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Aren't you embarrassed to live in Pattaya

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Like I posted at the end, you don´t do ignore, even if you say that. That kind of calls you out on your lies, right? Because what you said about ignore wasn´t true, and then we can assume it might be more lies. In other words, all you say isn´t true. Glad we have established that as a fact now! 😊

47 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Every thing I've ever said about me is the truth. That some turn it around is on THEM, and not me. Any opinions anyone makes about me are meaningless, especially if they contradict what I've said.

That kind of goes together with this statement above. With one great difference, that you seem to never be able to understand. It´s your opinion that you tell. Does the two mother of your children have the same opinion? No, I didn´t think so. Therefore, we stand with a choice, who we should believe, and think are telling the truth. I just go with the majority here, as well as your behavior pattern of this forum. That just tells me it 2 against one, and the chance that they are giving the right opinion is bigger.

56 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I never said anyone couldn't reply about my life. Of course others can relate to, and discuss things that are written here, especially if they also went through some of the same things.

No, you never said that, but right here you stupidly believe that you can post in an open forum and after, like above, put conditions on who can discuss, reply and engage with your content.

54 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Maybe try boning up on your English skills, as you keep missing the point. Why would you have a problem with anyone talking about their lives in an online forum? Wouldn't that be getting involved where you haven't any business? If you're so happy in your life, why bother talking to anyone here about their lives if all you get is a fraction of it and you can't understand it's been the truth all along? I've never put myself on a pedestal so that's another one of your mistakes. Never said I was a know it all in my life either.

See, predictable. Now you are there again with English skills. Think I already explained that for you, so no need to repeat myself. That´s your job.
By putting it in an open forum, you made it everyone's business. Still don´t grasp that. right?

58 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

If you're so happy in your life, spend time with your family instead of wasting time being wrong here.

Remember, I could also do exactly like you do. take that "very happy life with a good woman and fantastic children" and do what you do. Maybe you're a wife beater, unable to defend himself against a man so take it out on his wife and possibly kids, leave them home while you're out with ladyboys, visiting 100 Thai cities and not supporting that family. See, I can assume like you and those other two do. No one here knows you, so all you say could be lies.

Don´t worry, Freddy! This rakes up so small time of my life. It´s like a side hobby. I have a lot of time with wife and children.

What are talking about? I should be a wife beater, cannot defend myself against a man? You would be surprised to know how good I can defend myself. Apparently, I like ladyboys too. Visiting 100 Thai cities and not supporting my family. Yeah yeah, earth calling Freddy! That cannot come out of nothing, or you are very inventive. I think you are talking about yourself and the reason why things went pear-shaped. 😂

Now try to tell the truth and no more lies about ignoring. Like I said, you can´t It´s not in your DNA!

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2 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

Like I posted at the end, you don´t do ignore, even if you say that. That kind of calls you out on your lies, right? Because what you said about ignore wasn´t true, and then we can assume it might be more lies. In other words, all you say isn´t true. Glad we have established that as a fact now! 😊

That kind of goes together with this statement above. With one great difference, that you seem to never be able to understand. It´s your opinion that you tell. Does the two mother of your children have the same opinion? No, I didn´t think so. Therefore, we stand with a choice, who we should believe, and think are telling the truth. I just go with the majority here, as well as your behavior pattern of this forum. That just tells me it 2 against one, and the chance that they are giving the right opinion is bigger.

No, you never said that, but right here you stupidly believe that you can post in an open forum and after, like above, put conditions on who can discuss, reply and engage with your content.

See, predictable. Now you are there again with English skills. Think I already explained that for you, so no need to repeat myself. That´s your job.
By putting it in an open forum, you made it everyone's business. Still don´t grasp that. right?

Don´t worry, Freddy! This rakes up so small time of my life. It´s like a side hobby. I have a lot of time with wife and children.

What are talking about? I should be a wife beater, cannot defend myself against a man? You would be surprised to know how good I can defend myself. Apparently, I like ladyboys too. Visiting 100 Thai cities and not supporting my family. Yeah yeah, earth calling Freddy! That cannot come out of nothing, or you are very inventive. I think you are talking about yourself and the reason why things went pear-shaped. 😂

Now try to tell the truth and no more lies about ignoring. Like I said, you can´t It´s not in your DNA!

Still too ignorant to see the truth.

And you said it yourself, " and then we can "assume" it might be more lies."..............You and two other usual suspects isn't much of a "we".

