept in my research. It’s a lot of squeeze, no juice.

 

Just now, Prubangboy said:

So how is your dating funnel?

 

I have 5 women in the funnel now. One 24 year old from Phuket, my newest shiny marble. She wants me to come to Phuket, which I may do soon if I can't persuade her to just come here. She claims if I come she will come with me to CM. So I may have to go down there for 2 days, the things we need to do, honestly, it's inhumane.

 

Then there's my main Supermodel 25 year old, who says she'll come down soon, but seeing is believing. I'm losing patience with her tbh, but we probably have the most developed relationship. I

 

There's a Filipina virgin I deflowered who wants to come to be here at the end of the month, but she's crazy jealous and she's a classy girl so she's figured out I'm writing to others which has caused friction.

 

There's another Filipina who's the opposite of classy, a soft porn model, who wants me to save her from earthquake central.

 

Then there's a Thai virgin who was here already but did nto deliver, and now is asking for an aircon delivery, her grandmother is sick in hospital.

 

I'm not gonna lie, it's very expensive and pysychologically taxing.

 

5 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

She rejected me for being 72. She is 60

 

Yah, it's often the women with least options that have the most intransigent demands. I see a lot of fatties on the apps making big demands.

 

The American woman sounds promising.

3 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Imagine trying to date over here as an Indian guy. I don’t have to imagine, Indian guys tell me about their misery.
 

There’s a terrible social group called internation’s in Bangkok

 

It should be renamed Desi sausage fest.

 

I respect their game, but they are doomed.
 

And just incidentally, they also poisoned the well for me at Internations due to their sheer numbers.

 

I think I am done with the social mixer concept in my research. It’s a lot of squeeze, no juice.

 

 

Yes, Indians get a bad rep on many levels, one has to feel sorry for them. I've heard that a lot from Filipinas, they wouldn't touch Indians etc.

 

It seems the Russians and Ukrainians are killing it, obviously leveraging their blue and grey and green eyes and strawberry blond shocks of hair. Thai women go nuts for it.

 

Then there's the usually solid performers, Australians, Germans, Scandis, Americans. Thai women are so lucky, spoiled for choice.

 

Though I have noticed some Thai girls prefer Chinese, no doubt a monetary consideration.

Japanese is always a tough nut to crack
 

A friend  from my breakfast place pays his girlfriend 200,000 a month. He doesn’t mind that she’s an escort, but she’s not allowed to have sex with one specific man.

 

What could possibly go wrong with this scenario? He also sees other escorts on the side.

 

What is your game to keep snagging virgins?

I spent two weeks in Samui in a sort of a Russian New Age commune. They are very big on sound baths, meditation, and crystal worship. 
 

But they only go with each other. Even a Russian and the Ukrainian is pretty rare.

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Japanese is always a tough nut to crack

 

You're not wrong. I remember when I was working in the City of London, going to the best tiny Japanese resto of all time, a mom and pop, they introduced me to their daughter. Turned out she had a child! Of course nobody mentioned. I was young and blue eyed then, so I still tried to be nice, but had to be a hasty retreat when I could, she had a kid after all.

 

There's this blonde young kid from the US, a muscular tall guy, he's telling how hard Japanese chicks are, even for young blonde guys with model looks.

 

To be fair I think it's not much different in Thailand now, give women the perception of a sea of options with dating apps and of course their demands will go up.

 

8 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

A friend  from my breakfast place pays his girlfriend 200,000 a month. He doesn’t mind that she’s an escort, but she’s not allowed to have sex with one specific man.

 

I have a friend who's accepted his gf/wife has a Thai lover, and he still foots all the bills. He likes the company. He also sees escorts on the side, says he gets treated better. Which is a sad indictment on Thai womanhood.

 

 

9 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

What is your game to keep snagging virgins?

 

It's the way I select. Firstly very young.18 to 25. Then I purposely select for girls from the provinces, I aovid girls from Ko Samui, Phuket or other  tourist hotspots. If they post pics from Moscow, Paris, Germany, which they often proudly do, I know already they've been taken there by a guy. So I skip them.

 

My ideal prey is 18 to 25 and lives in the provinces, has no photos of European hotspots, and does not give the vibe of experience, ie tonnes of makeup, the 1000 cok stare, and the like.

 

So sometimes I get lucky. 

10 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I spent two weeks in Samui in a sort of a Russian New Age commune. They are very big on sound baths, meditation, and crystal worship. 
 

But they only go with each other. Even a Russian and the Ukrainian is pretty rare.

 

I was married to a Russian for 19 years. Wonderful big hearted and smart people. But they have a propensity to craziness, one can't deny it.

 

Can you imagine how a Russian man must view the propensity of Russian porn stars getting gangbanged by foreigners? How do they deal with it?

How many hours a day do you put into searching for women?
 

I find that the less I do, the better I do. So for me, maybe a half hour on Tinder and another half Texting and setting up dates.

9 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

How many hours a day do you put into searching for women?

 

Let's see first thing when I get up of course I write each of the five and tell them Good morning, I was thinking of you. But since I have the phone anyway, I check Bumble and TF for new prospects.

