GuestHouse Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 The OP has managed to perfectly express the primary set of reasons why I avoid social contact with foreigners in Thailand. And all in words of his own choosing. And just as I start asking myself if I'm guilty of making an unfair generalization, the OP is joined by other expats eager to expose their own knuckles dragging on the floor. Another condescending comment perfectly expressed, myopic and intolerant. Yes there are things of which I am intolerant. The wider view ( not the myopic) reveals a set of consequences arising from the behaviour the OP celebrates that are the basis of my objection to the OP's post and what it stands for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 The OP has managed to perfectly express the primary set of reasons why I avoid social contact with foreigners in Thailand. And all in words of his own choosing. And just as I start asking myself if I'm guilty of making an unfair generalization, the OP is joined by other expats eager to expose their own knuckles dragging on the floor. Another condescending comment perfectly expressed, myopic and intolerant. Yes there are things of which I am intolerant. The wider view ( not the myopic) reveals a set of consequences arising from the behaviour the OP celebrates that are the basis of my objection to the OP's post and what it stands for. I thought it was a myth. But apparently some guys actually do come to Thailand to see the archaeological sites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post GOLDBUGGY Posted May 29, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 29, 2014 <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> Grandpa should stay with grandma and take time visiting the grandkids or going to play bridge. Not whoring it up with kids his grandchildren's' age. The thought my grandfather not being celibate is completely revolting. Some pouchy, liver warted body with a penis looking for relief is only one step away from having to witness child porn. Disgusting filth to the extreme.I will assure you that when I reach your age, I will be happily married and not thinking about my need to ejaculate. I will be old and my time will have passed and I certainly wouldn't want to make a jackass of myself or disrespect my family to behave otherwise. What an ugly, mean spirited diatribe. Agism at its worst.What are you trying to achieve? Your grandparents must shudder when you turn up at the door.I can assure you that when you reach the original poster's age you will not be happily married and areunlikely to form any real relationship with an attitude that talks about "need to ejaculate".Do you really think any partner would like to be described as "Some pouchy, liver warted body looking for relief is only one step away from having to witness child porn. Disgusting filth to the extreme" when theywent to cuddle up to you at night?.Get a life although with your attitude it would be a miserable one My grandparents lived normal lives, lived together and were happily married for 50 years. If Grandpa had decided to start chasing 20 year old prostitutes, we probably would have had him committed. Do you not see the perversity of the OP's actions? He is okay with his "tantric" release yet should another grandfather attempt the same sexual act with his own granddaughter, he would be the first to start screaming and call the police. Its because she's Thai and that somehow makes it alright? There are many young prostitutes in his own country; why the need to come all the way to Thailand for sex? And to be so delusional as to think they somehow enjoy it as they try to choke back their own bile during the "lovemaking"? Would you have wanted to have sex with a grandma when you were 20? And allowed her to teach you her "tantric" moves? For $60? So why should it be any different when the genders are reversed? You old men are what makes Thailand just the disgusting, depressing whorehouse it can seem at times. I find everywhere I go, its these old men like we're in a senior's home. And its always old men....with that look in their eye. The look that makes you bring your children closer to your side. It makes for a depressing, sad atmosphere being around old people so close to death. Does their family no longer want them? Is that why so many come here? My Grandpa was also happily married for 55 years to and until Grandma passed on. Or as we thought. He still lived on his own after that, even when he was already 80 Years Old, but we had to put a stop to this one day. That is after my Religious Aunt couldn't get a hold of him for a couple of days so she went over to his place to find him. When he did not answer the door she walked in to find him passed out on the living room floor with only his boxer shorts on, empty wine bottle scattered all over the place, and 3 half dressed prostitutes passed out next to him sleeping. So off to the Home he did go! He still had a lot of personal freedom and could come and go as he pleased. Just had to follow a few rules like no alcohol in the room, a curfew, and of course, shall we say, no guests who were not preapproved. Can't say Grandpa liked this too much but things worked out pretty well and okay for the rest of the family. That is until one summers day when my dad got a call from the Police Station. Turns out Old Grandpa was at it again. He got picked up at age 82 for sticking is hand up some teenagers skirt at a Bus Stop, and pinching her