The wives wanted to come back. I divorced them. I had custody of the children. Hard for you to understand this simple fact? Two women isn't a majority. It's two out of the almost 100 I've been with, and I had almost no problem with any of the others besides the cheaters and liars, which were just a very few. Still hard to understand?

When you treat a woman well, with respect, love, kindness, care and provide, and they do things a woman shouldn't do, it's on them.

Maybe you really don't understand women, haven't been with but a couple, and came here because it was easier to find one that wanted money first, so have little idea how a lot of women worldwide work. That there are a lot of damaged and yes evil women around, that cause harm to decent men and the children created. That you have little life experience with women is obvious, basing it on living here with one woman.

My behavior pattern isn't a pattern. Suffering the fools and dealing with the tactics of trolls is everyone's problem. I have no problem with anyone here besides a few, and like I said, everyone has problems with them also.

You're not as bad but you're slowly catching up, because your inability to look outside what a couple of others here have said, which is joining the ranks of the trolls. You put down foreigners from either ignorance or prejudice, and it's been obvious all along, so that's already a problem.

Irrational behavior is on you.

In life itself, the only people I haven't gotten along with, and it's been very few, have either been diagnosed with a personality disorder or have obvious symptoms of one, which is obvious of those 3 here. Not a good idea to again, join their ranks.

Also, I have no problem discussing my life with others, as many can relate to others in things that have happened to them. When a person hears what you say and constantly takes it another way, assumes things that never happened,hears how the other side has done wrong things to others both before and after, and demeans you, and brings up what was said time and again, all assumptions, that's their problem and has nothing to do with you. If you can't understand this, best to stay out of another's life, as you sound like a clueless teenager that hasn't enough life experience to understand how the adult world works. That you have a wife and children here means nothing, as that's easy to do if you have money. and no one here knows how you really are anyway, though I won't act like a dickhead and assume things.

I don't lie, and you not believing it matters none, as your opinion also means nothing. And maybe you're right, that your English skills aren't the problem but your lack of experience with women that has you failing to see how some are. Or possibly you just aren't that bright.

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Just now, fredwiggy said:

Still too ignorant to see the truth.

And you said it yourself, " and then we can "assume" it might be more lies."..............You and two other usual suspects isn't much of a "we".

The wives wanted to come back. I divorced them. I had custody of the children. Hard for you to understand this simple fact? Two women isn't a majority. It's two out of the almost 100 I've been with, and I had almost no problem with any of the others besides the cheaters and liars, which were just a very few. Still hard to understand?

When you treat a woman well, with respect, love, kindness, care and provide, and they do things a woman shouldn't do, it's on them.

Maybe you really don't understand women, haven't been with but a couple, and came here because it was easier to find one that wanted money first, so have little idea how a lot of women worldwide work. That there are a lot of damaged and yes evil women around, that cause harm to decent men and the children created. That you have little life experience with women is obvious, basing it on living here with one woman.

My behavior pattern isn't a pattern. Suffering the fools and dealing with the tactics of trolls is everyone's problem. I have no problem with anyone here besides a few, and like I said, everyone has problems with them also.

You're not as bad but you're slowly catching up, because your inability to look outside what a couple of others here have said, which is joining the ranks of the trolls. You put down foreigners from either ignorance or prejudice, and it's been obvious all along, so that's already a problem.

Irrational behavior is on you.

In life itself, the only people I haven't gotten along with, and it's been very few, have either been diagnosed with a personality disorder or have obvious symptoms of one, which is obvious of those 3 here. Not a good idea to again, join their ranks.

Also, I have no problem discussing my life with others, as many can relate to others in things that have happened to them. When a person hears what you say and constantly takes it another way, assumes things that never happened,hears how the other side has done wrong things to others both before and after, and demeans you, and brings up what was said time and again, all assumptions, that's their problem and has nothing to do with you. If you can't understand this, best to stay out of another's life, as you sound like a clueless teenager that hasn't enough life experience to understand how the adult world works. That you have a wife and children here means nothing, as that's easy to do if you have money. and no one here knows how you really are anyway, though I won't act like a dickhead and assume things.

I don't lie, and you not believing it matters none, as your opinion also means nothing. And maybe you're right, that your English skills aren't the problem but your lack of experience with women that has you failing to see how some are. Or possibly you just aren't that bright.

Wow Freddy now it´s focus on lack of experience with women. I probably have experience of about 200-300 after my travelling around the world.

And I don´t care about that or your about 100. The problem here is that you had problem with 100% of the experience with women you had children with. That´s just a bad track record, Freddy.

Now try to not lie no more. Ignore like you said.

