Bar girl

[Blackandwhite]

A bar girl is a lady that stands around in a bar, drinking with customers, then making them happy at the end of each day. Earning 1000 batt per night. Somtimes more!!!!!

It beats stood in factories for 12 hours a day sweating and getting paid 145 batt, That is an amazing £2.25 GBP.

[chonabot]

A Bar girl is someone who Brian seems to have problems with.....see previous posts

[Blackandwhite]

Poor Brian, Seams as if his attitude has got in his way a little in the los.

[Brian]

I certainly don't have any problems with bar girls. I have a befriended a couple over the years.

But I recognise that a prostitute by any other name is still a prostitute. Anybody that doesn't realise that is a fool.

BTW: I do not "bar fine" these girls. I'll buy them a couple of drinks and have a chat, but I certainly don't sleep with them.

[Blackandwhite]

BRIAN

PROSTITUTE: THIS IS A PERSON THAT HAS SEX FOR MONEY. THERE IS NO SIN THERE. SOME DO IT FOR NOTHING SOME DO IT FOR MONEY.

YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO YOUR OPINION BUT NOT EVERYBODY IS SO OLD FASHIONED IN THEIR THOUGHTS TO WHAT IS AND ISNT ACCEPTABLE. THE OLDEST TRADE IN THE WORLD IS PROSTITUTION. DO OU REALLY THINK IT WILL GO AWAY.

[pnustedt]

There's an interesting posting - "Farang Pub -Topic: Bar Girls - May 16 - poster Brian" page 4.

He, indeed, has nothing against Bar Girls, in fact he is a customer. He even had a prostitute who is married to a Thai seeing him off at the airport on his last trip. But she is "one of the most open and honest people that he knows" so maybe that's OK.

Girls who frequent bars are no better and no worse than men who frequent bars.

[Brian]

BRIAN

PROSTITUTE: THIS IS A PERSON THAT HAS SEX FOR MONEY. THERE IS NO SIN THERE. SOME DO IT FOR NOTHING SOME DO IT FOR MONEY.

YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO YOUR OPINION BUT NOT EVERYBODY IS SO OLD FASHIONED IN THEIR THOUGHTS TO WHAT IS AND ISNT ACCEPTABLE. THE OLDEST TRADE IN THE WORLD IS PROSTITUTION. DO OU REALLY THINK IT WILL GO AWAY.

Why are you yelling at me!

No, of course I don't believe that prostitution will ever go away. Where did you ever get that idea?

I personally don't believe that there is any sin in prostitution either. I firmly believe that it should be legalised.

I have no problems with prostitutes, and I don't have an "attitude".

I think that if you re-read my posts carefully then you will realise this.

I only asked a couple of questions, instead of getting answers, I cop abuse and have posters assume that I'm taking a negative or moral viewpoint.

The only person that decided to answer the questions isn't even married to a bar girl even though he seems to think that he is.

I also don't have problems with soi dogs. I just choose not to have them sleeping in my bed.

SOME DO IT FOR NOTHING

I don't think that they are called prostitutes if they are doing it for nothing.  

[mrentoul]

Most of my friends are young Thais. Some have no work, others are students of work in coffee shops and the like.

What is the main difference between someone working in a coffee shop (like my guy and several of his friends) and a barboy/bargirl?

In a coffee shop you don't have to put up with drunken westerners ogling, pawing and groping you. People are better behaved during the day than they are at night.

No one would be doing this work (or working in coffee shops for a pittance) if they really had a choice. When you look at it that way, it's not a sin to be a bargirl (or a prostitute). It's a matter of necessity.

I am watching you guys get tied up in knots, fencing off 'appropriate' behaviour from 'inappropriate', viz ''I drink with prostitutes but don't sleep with them'' (what, never?); or ''a prostitute took me to the airport but she's really open-minded'' (I am taking liberties with the last one, but who cares).

Do you think anyone is really interested? Bars will go on opening, and bargirls will carry on catering to westerners' needs because the marketplace has matched up demand and supply.

