Do U Fear?

[Glauka]

And people still wonder why we prefer Thai or Asian women...

Hi CMCool

I have left my job...so now i am jobless...but i need to pay my dancing lessons and rehersal rooms... there are a bit expensive...for a jobless person but not for a gentleman...

Would you like to support me?

Edited February 26, 2006 by Glauka

[CMCool]

And people still wonder why we prefer Thai or Asian women...

Hi CMCool

I have left my job...so now i am jobless...but i need to pay my dancing lessons and rehersal rooms... there are a bit expensive...for a jobless person but not for a gentleman...

Would you like to support me?

Yes if I loved you as a girlfriend and had the finances to do so. Or are relationships all about financial support not love? Am I naive? Well I am not sure I could be with a woman who thinks that the below "heartless" statement is fine.

"I left my old boyfriend behind because I thought I didn't need a support person"

[Glauka]

And people still wonder why we prefer Thai or Asian women...

Hi CMCool

I have left my job...so now i am jobless...but i need to pay my dancing lessons and rehersal rooms... there are a bit expensive...for a jobless person but not for a gentleman...

Would you like to support me?

Yes if I loved you as a girlfriend and had the finances to do so. Or are relationships all about financial support not love? Am I naive? Well I am not sure I could be with a woman who thinks that the below "heartless" statement is fine.

"I left my old boyfriend behind because I thought I didn't need a support person"

I have never say that the statement is fine...or not...

I was refering to your witty coment...I don´t believe that relationship is only about financial support that´s why I don´t understand why some man ( you among them or so it seems ) prefer to be with a woman who they can support all the time...

You are the one who brought about the financial issue not me...but is true i need a nice soul to support me...LOVE? it will come....

How that paragraph goes again?

"For what stop? For fear of beginning the manufactures, they are so easy. You take an idea from here hence, a feeling of another shelf, then you tie them up with help of words, black bitches, and it turns out that I love you. Partial whole: I love you. General whole: I love you. This way many of my friends live, without speaking about an uncle and two cousins convinced in the love - they-feel- for-their-wives. From the word to the acts, che; in general without verba there is no animal. What many people call to love it consists of choosing a woman and marrying her. They choose her, I swear it to you, have seen them. As if it was possible to choose in the love, as if it was not a beam that divides you the bones and leaves you estaqueado in the half of the court. You will say that they choose her because - they love her, I believe that it is on having met. Beatriz is not chosen, Julieta is not chosen. You, you do not choose the rain that is going to soak through you up to the bones when you go out of a concert...."

"¿Por qué stop? Por miedo de empezar las fabricaciones, son tan fáciles. Sacás una idea de ahí, un sentimiento del otro estante, los atás con ayuda de palabras, perras negras, y resulta que te quiero. Total parcial: te quiero. Total general: te amo. Así viven muchos amigos míos, sin hablar de un tío y dos primos, convencidos del amor-que-sienten-por-sus-esposas. De la palabra a los actos, che; en general sin verba no hay res. Lo que mucha gente llama amar consiste en elegir a una mujer y casarse con ella. La eligen, te lo juro, los he visto. Como si se pudiese elegir en el amor, como si no fuera un rayo que te parte los huesos y te deja estaqueado en la mitad del patio. Vos dirás que la eligen porque-la-aman, yo creo que es al vesre. A Beatriz no se la elige, a Julieta no se la elige. Vos no elegís la lluvia que te va a calar hasta los huesos cuando salís de un concierto...."

Rayuela-Julio Cortazar chapter 93

Edited February 26, 2006 by Glauka

[Old Croc]

Bambi, you are too young to worry about dying alone. We all, single people, feel like no one gives a shit when we get sick and think this is how it will be as long as you are by youself.

Wait until you are at least my age (57) and are still alone, before you panic.

What's worse than being alone? Being in a relationship and STILL being alone. I lived alone for many years. Maybe I tried too hard for that elusive dream. When I finally did give up and resigned myself to being alone my perfect match came along. There was nothing planned and everything just fell into place. Life is good!

Gary, my middle relationship was that, and I (a coward) took too long to disentangle. Congratulations that you found the right person eventually.

