Just bored at lunch so I was reading the below blog, it is an agony aunt type of deal.

The girl pretty well explains everything.

I have had Asian girlfriends like this before, but as I have ever only had one white girlfriend I don't really have anything to compare it to. My first thought was wow, is this behaviour typical of Asian girls? After all she is an Australian born Asian, is it in their DNA?

But that is beside the point, what I wanted to hear was what your reply, advice would be to this girl?

I have read some of the replies, they were interesting and a lot of us that are in a relationship with an Asian girl could relate to I think as we take a caning in some of the replies. Have a read.

I’ve been dating my boyfriend (let’s call him Tom) for nearly 8 months. We connect on a deep level, enjoy our time together and are very happy with each other.

I am the first to admit that Tom is attentive, generous with his love/affection towards me and has never given me a reason to be jealous. Despite this, I am regularly crippled by unfounded jealousy and rage towards his ex partners (both girlfriends and casual sexual partners). Out of nowhere, I bombard him with questions about them, become nasty and abusive towards them, indulge in some seriously lame rage and sadness (e.g acting like a brat, crying and punching pillows in bed - I would find this hilarious if it wasn’t me!). Notice how I use the word ‘indulge’ - sometimes it’s almost as if I WANT to be upset.

It’s frustrating because I know I am wrong and treating him unfairly, but I just can’t help myself. I tend to fall into these rages (generally for no reason) and then aftwards I am regretful and promise myself and him that I will think clearly about being fair and reasonable.

He is not in contact with any of these girls, and I am ashamed to say that I’ve gone as far as demand that he delete their numbers and their facebook contacts. He has been generally compliant with these demands except for the ex girlfriends he says he has respect for as they once shared great friendships. This of course fuels the fire, which is NOT logical as I understand what he is saying and have the same sentiments towards some of my ex boyfriends.

What I find confusing is that I trust him and am more than fine with him going out with his friends and having a good time etc. I am not insecure that he will cheat on me, I am insecure that he compares me to his ex partners, mostly on physical levels. All of his ex partners happen to be of the same ethnicity as me (I am an Australian born Asian), which I know is what he is attracted to, but I’m very resentful and disgusted by this - again for no reason. I feel like i’m going crazy. How can I be disgusted by him being attracted to my ethnicity?! He actually finds this amusing, playfully labels me racist and calls me out on the fact that all my previous partners have been anglo-saxon.

Please help. I am ruining an otherwise great relationship and know that I am driving him away and that his patience will only go so far. I don’t have any other anger issues, have a supportive family and am otherwise fairly easy going (after reading this, hard to be believe i know!). Our relationship is perfect apart from my stupid issues. I should probably also mention that I acted similarly towards an ex boyfriend who got so sick of my behaviour and broke up with me. I’ve been thinking that maybe I need to talk to someone about this, but isn’t that rather self indulgent??

Thanks

IDIOT Girlfriend.

Read more: http://blogs.news.com.au/bossy/#ixzz2E9FqdsdB

I was like....<deleted>....I thunk most of us are surprised by the depth of feeling exoressed behind our backs sometimes lol

Written by a man who has been subjected to the crazy thoughts of an Asian-blooded girl.

Written by a man who has been subjected to the crazy thoughts of an Asian-blooded girl.

You think HB? I guess the reason why I paid attention to the post was because I dated an Indo girl that was the very picture of what the post is describing. I hope it isn't a trolling bloke.

Some of the responses were interesting, people saying that they find men who are interested in Asian girls creepy. others said men who like Asian girls only do so because they can't handle a white woman. It was just interesting reading what we see here on TV everyday but from a western blog perspective.

Here the advice to the guy would be to run away as fast as you can, over there the advice seemed to be the opposite, you have a great guy, your an idiot for behaving like that you had better change before the guy runs away etc etc. I found it amusing.

I reckon you wrote that tuks and you finally came out lmao

heheh Bloncs.

I don't think I am imaginative enough to write something like that, live through it yes, but write it no.

Man, the bird I dated that was like that was <deleted> nutz, she was a real hottie but impossible to live with.

The hotel room we lived in was totally smashed by her throwing stuff around the room, I had had enough oneday so I was leaving, she did her best to jump out of the 6th floor window, I caught her feet before she made it out.

She then pretended she was prego.

I ended up having to get the police involved to get rid of her. Shame cos when she was normal she was a really nice girl.

I see on FB she now lives in Bali.

Anyway, hows things mate?

What's the old saying ...... A problem shared just annoys other people.

Written by a man who has been subjected to the crazy thoughts of an Asian-blooded girl.

Agreed. Doesn't read like a woman at all.Reads like a man who doesn't really understand women but thinks he does. Which is 99.99% of men IMHO

Definitely not a bird, just some cowboy who doesn't like Asian women as people.

I am good tuk, why did you catch her lol

Written by a man who has been subjected to the crazy thoughts of an Asian-blooded girl.

Agreed. Doesn't read like a woman at all.Reads like a man who doesn't really understand women but thinks he does. Which is 99.99% of men IMHO

hehehe

I'm getting one of those bikie jackets but mine will have 0.01% on it.