Bar staff need money to live on; and westerners in Bangkok like paying for sex. Th-th-th-that's all, folks!

[chonabot]

I also don't have problems with soi dogs. I just choose not to have them sleeping in my bed.

Soi cats any good then??....j/k...

[sevinnow]

Bar girls are one of the nation's biggest revenues for the Kingdom of Thailand behind the Culture,Budda and the beaches.

So now and again the authorities do the odd clamp down on a certain bar but close that revenue for good, not as long as Thailand is known as LOS.

Regards

Sev

[WISteve]

"I also don't have problems with soi dogs. I just choose not to have them sleeping in my bed."

Hehehehehehe...I'm an old whoremonger from way back Brian, but that is the best quote I've seen in ages!  Good one!

Take care,

WISteve

[Bkkcruzer]

Is a MP girl the same as a BG?

My GF works in a traditional Thai MP.  Of course you can get "special" service but no sex on the premises and I have hung out in the back room enough to know these girls are not leaving with customers very often.  So is she of the same social standing as a BG?

[Khun ?]

Brian next time you are welcome to buy the ladies drinks while I do the shagging.

BG = life support system for a pus**

Of course your girl will not be shagging when you are in the back room. She is a MG

[Bkkcruzer]

Actually I am about 99.9% sure my GF is not cheating.  She has passed every test I have thrown at her and she has told me about her past enough that I feel comfortable.  She has also never asked me for a single baht and I have to almost force her to accept gifts from me.  At this point if she is lying to me just to get money and a flight to the States it is one of the most well conceived cons going since I am by no means rich.  I guess she would deserve my money after all the work she would have had to go through  :laugh:

[100%abstract]

When you said that it's ok to be a prostitute, is the point still stands if your own mother, sister, or your daughter decide to take on that profession?

I am just curious.

[muay_thai]

My conclusion is as follows:-

Girl = Opposite sex of Boy

Bar = Place where money is passed over in return for a feeling of fulfillment / joy.

More money = more fulfillment.

I'm sure you can string the two words together to make sense of this.

[chonabot]

Muay Thai , what's happening with your saga?

Saga = a long detailed account

[Bud Zumwalt]

To Brian,

Who may possibly think, ''I drink with prostitutes but don't sleep with them''. Brain, did you get so drunk you missed the best part? Next time simply have one drink, just use a few words like how much ST or LT, during your only drink take the blue pill, 100MG or maybe 150MG is much better for Brian. Pay the "bar fine" then back to your place, always use protection, make sure she is compensated in the morning. Tip her if applicable. Give her taxi fare back to NaNa or Cowboy. None of this is possible if your married of course. My point is try it, if it has been awhile try to refresh your memory. Then tell us all truthfully if you rather shoot the breeze and get drunk then have a wonderful connection with a beautiful woman.

Note this is only my opinion.

Bud

[Mackerel]

have a wonderful connection with a beautiful woman

Nice comment, Bud.

[wolf5370]

Bud mate,

we are not all whoremongers you know. That doesn't mean we don't have sex; it doesn't even mean we don't pay for it in some way or other (yes, yes heard that one before many many times); it just means we prefer not to share our honey with all the bears in the forrest and that we like to swap feeling rather than just juices.

If it Ok with you, then go for it, fine. Personally, it not for me, and I guess the same is true for Brian. The fact that he is still happy to socialise with them reflects well on him in my opinion. Freedom of choice goes both ways.

[SoCal]

Wolf,

Bud thinks it must not be very good if it doesn't cost anything.

[Bud Zumwalt]

???

Actually paying is not necessary and neither is going to bars for women. Go to this web site, free email, find a nice lady if you do not have one already. Remember that there is more to life then just making love, so make a friend first ..

http://www.thaikontaktanzeigen.de/thaifrau_galerie.asp

Enjoy it, out of the 4 or 500 hundred there is someone for everyone.

It is not necessary to go bar shopping anymore.