bum. Good Ole Grandpa! One that any Grandson would be proud of! But besides being a bit humorous there is a point to this true story I wanted you to hear, and it goes like this. "Don't be so sure you know what goes on in your Grandpa's Mind! You might end up being surprised like we were. Especially since he knows you would have him committed if he does not fit your norm." Oh Ya! Before I forget! I also have one more thing I wanted to share with you. A sexual act with ones Granddaughter is totally illegal and punishable by imprisonment. A sexual act with a Prostitute over the age of 18 years, in most countries, is not. Can you not see the difference here? As compared to what you said? Great story Goldbuggy. In February one of my very best friends passed on. I was one of 100 people who came from all over for his memorial service. I flew from Thailand to Hawaii. Jack loved women. He had an active sex life with women of all ages until he happily passed at 79. He was always wishing he would come visit me in Thailand and have fun with the girls. At the service everyone knew about Jacks sex life, and there was great laughter talking about it. In the twenty years were were friends, his biggest sadness was that his "born again" Christian son would have nothing to do with this sinful old man. The son had no idea that Jack's heart was always filled with love. Always sending love to the son, thought it was always rejected. Jack was a joy to everyone he met, huge jai dii. Women, even in their 20's, none of them prostitutes, were forever sexually attracted to this man, who by the way never had an ounce of fat on him. Finally, a couple years ago, his son decided to visit his aging father. He came with his wife and two elementary school age daughters. Guess what? The wife and girls totally fell in love with Jack. He wasn't any of the things the son had talked about, he was one of the kindest, gentlest, most loving men any of them had ever met. They didn't want to leave and they returned the next two years before he passed. What was so sad was the shame the Christian son felt for shunning his loving father for all those years, considering him a slimy dirty old man. Jack was a hero to hundreds of people, those who were able to spend time with him and be in the presence of his enormous love. Fortunately, in the end, he was the hero to his son, who held his hand as Jack passed away. Sad Story. Reading your story I couldn't help wonder if Jack was divorced from his sons mother. Sometimes this causes great tension between father and remaining siblings. Seeing your mother sad and alone, and in tears all the time. Then seeing your father out having fun with young beautiful women surrounding him. I guess they expect you to be sad and miserable like there mother. But what his son doesn't know is he was like that for years, and this is why he left in the first place. But at least Jack was able to get things fixed before it was too late, as many don't. Not sure if my family should had stepped into Grandpa's Life. What he was doing wasn't right in my eyes, but then who am I to say he was wrong? Maybe after sowing his wild oats and a few more drunken wild parties, waking up to some jewelry missing, he would have caught on and changed. Maybe not! But you can almost bet that if he was left alone he wouldn't have been caught down at some Bus Stop pinching some Young Teenagers Bum. Maybe people would think this is off-topic but in reality it isn't. It has a lot to do with the original post. That just because you are old it doesn't mean you have to act old to please everyone. That after paying your dues you should be able to enjoy your life as you see fit. When I was single I used to go to some bars just to sit and chat with the Girls and buy them a drink. Or play a game of pool with them. Or that silly dice board game. Loved It! So it is not all about sex. We leave that part to the younger guys who value his time here as to how many he can bang, and never happy with just finding one good one. But then the question always comes up as to why do I do this here and I don't I do this with a Prostitute back home in my own country? Wish I had a Penny every time I have read that question here on TV. But the answer is so obvious and simple nobody ever thinks of the real reason. They just think that a Thai Bar Girl will most times have sex with you for money, which satisfies the definition of being a Prostitution. But what they don't know is that a Thai Bar Girl is different than any per say Prostitute you will every meet anywhere else. Branding her with this name is a true injustice. So here is the Real Reason why I didn't do this with a Prostitute back home. It is because...I can't...as they do not exist their...as they all exist here! How many Prostitutes do you know back home who will play a game of pool with you for the cost of the table? Or sit and talk to you for 30 minutes for the price of 1 or 2 drinks? Or play a Board Game for free, or a drink for them all if you lose, and they buy you one if you win? Go shopping for you at midnight to buy you a bottle of Whiskey, or a Hamburger. Go shopping for you during the day to get you a pair of running shoes. Give you a back rub when you ask. Sit up with you all night and pour your drinks? Take you to a Disco and dance with you all night if you want? Haggle with the Baht Bus Driver over prices? Take you for a haircut? Be a Tour Guild? And mostly...Never Complain as it is Up-To-You in how you want to spend your time together. All of these things happened to me here with a Thai Bar Girl here and more. Like checking in on me in my hotel room, when I was sick, for free. So asking the question why I don't do this back home in Canada is like asking why I don't do there, in the middle of winter, what I do here, every New Years Eve. Which is to stand out on my balcony in only my Boxer Shorts on, Sipping a Drink, and watching the Fire Works. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GOLDBUGGY Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> <script type='text/javascript'>window.mod_pagespeed_start = Number(new Date());</script> I certainly dont care one way or the other if older guys patronize the bar girls or not but to the ones that pride themselves on their technique I would ask: If you gave the girl the choice of taking the money and just having a conversation or a meal or taking the money and providing the "service", what do you think her decision would be??? From my prospective, many guys do just take a B/G for companionship, or back rub, and not to bang her every hour of the night. But whatever kind of relationship you want to call it, it is still a relationship and sex is part of it. Though not as big as many may think. I know in my single years I was one of them. When I found one I liked I would stay with her most of my time on my bi-monthly visits. There wasn't sex every night or as often as one may think. Wasn't sex every night on my Honeymoon either. Okay! There was sex every night on my Honeymoon, but I was much younger then. But you do form a kind of friendship with them, and them with you. Even though there is an exchange of money. As the Poster said, they sure are a lot more fun then playing Bingo every night, and waiting for the Grandkids to visit on Sunday. . To answer your question, I think at first the Girls would prefer a conversation over a meal then the "Service". But is this so strange? How many women do you know want to jump into bed to have sex with you after meeting you for 15 minutes? Truth is, many men are like this to but won't admit it. Or need a few bottles of courage first to do it. But it does happen, as I am sure it happens to a few B/G to. But not that often. But once they get to know you better things do change. After we have been together for sometime I have had them come on to me to, and they were not looking at me and seeing a bowl of rice and fish either. If you know what I mean. Like any women I suppose. They just have a different career but are still women. i'm not talking about being together for some time and I'm not talkin about young men. I am talkin about the guys who say theyre so good at it the girls want them Sorry. Yes I know the type you talk about. Met one once who uninvited sat at my table in the morning. Another Guy and I were discussing price and we figure that 1,000 Baht was about the good average price. This Young Stud piped up and said he was going to get all his for free. Sadly met up with him 3 days later and he still hadn't been with anyone. His price has now gone up to 500 Baht the first night and free the next, figuring he was being generous. Met again 2 days later and he said he did find a Girl on Beach Road who would go with him for 500 baht. But said he was too drunk to do anything so he passed on it. I didn't have the heart to tell him that late at night on Beach Road she may have gone with him for the price of a meal and bed that night. And that this She may very well have been a He! So lots of talk and no action. I would not be surprised if he didn't even get laid his week or two their. I never saw him after that. But then a Virgin should not come here by himself, as His First Time might be with a Guy, and not something he may want to remember later in life to tell his friends about. But then....what do I know about that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaraC Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Good. My cue to enter: Sizzling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaraC Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 All this talk about (oh my god!) farang men having sex with Thai women . . . BANGKOK, May 28, 2014 (AFP) - Thai police on Wednesday said they had charged five defrocked Buddhist abbots with sexually abusing eight boys at monasteries around the northern city of Chiang Mai. The abuse was discovered after police rescued one boy from the abuse ring last year, police said, adding all the children involved were under 15 years of age. "Four of the abbots volunteered to disrobe, but one denied the charges and was forcibly defrocked," Major General Prachuab Wongsuk, of the northern police region, told AFP. He said police found alcohol and pornography during a search of living quarters at five monasteries. Police believe the abbots were acting together and Prachuab predicted that more monks would be arrested soon. Those charged face a maximum of 20 years in jail if convicted. Monks in Thailand, where some 95 percent of the population are practising Buddhists, have been hit by a series of scandals, with local media reporting cases of drug-taking, drinking, gambling and visiting prostitutes. In September, authorities seized nearly $800,000 worth of assets, including a Porsche and a Mercedes-Benz, from a monk who was defrocked for a controversial trip in a private jet and who was also accused of fathering a child by an underage girl a decade earlier. What has that got to do with anything? Are you