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Wow Freddy now it´s focus on lack of experience with women. I probably have experience of about 200-300 after my travelling around the world.

And I don´t care about that or your about 100. The problem here is that you had problem with 100% of the experience with women you had children with. That´s just a bad track record, Freddy.

Now try to not lie no more. Ignore like you said.

Seeing women on the street isn't relationship experience. And you actually think that you know what goes on behind closed doors of anyone on earth? Maybe you don't realize how this world is. That most of life's problems begin at home, the majority from having an abusive, neglecting or spoiling father and or mother. That there are thousands of psychiatrists, psychologists and counselors on earth that deal with relationship problems couples have.

Having a couple of women that are loonies is every man's problem in life, unless of course they luck out and marry their first lady. You said you lost your first wife. Maybe it was your fault? Having a second in Thailand that stays means you have money, which is the reason many here stay with their men. Especially if they're much younger.

I know for sure you couldn't treat your wife any better than I treat women, as I do all a man can do and much that many won't. Starting out as a decent partner then reading all I could on how to treat a woman better, as well as learning how to listen to them.

You never fight with your wife? Everyone in any relationship since time began does, unless of course they are super controlling and abusive, and the wife is afraid of them, or you're pussy whipped, subservient to a demanding, controlling wife. Now go and tell all the other couples on earth they're having "trouble" in their relationships, as your seems to be an enigma.

Did your wife ever hit you because she was mad at her mother? Pull a knife three times because she this is how she is in even minor disagreements?

Hit your child in front of her classmates because she stole 100 baht from your wallet?

Hit and attacked every man she's ever been with, with her fists, an iron, used a knife on two. Hit your child with hangars?

Cheated on everyone, including her new husband now, with at least three men and telling me she still loves me and always will, and wants to return.

Sit and stare at the ceiling for hours after being asked if she would like to go somewhere, but her depression and ingrained sickness has her acting this way, mainly because she had an abusive and neglected childhood (her words, one of 11 children her mother had which were all neglected), beaten by both parents.

You have no idea what went on, and seeing you definitely lack life experience with women by your statements, maybe it's best to sit this out, as you're only making yourself out to be more of a fool

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Just now, fredwiggy said:

Still too ignorant to see the truth.

The irony...

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Seeing women on the street isn't relationship experience. And you actually think that you know what goes on behind closed doors of anyone on earth? Maybe you don't realize how this world is. That most of life's problems begin at home, the majority from having an abusive, neglecting or spoiling father and or mother. That there are thousands of psychiatrists, psychologists and counselors on earth that deal with relationship problems couples have.

Having a couple of women that are loonies is every man's problem in life, unless of course they luck out and marry their first lady. You said you lost your first wife. Maybe it was your fault? Having a second in Thailand that stays means you have money, which is the reason many here stay with their men. Especially if they're much younger.

I know for sure you couldn't treat your wife any better than I treat women, as I do all a man can do and much that many won't. Starting out as a decent partner then reading all I could on how to treat a woman better, as well as learning how to listen to them.

You never fight with your wife? Everyone in any relationship since time began does, unless of course they are super controlling and abusive, and the wife is afraid of them, or you're pussy whipped, subservient to a demanding, controlling wife. Now go and tell all the other couples on earth they're having "trouble" in their relationships, as your seems to be an enigma.

Did your wife ever hit you because she was mad at her mother? Pull a knife three times because she this is how she is in even minor disagreements?

Hit your child in front of her classmates because she stole 100 baht from your wallet?

Hit and attacked every man she's ever been with, with her fists, an iron, used a knife on two. Hit your child with hangars?

Cheated on everyone, including her new husband now, with at least three men and telling me she still loves me and always will, and wants to return.

Sit and stare at the ceiling for hours after being asked if she would like to go somewhere, but her depression and ingrained sickness has her acting this way, mainly because she had an abusive and neglected childhood (her words, one of 11 children her mother had which were all neglected), beaten by both parents.

You have no idea what went on, and seeing you definitely lack life experience with women by your statements, maybe it's best to sit this out, as you're only making yourself out to be more of a fool

You picked her. Wise men say...only fools rush in.

Six kids and not with any of the mothers. You think none of that is on you?

Did you watch the video that I posted in the mental illness thread?

A post containing multiple flames and personal attacks has been removed there is absolutely no justification for this level of abuse toward other members STOP IT NOW @IsmeUno

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16 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Seeing women on the street isn't relationship experience. And you actually think that you know what goes on behind closed doors of anyone on earth? Maybe you don't realize how this world is. That most of life's problems begin at home, the majority from having an abusive, neglecting or spoiling father and or mother. That there are thousands of psychiatrists, psychologists and counselors on earth that deal with relationship problems couples have.