Bud

[dr_Pat_Pong]

How oh how Bud... do you find the time to do all this research

[Mighty Mouse]

Nice bar girls NEVER ask for money.

Customers who take a bar girl back to their hotel for a bit of slap and tickle should NEVER pay the girl for her services.

                                      BUT

You should always give her at least 1,000 baht in the morning for her taxi trip home.

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[francois]

once a french singer wrote :

"only whores can be able love" ...

how should we consider this here?  

[Butterfly]

no, you never pay for sex but you pay them for them to leave  

[Bud Zumwalt]

???

My tuk tuk chugged into Suriwong Road and squeaked to a halt on the opposite side of the road from The Pink Panther. I paid the driver, darted between the slow moving traffic, edged past the milling crowds and the food stalls. The lady on the door smiled as if recognising me and pulled aside the red velvet curtains, my email lady is a bar girl?

Oh no!

Bud

[Jai di]

Bar girls. = People who are a lot less fortunate in life than many, they happen to live in a country with no welfare.

How many western women would be doing the same without their social security payments?

After the second world war, German women where sleeping with allied soldiers for  food, soap, chocolate etc. You think it was because German women where born to be whores or maybe they where hungry and wanted to feed their kids?

You people that live in a society that pays you money if you do not work, and pays money to the elderly are fortunate, please do not make fun of those less well off than you are. Ever been poor? Ever been hungry? If you have you will understand why people do certain things, and if you are under any illusions, take a good look in a full length mirror naked...and ask yourself a question, "WOULD I BE HAPPY SLEEPING WITH THAT FOR 1000 BAHT"

[Maigo6]

Bar girls. = People who are a lot less fortunate in life than many, they happen to live in a country with no welfare.

How many western women would be doing the same without their social security payments?

After the second world war, German women where sleeping with allied soldiers for  food, soap, chocolate etc. You think it was because German women where born to be whores or maybe they where hungry and wanted to feed their kids?

You people that live in a society that pays you money if you do not work, and pays money to the elderly are fortunate, please do not make fun of those less well off than you are. Ever been poor? Ever been hungry? If you have you will understand why people do certain things, and if you are under any illusions, take a good look in a full length mirror naked...and ask yourself a question, "WOULD I BE HAPPY SLEEPING WITH THAT FOR 1000 BAHT"

Jai di, how right you are. I personally think that many of the girls deserve a better turn of luck, i am one of those forrtunate enough to have been born in a western country where people complain that they dont have enough money to go to the pub and smoke 20 cigarettes a day on the lousy money they get from Social Security!

Treat the girls with some respect people, they do not wish to be poor.

Cheers

[Bud Zumwalt]

???

Just a few days from the diary of a bar girl.

She works in a go go bar in Soi Cowboy, Bangkok, and her name is {deleted to protect her privacy}. Here is 9 days in her life.

Day 1 - Payday today, just as well, as I haven’t sent any money home now for 2 weeks. I put 3000 baht in an envelope and sent it off home. I should have sent the rest too, but having taken my knickers off for the first time in the bar last month, im keeping the extra 1000 baht I got for myself, quite right too. Some of those falangs stare at my box so hard I’m sure they’re trying to see right inside.

Work was hard going tonight, the mamasan has got it into her head that were not making enough effort in our pole dancing, and she had the bright idea of installing a microphone at the d.j. stall. Every XXXXX 10 minutes she was barking orders at us to buck our ideas up like it was a sodding aerobics class. I’d like to see the fat cow come on stage and dance like a maniac for 6 hours!!. By 11 o’clock I was knackered, so I hid behind a few of the girls so the mamasan couldn’t see me and shuffled a bit. I managed to get away with it for an hour, but she collared me in the toilets and gave me the usual lecture. "Just because it’s the first day of the month doesn’t mean you don’t make an effort, you still have to get 8 barfines, so you might as well get off to a good start, you cant expect to get barfined 8 times at the end of the month... blah blah blah". Some of the girls were going to Nana Disco to have a dance and look for a falang but I didn’t fancy it so I went home.

Bud