My last relationship was with a girl who had an IQ way up there. I loved her completely for many reasons, but I loved that I was with someone who could beat me at trivial pursuit most times. I could happily settle with an intelligent lady or failing that someone with great tits.

[richard10365]

I think, when a person is single, lonliness often sneaks up on a person when they are most vunerable. Being sick in bed with no one to help you can multiply those lonely feelings.

For single people, this is a normal feeling that happens from time to time. Don't get too caught up in this feeling because its only temporary.

I also think feeling lonely is a very useful feeling. When you do meet someone special, the memory of when you use to be lonely, will sometimes help you to appreciate the relationship more. When hard times come in the relationship, you will fight harder to resolve them and grow more in love with your partner.

If no one was ever lonely, there would be a lot less love in the world.

So in a since Bambina, your lonliness now will help sustain love in the furture.

Its ok to be lonely.

[CMCool]

And people still wonder why we prefer Thai or Asian women...

Hi CMCool

I have left my job...so now i am jobless...but i need to pay my dancing lessons and rehersal rooms... there are a bit expensive...for a jobless person but not for a gentleman...

Would you like to support me?

Yes if I loved you as a girlfriend and had the finances to do so. Or are relationships all about financial support not love? Am I naive? Well I am not sure I could be with a woman who thinks that the below "heartless" statement is fine.

"I left my old boyfriend behind because I thought I didn't need a support person"

I have never say that the statement is fine...or not...

I was refering to your witty coment...I don´t believe that relationship is only about financial support that´s why I don´t understand why some man ( you among them or so it seems ) prefer to be with a woman who they can support all the time...

You are the one who brought about the financial issue not me...but is true i need a nice soul to support me...LOVE? it will come....

Where did I mention about financial support before you brought it into your first reply? I think you misinterpreted my initial comment. If you couldn't see the ruthless and hearthless in the quoted statement, then I'm not surprised at all. My thoughts were if a western woman thinks that she can dump a boyfriend or husband because she thinks she doesn't need him anymore, then I think a Thai or Asian woman have much more grace and compassion to do such an act.

[Glauka]

Where did I mention about financial support before you brought it into your first reply? I think you misinterpreted my initial comment. If you couldn't see the ruthless and hearthless in the quoted statement, then I'm not surprised at all. My thoughts were if a western woman thinks that she can dump a boyfriend or husband because she thinks she doesn't need him anymore, then I think a Thai or Asian woman have much more grace and compassion to do such an act.

Well I don´t thik everything is so straigh forward...maybe she left him because she wanted to stop being a housewife and start a career and maybe he was not so happy about that...anyway i don´t know so i will stop there...

But again is your generalization about western and thai woman that i find out of place...but i will not continue with this argument because in your above post you say "I THINK" and that´s enough for me to take your point of view into account even though i disagree with you completely...

Good luck CM

Edited February 26, 2006 by Glauka

[Old Croc]

Where did I mention about financial support before you brought it into your first reply? I think you misinterpreted my initial comment. If you couldn't see the ruthless and hearthless in the quoted statement, then I'm not surprised at all. My thoughts were if a western woman thinks that she can dump a boyfriend or husband because she thinks she doesn't need him anymore, then I think a Thai or Asian woman have much more grace and compassion to do such an act.

Well I don´t thik everything is so straigh forward...maybe she left him because she wanted to stop being a housewife and start a career and maybe he was not so happy about that...anyway i don´t know so i will stop there...

But again is your generalization about western and thai woman that i find out of place...but i will not continue with this argument because in your above post you say "I THINK" and that´s enough for me to take your point of view into account even though i disagree with you completely...

Good luck CM

Well said G!

[Glauka]

Well said G!

Old Croc you are about 30 post ahead of me...grrrrrrr!

I like you post...very sweet...I will never beat you at trivia pursuit or what´s the city...but i can dance better than you... Does it count?

Edited February 26, 2006 by Glauka

[Guest endure]

"Last year, I left my old boyfriend behind because I thought I didn't need a support person. Then I wrecked my shoulder, moved away, and have missed him. I'm tempted to call him up and ....who knows?"

You're willing to trade your independence, and reenter a bad relationship because you shoulder hurts? Sounds like something else is bothering you...

And people still wonder why we prefer Thai or Asian women...