Having a couple of women that are loonies is every man's problem in life, unless of course they luck out and marry their first lady. You said you lost your first wife. Maybe it was your fault? Having a second in Thailand that stays means you have money, which is the reason many here stay with their men. Especially if they're much younger.

I know for sure you couldn't treat your wife any better than I treat women, as I do all a man can do and much that many won't. Starting out as a decent partner then reading all I could on how to treat a woman better, as well as learning how to listen to them.

You never fight with your wife? Everyone in any relationship since time began does, unless of course they are super controlling and abusive, and the wife is afraid of them, or you're pussy whipped, subservient to a demanding, controlling wife. Now go and tell all the other couples on earth they're having "trouble" in their relationships, as your seems to be an enigma.

Did your wife ever hit you because she was mad at her mother? Pull a knife three times because she this is how she is in even minor disagreements?

Hit your child in front of her classmates because she stole 100 baht from your wallet?

Hit and attacked every man she's ever been with, with her fists, an iron, used a knife on two. Hit your child with hangars?

Cheated on everyone, including her new husband now, with at least three men and telling me she still loves me and always will, and wants to return.

Sit and stare at the ceiling for hours after being asked if she would like to go somewhere, but her depression and ingrained sickness has her acting this way, mainly because she had an abusive and neglected childhood (her words, one of 11 children her mother had which were all neglected), beaten by both parents.

You have no idea what went on, and seeing you definitely lack life experience with women by your statements, maybe it's best to sit this out, as you're only making yourself out to be more of a fool

Ok, we are there again! Freddy had a long boring rant. Nobody in the whole wide world have more experience and knowledge than you, Freddy.

I know what you will reply now. It will be that you never said you know more and have wider experience. However, that´s how it's always written, read and sound.

You are also superior when it comes to treating women, as you do all a man can do, and even things that many won´t do. The reality again, is that you do all you can do, and all that you want to do. What that is nobody knows. After that, you live in the bubble that people who don´t believe you or disagree with you, are less of a man. They have less experience and know less than you.

It´s just sad, when you are such a good man, that you couldn´t keep it together. That with 2 women who gave you children!? You know, if it is like below:

16 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Did your wife ever hit you because she was mad at her mother? Pull a knife three times because she this is how she is in even minor disagreements?

Hit your child in front of her classmates because she stole 100 baht from your wallet?

Hit and attacked every man she's ever been with, with her fists, an iron, used a knife on two. Hit your child with hangars?

Cheated on everyone, including her new husband now, with at least three men and telling me she still loves me and always will, and wants to return.

Sit and stare at the ceiling for hours after being asked if she would like to go somewhere, but her depression and ingrained sickness has her acting this way, mainly because she had an abusive and neglected childhood (her words, one of 11 children her mother had which were all neglected), beaten by both parents.

This is what you want people to believe. Sure, it might be true or not. We don´t know that too. However, if a woman has all these features and abilities, then I am pretty sure that most semi-intelligent men, with as much experience as you say you have, would have seen that before making babies.

16 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Seeing women on the street isn't relationship experience.

After that, we come to this one. Just because I posted I had greater experience with women than you, your defense mechanism went into auto gear. Then you try to wave that away with that I am counting women I just met in the street. I think it´s you that owns that problem. Sounds like it anyway.

Now, Freddy! Keep your words and ignore. Otherwise, it makes you stand out as a liar.

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Ok, we are there again! Freddy had a long boring rant. Nobody in the whole wide world have more experience and knowledge than you, Freddy.

Oh hell NO ... that would be me, you silly numpties 😄

Just now, KhunLA said:

Oh hell NO ... that would be me, you silly numpties 😄

But of course! I am sorry I didn´t think about that 😉😄

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Ok, we are there again! Freddy had a long boring rant. Nobody in the whole wide world have more experience and knowledge than you, Freddy.

I know what you will reply now. It will be that you never said you know more and have wider experience. However, that´s how it's always written, read and sound.

You are also superior when it comes to treating women, as you do all a man can do, and even things that many won´t do. The reality again, is that you do all you can do, and all that you want to do. What that is nobody knows. After that, you live in the bubble that people who don´t believe you or disagree with you, are less of a man. They have less experience and know less than you.