comparing yourself to pedophile monks in order to make your situation seem less bizarre? Seriously bad form. There are priests and rabbi's etc all over the world who also do these despicable things. ..and frankly its disgusting that you would use this is some kind of way to take the light off you. Should be ashamed. I'm not comparing myself to anyone, and I'm certainly not ashamed. This is absolutely what this whole 400 posts is about. People saying I'm right and you're wrong, I'm so good and you're so bad. This article came from Thai Visa news today - illustrating that we can all agree that anyone forcing sex on children is disgusting, as is have sex with farm animals - all the things we don't want to talk about. I'm sorry you don't like to be reminded of anything that happens outside your very small parameters of whats good and bad, right or wrong. But, whether you like it or not, there is nothing wrong with straight sex between . . . (drumroll) Two legal age consenting adults. It doesn't matter if its two men together, or two women, a man and a ladyboy, or an older man and a younger women. If you argue about two men sleeping together and go on about it being disgusting - that's called gay bashing. To me that is disgusting behavior in its own right. It's the same with grouping all Thai bar girls and bashing them. When you insist on your Senior Bashing I find that very offensive and out of line. .of course there is nothing wrong with.... (drumroll) Two legal age consenting adults If you honestly think this is what the thread is about then you are seriously ...(drumroll) Deluded (which is pretty much what so many of us have been trying to say all along...) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Good. My cue to enter: Sizzling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The lady dancing for Marlon Brando didn't speak English. But apparently he understood her dance moves as he married her and they had two children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I'm not comparing myself to anyone, and I'm certainly not ashamed. This is absolutely what this whole 400 posts is about. People saying I'm right and you're wrong, I'm so good and you're so bad. This article came from Thai Visa news today - illustrating that we can all agree that anyone forcing sex on children is disgusting, as is have sex with farm animals - all the things we don't want to talk about. I'm sorry you don't like to be reminded of anything that happens outside your very small parameters of whats good and bad, right or wrong. But, whether you like it or not, there is nothing wrong with straight sex between . . . (drumroll) Two legal age consenting adults. It doesn't matter if its two men together, or two women, a man and a ladyboy, or an older man and a younger women. If you argue about two men sleeping together and go on about it being disgusting - that's called gay bashing. To me that is disgusting behavior in its own right. It's the same with grouping all Thai bar girls and bashing them. When you insist on your Senior Bashing I find that very offensive and out of line. .of course there is nothing wrong with.... (drumroll) Two legal age consenting adults If you honestly think this is what the thread is about then you are seriously ...(drumroll) Deluded (which is pretty much what so many of us have been trying to say all along...) The thread is about consenting adults, hookers in Pattaya. There is nothing to indicate anything else. You would have to project your own fantasies into what the OP wrote to get any other conclusion. Psychological projection is the act or technique of defending oneself against unpleasant impulses by denying their existence in oneself, while attributing them to others. For example, a person who is rude may constantly accuse other people of being rude. Although rooted in early developmental stages, and classed by George Eman Vaillant as an immature defence, the projection of one's negative qualities onto others on a small scale is nevertheless a common process in everyday life. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLCrab Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Yes -- and Ivie Anderson -- the 'All God's Children Got Rhythm' girl in the Marx Brother's A Day At The Races -- later married Chico Marx. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I am sure we all understand this is Thailand, but there is nothing sadder or more pathetic than an old man trying to justify how virile, attractive and good looking he is to a girl 30 or 40 or even disgustingly 50 years his junior, ewwww tell me about all the ones you aren't paying for first because only a desperate man counts prostitutes in the numbers of girls he has slept with. I am sure your family is really proud of your exploits well done 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old Stud Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I am sure we all understand this is Thailand, but there is nothing sadder or more pathetic than an old man trying to justify how virile, attractive and good looking he is to a girl 30 or 40 or even disgustingly 50 years his junior, ewwww tell me about all the ones you aren't paying for first because only a desperate man counts prostitutes in the numbers of girls he has slept with. I am sure your family is really proud of your exploits well done What planet did you just arrive from? From you avatar it looks like an evil empire where sex is a very very nasty thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic No his point is, it's life. Get over it. If everyone comes out of the 'deal' happy, I don't see a problem and neither do the Thais! In some country's in the name of God, a 12 year old marrys a geriatric, now that's a problem! Two girls with a guy might be termed poetic though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic Read the OP the thread is about consenting adults. I believe a woman has to be 20 years of age to work in a bar in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post starky Posted May 29, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 29, 2014 I am sure we all understand this is Thailand, but there is nothing sadder or more pathetic than an old man trying to justify how virile, attractive and good looking he is to a girl 30 or 40 or even disgustingly 50 years his junior, ewwww tell me about all the ones you aren't paying for first because only a desperate man counts prostitutes in the numbers of girls he has slept with. I am sure your family is really proud of your exploits well done What planet did you just arrive from? From you avatar it looks like an evil empire where sex is a very very nasty thing. Well champ at least I use my name, and seeing as yours is old stud I could understand how you would be defensive. Feeling a little inadequate perhaps? Speaking of avatars is that a self portrait or just a monkey wearing a rasta beanie perhaps that was "cool man" when you were still cool. I'm not sure and what is the evil empire reference about? Mate i've been living here since '96, have no problem with prostitution either just stop the righteous crap about them wanting to be with you it's a service industry clown, but if self delusion is your game just keep telling yourself how much of a hansum man you are every morning when you look in the mirror. Good luck with that. Cheers. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic Read the OP the thread is about consenting adults. I believe a woman has to be 20 years of age to work in a bar in Thailand. Not sure I ever mentioned consenting adults I am talking about old men trying to say they kill it with the young birds when clearly they are just paying for a hooker to sleep with them. What has the age of girls working in a bar got to do with it 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic No his point is, it's life. Get over it. If everyone comes out of the 'deal' happy, I don't see a problem and neither do the Thais! In some country's in the name of God, a 12 year old marrys a geriatric, now that's a problem! Two girls with a guy might be termed poetic though. Touche and I agree just don't bore me with your stories of how much your bar girl loves being with you a 1000 baht is a 1000 baht even if your cyclops 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic Read the OP the thread is about consenting adults. I believe a woman has to be 20 years of age to work in a bar in Thailand. Not sure I ever mentioned consenting adults I am talking about old men trying to say they kill it with the young birds when clearly they are just paying for a hooker to sleep with them. What has the age of girls working in a bar got to do with it Read the OP. Where does it say anything remotely like what you are ranting against? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaraC Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic Read the OP the thread is about consenting adults. I believe a woman has to be 20 years of age to work in a bar in Thailand. Not sure I ever mentioned consenting adults I am talking about old men trying to say they kill it with the young birds when clearly they are just paying for a hooker to sleep with them. What has the age of girls working in a bar got to do with it Read the OP. Where does it say anything remotely like what you are ranting against? ..its pretty obvious he is referring to what is spattered throughout the pages of this thread, not really the opening post as such. You are being pedantic. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLCrab Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 This stuff was boring when Ricky Nelson sang of all his babes all over the world in 1961 .. still is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Read the OP the thread is about consenting adults. I believe a woman has to be 20 years of age to work in a bar in Thailand. Not sure I ever mentioned consenting adults I am talking about old men trying to say they kill it with the young birds when clearly they are just paying for a hooker to sleep with them. What has the age of girls working in a bar got to do with it Read the OP. Where does it say anything remotely like what you are ranting against? ..its pretty obvious he is referring to what is spattered throughout the pages of this thread, not really the opening post as such. You are being pedantic. What? The OP spattered what through the thread? Feel free to post a quote and prove me wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starky Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Uhmm far from ranting. I'm apathetic either way but surely the 70 year old man talking about his tantric sex abilities may qualify, and if you took the time to read the preceding 17 pages of this post I think you may find more than a few people defending their abilities and charm to sleep with the bar girls they are sleeping with. I say to each his own but also I think thee does protest too much, I think maybe you have got your purely financial hooker relationship confused with a normal loving relationship like many deluded people that spend the better part of their lives and wealth welded to bar stools and extolling the virtues of hookers compared to the women they couldn't get back home.. again I am sure your family is well proud of your exploits in regards to sleeping with bar girls... congratulations 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaraC Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 What? The OP spattered what through the thread? Feel free to post a quote and prove me wrong. ..are we speaking the same language? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailiketoo Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 What? The OP spattered what through the thread? Feel free to post a quote and prove me wrong. ..are we speaking the same language? You wrote, "..its pretty obvious he is referring to what is spattered throughout the pages of this thread, not really the opening post as such. You are being pedantic." I believe that meant you were accusing the OP of sex with underage women. Correct me if I'm wrong. What were you writing about? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuestHouse Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 I thought it was a myth. But apparently some guys actually do come to Thailand to see the archaeological sites. I get your point. I've heard it said guys coming to Thailand to make money (and actually doing so) is a myth too, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jpeg Posted May 29, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted May 29, 2014 I really don't give a rat's what you get up to. You want to blow your money on something makes you feel better, up to you, as they say hereabouts. And I'm not about to get into a bun fight re 'societal damage', and yes, I would prefer the Thai way of keeping it off the streets. It's embarrassing to watch young families pushing strollers past this shit. Frankly. Also, what does irritate the hell out of me is that the locals' idea of 'entertainment' then leaves little, if sod all else, for those of us who aren't interested. I'm on Phuket. Row after row of beer bars and precious little else. There is a market for something other than a bunch of farm girls/katoeys whooping it up to 'boom boom boom I want you in my room', but the Thais see hiring a few tarts and slinging up a bamboo shack/horseshoe shaped outside-a-shophouse 'bar' the easiest, laziest way to make money. At least on somewhere like Bali, they do make an effort. Having said that, they're Hindu, so are forced by dint of culture to use a little more imagination. And no, I've no plans relocating there. Food's crap. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic Read the OP the thread is about consenting adults. I believe a woman has to be 20 years of age to work in a bar in Thailand. Not sure I ever mentioned consenting adults I am talking about old men trying to say they kill it with the young birds when clearly they are just paying for a hooker to sleep with them. What has the age of girls working in a bar got to do with it Read the OP. Where does it say anything remotely like what you are ranting against? he said further into the thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 And the point is...? Are you trying to make the point that you are a geriatric retiree paying to sleep with hookers somehow poetic No his point is, it's life. Get over it. If everyone comes out of the 'deal' happy, I don't see a problem and neither do the Thais! In some country's in the name of God, a 12 year old marrys a geriatric, now that's a problem! Two girls with a guy might be termed poetic though. Touche and I agree just don't bore me with your stories of how much your bar girl loves being with you a 1000 baht is a 1000 baht even if your cyclops Its the oldest profession known to man. This is not professed to be a ''love relationship'' but a ''hate relationship.'' He hates being lonely, and she hates being poor. There are always exceptions and we all know of some where its an old guy, much younger girl relationship. Blossomed from a chance encounter in soi 6. The longer they stay together, strangely against 'our' better judgement, the more they become an item. Hate brings them together. Chemistry, personality's and circumstances makes it more than a chance encounter. The age gap only adds one more minor problem to the relationship. But will probably NOT be the reason for the breakup. Simply like most relationships in life, nothing lasts for ever! This post has been written with neither prejudice nor malice intended. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 This stuff was boring when Ricky Nelson sang of all his babes all over the world in 1961 .. still is. And yet here you are reading and adding your two peneths worth! Amazing Thailand! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ppmacready Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 I home school my daughter here in Thailand. Hanging in her classroom are these words. 'Do what you can, with what you have got, where you are.' Some thing happy people do all their lives. And Live and let live. I hope she leads a fulfilling life. Which I feel is not possible being narrow minded. This post has been written with neither prejudice nor malice intended. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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