As the OP who mentioned leaving HIS old boyfriend behind is a gay man your remarks about 'Thai or Asian' women are singularly inappropriate

[CMCool]

Where did I mention about financial support before you brought it into your first reply? I think you misinterpreted my initial comment. If you couldn't see the ruthless and hearthless in the quoted statement, then I'm not surprised at all. My thoughts were if a western woman thinks that she can dump a boyfriend or husband because she thinks she doesn't need him anymore, then I think a Thai or Asian woman have much more grace and compassion to do such an act.

Well I don´t thik everything is so straigh forward...maybe she left him because she wanted to stop being a housewife and start a career and maybe he was not so happy about that...anyway i don´t no so i will stop there...

But again is your generalization about western and thai woman that i find out of place...but i will not continue with this argument because in your above post you say "I THINK" and that´s enough for me to take your point of view into account even though i disagree with you completely...

Good luck CM

Believe me I knew loads of women, and can assure you that I found Thai and Asian women much much superior in term of grace and compassion, and the way they look into life in general. Obviously you are not one of them as you can still think that it's OK for a wife to divorce a husband because she doesn't want to be a housewife anymore! Why did she marry him in the first place?What a disgrace!

[Old Croc]

Well said G!

Old Croc you are about 30 post ahead of me...grrrrrrr!

I like you post...very sweet...I will never beat you at trivia pursuit or what´s the city...but i can dance better than you... Does it count?

Glauka, I'm sure you will catch up and pass me with the posts.

There are a million things you can do better than me. I will never be able to dance, though I sometimes do strange things late at night that I mistakenly describe as such.

[Glauka]

Well said G!

Old Croc you are about 30 post ahead of me...grrrrrrr!

I like you post...very sweet...I will never beat you at trivia pursuit or what´s the city...but i can dance better than you... Does it count?

Glauka, I'm sure you will catch up and pass me with the posts.

There are a million things you can do better than me. I will never be able to dance, though I sometimes do strange things late at night that I mistakenly describe as such.

[ThaiPauly]

Robbie Williams song from his latest album is very poignient to this thread, especially for those living in LOS

If you die before I do

What on earth becomes of me?

Look around there's no-one here

To hold me

To Love me

Thats what I fear!

Personally I would have substituted the last line with

"To steal my beer"

But thats the case for some of us with "Older Wives" (By that I mean 40 or over)

Probably won't apply to me as I drink and smoke far to much.. but my Wife does neither

[Glauka]

Believe me I knew loads of women, and can assure you that I found Thai and Asian women much much superior in term of grace and compassion, and the way they look into life in general. Obviously you are not one of them

Thank you but i don´t need this extra comments you don´t know me...Well maybe i am not full of compassion or grace but does not worry me too much...

I think everybody is good...maybe for you i am not very compassionate but for some other people i am...even people who you think is evil it looks good to the eyes of someone else...

as you can still think that it's OK for a wife to divorce a husband because she doesn't want to be a housewife anymore! Why did she marry him in the first place?What a disgrace!

Obviously you are going to misunderstand me through my post well here is an example of what i meant:

-Darling i was thinking of doing a degree i have always wanted to study phsicology....but i need to be out till 3 o´clock so i won´t be able to prepare your luch, babe.

-Whaaaat? Well if you are going to study and stop attending me you should pay for the fcking degree, you lazy woman...

You see not everything is straigh forward...

There are many things that one doesn´t know before getting marry...that´s why I am thinking about asking for reference before marrying...

[Glauka]

As the OP who mentioned leaving HIS old boyfriend behind is a gay man your remarks about 'Thai or Asian' women are singularly inappropriate

Thanks for the information but as you can see we don´t care... we just want to have an argument and anything is a good starting spark...

[Guest endure]

As the OP who mentioned leaving HIS old boyfriend behind is a gay man your remarks about 'Thai or Asian' women are singularly inappropriate

Thanks for the information but as you can see we don´t care... we just want to have an argument and anything is a good starting spark...

Sorry, Glauka, didn't mean to interrupt. I'll let you get on with your argument

[Old Croc]

As the OP who mentioned leaving HIS old boyfriend behind is a gay man your remarks about 'Thai or Asian' women are singularly inappropriate

Thanks for the information but as you can see we don´t care... we just want to have an argument and anything is a good starting spark...