It´s just sad, when you are such a good man, that you couldn´t keep it together. That with 2 women who gave you children!? You know, if it is like below:

This is what you want people to believe. Sure, it might be true or not. We don´t know that too. However, if a woman has all these features and abilities, then I am pretty sure that most semi-intelligent men, with as much experience as you say you have, would have seen that before making babies.

After that, we come to this one. Just because I posted I had greater experience with women than you, your defense mechanism went into auto gear. Then you try to wave that away with that I am counting women I just met in the street. I think it´s you that owns that problem. Sounds like it anyway.

Now, Freddy! Keep your words and ignore. Otherwise, it makes you stand out as a liar.

200 women is low. You guys are novices.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

200 women is low. You guys are novices.

Nah, we just don´t count pay for play and sex only as counted in experience of women. But, good on you! Keep counting! It will add to less experience of real women.

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Just now, Rockyroad said:

200 women is low. You guys are novices.

300 Spartans?

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Nah, we just don´t count pay for play and sex only as counted in experience of women. But, good on you! Keep counting! It will add to less experience of real women.

As you say chef

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22 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

Wow Freddy now it´s focus on lack of experience with women. I probably have experience of about 200-300 after my travelling around the world.

sounds like an exaggeration.

it's not possible to have 200 relationships.

and just having sex with a woman and never seeing her again doesn't make you "experienced with women".

Just now, save the frogs said:

sounds like an exaggeration.

it's not possible to have 200 relationships.

and just having sex with a woman and never seeing her again doesn't make you "experienced with women".

It is if they are all from 2 weeks to a month. For a month on 200, that would not be more than 16-17 years of a person's life.

Just now, Gottfrid said:

It is if they are all from 2 weeks to a month. For a month on 200, that would not be more than 16-17 years of a person's life.

What a load of crap. Nobody goes from a 2 week relationship to the next non stop for 16 years.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

What a load of crap. Nobody goes from a 2 week relationship to the next non stop for 16 years.

Where did I post non-stop. What I posted was effective time. You are the one mentioning non-stop.

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Where did I post non-stop. What I posted was effective time. You are the one mentioning non-stop.

A relationship that does not end in marriage typically lasts 1 month to 2 years. Adults don't have 200 that last 2 to 4 weeks.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

A relationship that does not end in marriage typically lasts 1 month to 2 years. Adults don't have 200 that last 2 to 4 weeks.

Ok, if you say so. I think that depends on a person character. Some people just want to have fun, but only for a short time.

Now I don´t feel like discussing with you more, so bye bye!

Just now, Gottfrid said:

It is if they are all from 2 weeks to a month. For a month on 200, that would not be more than 16-17 years of a person's life.

yeah, so you had 200 two-week relationships.

did the women mostly break up with you or did you mostly break up with them?

It is annoying to be labelled by where you live or visit.

It's true that people Thais and otherwise make assumptions based on living in Pattaya whether they're fair or not.

I've had experiences with doctors in Bangkok and can tell they think poorly of f-rangs from there.

I remember running into an expat in Laos and we were having an interesting conversation and the moment I told him where I live, he basically ran away like I had cooties.

In my 30s and 40s I travelled abroad very often, and one time I had just been to Ibiza and a very snobby relative Pidgeon holed me for that. It didn't matter that I went there only once out of curiosity didn't have a great time and most of my trips weren't to such places.

Pro tip -- don't go to Ibiza if you're over 30.

Well you shouldn't live your life based on what other people think.

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Now I don´t feel like discussing with you more, so bye bye!

It is not possible to have a discussion with it!

All it does is post an insult or pointless question(s) in reply to any question or statement!

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Just now, Rockyroad said:

Nobody goes from a 2 week relationship to the next

Have you ever had a 2 week relationship?

Just now, Jingthing said:

I've had experiences with doctors in Bangkok and can tell they think poorly of f-rangs from there.

Most male doctors probably have mistresses, so there is hypocrisy going on.

The free lifestyle in pattaya is threatening to people who lead married lives. So of course most people will look down on it.

Just now, scottiejohn said:

It is not possible to have a discussion with it!

All it does is post an insult in reply to any question or statement!

At the same time, you might take a closer look at your own post. Why so angry all the time?

Just now, IsmeUno said:

At the same time, you might take a closer look at your own post. Why so angry all the time?

I am not making so-called angry posts!

I am just making very obvious comments about its continuous asinine posts!

Why do you keep jumping to its unwarranted defence?

It has the WORST reputation score record on AN for a very good reason!

Not bad at all! Maybe Pattaya will become the capital of sport in Asia ?

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