john ray Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 dear friend, merry christmas to all of you I've met a freelance girl in samui last june I've seen her 2 times for holidays and enjoy her company I was curious to see her real way of life and ask her to go in issan to meet her family. first , she doesn't seem happy of my request but say yes after asking her father. I went to isaan and spend a very good time there. everybody was smiling to me. they were 12 in a pick up. we 've taken lunch on a boat and they brought me back to their village. their share dinner with me and bring me back to my hotel late in the night. the girl seems to be different than she was in samui. a old mama put me a white bracelet around my wrist ( left and right) and do the same on her left wrist. My request is double. Do isaan girl used to bring back farang in her own family and what mean the white bracelet for isaan people. was it only touristic fun game ? what do you think about? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snoophound Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 Handcuffs?? Seriously. Dont get swept away by the romanticism of it all. Is this girl good for you? Can she speak English? What can she do for you apart from? Do you like her or Love her? I am sure she is a lovely girl but....be objective. Its christmass cant get too Krusty quote=john ray,2005-12-25 04:05:33] dear friend, merry christmas to all of you I've met a freelance girl in samui last june I've seen her 2 times for holidays and enjoy her company I was curious to see her real way of life and ask her to go in issan to meet her family. first , she doesn't seem happy of my request but say yes after asking her father. I went to isaan and spend a very good time there. everybody was smiling to me. they were 12 in a pick up. we 've taken lunch on a boat and they brought me back to their village. their share dinner with me and bring me back to my hotel late in the night. the girl seems to be different than she was in samui. a old mama put me a white bracelet around my wrist ( left and right) and do the same on her left wrist. My request is double. Do isaan girl used to bring back farang in her own family and what mean the white bracelet for isaan people. was it only touristic fun game ? what do you think about? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john ray Posted December 25, 2005 Author Share Posted December 25, 2005 If i love her. yes, in her country . I've seen her way of life , she is lazy and unfaithfull. If she love me, of course not but she play the game. but i think that relation can help me to understand a very different culture. the " sanuk way of life" but i really dont understand why she brought me in her family. She was differently dressed, said me no kiss, big respect and self control 100% . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snoophound Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 Yes ,thats a positive Shows she respects her parents. Not uncommon in Issan If i love her. yes, in her country . I've seen her way of life , she is lazy and unfaithfull. If she love me, of course not but she play the game. but i think that relation can help me to understand a very different culture. the " sanuk way of life"but i really dont understand why she brought me in her family. She was differently dressed, said me no kiss, big respect and self control 100% . <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OlRedEyes Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 If i love her. yes, in her country . I've seen her way of life , she is lazy and unfaithfull. If she love me, of course not but she play the game. but i think that relation can help me to understand a very different culture. the " sanuk way of life"but i really dont understand why she brought me in her family. She was differently dressed, said me no kiss, big respect and self control 100% . <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Rather trollish what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john ray Posted December 25, 2005 Author Share Posted December 25, 2005 she told me than next time we'll go see her mother family. she got a passport too. but if i gave her money for passport , i never asked her to come in france. she told me " now, don't bullshit me" what does it mean. marry me, give me money,?? i don't know. there are professionals no? freelance girl do really want to live thailand? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snoophound Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 Lazy and unfaithful Oh well you can get that in FRANCE Maybe not so cute. Just think about what you really want. she told me than next time we'll go see her mother family. she got a passport too. but if i gave her money for passport , i never asked her to come in france. she told me " now, don't bullshit me" what does it mean. marry me, give me money,?? i don't know. there are professionals no? freelance girl do really want to live thailand? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thai Chi Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 "and what mean the white bracelet for isaan people. was it only touristic fun game ?" No, not fun game. You are now Married to this girl You should, if you already havent, give her all your money. Start supporting her family and friends as well as her boyfriend (s), as this will boost your standing in the their eyes The Reluctant Observer Laughs Loudly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gburns57au Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 I think the OP needs to do another ten trips to Thailand before he even thinks about having sex with a Thai girl....He obviously has a lot to learn... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OlRedEyes Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 (edited) "and what mean the white bracelet for isaan people. was it only touristic fun game ?"No, not fun game. You are now Married to this girl You should, if you already havent, give her all your money. Start supporting her family and friends as well as her boyfriend (s), as this will boost your standing in the their eyes The Reluctant Observer Laughs Loudly <{POST_SNAPBACK}> OMG, not the white bracelet thing ! You are now legally married according to Traditional Thai Law. I'd stay out of Thailand now if I wuz you. According to Traditional Thai Law all your belongings now belong to the whole family. Should you come here and refuse to hand them over you may face dire consequences. Move. Hide. They may be coming To Get You. Good Luck Edited December 25, 2005 by OlRedEyes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaiPauly Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 All French people should be in France. Congratulations on your marriage by the way, I'm sure you make a lovely couple. Happy Christmas TP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywais Posted December 25, 2005 Share Posted December 25, 2005 All French people should be in France.Congratulations on your marriage by the way, I'm sure you make a lovely couple. Happy Christmas TP And if you remove the strings before seven days you are never allowed to divorce for the rest of your lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonman Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 All French people should be in France.Congratulations on your marriage by the way, I'm sure you make a lovely couple. Happy Christmas TP <{POST_SNAPBACK}> And if you remove the strings before seven days you are never allowed to divorce for the rest of your lives. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes, this is where the phrase " getting married with no strings attached" comes from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 Awful troll, far better attempts in my opinion! Yes married it seems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmeriThai Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 After the white bracelet is secured to the wrist, the family member attaching it then states in Thai, "Welcome to the family. All Your Possessions Are Belong To Us." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayo Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 (edited) If i love her. yes, in her country . I've seen her way of life , she is lazy and unfaithfull. If she love me, of course not but she play the game. but i think that relation can help me to understand a very different culture. the " sanuk way of life"but i really dont understand why she brought me in her family. She was differently dressed, said me no kiss, big respect and self control 100% . <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Rather trollish what? <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Aye, I'd agreew with you there.... And rather a poorish effort too. but I wouldn't want to seem cliqueish or anything. Vic, can be racist towards french people? "and what mean the white bracelet for isaan people. was it only touristic fun game ?"No, not fun game. You are now Married to this girl You should, if you already havent, give her all your money. Start supporting her family and friends as well as her boyfriend (s), as this will boost your standing in the their eyes The Reluctant Observer Laughs Loudly <{POST_SNAPBACK}> :D Oh stop! All French people should be in France.Congratulations on your marriage by the way, I'm sure you make a lovely couple. Happy Christmas TP <{POST_SNAPBACK}> And if you remove the strings before seven days you are never allowed to divorce for the rest of your lives. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes, this is where the phrase " getting married with no strings attached" comes from. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> STOP IT! STOP IT! PLLLLeease... I can't breathe.... Edited December 26, 2005 by kayo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glauka Posted December 26, 2005 Share Posted December 26, 2005 If i love her. yes, in her country . I've seen her way of life , she is lazy and unfaithfull. If she love me, of course not but she play the game. but i think that relation can help me to understand a very different culture. the " sanuk way of life"but i really dont understand why she brought me in her family. She was differently dressed, said me no kiss, big respect and self control 100% . <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I can sense true love in this post...i think this relationship is gonna last john ray either i don´t understand what do you mean or you did not express yourself clearly enough. Do you like the girl? Does she like you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steveromagnino Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 After the white bracelet is secured to the wrist, the family member attaching it then states in Thai,"Welcome to the family. All Your Possessions Are Belong To Us." <{POST_SNAPBACK}> what an absoslut load of rubbish. You should be ashamed of yourself. Call yourself Thai and come out with insulting translation like this... it should read: Yashtamash. All of your possession. Are now belong to us. I love you. Ten kui. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OlRedEyes Posted December 27, 2005 Share Posted December 27, 2005 (edited) 10 what!?? Vic, can be racist towards french people? French ppl are special. Racism is allowed. Edited December 27, 2005 by OlRedEyes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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