Sorry, Glauka, didn't mean to interrupt. I'll let you get on with your argument

Only six posts to 1000 Endure. This is as good a way to achieve it as something sensible.

[CMCool]

Thank you but i don´t need this extra comments you don´t know me...Well maybe i am not full of compassion or grace but does not worry me too much...

I think everybody is good...maybe for you i am not very compassionate but for some other people i am...even people who you think is evil it looks good to the eyes of someone else...

[\quote]

It's true I don't know you and I'm sorry about this comment.

Obviously you are going to misunderstand me through my post well here is an example of what i meant:

-Darling i was thinking of doing a degree i have always wanted to study phsicology....but i need to be out till 3 o´clock so i won´t be able to prepare your luch, babe.

-Whaaaat? Well if you are going to study and stop attending me you should pay for the fcking degree, you lazy woman...

You see not everything is straigh forward...

There are many things that one doesn´t know before getting marry...that´s why I am thinking about asking for reference before marrying...

I find your dialogue highly amusing and comical as I don't believe it is a real life example, unless of course you have experienced it yourself. Obviously you have no idea what a marriage is really like, and can assure you that isn't as simple as you presented it above. I think your whole view about it is wrong, as you seem to want to get married because you have to, and you are looking at it as a business deal when you start talking about references and so on. My best advice to you is don't get married unless there is real love between you and that special person. Otherwise you are doomed to failure.

Edited February 26, 2006 by CMCool

[Guest endure]

As the OP who mentioned leaving HIS old boyfriend behind is a gay man your remarks about 'Thai or Asian' women are singularly inappropriate

Thanks for the information but as you can see we don´t care... we just want to have an argument and anything is a good starting spark...

Sorry, Glauka, didn't mean to interrupt. I'll let you get on with your argument

Only six posts to 1000 Endure. This is as good a way to achieve it as something sensible.

Thanks for pointing that out, OC. I've found that being sensible isn't all it's cracked up to be

[Thaising]

As the OP who mentioned leaving HIS old boyfriend behind is a gay man your remarks about 'Thai or Asian' women are singularly inappropriate

Thanks for the information but as you can see we don´t care... we just want to have an argument and anything is a good starting spark...

Sorry, Glauka, didn't mean to interrupt. I'll let you get on with your argument

Dear Folks, Give yourself an hour to cool off before responding to someone who has provoked you. If it involves something really important, give yourself overnight.

[Glauka]

I find your dialogue highly amusing and comical as I don't believe it is a real life example, unless of course you have experienced it yourself. Obviously you have no idea what a marriage is really like, and can assure you that isn't as simple you presented it above. I think your whole view about it is wrong, as you seem to want to get married because you have to, and you are looking at it as a business deal when you start talking about references and so on. My best advice to you is don't get married unless there is real love between you and that special person. Otherwise you are doomed to failure.

I was joking about the reference thing that´s why I put this emoticon to finish my statement...

About real example...sometimes reality overcome fiction...BTW i wanted to be comical...but what i wanted to show is that i think that there are many things behind the statement " i left my old boyfriend because i don´t want to be supported anymore" maybe i am wrong but so far i think nothing is as simple as you seem to think...

Also i don´t find real your view about all asian women being good hearted and compassionate...

Edited February 26, 2006 by Glauka

[CMCool]

I find your dialogue highly amusing and comical as I don't believe it is a real life example, unless of course you have experienced it yourself. Obviously you have no idea what a marriage is really like, and can assure you that isn't as simple you presented it above. I think your whole view about it is wrong, as you seem to want to get married because you have to, and you are looking at it as a business deal when you start talking about references and so on. My best advice to you is don't get married unless there is real love between you and that special person. Otherwise you are doomed to failure.

I was joking about the reference thing that´s why I put this emoticon to finish my statement...

About real example...sometimes reality overcome fiction...BTW i wanted to be comical...but what i wanted to show is that i think that there are many things behind the statement " i left my old boyfriend because i don´t want to be supported anymore" maybe i am wrong but so far i think nothing is as simple as you seem to think...

Also i don´t find real your view about all asian women being good hearted and compassionate...

