Scarpolo Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) What is love to a thai girl We all know, they love our money, and the louder they claim otherwise, the less likely they are being honest with both themselves, and us, So, I would like to know, How does your Thai girl "express" her love? Other than in the bedroom. I am not looking for "pointers" I am curious to know if they are all so damned conservative, or is it all just an act. Edited February 21, 2014 by Scarpolo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Costas2008 Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) She calls me "My Love", all the time and anywhere. Keep telling her my name is Costas, and I get the answer........Yes, my love. She loves me much Edited February 21, 2014 by Costas2008 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 I am called "Darling", I must be posh...... 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RandomSand Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) Takes care of your diet so your sperm is strong! Edited February 21, 2014 by RandomSand 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RandomSand Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 Is warm and considerate... consoles you when you're worrying too much about the NWO and reptilians. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RandomSand Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) Love to a Thai girl (or woman) is the same as it is to any other woman in the world. If you think Thai girls are different then you're probably getting shafted by her in some way or another.* *no pun intended. Edited February 21, 2014 by RandomSand 22 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 21, 2014 Author Share Posted February 21, 2014 Is warm and considerate... consoles you when you're worrying too much about the NWO and reptilians. She has more wrok to do in that area 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitawatWatawit Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Leaves me for a richer guy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GuyL Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 A typical Foreigner's question... 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) Its in the eyes! They say they are the window to the soul, well her eyes are something I never tire of. The way she looks at me, the way she smiles. She can say an entire page of text with a look ! Those of you out there that have been fortunate to find the right woman will know exactly what I mean. Those that dont, I hope you find it one day . Edited February 21, 2014 by CharlieH 27 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Leaves me for a richer guy. ... and keeps you on as her Gik ... man, you have style ... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatdrunkandstupid Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 I am called "Darling", I must be posh...... Sure its not Duk Ling 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post David48 Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 How does she express it? When I go to the Bathroom, she's already put the toothpaste on my brush. 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 21, 2014 Author Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) Its in the eyes! They say they are the window to the soul, well her eyes are something I never tire of. The way she looks at me, the way she smiles. She can say an entire page of text with a look ! Those of you out there that have been fortunate to find the right woman will know exactly what I mean. Those that dont, I hope you find it one day . The eyes and the smile are what drew me in, the body of course, keeps me in....' There's something missing, and I havent determined it yet, I know the issues, and just trying to decide if they are deal killers..... Some require maybe only slight adjusting, Others, like the family, I already know, can't work; (actually, they all do work) What I mean is, they don't speak a word of english, not one word. Her brother is a highly skilled carpenter with his own business in the north, I have seen his work, it is very very good, her friends, I still havent met; and last night, she revealed why, she is afraid I will tell them where we met, and none of them know. I don't think she expects me to be around much longer, and this is what I am sensing, and then she can go back to her "double" life I have seen and felt the love, and, much much passion............ I have enough pictures to have captured her eyes a thousand times, so, I am getting all of that too, but......... I know she doesn't trust me, usually, that is a one way mirror, that says "run" but I havent yet Edited February 21, 2014 by Scarpolo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post David48 Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 We've just had TWINS. I hurt my back (bad) twisting while lifting one of them. She knows ... said to me the other night ... Honey, don't worry, I can take care of them ... and (almost) all night she did ... I did one feed @ 3 in the morning. Come 7am, shes' awake, has made me coffee, bought that into our bedroom, with a banana muffin ... Geeze I appreciate and love my MissFarmGirl ... Super mum and great partner ... . 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 How does she express it? When I go to the Bathroom, she's already put the toothpaste on my brush. I'm laughing here cos my wife does exactly the same thing! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitawatWatawit Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 How does she express it? When I go to the Bathroom, she's already put the toothpaste on my brush. WARNING! WARNING! WARNING! Someone take David aside ... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 For a Thai woman,love is someone you have on the side (of your official relationship/marriage) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robby nz Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Love full stop. is a con job perpetrated on males by their mothers from an early age and reinforced by almost every song they hear. The male of the species comes to believe that he will one day meet the perfect girl of his dreams and fall madly in love and live happily ever after. The female knows this and takes full advantage of it. Reality is mostly different, hands up those who have been through it and are in their second or third go. Yes it does actually exist and hopefully you find it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Robby nz Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 How does she express it? When I go to the Bathroom, she's already put the toothpaste on my brush. She was probably about to clean the toilet. 