 

Annoyingly sometimes you match with someone on Bumble and then they dont' write and the match is lost, because I don't pay for the app.

 

On TF also lots of flakers.

 

I would say I spend 30 to 45 minutes in the morning doing girl phone. Then in the evening or afternoon another session on Bumble and TF, reaching out. Another 20 minutes or so. Then before I go to bed another 30 mins or so.

 

So I would say actual dating apps maybe 80 or 90 minutes per day. But the most time involving aspect is of course the texting with existing girls, you can't neglect any one of them.

 

I've also cut back, partly because I'm satiated with 5 girls, I think if I got more in the rotation it would really be too much. But of course, one can drop out at any time, so you still want to build pipeline.

35 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I've also cut back, partly because I'm satiated with 5 girls, 

You are aiming high as an old dog chasing young innocents. I just want Netflix and Chill with someone who still looks tolerable.

 

But as America's master motivation said, you can only hit a target that you can see. You know what you want and just keep firing arrows at it. And you're willing to buy all of those plane tickets. Respect.

 

I don't really know what I want, and I am in no real hurry to get it.

 

Would I get on a plane for a date? In a heartbeat. In that way, we are alike.

 

Story: My best friend wanted kinky sex in Brazil. He treated it like a military campaign. He's in a very kinky, life partner situation in Brazil. 

6 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

You are aiming high as an old dog chasing young innocents.

 

Well, yes, I'm aiming very high. As my aim is not to collect girls in the plural. I just want one high quality girl to settle down with now.

 

But clearly you can't put all your eggs in one basket at this stage. I must say I was shocked how disappointing some of the vetted good prospects were in their behaviour. You just never know.

 

7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I don't really know what I want,

 

Mr Motivator is right of course, you need to know what you're looking for, or you won't see it.

 

8 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

My best friend wanted kinky sex in Brazil. He treated it like a military campaign. He's in a very kinky, life partner situation in Brazil. 

 

As the bible says, "ask and ye shall be given"...

 

 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

You're not wrong. I remember when I was working in the City of London, going to the best tiny Japanese resto of all time, a mom and pop, they introduced me to their daughter. Turned out she had a child! Of course nobody mentioned. I was young and blue eyed then, so I still tried to be nice, but had to be a hasty retreat when I could, she had a kid after all.

 

There's this blonde young kid from the US, a muscular tall guy, he's telling how hard Japanese chicks are, even for young blonde guys with model looks.

 

To be fair I think it's not much different in Thailand now, give women the perception of a sea of options with dating apps and of course their demands will go up.

 

That does not describe the Japan I know.

 

I lived in downtown Roppongi, Tokyo for many years. Whether women in my office, women met in bars, or women introduced by friends, I found Japanese women very matter-of-fact about sex and they seemed to consider it just a normal bodily function and part of getting to know someone. It almost seemed like an insult if you didn't try to bed them early on, if not the very first date.

 

I do not think my experience was unusual, as my friends also enjoyed a good deal of cultural exchange, so to speak.

8 minutes ago, Wingate said:

That does not describe the Japan I know.

 

I lived in downtown Roppongi, Tokyo for many years. Whether women in my office, women met in bars, or women introduced by friends, I found Japanese women very matter-of-fact about sex and they seemed to consider it just a normal bodily function and part of getting to know someone. It almost seemed like an insult if you didn't try to bed them early on, if not the very first date.

 

I do not think my experience was unusual, as my friends also enjoyed a good deal of cultural exchange, so to speak.

 

That's not the word from the ground in Japan currently. That guy is tall, blonde, ripped and handsome, and he still got Japanese girls giving him blue balls. 

 

 

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Oh I forgot one thing!

 

In a seafood restaurant she started to peel all my prawns for me. That was quite touching. Though it turned out her mother had told her to do it.

 

 

No, I meant the attitude of women has now changed markedly. The same girl that peeled the prawns for me told me I had to do housework and that now women and men are equal.

 

Without western feminism, it is inconceivable any woman would have displayed this attitude.

 

And this also informs the behaviour of women generally now, in terms of how they expect to be treated.

 

I think she's telling you that if you end up alone, you should know how to look after yourself. She's showing concern 😊

 

Mine always peels the prawns. Once around seventy of them. Though to be fair, she likes seafood...and no, she's is neither fat nor of large frame.

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

 

I think she's telling you that if you end up alone, you should know how to look after yourself. She's showing concern 😊

That's preposterous. What are women for?

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

That's preposterous. What are women for?

 

To keep you company when you are old.

2 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

To keep you company when you are old.

 

And what good is company if she doesn't make coffee, do the dishes and clean the floors?

 

That's why we have women in the first place, surely?

10 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

This has been a bit of folklore like getting a letter claiming that the water buffalo has died for at least 40 years.
 

It seems like a very odd thing for someone to do, leaving the toothpaste out all night.

 

Has this ever happened to you?

 

 

Yes, my wife does

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

And what good is company if she doesn't make coffee, do the dishes and clean the floors?

 

That's why we have women in the first place, surely?

 

She can. But you must learn to do it too, lest you end up old, lonely and invalid.

3 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

She can. But you must learn to do it too, lest you end up old, lonely and invalid.

 

My God, I don't want to!