Fair enough we don't know the full story. Also I haven't said that "all" Asian women are like that. But my main statement was that I find from my experience that Asian women (mostly talking about south-east Asia and India) in general are more good hearted and compassionate than western women. Now I would like to know your honest opinion, do you agree with that?

Edited February 26, 2006 by CMCool

[Glauka]

Fair enough we don't know the full story. Also I haven't said that "all" Asian women are like that. But my main statement was that I find from my experience that Asian women (mostly talking about south-east Asia and India) in general are more good hearted and compassionate than western women. Now I would like to know your honest opinion, do you agree about that?

No I don´t...because i met some that are not...as well as western...

however i met good western women and good asian women...

The fact you say we western still wondering why you prefer to marry asian women...it shows me that you are unfair and rushed in your conclusions. But i said before i respected (but disagree) because that´s what you think...I could try to change your opinion but i think experience will do it better, after all I am a few words in a computer screen....

[CMCool]

No I don´t...because i met some that are not...as well as western...

however i met good western women and good asian women...

The fact you say we western still wondering why you prefer to marry asian women...it shows me that you are unfair and rushed in your conclusions. But i said before i respected (but disagree) because that´s what you think...I could try to change your opinion but i think experience will do it better, after all I am a few words in a computer screen....

Also I have to mention that I find Latin women very close in mentality to South-East Asian womens (hot blooded!) Glauka, no bad feelings Good night

[ThaiPauly]

West is west- East is east...

Women are same the world over... beleive me

Anyone else with 4 marriages under their belt want to disagree/comment.

[Glauka]

no bad feelings Good night

No bad feelings CMCool...good night...

[khall64au]

Soooooooooo.... getting back on topic Bambi- this should make you feel better http://blogs.smh.com.au/samandthecity/arch...t_c.html#056487

Have a look at the shitefight going on in the west between males and females. The Battle of the Sexes continues......

[kayo]

I miss my intelligent inspired girlfriends.

I miss that. I miss it a lot. No joke.

But I make do cos I am alone at the end. As long as i'm healthy, I don't mind too too much, but yeah, I miss having htat other half around.

I guess at the end we are born by ourselves, and we die by ourselves.

Very profound statement. Perhaps one should be okay being alone first before placing so much in another person?

Very much agreed.. I find a lot of couples get together before they are happy being individual...But I gotta cut this short cos I got som b1tchslapping to do with the next guy.

I miss my intelligent inspired girlfriends.

I miss that. I miss it a lot. No joke.

But I make do cos I am alone at the end. As long as i'm healthy, I don't mind too too much, but yeah, I miss having htat other half around.

I guess at the end we are born by ourselves, and we die by ourselves.

Girlfriends? Thats why they left...two is company, three is a crowd.

I think what Bambina was trying to say is that she wants to meet someone she can love. Not a passing phase. Correct me if I am wrong, but you have girlfriends? Land of plenty does not mean that you have to take all.... I love my wife and my child. I am lucky and I hope that people, including Bambina can be as lucky as me.

Chokdee Khap x

ps. to write that GFssss thing really pished me off. I hopr tour mobile rings forever with all your great GFsss loving you so much, cos your the Daddy,,,

OOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHH Why hellooooo MR ANGRY! There´s jumping the gun and then there is jumping the <deleted> rocket powered heatseeking missile... Where in my statement did I say anything about simultaneous, dimwit.

Sorry I retract dimwit for the moment.

Instead, I´ll clarify (initials used for anonimity)

M.O.N: A wonderful intelligent mature Lebanese girl from 95-97

B.J.v.M: A beautiful smart, productive Dutch Lady, from 98 -2000

and then my one and only Thai Girlfriend, S.R.: from 2001 - 2003

Alright... I nearly got pished with you, but then I remembered the old rule... Get the facts, or else you risk looking like a dumbass.

Apologies welcome, but not necessary.

[cobra]

We're all going to die alone, regardless of how much hand holding is going on at the end.

Ultimately there's only one person living in your head, and when the time comes this is a road we have to walk by ourselves.

I think whether your alone or not alone when the end comes is irrelevant,

but rather your whole life experience would be what I'd reflect on, for good or bad,

What a strange, wild trip it's been