24 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 For a Thai woman,love is someone you have on the side (of your official relationship/marriage) Everyone's different KittyKat. I suppose you* (figuratively, not literally) make your own bed and lie in it. * Meaning the larger population, not 'you' personally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 How does she express it? When I go to the Bathroom, she's already put the toothpaste on my brush. She was probably about to clean the toilet. That is so gross ! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 21, 2014 Author Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) Love full stop. is a con job perpetrated on males by their mothers from an early age and reinforced by almost every song they hear. The male of the species comes to believe that he will one day meet the perfect girl of his dreams and fall madly in love and live happily ever after. The female knows this and takes full advantage of it. Reality is mostly different, hands up those who have been through it and are in their second or third go. Yes it does actually exist and hopefully you find it. I already went the "love" from home route a few times in the States, 2 marriages, 2 kids, 2 LTR's and a few hot affairs, they were all "that" love, I am not falling for anything like that, for now, and have interests back home still, so, I am not desiring that roller coaster again, just trying to figure out this particular one, and her overly cautious nature, and if it is over come with time, or, is it just a waste of time, hers too Edited February 21, 2014 by Scarpolo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitsune Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) For a Thai woman,love is someone you have on the side (of your official relationship/marriage) Everyone's different KittyKat. I suppose you* (figuratively, not literally) make your own bed and lie in it. * Meaning the larger population, not 'you' personally. Traditionally marriage is not the space to express love in Thai culture. The husband is a social figure, a bread winner, a father, the guy in charge. And as lie is a cultural way life, up to 67% ofThai women are unfaithful. But sorry, you guys carry on dreaming ... more "another one bites the dust" stories to come ! We all love them ! Edited February 21, 2014 by Kitsune 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post wym Posted February 21, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted February 21, 2014 Lots of girls think the way to show it is to be pathologically jealous. Even if deep down they know and expect, even accept that most of us just can't handle monogamy, they're afraid if they show you they accept it that you'll think they don't really love you. Goes the other way too, if you let them know you're OK with them fooling around, it takes a lot of convincing that that doesn't mean you don't really "love" them too. These deeply ingrained cultural mores are a real challenge to overcome. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted February 21, 2014 Author Share Posted February 21, 2014 Lots of girls think the way to show it is to be pathologically jealous. Even if deep down they know and expect, even accept that most of us just can't handle monogamy, they're afraid if they show you they accept it that you'll think they don't really love you. Goes the other way too, if you let them know you're OK with them fooling around, it takes a lot of convincing that that doesn't mean you don't really "love" them too. These deeply ingrained cultural mores are a real challenge to overcome. I got a full dose of that act from the Brazialian I was married to for 9 years, will NEVER not recognize that insanity again, This one, isn't jealous, that I know of, yet.... Did state her reason for being single, was not wanting to be "number 2" to all those who offered her condo's etc... Also, her "job" precludes her from being honest with her friends, this double life business is ok with me, short term, but goes nowhere long term, even a blind man can see that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David48 Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 (edited) For a Thai woman,love is someone you have on the side (of your official relationship/marriage) Everyone's different KittyKat. I suppose you* (figuratively, not literally) make your own bed and lie in it. * Meaning the larger population, not 'you' personally. Traditionally marriage is not the space to express love in Thai culture. The husband is a social figure, a bread winner, a father, the guy in charge. And as lie is a cultural way life, up to 67% of Thai women are unfaithful. <snip> ... and that's a fair comment also (just not so sure about the 2/3 of Thai Woman being unfaithful though) But, don't you think as the female population of Thailand gains greater wealth through better jobs, have Female Role Models such as Yingluk *... they will pursue greater happiness through equal rather then subservient relationships. Ones in which their heart and not their Family have a greater say? Maybe I'm wide of the mark ... don't know. * Yingluk ... Love her or loath her ... she's still the Female Leader (caretaker) of the Nation. Oh ... I'll get it in now ... please no comments about being a puppet ... the example is not being used in that political context. Edited February 21, 2014 by David48 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iancnx Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Go on OP tell us the full deal. Where did you meet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saakura Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Love full stop. is a con job perpetrated on males by their mothers from an early age and reinforced by almost every song they hear. The male of the species comes to believe that he will one day meet the perfect girl of his dreams and fall madly in love and live happily ever after. The female knows this and takes full advantage of it. Reality is mostly different, hands up those who have been through it and are in their second or third go. Yes it does actually exist and hopefully you find it. I already went the "love" from home route a few times in the States, 2 marriages, 2 kids, 2 LTR's and a few hot affairs, they were all "that" love, I am not falling for anything like that, for now, and have interests back home still, so, I am not desiring that roller coaster again, just trying to figure out this particular one, and her overly cautious nature, and if it is over come with time, or, is it just a waste of time, hers too 2 marraiges, 2 LTR's, few hot affairs... and all failed..Maybe, just maybe, the problem is somewhere else? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wym Posted February 21, 2014 Share Posted February 21, 2014 Sure, must be nice for those that can live their life like an open book with everyone they come in contact with. I don't know many that can afford to do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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